Originally Posted by QX1994
Any recommendations on how to ease into a power exchange relationship? I will be in the Dom role and want this to be something that provides energy to the relationship versus taking it away. This is something she is seeking. Her background has been as a Domme and is looking to be a sub. It will not be a 24/7, as I don't believe either of us would be able to support this without some serious rearranging in our lives.
Have you talked about what you'd like to experience? Have you talked about your respective limits?
I don't know if there's a way to really ease into it, other than just start trying the things you're interested in. Don't go all the way into the deep end first. Ie. if you're into bondage, start by trying her arms only, maybe even using some velcro cuffs that she can remove herself if you want to be really on the safe side, instead of trying suspension for the first thing.
Talk to each other a lot, even during the scene, and you'll be fine. If she's been a Domme, I'm sure she knows about safety and so on and can help you along if you get stuck with something.
I'm sorry I can't be of more help. I'm sure someone else will come along with more advice. In the meantime, it might be useful for you to read the essay about Doms, subs, Tops and bottoms Stella Omega has linked in her profile. It might ring a bell one way or another. Here's a link: http://forum.literotica.com/showpost...&postcount=148