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Daddy2mylilgirl
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I realized something tonight talking to My slave. We are 24/7. But not in the sense that we are Master/slave 24/7.
Truth be told she doesn't like the idea of 24/7 because she didn't want to lose our other aspects of our relationship like Daddy/little girl or even just boyfriend/girlfriend, which I understand because I don't want to lose them either.
But I realized something. We are 24/7 already. I asked her a few questions to help her see this as well because she was of the notion that 24/7 meant Master/slave and nothing else.
Finally I asked her this: "So, would I be correct in saying that you feel submissive toward Me 24/7, want to please Me 24/7, want to make Me happy 24/7, and have your actions and thoughts guided by those things 24/7?" she of course answered yes and realized herself that we truly are 24/7. That even when we are just bf/gf, Daddy/lg, M/s, or whatever there are two constants, My Dominance over her and her submission to Me and that she doesn't have to call Me Master or Me call her slave to be 24/7. (And of course I don't mean to belittle, diminish, or offend anyone who has a 24/7 M/s relationship like that.)
I bring this up because I feel like the biggest misconception about BDSM, especially by those new to it, is that BDSM is a one size fits all. That because one couple or person (PYL or pyl) does BDSM a certain way then that is exactly what BDSM means. I feel this is incorrect. BDSM is whatever you want to make of it. That's why it is so open and accepting of so many different, and sometimes out there, things and people.
So, don't worry if you don't "fit" into exactly what this person or this couple does or writes about on the board. Just be yourself and do what will make you happy. The rest will just fall into place.
Truth be told she doesn't like the idea of 24/7 because she didn't want to lose our other aspects of our relationship like Daddy/little girl or even just boyfriend/girlfriend, which I understand because I don't want to lose them either.
But I realized something. We are 24/7 already. I asked her a few questions to help her see this as well because she was of the notion that 24/7 meant Master/slave and nothing else.
Finally I asked her this: "So, would I be correct in saying that you feel submissive toward Me 24/7, want to please Me 24/7, want to make Me happy 24/7, and have your actions and thoughts guided by those things 24/7?" she of course answered yes and realized herself that we truly are 24/7. That even when we are just bf/gf, Daddy/lg, M/s, or whatever there are two constants, My Dominance over her and her submission to Me and that she doesn't have to call Me Master or Me call her slave to be 24/7. (And of course I don't mean to belittle, diminish, or offend anyone who has a 24/7 M/s relationship like that.)
I bring this up because I feel like the biggest misconception about BDSM, especially by those new to it, is that BDSM is a one size fits all. That because one couple or person (PYL or pyl) does BDSM a certain way then that is exactly what BDSM means. I feel this is incorrect. BDSM is whatever you want to make of it. That's why it is so open and accepting of so many different, and sometimes out there, things and people.
So, don't worry if you don't "fit" into exactly what this person or this couple does or writes about on the board. Just be yourself and do what will make you happy. The rest will just fall into place.