Long term captivity

The little one and I have begun talking about this a bit and I wanted to see what others thought and if any have had experience with this.

A staple of crime drama is the scenario of evil captor with sex slave prisoner. Usually the women are kidnapped and kept in a bunker of some sorts in conditions that are essentially a makeshift prison cell. A toilet and a bed are usually all that's available, with all meals and other needs supplied by the captor, in exchange for sexual cooperation of course.

I asked my slave how long she thought she could last in such a scenario and was shocked to her here say she felt she could do a month.

I'm not sure how practical of a fantasy this is, but I have to say for me it's a fucking hot one. In lieu of a month in a cell, I am thinking perhaps an extended interrogation scene might be nice. 48 hours locked in the bathroom or something similar.

Anyone have any experience with this, or ideas?

Marquis said:

The little one and I have begun talking about this a bit and I wanted to see what others thought and if any have had experience with this.

A staple of crime drama is the scenario of evil captor with sex slave prisoner. Usually the women are kidnapped and kept in a bunker of some sorts in conditions that are essentially a makeshift prison cell. A toilet and a bed are usually all that's available, with all meals and other needs supplied by the captor, in exchange for sexual cooperation of course.

I asked my slave how long she thought she could last in such a scenario and was shocked to her here say she felt she could do a month.

I'm not sure how practical of a fantasy this is, but I have to say for me it's a fucking hot one. In lieu of a month in a cell, I am thinking perhaps an extended interrogation scene might be nice. 48 hours locked in the bathroom or something similar.

Anyone have any experience with this, or ideas?

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I think that there'd be a one HUGE difference. Her captor would also be the man shes lived with for quite a bit. She'd know that their's a time limit (even if she doesn't know how long it is). The only way you could make this work like it would if it was a real situation is to destroy her trust in you, and that could turn around and bite you in the ass.

Practicalities impose themselves on these scenarios, unless you are able to also take the said amount of time out of your own life to make sure you remain close by and fully aware of what is happening at all times. While the thought of being locked up and kept in that dependent state for an extended period of time may seem the way to go, you also have to think realistically of unplanned events such as fire, panic attacks, some other unexpected medical crisis if she were locked up with no means of escape and you (or anyone else) were not there (or awake) to release her. While it may not happen, the risk is always there. There could be ways around it depending on your resources and willingness to include others to cover the gaps...and of course, trust in those you involve to not take advantage of the situation in ways not specified by you.

Catalina

catalina_francisco said:

Practicalities impose themselves on these scenarios, unless you are able to also take the said amount of time out of your own life to make sure you remain close by and fully aware of what is happening at all times. While the thought of being locked up and kept in that dependent state for an extended period of time may seem the way to go, you also have to think realistically of unplanned events such as fire, panic attacks, some other unexpected medical crisis if she were locked up with no means of escape and you (or anyone else) were not there (or awake) to release her. While it may not happen, the risk is always there. There could be ways around it depending on your resources and willingness to include others to cover the gaps...and of course, trust in those you involve to not take advantage of the situation in ways not specified by you.

Catalina

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For the reasons you listed above, the month long captivity scenario does seem pretty unrealistic.

graceanne said:

I think that there'd be a one HUGE difference. Her captor would also be the man shes lived with for quite a bit. She'd know that their's a time limit (even if she doesn't know how long it is). The only way you could make this work like it would if it was a real situation is to destroy her trust in you, and that could turn around and bite you in the ass.

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Temporary destruction of trust is what SM is all about for me.

As far as the time limit goes. That'd be the whole point. A game of chicken to see who opts out first.

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graceanne said:

I think that there'd be a one HUGE difference. Her captor would also be the man shes lived with for quite a bit. She'd know that their's a time limit (even if she doesn't know how long it is). The only way you could make this work like it would if it was a real situation is to destroy her trust in you, and that could turn around and bite you in the ass.

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This is it in a nutshell.

Part of being a prisoner in the scenario laid out is that one has no idea what is going to happen. When one is kidnapped or a POW in a military deal, the fear of being murdered is there. Also, the physical abuse in addition to the mental is extreme.

Could one last a month in this setting? Sure. especially is she trusted you as her Master. The risk of her having a traumatic experience would be minimal since there is that trust. To me, it seems more of a discomfort than an ordeal. Take about that trust and replace it with death, and an traumatic ordeal is the result.

Here is how I want to do this thing.

Have him in a hotel room in a high end place.

Throw clothing out window.

Have his ID in the lockbox, the key with me. All keycards with me.

Tell maid/housekeeping not to clean and pay the bill make it clear to the mgmt there is to be NO cleaning and NO disturbance.

If the place burns down or something, obviously you can get out with a slight loss of dignity. Yes it's escape-able, but very annoying to escape. Don't have to tie him up, really. Has to wait around not knowing when or who I'd let in or what would happen.

I think this would get unnerving for most people.

So, I guess I'd say a gilded cage and saving dough for it, would be neat.

Netzach said:

Here is how I want to do this thing.

Have him in a hotel room in a high end place.

Throw clothing out window.

Have his ID in the lockbox, the key with me. All keycards with me.

Tell maid/housekeeping not to clean and pay the bill make it clear to the mgmt there is to be NO cleaning and NO disturbance.

If the place burns down or something, obviously you can get out with a slight loss of dignity. Yes it's escape-able, but very annoying to escape. Don't have to tie him up, really. Has to wait around not knowing when or who I'd let in or what would happen.

I think this would get unnerving for most people.

So, I guess I'd say a gilded cage and saving dough for it, would be neat.

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Would he get to watch tv?

WriterDom said:

Would he get to watch tv?

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Sitting all alone in front of a TV? Sounds like your average day.

Long term captivity makes for a great fantasy for me but I wouldn't be into it in RL.

Primalex said:

Sitting all alone in front of a TV? Sounds like your average day.

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Yeah too bad I don't have your exciting life of starting silly pointless threads and following me around like a puppy.

said the guy who even looks up my posts outside the BDSM area

But I can understand that you try to be like me and I feel honored. No really, I think you are a cool person. I mean, I liked Highlander and Matrix, too - when I was a kid.

WriterDom said:

Would he get to watch tv?

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In between beatings fuckings or waiting for same, sure.

I think it would be a normal day with a distinct sense of anticipation or dread or whatever. Maybe long stretches of nothing the fuck happening to make the point.

WriterDom said:

Yeah too bad I don't have your exciting life of starting silly pointless threads and following me around like a puppy.

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Primalex said:

said the guy who even looks up my posts outside the BDSM area

But I can understand that you try to be like me and I feel honored. No really, I think you are a cool person. I mean, I liked Highlander and Matrix, too - when I was a kid.

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Oh you guys. Just make out and get it over with.

I'm waiting!

Netzach said:

In between beatings fuckings or waiting for same, sure.

I think it would be a normal day with a distinct sense of anticipation or dread or whatever. Maybe long stretches of nothing the fuck happening to make the point.

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You could really torture him and make him watch soaps all day. *shudders*

Sometimes I scare myself.

graceanne said:

You could really torture him and make him watch soaps all day. *shudders*

Sometimes I scare myself.

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My dominant (also my wife) must think like you . . . I have a 56" HDTV with a 7.1 channel surround sound system, along with about about 96 HD channels and I still have to watch every damn home improvement/house flip show and cooking competition program on television every weekend.

Netzach said:

Here is how I want to do this thing.

Have him in a hotel room in a high end place.

Throw clothing out window.

Have his ID in the lockbox, the key with me. All keycards with me.

Tell maid/housekeeping not to clean and pay the bill make it clear to the mgmt there is to be NO cleaning and NO disturbance.

If the place burns down or something, obviously you can get out with a slight loss of dignity. Yes it's escape-able, but very annoying to escape. Don't have to tie him up, really. Has to wait around not knowing when or who I'd let in or what would happen.

I think this would get unnerving for most people.

So, I guess I'd say a gilded cage and saving dough for it, would be neat.

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This is absolute genius.

I wish you PMed it to me.

This is something that Master was discussing with me just a few days ago. Not for a month but for the weekend. Binding me, blindfolding me and putting me in our bathroom (which has no windows) Coming in at intervals to arouse me but stop short, to humiliate me. Making sure that when he is out of the room I can hear him enjoying himself. Preparing his own meals during that time so I can be denied the pleasure of doing it for him. Every now and then using ice cold water to snap me out of what numbness comes of it. Leave me feeling helpless to his whims. Minutes would feel like hours, I would lose track of how long I'd been in there. *drools*

You could probably get something good going here if you remove lots of her comfort layers.

For example, keep her at a location unknown to her. No windows or clocks, only a light that is always on. No toilet, just a pot. Totally naked at all times. Etc, etc.

As for safety layers, a security camera may be a nice touch. Have her page you if feeling ill. Maybe use a sort of safe word emergency escape mechanism. For example, a key behind one of those “break glass in case of emergency” type things.

Sorry, it's actually one of my dude's suggestions, which I've been obsessing on since. I really want to do this one at some point to someone who does not know me well.

I would love to do this. As much as I pride myself on being a well-adjusted, ladylike and properly stable member of society, I have very dark well-planned fantasies about being a captive.

They usually involve a highly dramatic gritty Gotham-like setting where I'm chosen, stalked, hunted and captured by a Dom and must learn his desires quickly or else...well. There are things worse than death, really.

I can picture my tormentor in cravats and lace cuffs, polished shoes and aristocratic laughter. I'm peasantlike, in my rough woolen kirtle and bare feet, my hair undone and tangled.

*sigh*

My dream date, really.

Marquis said:

Temporary destruction of trust is what SM is all about for me.

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Really? This totally squicks me. I could never deal with someone who was constantly fucking with trust issues. That's abhorrent to me.

That said, this thread has reminded me that I need to seek out more true crime on Paperback Swap. So thanks for the reminder.

Marquis said:

The little one and I have begun talking about this a bit and I wanted to see what others thought and if any have had experience with this.

A staple of crime drama is the scenario of evil captor with sex slave prisoner. Usually the women are kidnapped and kept in a bunker of some sorts in conditions that are essentially a makeshift prison cell. A toilet and a bed are usually all that's available, with all meals and other needs supplied by the captor, in exchange for sexual cooperation of course.

I asked my slave how long she thought she could last in such a scenario and was shocked to her here say she felt she could do a month.

I'm not sure how practical of a fantasy this is, but I have to say for me it's a fucking hot one. In lieu of a month in a cell, I am thinking perhaps an extended interrogation scene might be nice. 48 hours locked in the bathroom or something similar.

Anyone have any experience with this, or ideas?

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Captivity is hot, I agree. I've never done this long-term, just roughly 24 hours max.

Key elements of my kidnapped sex slave fantasy are the victim's terror, and desperation transforming horrified refusal into wretched "consent." Eliciting proximate responses from an established girlfriend is always a challenge, of course. In this context, a location that genuinely freaks her out always helped me advance the ball.

For example, as a grad student I once borrowed an undergraduate buddy's key and locked my girlfriend du jour in the rec room of a frat house basement. (The boys, at an away game, were out of town.)

Stench of urine and stale beer. Trash everywhere. Drywall punched in at multiple spots, clearly from drunken exertions. Cockroaches in the corner. Giant stains on the only pieces of furniture in the room - a ratty pool table and a filthy couch. Fear that the animals who created this mess could return at any time, and whatnot. Perfect! The idea is that each minute feels like an hour in such a spot.

In addition to the obvious, there are a couple of things I find uniquely entertaining about this type of scenario. First, women confined in solitary, stressful conditions tend to talk to themselves, out loud. The audio show is usually extremely satisfying (from a sadist's perspective), and can be enjoyed simply by relaxing on the other side of the door.

Second, it's remarkable how much easier it is to push limits in this type of environment. Consensual extortion, though it sounds oxymoronic, can be highly effective and a whole helluva lot of fun.

People for whom lying and/or elaborate mindfucks are not out of bounds can take this a lot farther than I ever could. I'd say the most effective tools in my case are creative use of physical environments, and surprise.


[Note for the safety minded: I have never actually left the building in which a partner of mine is confined.]