Old Yesterday, 08:40 PM   #1
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Has anyone ever been married and had the husband's permission to have a lover?

Hubby and I have had one threesome with another guy (both of them straight) that was a lot of fun. I have now found someone who wants to be a regular with us but there will be times when hubby won't be able to get off work to be there. He has given me permission to play alone with the guy.

I am wondering at the possible pitfalls the situation could cause. Any advise on how to make this work for all involved?

Btw, I have given hubby permission to find his own playmate. I have no interest in playing with girls and don't really want to try a FMF threesome.
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Old Yesterday, 08:42 PM   #2
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Has anyone ever been married and had the husband's permission to have a lover?

Hubby and I have had one threesome with another guy (both of them straight) that was a lot of fun. I have now found someone who wants to be a regular with us but there will be times when hubby won't be able to get off work to be there. He has given me permission to play alone with the guy.

I am wondering at the possible pitfalls the situation could cause. Any advise on how to make this work for all involved?

Btw, I have given hubby permission to find his own playmate. I have no interest in playing with girls and don't really want to try a FMF threesome.
What could possibly go wrong?
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Has anyone ever been married and had the husband's permission to have a lover?

Hubby and I have had one threesome with another guy (both of them straight) that was a lot of fun. I have now found someone who wants to be a regular with us but there will be times when hubby won't be able to get off work to be there. He has given me permission to play alone with the guy.

I am wondering at the possible pitfalls the situation could cause. Any advise on how to make this work for all involved?

Btw, I have given hubby permission to find his own playmate. I have no interest in playing with girls and don't really want to try a FMF threesome.
Mmmmm. Swingers.

Will there be good ol' fashioned barebacking going on? A lil' raw doggin'? Some breeding fantasy sexplay, mmmmm?
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Old Yesterday, 08:47 PM   #4
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Weren't you the virgin who was asking how to 'pop the cherry' a few moments ago? All of a sudden you got married and had threesome?
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Old Yesterday, 08:48 PM   #5
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Has anyone ever been married and had the husband's permission to have a lover?

Hubby and I have had one threesome with another guy (both of them straight) that was a lot of fun. I have now found someone who wants to be a regular with us but there will be times when hubby won't be able to get off work to be there. He has given me permission to play alone with the guy.

I am wondering at the possible pitfalls the situation could cause. Any advise on how to make this work for all involved?

Btw, I have given hubby permission to find his own playmate. I have no interest in playing with girls and don't really want to try a FMF threesome.
you should look up Canky bro!

*edited because Canky found her bro!

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Old Yesterday, 08:49 PM   #6
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you should look up Canky bro!

*edited because Canky found her bro!

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This is my best advice for you!: Make your lover your husband's best friend.
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Old Yesterday, 09:03 PM   #10
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you should look up Canky bro!

*edited because Canky found her bro!

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Yay!

This is my best advice for you!: Make your lover your husband's best friend.
no...make your girlfriend your wife's lover bro!

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Old Yesterday, 09:13 PM   #12
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In a year you will be divorced.

A poster on these forums named queerbait tried such a deal with his now ex wife, and she is still with the other lover while he silently sobs into his pillow every night all alone.

Its a slippery slope.
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Old Yesterday, 09:26 PM   #13
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In a year you will be divorced.

A poster on these forums named queerbait tried such a deal with his now ex wife, and she is still with the other lover while he silently sobs into his pillow every night all alone.

Its a slippery slope.
You'll be lucky if it lasts a year. These things deteriorate quickly.
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Old Yesterday, 09:28 PM   #14
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You'll be lucky if it lasts a year. These things deteriorate quickly.
one of them will start taking off from work to spend more time with their non-spouse bro!

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Old Yesterday, 09:58 PM   #15
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Canky, I am only a virgin in the world of Lit and in your dreams, where you debate for hours over just how my "cherry" will get popped. I'm still awaiting your decision.

There will be no barebacking, players are required to use a saddle and wear a helmet at all times.

The lover isn't from these parts and shan't be in town but a couple days a month, so there will be no chance to run off and visit as the desire arises. And I am hoping for a threesome most months when he is here. Much more interesting to have two men vying for your attention and focusing on your pleasure.
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Old Yesterday, 10:08 PM   #16
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I've done it. I found by the time we got to the point where we were playing solo with others, both of us had one foot out the door - not for any reason that had to do wit the swinging, but that clearly didn't bring us closer together in a time when we should have been circling the wagons so we could fix "us".

The pitfalls are obvious. IMHO finding two people who can handle the fancy footwork required to do this without injury to one or more persons is tough....getting a third who can also fall into step with the same ability is non existent.
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I've done it. I found by the time we got to the point where we were playing solo with others, both of us had one foot out the door - not for any reason that had to do wit the swinging, but that clearly didn't bring us closer together in a time when we should have been circling the wagons so we could fix "us".

The pitfalls are obvious. IMHO finding two people who can handle the fancy footwork required to do this without injury to one or more persons is tough....getting a third who can also fall into step with the same ability is non existent.

Don't worry, Adelyn has it all figured out. She will be the one time it works out well.
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Old Yesterday, 10:20 PM   #18
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In a year you will be divorced.

A poster on these forums named queerbait tried such a deal with his now ex wife, and she is still with the other lover while he silently sobs into his pillow every night all alone.

Its a slippery slope.

If you're having fantasies about sharing your ex stripper wife with the general public again you don't really need to write fiction about others to get youself off. It's OK to use your own name in your little stories.
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Don't worry, Adelyn has it all figured out. She will be the one time it works out well.
Just like every addict(drug, alcohol, sex, etc) in the history of mankind.


But hey, somebody has to be the first one in history to really have it all figured out.
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Don't worry, Adelyn has it all figured out. She will be the one time it works out well.


Ooooh the eau de sarcasm is potent this evening.
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Threesomes are always husband-wife shopping.
They are fun for the foolish before they inevitably fail.
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Old Yesterday, 10:41 PM   #22
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Ooooh the eau de sarcasm is potent this evening.
I know! Not sure what's wrong with me tonight. My snark is full force.
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Has anyone ever been married and had the husband's permission to have a lover?

Hubby and I have had one threesome with another guy (both of them straight) that was a lot of fun. I have now found someone who wants to be a regular with us but there will be times when hubby won't be able to get off work to be there. He has given me permission to play alone with the guy.

I am wondering at the possible pitfalls the situation could cause. Any advise on how to make this work for all involved?

Btw, I have given hubby permission to find his own playmate. I have no interest in playing with girls and don't really want to try a FMF threesome.
Playing without the spouse is a bad idea. Trust is a big part of making swinging work. If you're seeing people separately, that trust is going to eventually be strained.

You can go into it with all the best intentions. It may all sound rational. You may have talked it out in detail and come to an agreement you think works. But emotions aren't rational. When you're doing things once reserved to the privacy of your marriage with others, it's bound to have a negative effect at some point. Someone will begin to resent the other.

It might work fine for you, but odds are it won't. Your relationship may well survive it though. The question is whether you want to take that chance.
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This could be Canky's big chance. Canky woo her with some selfie's.
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