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Old 04-24-2008, 07:05 PM   #1
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Strap on sex- taking it like a man

I just read this :
http://www.alternet.org/sex/83459/

Reading the article, I thought first- oooh I want a feeldoe (not the first time for that thought), but I also started to wonder how many men would be willing, how many enjoy it, how many think it's awful.

So, what do you think:
have you or would you let your girl fuck you with a strap on?
do you like it?
what's the appeal?
if you disliked it, why?

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Old 04-24-2008, 07:13 PM   #2
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Old 04-24-2008, 07:18 PM   #3
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My husband wouldn't let me. He's got some very good reasons, and I'm not too keen on it anyway.

But I'd let a girl with a strap-on do me any day, and I think it might be interesting to do another girl, too.
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Old 04-24-2008, 07:20 PM   #4
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My husband wouldn't let me. He's got some very good reasons, and I'm not too keen on it anyway.

But I'd let a girl with a strap-on do me any day, and I think it might be interesting to do another girl, too.
Ooooh something to ponder.

For my part, I've never used a strap on (in any situation/position), but I REALLY want to. With a girl and a guy. As the fucker and the fuckee.
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Old 04-24-2008, 07:21 PM   #5
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I would -- but I doubt I'd get off on it physically. During my submissive phases, I like the idea of a woman with power over me. And butt-fucking is sort of an assertion of power. Similarly, when I'm feeling somewhat more rampant, I want to turn women around and fuck them up the ass against a kitchen cooker with the gas rings on.
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Old 04-24-2008, 07:22 PM   #6
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I just read this :
http://www.alternet.org/sex/83459/

Reading the article, I thought first- oooh I want a feeldoe (not the first time for that thought), but I also started to wonder how many men would be willing, how many enjoy it, how many think it's awful.

So, what do you think:
have you or would you let your girl fuck you with a strap on?
do you like it?
what's the appeal?
if you disliked it, why?

For the shy, feel free to pm me.
I posted two stories on this subject, actually. The first has been pulled for publication elsewhere.

But those two stories generated so much feedback - it was amazing. So many men wrote and said they wished their women would do the same thing to them.

Not taken as a sub, not with humiliation or domination or any kind, not as a need to feel "gay" or anything, just as another way to have sex in their loving relationship.

I told many of them to print out the story and leave it under their SO's pillow, stuff it into their briefcase, whatever. Talk to them - TELL them what they want.

But it's a pretty difficult wish for many guys to ask, I guess.

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Old 04-24-2008, 07:24 PM   #7
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Ooooh something to ponder.

For my part, I've never used a strap on (in any situation/position), but I REALLY want to. With a girl and a guy. As the fucker and the fuckee.
I think I'd be kinda afraid of hurting someone, since there's no feeling in the plastic/material of choice. But just the sensation of taking someone instead of being taken is one I'm curious about.

On the receiving end, I think it'd be quite the turn-on.
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Old 04-24-2008, 07:26 PM   #8
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I posted two stories on this subject, actually. The first has been pulled for publication elsewhere.

But those two stories generated so much feedback - it was amazing. So many men wrote and said they wished their women would do the same thing to them.

Not taken as a sub, not with humiliation or domination or any kind, not as a need to feel "gay" or anything, just as another way to have sex in their loving relationship.

I told many of them to print out the story and leave it under their SO's pillow, stuff it into their briefcase, whatever. Talk to them - TELL them what they want.

But it's a pretty difficult wish for many guys to ask, I guess.

I was really hoping you'd post. I loved your stories on the subject.
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Old 04-24-2008, 07:29 PM   #9
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I've written three multi-chapter stories about it. There's a thread on the Playground about it as well.
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Old 04-24-2008, 07:33 PM   #10
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I was really hoping you'd post. I loved your stories on the subject.


I sometimes wish I hadn't pulled the one. Some people have wondered where it went.
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Old 04-24-2008, 07:38 PM   #11
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I posted two stories on this subject, actually. The first has been pulled for publication elsewhere.

But those two stories generated so much feedback - it was amazing. So many men wrote and said they wished their women would do the same thing to them.

Not taken as a sub, not with humiliation or domination or any kind, not as a need to feel "gay" or anything, just as another way to have sex in their loving relationship.

I told many of them to print out the story and leave it under their SO's pillow, stuff it into their briefcase, whatever. Talk to them - TELL them what they want.

But it's a pretty difficult wish for many guys to ask, I guess.

Damnit! now, I've got another story I've got to write. Memories are such surprising things.

Uh, what category would that go under, I wonder?
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Old 04-24-2008, 07:39 PM   #12
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Damnit! now, I've got another story I've got to write. Memories are such surprising things.
I'll certainly read it.

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Old 04-24-2008, 07:40 PM   #13
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Damnit! now, I've got another story I've got to write. Memories are such surprising things.

Uh, what category would that go under, I wonder?
Anal?
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Old 04-24-2008, 07:41 PM   #14
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Uh, what category would that go under, I wonder?
Anal.

I actually submitted the first story under Loving Wives!

I figured that's what it was - a loving wife, taking her husband with a strap-on.

I learned quickly. They moved it to the proper category within a couple of days.
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Old 04-24-2008, 07:47 PM   #15
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I'll certainly read it.

Maybe I'll get to work on it tonight or tomorrow. Working in such close quarters with my daughter limits my writing time. Dad's porn writing comes under the heading of To Much Information.
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Old 04-24-2008, 07:49 PM   #16
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Damnit! now, I've got another story I've got to write. Memories are such surprising things.

Uh, what category would that go under, I wonder?
I have written seven stories about this, and posted them under Toys and Masturbation. There was a thread on it on this forum. I will see if I can find it.

Okay, here it is.

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=278753
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Old 04-24-2008, 07:52 PM   #17
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Certainly down with it.

What do I like about it? I don't know.
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I've had fun using one on a woman before. mmmmmm.
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dayum, it's getting hot in here.....




whew.
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It's taken a while to convince Hot Mama that it's o.k., but last time she was beginning to get into it. It's fun. It really is. Being the objective of desire is really hot, guys, and unless you've got hemeroids (sp?) the only thing it requires is plenty of lube.
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if you men who refuse only knew what you were missing...

I'll live.

I've been fucked up the ass too often to like it.
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In the article, I noticed the woman used a strapon with only one dildo. When I write about using one, on a woman or a man, it has the dildo in front and one in the socket attached to the strap under the user's crotch, to go into her pussy. You can also get them with a third socket, for her ass.
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In the article, I noticed the woman used a strapon with only one dildo. When I write about using one, on a woman or a man, it has the dildo in front and one in the socket attached to the strap under the user's crotch, to go into her pussy. You can also get them with a third socket, for her ass.
Yeah when I get one I want either a feeldoe or a nexus so I can have some fun, too.
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