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Old 03-08-2015, 05:12 AM   #1
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Are there any out there that arnt a complete scam?
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Old 03-08-2015, 05:46 AM   #2
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Old 03-08-2015, 05:51 AM   #3
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there are gay ones.
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Old 03-08-2015, 05:54 AM   #4
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A woman going to such a site to look for sex would be the equivalent of walking into a bar with a sign saying, "I want sex, tonight!" She very well may want sex but she does not want to have to wade through all the offers such a sign would generate.
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A woman going to such a site to look for sex would be the equivalent of walking into a bar with a sign saying, "I want sex, tonight!" She very well may want sex but she does not want to have to wade through all the offers such a sign would generate.
I would imagine a lot of the women on there are bots. or on the payroll. or men.

few women would bother using such a service because... why? seriously, what's in it for me? I could walk into any club, bar or supermarket and walk out with a stunt cock for the night, so why would I bother with a website where I might get stuck with some guy there's zero chemistry with? whether fair or not, i'm going to assume that the guys on there are there because they lack the charm to attract women in the flesh. i'm going to assume they're mostly douchebags.
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I would imagine a lot of the women on there are bots. or on the payroll. or men.

few women would bother using such a service because... why? seriously, what's in it for me? I could walk into any club, bar or supermarket and walk out with a stunt cock for the night, so why would I bother with a website? whether fair or not, i'm going to assume that the guys on there are there because they lack the charm to attract women in the flesh. i'm going to assume they're mostly douchebags.
And you would be right. Part of the whole mating screening process is the initial resistance. It screens out the faint of heart. No way is a woman giving up that layer of screening.
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Old 03-08-2015, 06:15 AM   #7
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Old 03-08-2015, 06:58 AM   #8
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Fabswingers is a genuine UK site. The only one we have found to be genuine. We have met several bisexual women for FFM threesomes through there. My first story on here is based on the first meet we had, in fact.

However, if you are looking to meet single women, you join the huge majority looking for the tiny minority. If you read their forums you will see posts from men daily asking how they can meet women, because they expect to join up and get sex on tap. It doesn't work like that, of course.

If you are a single guy looking for single women for sex, you will in all likelihood do better on Plenty of Fish.
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Old 03-08-2015, 07:02 AM   #9
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Fabswingers is a genuine UK site. The only one we have found to be genuine. We have met several bisexual women for FFM threesomes through there. My first story on here is based on the first meet we had, in fact.

However, if you are looking to meet single women, you join the huge majority looking for the tiny minority. If you read their forums you will see posts from men daily asking how they can meet women, because they expect to join up and get sex on tap. It doesn't work like that, of course.

If you are a single guy looking for single women for sex, you will in all likelihood do better on Plenty of Fish.
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and most women's profiles specify that they want no messages from single men. many of the parties make the same exclusion.
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Old 03-08-2015, 07:13 AM   #10
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Some profiles do, of course. But they are in no way the majority.

And what do you expect? If anyone is looking for a website where they sign up with a two minute profile and real women start mailing them for sex, they should wake up. Those sites do not exist.

On the other hand, if someone is looking for a site with genuine profiles where with perseverance and effort they can find genuine women, men and couples to meet for NSA sex and variations thereof, Fab is the one.
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Old 03-08-2015, 11:45 AM   #11
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Old 03-08-2015, 12:50 PM   #12
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It's like a flash mob with butt fucking.
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If you're into kink, fetlife.com is very good indeed. I get lots of willing cunt there. And it's geographically specific. Well over 7,000 members in Glasgow alone, and a good percentage of them are women. Some very willing...
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Old 03-08-2015, 01:48 PM   #14
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Yes, Fetlife is very good, but as a kink site we'd not really refer to it as a sex site.

We really must get on there more often, though!
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