Orgasm Denial
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CutieMouse
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It probably depends on how you're wired... anyone who tries orgasm denial on me will find I quickly lose all interest in sex and will happily occupy myself in projects, work, books, etc.
sister76
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CutieMouse said:
Well, I was wondering more about whether it was biologically harmful, since I have always believed masturbation to fruition was a healthy thing.
I love it actually, and it seems like it's not unhealthy and I haven't seen any information saying it's not healthy to do that, but I do wonder. Maybe because it's just not normal for me to deny myself.
I would also love feedback from others who are into orgasm control using orgasm denial.
myinnerslut
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A uses complete denial as a punishment. like, no cumming for a week or two or three.
teasing, denial, and getting to cum within a few hours or a day or two can be a lot of fun.
teasing, denial, and getting to cum within a few hours or a day or two can be a lot of fun.
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CutieMouse said:
What she said. Nothing makes me roll my eyes quite so much as someone who says, "Your orgasms are mine." Yeah...ok...whatever.
I don't think it's a necessary step in orgasm control, either. B.'s never done the whole denial thing to me, but he can still purr "Cum" at me in *that* voice, and I'll do it in a heartbeat.
I think the fact that I can cum hundreds of times in one session is one massive stroke to his ego. CutieMouse
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sister76 said:
No it isn't unhealthy. Frustrating, but not unhealthy. Repeatedly bringing a person to the edge of climax, then backing off, can be part of teaching someone to climax on command... maybe. the other way of doing things is to introduce the stimulus that you want someone to associate with cliamx, every time they climax, and they'll eventually connect the two... maybe.
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sister76 said:
It's not really unhealthy that I know of. I know some women (like yours truly) experience pain in the pelvic region if they're unable to orgasm. Sort of the female equivalent of blue balls, and it sucks ass. But I would think if you've never experienced this before, you wouldn't just suddenly start having that problem out of nowhere.
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I've actually tried this on myself because I was told that it would make you have a humdinger of an orgasm once you finally let loose. Sure didn't work that way for me. I've had it used as punishment on me before but only like for short periods of time. Like making me wait an hour to have one.
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Daddy2mylilgirl
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sister76 said:
For women I don't know.
For men HELL YEA. Blue balls are not fun.
So ladies please don't tease your fellas without some release.
sister76
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Daddy2mylilgirl said:For women I don't know.
For men HELL YEA. Blue balls are not fun.
So ladies please don't tease your fellas without some release.
Well, I think there are a lot of men who practice orgasm denial, too, in hopes of having better orgasms in the future.
Hey, don't knock it if you haven't tried it. I would never have done it before either, but it's totally awesome for me.
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BiBunny said:I don't think it's a necessary step in orgasm control, either. B.'s never done the whole denial thing to me, but he can still purr "Cum" at me in *that* voice, and I'll do it in a heartbeat.
"v" is wildly multi-orgasmic too, and, yes, it winds my ego up, especially as she was not multi when we first started together.
We do orgasm denial too, though not usually long term. I've brougth her off once or twice, then brought her to the brink and left her there until later. Not quite the same thing as denying it for days at a time though .she'd probably kill me.
She really digs orgasm control though. Nothing makes her hotter than being teased and not allowed to come.
lil_slave_rose
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MP uses orgasm denial with me alot, though not for days, just in a scene. He'll take me right to point of orgasm and whisper in that voice that i love so much "My pet needs something doesn't she" and when i say "yes Sir" He of course laughs His sadistic laugh and tells me to beg....and most of the time begging doesn't work, so i squirm, and He keeps teasing until He knows that i cannot hold back anymore then He lets me. so yea, that was a very drawn out answer to your question..LOL it hasn't hurt me yet..and i'm not sure if i'd say i 'like' it, but i defiantly like the end result
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sister76 said:
Don't think I'll practice it any time soon, but I know of a few people who do. From what I see, it just gets frustrating at worst.
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Ma'am does EXTENSIVE orgasm denial/control with me. The longest I've gone is recently, 8 months. Those months are filled with teasing, being filled, touching...but never orgasms.
I love it. I've suffered no ill health effects from it and it is a very powerful thing for me to feel my sexuality so tightly controlled.
I've always been a sucker for suffering.
I love it. I've suffered no ill health effects from it and it is a very powerful thing for me to feel my sexuality so tightly controlled.
I've always been a sucker for suffering.
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sister76 said:
Have used it lightly and it can be VERY erotic!
Not allowing her to cum until I tell her to is VERY fun, her trying to please me by not cumming is just as pleasing, and then, walking up behind her and telling her to cum, is awesome!
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I know it becomes.. or can become painful for some as the body adjusts to the rush of blood to the region, but it's not really physically harmful to masturbate and then not come. Like anything else.. if it turns you on, if it works for you and doesnt hurt you.. then go for it. I know there are times where Master will make me beg to come, I like the mental challenge of it.. of making my body wait.. or when he commands me to not masturbate at all in the days before a visit.. but I've never had it hurt to not come for days
