Hallo everybody I'm new in this forum.
My boyfriend and I like spanking a lot and we find it very erotic.
After reading many stories and watching many movies, we undestood that many women can be reduced in tears during a hard spanking.
The problem is that I refuse to break down and I always fight very hard against tears. I hate the idea to be seen sobbing like a baby with a red bottom, but my boyfriend gets frustrated and begins spanking harder and harder. The result is a sort of challenge to see who the first who gives in, very painfull and sometimes not really exciting, at leats for me.
I know that pain can make me cry: it happened some month ago after I broke my big toe under a bowling ball, but I'll never allow anybody to hurt me so much for fun!!!!
Because we practice spanking only for fun and not for punishment.
So my question is: what shall I do? Being less proud and let my tears flow more easily, allow him to be even more painfull or trying to persuade him that tears are not so important in spite so many beautiful movies we both have enjoied?
How do you behave during a spanking?
Thank you for your suggestions!
My boyfriend and I like spanking a lot and we find it very erotic.
After reading many stories and watching many movies, we undestood that many women can be reduced in tears during a hard spanking.
The problem is that I refuse to break down and I always fight very hard against tears. I hate the idea to be seen sobbing like a baby with a red bottom, but my boyfriend gets frustrated and begins spanking harder and harder. The result is a sort of challenge to see who the first who gives in, very painfull and sometimes not really exciting, at leats for me.
I know that pain can make me cry: it happened some month ago after I broke my big toe under a bowling ball, but I'll never allow anybody to hurt me so much for fun!!!!
Because we practice spanking only for fun and not for punishment.
So my question is: what shall I do? Being less proud and let my tears flow more easily, allow him to be even more painfull or trying to persuade him that tears are not so important in spite so many beautiful movies we both have enjoied?
How do you behave during a spanking?
Thank you for your suggestions!