are orgasms humiliating?
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myinnerslut
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A can turn them into something humiliating by mentioning how someone might here or how i have absolutly no control over myself, but usually they bring me closer to him. it with when i am at my most vulnerable. i cant speak, cant move, can barely think, i can only feel.
Andraste
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hmmm...Yang4yin said:And you should feel terrible about that, too.
well i think it might be the source of my inability to orgasm unless alone.
i just can't let go to that degree.
i was just curious to see if other people found it humiliating...whether that's good or bad.
ownedsubgal
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the few orgasms i've had have not been very intense (no grunting or noticeable jerking), but i do find them embarassing, if not humiliating. not because of the physical reactions (which in my case are very mild), but because i am having one at all. it feels like a failure, because for that brief moment that i anticipated the orgasm and then actually had the orgasm, i was not 100% focused on service and the pleasure of another. and as that is the whole purpose of sex for me, i never welcome orgasms and am always embarassed by them.
Andraste
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as soon as i saw you'd posted i knew...here will be a stranger attitude than my own.ownedsubgal said:
but, if he wanted to make you orgasm for his own pleasure, that would be satisfying? or only satisfying in the sense of pleasing him, not being satisfying in it's own right?
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Orgasm is he one of the highist achievements of pleasure.
Humiliating? I think not, or at least it isn't for me.
But everyone is diffrent and I do belive it dose depend on the situation at hand, so I'm not surprised that someone might find it humiliating.
Humiliating? I think not, or at least it isn't for me.
But everyone is diffrent and I do belive it dose depend on the situation at hand, so I'm not surprised that someone might find it humiliating.
subtleone
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I love the fact that He has reduced me to all that animalistic jerking...to lose control and just revel in the pleasurable feeling that overtakes me. Definitely nothing close to humiliation. But my Master also takes pride in the levels of orgasm he can take me to and this in turn gives me more pleasure...vicious (gorgeous) cycle of ooooohhhhhh!! 
JupitersGirl
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subtleone said:I love the fact that He has reduced me to all that animalistic jerking...to lose control and just revel in the pleasurable feeling that overtakes me. Definitely nothing close to humiliation. But my Master also takes pride in the levels of orgasm he can take me to and this in turn gives me more pleasure...vicious (gorgeous) cycle of ooooohhhhhh!!
Absolutely!
After all, I had given control over to him anyway, so not having control was the way I liked it.
mellowyellows
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I think there is nothing more beautiful then........losing yourself in the pleasures of orgasms
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Not humiliating to me at all. i actually feel sorry for those who don't enjoy them or are embarrassed by them.
It took me until I was 21 to have an orgasm at all, 22 to have one thanks to anyone else (and I'd had quite a few sex partners since the age of 17). The first few that I had, I was so thoroughly pleased and so grateful I don't think I could've been humiliated no matter what the circumstances. Now, I don't think they're humiliating at all. Just totally enjoyable. The world stops briefly. I even find being overheard rather entertaining, though I wouldn't do so on purpose...I suppose having an out-of-control orgasm in a public place, with other people actually there and unwillingly watching, would be humiliating. As would trying to hide even a small one from an audience. But neither of those things has ever happened to me.
BiBunny
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Not usually. Thank God for that. I can cum at the drop of a hat, and if I were embarrassed by my orgasms...well, let's just say my face would spend a whole lot of time being red. 
That being said, yes, sometimes they can be humiliating, but only if the circumstances make them so.
That being said, yes, sometimes they can be humiliating, but only if the circumstances make them so.
