He says...

skizbees

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"I hope to never really get to know you completely. If we find out every little thing about each other habit wise, we'll become predictable and can't grow anymore because our minds will close." Ah, the motivation not to suck the life out of the ones you love. :rose:
 
skizbees said:
"I hope to never really get to know you completely. If we find out every little thing about each other habit wise, we'll become predictable and can't grow anymore because our minds will close." Ah, the motivation not to suck the life out of the ones you love. :rose:

Sounds like his mind needs a little growth, if ya ask me :rolleyes:

Life is change... Habits change, ebb and flow, minds expand. I think he's trying to baffle you with bullshit!
 
Well..he's working on that. Everyone should try to expand their minds to keep growing in acceptance of ideas, people, or thoughts. It doesn't mean your views will change to reflect that if you choose not to change your opinion on some matters. It sounds a little too existentialist at the moment. :p
 
Was he able to say it without stumbling? Was he reading from notes?
 
HappyMisha said:
Was he able to say it without stumbling? Was he reading from notes?

Yes. I was questioned for half an hour about some things too. They gave homework to him. :devil: It's a bit too much for a phone call after a late breakfast. I guess opening the mind by bombarding it with a series of rapid fire questioning/lecturing is a way to get a mental epiphany and change for the better.
 
Image said:
Are you related to SongCatcher?

I do not know that user. I'm just a Saggitarius trying to keep an open mind without calling "bullshit, try thinking for yourself", because that phone call did baffle me. I just hope paying money for insightful motivation to get up and do something about your true dreams isn't too much of a scam. I was just finishing my coffee and feel a little agitated now. :eek:
 
Lorelei_11 said:
That made me laugh. :)


No kidding! Does any of that, past the first post, (and that was a stretch) make any sense? :D
 
skizbees said:
I do not know that user. I'm just a Saggitarius trying to keep an open mind without calling "bullshit, try thinking for yourself", because that phone call did baffle me. I just hope paying money for insightful motivation to get up and do something about your true dreams isn't too much of a scam. I was just finishing my coffee and feel a little agitated now. :eek:

Are you saying you're paying someone to enlighten you?
 
Image said:
No kidding! Does any of that, past the first post, (and that was a stretch) make any sense? :D


It does to me...


She's got a shallow idiot for a boyfriend who is trying to sound "cool".


I'd have smacked him silly.
 
Image said:
No kidding! Does any of that, past the first post, (and that was a stretch) make any sense? :D

No, it didn't, thats why I was laughing. The post above yours about the phone call, was baffling.

Her new post to you, is beginning to possibly make sense. Thats if I have it right. I think she is paying someone to help her and her boyfriend expand their minds and learn? Not sure.

If she is paying for that, I'd say its complete and utter bullshit. Very simple bullshit, almost like a 10 year old was saying it.
 
Image said:
Are you saying you're paying someone to enlighten you?

No. He is. I'm being a supportive girlfriend about it, though I still suspect a bit , okay, a lot of brainwashing on this so called motivational guru. All I'm wanting is for him to let him have his "enlightenment" and not try to force his new light bulb idea on me. It's up to him to figure out what he wants. Can I beat myself with a bat now? I'm sorry for the confusion.
 
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MinkSoul said:
It does to me...


She's got a shallow idiot for a boyfriend who is trying to sound "cool".


I'd have smacked him silly.

That was my first thought as I said, but now? What's he going to say next? "Really baby, if we just picture the sperm as little men with x's for eyes, they're dead and you wont get pregnant" OMMMMMMMMMM :D
 
Image said:
That was my first thought as I said, but now? What's he going to say next? "Really baby, if we just picture the sperm as little men with x's for eyes, they're dead and you wont get pregnant" OMMMMMMMMMM :D

Well, I'm on birth control. I don't forsee a smaller version of myself causing hell to the world just yet. :D
 
skizbees said:
No. He is. I'm being a supportive girlfriend about it, though I still suspect a bit , okay, a lot of brainwashing on this so called motivational guru. All I'm wanting is for him to let him have his "enlightenment" and not try to force his new light bulb idea on me. It's up to him to figure out what he wants. Can I beat myself with a bat now? I'm sorry for the confusion.

Well, that makes more sense now... You know, you can't really blame him. The whole of life really is trying to evolve. People are grasping at anything because of the state of the world at present and they sense that time is running out...

And with that kind of demand the charlatans are never far away... But it's always been in your own backyard I like to think...

Hope it doesn't cost him too much to figure out that life lesson...
 
MinkSoul said:
I'd still smack the snot out of him.

Violence is not the answer, unless it's got a stealth laser guide manual. But please expand on this?
 
Image said:
Sounds like his mind needs a little growth, if ya ask me :rolleyes:

Life is change... Habits change, ebb and flow, minds expand. I think he's trying to baffle you with bullshit!
Or maybe he is just trying to express how much he loves her.

Geez! A guy comes up with something halfway nice to say and women have to analyze the hell out of it. :rolleyes: Face it, a lot of guys really struggle with this, and they mean well, take it on its face value (unless of course you have good reason not to with this particular person) and accept the compliment/expression of love.

The other half of the time women complain about men not expressing their love. Can you blame them? When they try they get shot down for it - it seems safer to just keep our mouths shut and buy you flowers. :rolleyes: Sheesh!
 
The Heretic said:
Or maybe he is just trying to express how much he loves her.

Geez! A guy comes up with something halfway nice to say and women have to analyze the hell out of it. :rolleyes: Face it, a lot of guys really struggle with this, and they mean well, take it on its face value (unless of course you have good reason not to with this particular person) and accept the compliment/expression of love.

The other half of the time women complain about men not expressing their love. Can you blame them? When they try they get shot down for it - it seems safer to just keep our mouths shut and buy you flowers. :rolleyes: Sheesh!

Did you read the rest of the thread?
 
skizbees said:
Violence is not the answer, unless it's got a stealth laser guide manual. But please expand on this?


The boyfriend sounds a bit full of himself and in need of a reallity check. You could start by calling bullshit on him.
 
Image said:
Did you read the rest of the thread?
Yes, so maybe the guy is suffering from a little brainwashing right now, but I bet the sentiment is there. He is trying to express it. That is the point I am trying to get across. Whether he fails because he is laboring under some bullshit self-help programming right now, or he fails because he has other problems verbally expressing himself (as I do) you have to give the guy credit - he tried.
 
The Heretic said:
Yes, so maybe the guy is suffering from a little brainwashing right now, but I bet the sentiment is there. He is trying to express it. That is the point I am trying to get across. Whether he fails because he is laboring under some bullshit self-help programming right now, or he fails because he has other problems verbally expressing himself (as I do) you have to give the guy credit - he tried.

Sympathizer :p


OK, I'll give you that...
 
The Heretic said:
Yes, so maybe the guy is suffering from a little brainwashing right now, but I bet the sentiment is there. He is trying to express it. That is the point I am trying to get across. Whether he fails because he is laboring under some bullshit self-help programming right now, or he fails because he has other problems verbally expressing himself (as I do) you have to give the guy credit - he tried.

The program he's been involved with has sparked my curiosity, and I don't consider him a failure at expressing himself. I'm not sure what to make of it, since I'm not physically there with him during it. I'll get a taste of it on Tuesday night though. You don't have to agree with everything an SO does, but I'm happy to be supportive of it within reason. That bachelor chow pic made me laugh. Now flavored? Heh.
 
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