Precious Bodily Fluids

This is not a loaded question, but a question about a load - the male precious bodily fluid

What is the protocol for addressing it in your relationship? For you? Your partner? If your a male, when you self-pleasure?

Cat's great post on STD's reminds us that fluid bonding can be life saving. My last partner and I used a condom for six months until we both had two HIV-AID/STD tests return negative. We then considered ourselves fluid bonded and the use of latex barriers, when used, were for clean up and not health. We made placing the condom on a part of the action as well as what to with the full condom.

Developing a healthy relationship with my own juices has been a learning experience - moving from shame and repulsion as a teen oh-so-many years ago to wow-what-a-great-plaything now. I love my same-sexed partners cum - I want to take it from him and make it mine. I love photos of the money shot. I have even started to develop a level of discernment about cum pics, finding some more stimulating then others based on how the fluid looks.

If you are a bottom how do you relate to your Tops cum? How to you feel about being cumed on? In? Ok in one place but not another? When giving him a hand job do you let it go all over the place, or do you try to contain it? How do you deal with a blow job? A kiss after a blow job? If you are a Top do you use your cum as part of your play with your bottom? As a female Top with a male bottom how do you interact with his cum?

There are places on the internet deal with cum shots on pics. Some post pics of ex's so others can cum on them as acts of humiliation. Some post their own pics so others can take "tribute shots" as acts of adoration.

When masturbating do you unload into the toilet? a towel? on yourself? do you rush to clean-up? do you ever taste your own cum? your pre-cum?

Years ago I visited a ProDomme who presented a silver tray for me to masturbate onto at the end of the session. What a class act who knew her client base very well.

Do tell, please.

"Precious Bodily Fluids" - taken from Dr. Strangelove

I am a male that has been both top and bottom as well as years of vanilla...

I have alway liked the whole idea, sight, feel and even taste of my cum. It may go all the way back to my first lover, my high school sweetheart would usually swallow my load. This was as much for dealing with the mess as anything I think, but I discovered that it really turned her on if I kissed her just after. Some sort of acceptance thing I guess. So, very early on I was conditioned to not be revolted by its taste.

Another lover really loved it when I shot all over her belly and tits and she loved to play with it and loved it even more when I joined in. So, more reward, conditioning for interaction with my own fluid.

My ex was a squirter and loved that I loved to be squirted on and would lap it up. And she really loved when I would make her squirt with my load inside her! So much so that every once in a while she would reward me by letting me cum on her face! She knew it was one of my ultimate (vanilla) fantasies!

Yes, I love cum, my cum, my woman's cum and I love to wallow in it, taste it, play with it.

Now I am seeking my place in the BDSM scene and started out on top, being taught by a submissive. She allowed me to do whatever with my cum, and I did. I seek the experience of the bottom and have had one wonderful turn at that. The Domme made me cum twice, once wasted on the floor and once all over her hand and at least tasted by her.

Now I seek more bottom experiences and expect it will not be up to me what happens to my cum, but I can't wait to find out.

*dissapointed sigh* I thought this was going to be a discussion of one of my favorite movies, Dr Strangelove.

callinectes said:

*dissapointed sigh* I thought this was going to be a discussion of one of my favorite movies, Dr Strangelove.

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fooled you hee hee

i love to make Sir cum. i love to get to swallow it but i also love it when he cums on me. i really like seeing him cum on my chest, something about sing it leaving him and covering me really turns me on. if any ever gets on him i gladly lap it up. and we do kiss after ive gone down on him, but i believe that is the only time Sir has ever tasted him own cum. i on the other hand have tasted both his and mine many times.

myinnerslut said:

i love to make Sir cum. i love to get to swallow it but i also love it when he cums on me. i really like seeing him cum on my chest, something about sing it leaving him and covering me really turns me on. if any ever gets on him i gladly lap it up. and we do kiss after ive gone down on him, but i believe that is the only time Sir has ever tasted him own cum. i on the other hand have tasted both his and mine many times.

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Does it turn you on when he tastes himself?

Does it turn you on when you taste yourself?

I am fascinated by this whole thing and want to know more about women's views on this.

Does it turn you on when he tastes himself?

not particularyly, but it would make me feel bad if he wouldnt kiss me after i went down on him, not becuase i deserve it, but becuase if he would avoid his own cum like that it would give me the impression that somethign was wrong or it was bad, leaving me one very confused sub.

Does it turn you on when you taste yourself?

yes. absolutly. Sir will often have me clean off his fingers or any toy used in me with my mouth. i like how i taste, but my absolute favorite is being able to clean of his cock after it has been inside of me

I am fascinated by this whole thing and want to know more about women's views on this.

just ask, i am more then certian i am not the only women who will respond to this thread (in fact, im not even the first on to respond thus far)

I know a lot of women, my ex included do not like facials, the cum kind. Is that a vanilla thing or does it cross over to the BDSM world?

I know that is a very general question, I just would like to hear opinions.

I do not think it is degrading, as some say, I just think it is HOT! I also like to have my face cummed on by any woman that is capable.

myinnerslut said:

yes. absolutly. Sir will often have me clean off his fingers or any toy used in me with my mouth. i like how i taste, but my absolute favorite is being able to clean of his cock after it has been inside of me

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as a bisexual I have often fantasied about taking a cock in my mouth that has just been take out of a woman....

wouldloveto said:

I know a lot of women, my ex included do not like facials, the cum kind. Is that a vanilla thing or does it cross over to the BDSM world?

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I do not think it is degrading, as some say, I just think it is HOT!...

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That is the point of this thread, I also am interested in how different people see this...

wouldloveto said:

I know a lot of women, my ex included do not like facials, the cum kind. Is that a vanilla thing or does it cross over to the BDSM world?

I know that is a very general question, I just would like to hear opinions.

I do not think it is degrading, as some say, I just think it is HOT! I also like to have my face cummed on by any woman that is capable.

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i do, but ive gotten it in my eye twice and that stung!

Shankara20 said:

That is the point of this thread, I also am interested in how different people see this...

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Yes, thank you for starting this...

myinnerslut said:

i do, but ive gotten it in my eye twice and that stung!

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Oh yes, I understand that, I have actually gotten mine in my eye...

How... you may ask?

A recent gf, the one that introduced me to BDSM, made it so that I gave myself a facial...

I loved it, except for the stinging eye thing.

Oh, yay, a post about cum

Master normally wants me to swallow His cum, via a blow job, Him cumming straight into my moulth, or me licking it from wherever it lands (usually on my tits LOL). I love to please Him in this way.

Master often lets me clean off His fingers or His cock or my Toys after they have been inside me. It's definitely a turn on!

As for Him tasting His own, never. Early in our relationship, as I was swallowing His cum, He backed His face away slightly as I looked up at Him, joking that He knew was I was thinking... and hell no. Oh well...

Whips and Kisses,
~Arashi Lilith

Mrs Popcorn prefers that I cum deep inside her. I have licked my own cum up after fucking her brains out, only to be turned on by the action (I say action because it seems to me the act of licking up the dirty sauce is more exciting than the taste of our mixed cum...not that it tastes bad, either)...Ill end up fucking her sloppy wet pussy till I get off at least one more time, sometimes repeating the process over and over, it just makes me horny. Shes a squirter and I love the way she tastes and feels... sometimes Ill make her squat over my face with her vibe so that when she squirts I have my mouth right on her pussy and can drink freely from her.
Having said all that...when I'm masturbating I will sometimes lick my precum off my fingertips before go for the grand finally. After I have my orgasm...sometimes I lick my fingers and the back of my hand, savoring the juices, while my mind comes down from that numby (I know its not a word but thats how it feels), high buzzy feeling and my fingers stop shaking.

Hope this helps...

male cum- I don't really like it. It gives me heart burn. It dosen't taste good. If thats what they like though, I'll do it to please them. I'm not big on facials. I feel stupid sitting there waiting while they get off... I can't help but think, "My mouth should be doing that, not your hand" Same with cumming on my body in general... I mean, at least i don't have my eyes closed while waiting, but i still feel stupid.
*shrug* I want to please, but i really am just NOT into ejaculation.
A gay guy i know likes to rate it, texture, color, distance, taste, smell.. He's a connoseur.


girl cum- It dosne't have much of a taste me at all... I mean, i've never had a squirter so really it's only been the wesness that's just there, no excess...

My favourite place is on my face and hair.
But everywhere is else is good too.

I really love licking pre-cum off his fingers. I also love him use his fingers to coat my teeth, gums and tongue with it. It is very erotic.

I am not a big fan of swallowing it mainly because the speed of delivery makes it difficult to swallow all of it.

I have licked it off him, off bed sheets and off the floor. I would not want to drink it out of a glass, as seen on some porn films or stories.

Oh, and having hot streams of cum land on my cunt is fairly close to heaven too

Having had to lick cum off a plate, I can tell you when it's cold it just doesn't taste as good. I adore it warm from the source though.

I usually like to swallow more than anything... mostly as a practical matter, no muss, no fuss, no dirty tissues 30 seconds after the "big moment". Having someone come on my body just feels silly... but I like it on my face because it's all degrading and stuff.

I've never minded the taste, although it does make my mouth a bit numb for some reason. I had one partner whose cum just tasted like salt water... that was nice.

I must say...

I love this thread! I must also thank all of you that have posted!

I have heard that the taste of cum can be altered by diet, fruit juices in particular. This makes sense to me but I have not tested it.

I have to agree that eating my cum out of my lover after sex is a huge turn-on! That is what finally convinced my ex that cum play could be fun.

Oh to find a woman that enjoys it the way some of you do...

While I have not “tested” the food/juice theory to alter the taste of a man’s cum, I have experienced that not all men taste the same.

With my first SO, I never swallowed, and guiltily spit his semen into tissues; even had a glass of water next to the bed so as to swish around in my mouth, diluting any remnants before swallowing. With my second SO, the first Dom I ever served, I did swallow. However I would tend to pull his cock to the back of my throat so I could “gulp” his cum down quickly as it was very bitter and I disliked it. With him, the act of swallowing was not difficult at all, it was the taste that I had to work on accepting.

Now, I play with a Dom from time to time and I swallow because it pleases him, and his cum tastes sweet and has a very creamy consistency. I actually look forward to tasting and swallowing his cum. What is even more wonderful is that he has no qualms about kissing me and tasting his own cum. That act is very erotic and motivating for me.

I also love receiving my Dom’s cum on my face, breasts, and any other body part he desires to leave his mark on. Sometimes he prefers to watch me lick his cum from my breasts; sometimes he prefers me to rub it all over my skin then we will dress and go out for dinner or a movie and I am sticky with it, and can smell it, and wondering if anyone near me can smell his scent on me…that is humbling and embarrassing, as well as exciting.

Shankara20 said:

as a bisexual I have often fantasied about taking a cock in my mouth that has just been take out of a woman....

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I'm a girl, but boy I love doing that. fun fun fun fun yummy!

Exogenous said:

What is even more wonderful is that he has no qualms about kissing me and tasting his own cum. That act is very erotic and motivating for me.

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Yes, that is what I have seen to little of in women I have known. But when that is the case it is very erotic for both of us.

Exogenous said:

sometimes he prefers me to rub it all over my skin then we will dress and go out for dinner or a movie and I am sticky with it, and can smell it, and wondering if anyone near me can smell his scent on me…that is humbling and embarrassing, as well as exciting.

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For a brief time (too brief) I was with a woman that loved to do this, and she would make sure her essence was on my face and hands when we went out. She especially liked it when the outing was with friends and she knew they could smell it. I was all vanilla then, but she was not. I miss her.

I'm not especially fond of the stuff. Smells like bleach tastes like snot, there's nothing precious about it. I consider it a great reward to be permitted to lap your own up in my presence, high honors to lick it off my boot and a sign of being in the beloved inner cabal if I ever let you lick it from a body part. Lovers get to lick it off lower back, boobs, fingertips. Since I'm adamantly safe-sex with everyone other than M, he's the only one who gets to clean up after himself post fuck, and I love that.

Generally, I like to make my tricks flush theirs while I stand behind them and remind them how filthy it is.

I'm not above the periodic snowball with my husband, who's the only person I'm fluid bonded with to that extent at present. His stuff is markedly less offensive and chlorinelike than that of most others, for some reason. Overall, cum isn't that fascinating or precious to me, those who produce it can love it all they like.

I'm not into the champagne flute treatment for my own secretions either, though - my preferred golden shower MO is to just throw 'em in the tub, lift one leg and whizz.