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Old 03-07-2015, 06:22 AM   #1
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Question Pregnancy - attractive, turn off, or neither here nor there?

Lately I've had some interesting reactions from Lit men regarding my pregnancy.

Examples: I recently posted a picture of my bump for my friends here and within minutes received two PMs from random people with what can only be described as pregnancy fetish. I took that pic down very quickly.

On the other end of that spectrum I've had someone who was really fun and cool and developing a fun friendly banter with decide that he could no longer even talk to me because I'm pregnant.

In between that there are friends who think pregnancy is sexy and one who thought when he saw me, that I was wearing it well I guess.

So.. This is not so much a How To but more a What Do YOU think and feel about pregnant women in general, within Lit context etc. I'm really intrigued by the various reactions and schools of thought.
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Old 03-07-2015, 06:31 AM   #2
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I didn't feel very attractive while being pregnant, although my friends were saying I looked great, But when I've had friends that are pregnant, I think they look wonderful, and I find it hard not to touch, stroke or just pat there bump, I love looking at a big bump lol xxSuexx
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Old 03-07-2015, 06:31 AM   #3
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If it was my child, I might find it arousing on some level, but its not a particular turn on for me.
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Old 03-07-2015, 06:32 AM   #4
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I think it's very sexy. Though, I don't feel compelled to email you my junk. It probably has to do with the fact that pregnancy escalates the hormone levels in a woman.
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Old 03-07-2015, 06:34 AM   #5
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About three years ago I met a girl that I thought was just a little less than slender around the midsection. Later she was annoyed about that as she was a size zero that was pregnant.

She had a couple of FWBs she was seeing and both had kind of begged off as she started to show. I told her I had about 36 months experience fucking a pregnant woman. That got me a smile and the job. She was a lot of fun and we continued after she was back to her usual size.

It isn't a fetish for me, but it is not off-putting. I knew, from experience, that in the last trimester with the added pressure in that region some women get hornier, and I do find horny women appealing.
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Old 03-07-2015, 06:36 AM   #6
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Its like everything else, some women do it well and some make it a freak show. The real test is the talent to eat pork chops wearing gloves. If a woman can do it she likely has the talent to be pregnant with style and grace.
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About three years ago I met a girl that I thought was just a little less than slender around the midsection. Later she was annoyed about that as she was a size zero that was pregnant.

She had a couple of FWBs she was seeing and both had kind of begged off as she started to show. I told her I had about 36 months experience fucking a pregnant woman. That got me a smile and the job. She was a lot of fun and we continued after she was back to her usual size.

It isn't a fetish for me, but it is not off-putting. I knew, from experience, that in the last trimester with the added pressure in that region some women get hornier, and I do find horny women appealing.
Ah! I recall greasing the chute a few times.
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Old 03-07-2015, 06:41 AM   #8
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I didn't feel very attractive while being pregnant, although my friends were saying I looked great, But when I've had friends that are pregnant, I think they look wonderful, and I find it hard not to touch, stroke or just pat there bump, I love looking at a big bump lol xxSuexx
I loved how my body was with my little girl, this time around not so much. I hate randoms touching me, friends I'm good with though. The best is when they lean in to talk to your tummy. For some reason that always makes me laugh.

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If it was my child, I might find it arousing on some level, but its not a particular turn on for me.
Me either and it is my child.

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I think it's very sexy. Though, I don't feel compelled to email you my junk. It probably has to do with the fact that pregnancy escalates the hormone levels in a woman.
I think for most, surely there would need to be a better reason than just the fact that someone is pregnant to email a dick pic? Then again... this IS lit. What am I saying?!
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Old 03-07-2015, 06:42 AM   #9
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About three years ago I met a girl that I thought was just a little less than slender around the midsection. Later she was annoyed about that as she was a size zero that was pregnant.

She had a couple of FWBs she was seeing and both had kind of begged off as she started to show. I told her I had about 36 months experience fucking a pregnant woman. That got me a smile and the job. She was a lot of fun and we continued after she was back to her usual size.

It isn't a fetish for me, but it is not off-putting. I knew, from experience, that in the last trimester with the added pressure in that region some women get hornier, and I do find horny women appealing.
Got you a job huh?! Did it pay well?!

I am incredibly toey this time around, but also not allowed to have sex so that could have a lot to do with that.
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Old 03-07-2015, 06:44 AM   #10
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Its like everything else, some women do it well and some make it a freak show. The real test is the talent to eat pork chops wearing gloves. If a woman can do it she likely has the talent to be pregnant with style and grace.
I'm not much of a fan or pork chops. A good roast pork or pulled pork for sure, but there's something about those chops.
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Old 03-07-2015, 06:45 AM   #11
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I agree with the poster above that said when its your wife s/o who is pregnant it can be very sexy, but that's because of the emotion that is involved as well.

I don't find it unattractive in other women, but its not a turn on.

Understand where we are. This is not real life, if you asked if anyone here had a fetish for eating toilet paper you would get people posting yes. So for the people telling you how hot it is, look at the source.

Everything can be hot and sexy here. There are also some guys here so desperate they may think that you might feel unattractive so their compliment might get them some correspondence with you.

But on this note...it brings something to mind I have always thought of.

I do not look down on porn stars, I don't think they're sluts or disgusting, I think they are women who make money in the sex industry and obviously have a very different view of sex than most to be able to do it.

The industry is also much cleaner and respectable these days, porn stars are no longer the drug addled desperate runaways they were years ago.

But when I see videos with pregnant women, I mean ready to pop....I know on the viewers end it is a fetish, but on the actress end....how desperate and sad do you have to be to be filming porn in that state with a child inside you.....total turn off...in fact it makes me sad.
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Old 03-07-2015, 06:49 AM   #12
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I, PERSONALLY, would not want to post pictures of my pregnant body publicly. I would feel weird about the 'fetish' thing and also to me it would feel like I was also posting pictures of my baby too (I know I'm not but I know that's how I would feel).

For friends, privately, yeah fine. And of course you can be and feel sexy in pregnancy. And I've seen some beautiful pictures of pregnant pictures on am pics, if the women are happy to post their pictures, that's great. I just wouldn't be.
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I, PERSONALLY, would not want to post pictures of my pregnant body publicly. I would feel weird about the 'fetish' thing and also to me it would feel like I was also posting pictures of my baby too (I know I'm not but I know that's how I would feel).

For friends, privately, yeah fine. And of course you can be and feel sexy in pregnancy. And I've seen some beautiful pictures of pregnant pictures on am pics, if the women are happy to post their pictures, that's great. I just wouldn't be.
Interesting point and it makes me think of social media. A woman posting pics of their pregnancy on FB for friends and family that are not local, but if you don't have the correct settings anyone can see your pics and....do who knows what to them
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I agree with the poster above that said when its your wife s/o who is pregnant it can be very sexy, but that's because of the emotion that is involved as well.

I don't find it unattractive in other women, but its not a turn on.

Understand where we are. This is not real life, if you asked if anyone here had a fetish for eating toilet paper you would get people posting yes. So for the people telling you how hot it is, look at the source.

Everything can be hot and sexy here. There are also some guys here so desperate they may think that you might feel unattractive so their compliment might get them some correspondence with you.

But on this note...it brings something to mind I have always thought of.

I do not look down on porn stars, I don't think they're sluts or disgusting, I think they are women who make money in the sex industry and obviously have a very different view of sex than most to be able to do it.

The industry is also much cleaner and respectable these days, porn stars are no longer the drug addled desperate runaways they were years ago.

But when I see videos with pregnant women, I mean ready to pop....I know on the viewers end it is a fetish, but on the actress end....how desperate and sad do you have to be to be filming porn in that state with a child inside you.....total turn off...in fact it makes me sad.
There's pregnancy porn? I mean, of course there is, I've just not seen it. But wait.. Are you likening being on Lit whilst pregnant to that?
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I, PERSONALLY, would not want to post pictures of my pregnant body publicly. I would feel weird about the 'fetish' thing and also to me it would feel like I was also posting pictures of my baby too (I know I'm not but I know that's how I would feel).

For friends, privately, yeah fine. And of course you can be and feel sexy in pregnancy. And I've seen some beautiful pictures of pregnant pictures on am pics, if the women are happy to post their pictures, that's great. I just wouldn't be.
It didn't even enter my head when I posted my fully clothed, bump only pic, that randoms read that thread or find something sexual in it. I quickly learnt otherwise and took it down.

I imagine I have a somewhat different, much more fragile perspective on pregnancy with my history so perhaps that's why I was so taken aback when I recived those two pervy messages.
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Personally, I think a pregnant woman is at her utmost sexiness. She is more attractive than ever, whether I've seen her before or not. Even fully clothed, I feel the same way. Most pregnant women have a certain glow about them, no matter how they feel. Just my take on it.
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I assure you, there is zero glow here. Tired and sick does not make for glow.
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There's pregnancy porn? I mean, of course there is, I've just not seen it. But wait.. Are you likening being on Lit whilst pregnant to that?
No, not at all. I am talking full blown(pardon the pun) porn videos, In fact there used to be-maybe still is-a series called 'ready to drop' and they are fucking like, well like porn stars,

I have a wide variety of kinks myself (just check my story page) but again I just find that type of porn downright depressing I just thing "How bad do they need this money?"

Now if it was a home made video between a pregnant woman and her hubby/bf for their eyes only then more power to you.
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No, not at all. I am talking full blown(pardon the pun) porn videos, In fact there used to be-maybe still is-a series called 'ready to drop' and they are fucking like, well like porn stars,

I have a wide variety of kinks myself (just check my story page) but again I just find that type of porn downright depressing I just thing "How bad do they need this money?"

Now if it was a home made video between a pregnant woman and her hubby/bf for their eyes only then more power to you.
I find a lot of porn depressing like that. I can see that pregnancy porn could be worse though.

I am pretty out there on the kinks and filth scale (I'm told), but yeah the reactions to that one pic made me all skin crawly. I'd not do home porn pregnant either.
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I was hot as fuck when I was pregnant, mostly because I carried the weight in my boobs and belly. People couldn't even tell I was pregnant from the back.

I've noticed, though, that on the fetish board, the pregnancy fetishists have no idea how women's bodies change/function (no, we're not producing "milk" at four months). I've also noticed that some of the pregnant "women" are vying for the Guinness World Record for longest human pregnancy.
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I was hot as fuck when I was pregnant, mostly because I carried the weight in my boobs and belly. People couldn't even tell I was pregnant from the back.

I've noticed, though, that on the fetish board, the pregnancy fetishists have no idea how women's bodies change/function (no, we're not producing "milk" at four months). I've also noticed that some of the pregnant "women" are vying for the Guinness World Record for longest human pregnancy.
I'm all boobs and belly. Usually I'm just all boobs.

Haha too funny. Though, I do feel like I'm vying for that title too.
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I assure you, there is zero glow here. Tired and sick does not make for glow.
You may not see it or feel it but others might. I know I do. The best 9 months with my ex wife was when she was pregnant. That's why she's an ex, couldn't get along for shit otherwise. Trust me, there are days when you feel like crap, feel you look like crap but to others, your an angel, a very beautiful glowing angel.
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I think it can be sexy. You have the whole giver of life/survival of the species thing going on. Add in all the body changes, even though they are only temporary, and it can be sexy.

While it can be sexy on a stranger, I think it is even hotter on you SO.

Good luck with your pregnancy.
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Sexiness resides so much in how a woman carries herself. In my experience, many women who are pregnant see themselves in a different light and at least sometimes this leaves them radiating extra sexy positive vibes. I do generally find pregnant women pretty sexy.
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You're pregnant??? Oh damn, congrats Rainshine! And yes yes.... I have been living under a rock and didn't know that.

I guess I think pregnant women are sexy but I don't really think pregnant women that I know personally are sexy. That probably doesn't make any sense. Males brains, huh? The breasts and the way they grow is definitely sexy. Other than that, I'm not quite sure what's a turn on about pregnant women. I guess maybe the curves and proportions aspect. Not sure. But at the same time, I don't ever see somebody I know personally who is pregnant and think "Oh she got hotter than before she got pregnant."

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