when did you lose your virginity?

[shy little fairy]

when and how did you lose your virginity? how old were you? are you happy about when you lost it, or do you wish you had been older/younger/ different situation altogether?

for those of you who maybe haven't lost yours yet - why haven't you? waiting for a special someone or special plan you have? what's your ideal way to lose your virginity?

[ozbloke1980]

Originally posted by shy little fairy
when and how did you lose your virginity? how old were you? are you happy about when you lost it, or do you wish you had been older/younger/ different situation altogether?

for those of you who maybe haven't lost yours yet - why haven't you? waiting for a special someone or special plan you have? what's your ideal way to lose your virginity?

I was 22 (Too old) And I don't regret it at all. In fact I would've given my right arm to have lost it earlier in life. It was an organized one night stand. Admitaddly I would liked to have lost it to a gf but obviously that wasn't to be.

I don't regret doing it at all in fact if I had my time over again I would do it again.

[Xerxes82]

I was 19.

On my 19th birthday, my friends threw me a small birthday party at a restaurant near campus. I happened to be talking with some family friends I hadn't seen in years at about the same time and I invited them to come. They are a married couple, at the time he was in his 50's and she was in her late 40's.

Only she came to my party, he had something else to do. She's tall and thin with small breasts and great legs. She was wearing a long, dark skirt and heels (all still things that turn me on to this day). I can honestly say that I felt no shame at all in the fact that this 40-something woman gave me a raging hard on.

Anyhow, after the restaurant, my friends went off to go to a bar, so I went with her back to her apartment. Her husband wasn't home, so we sat and talked, watched a movie and caught up. We also split a bottle of wine in celebration. I spent most of the time distracted, as she was sitting so close and kept making physical contact.

towards the end of the movie, the guy and the girl were busy getting together and she took control of the evening. the first time we kissed was electric, and before long we were making out on her couch as I played with her nipples and she played with my cock. When she got on her knees to suck my hard cock, I was in heaven, and when she swallowed my cum so eagerly, promising me still more pleasure, I was hers.

After I lost my virginity to her, she gave me a ride back to my dorm room, where she came upstairs to "christen" my room. We spent the night fucking each other silly, with her showing me quite a bit.

The next weekend, she and her husband invited me over for dinner, after which we all went to the bedroom and had a threesome.

God I miss them.

[Sweet_Tee]

I was almost 16 and working at a little corndog place. A 22 year old shoe salesman would come in and eat. He was really cute. My friends and I would always go into the shoe store when we saw him working. I all but threw myself at this guy.

He finally asked me out after a couple of weeks of us playing the flirting game. I did a double date with my girl friend and his friend. We went to dinner and then to his apartment, where I got drunk for the first time in my life. I got really drunk and ended up with him on the floor.

I still can remember the pain when he entered me. It was the worst thing I had ever gone through. When I told him that night as he took me home that I had been a virgin he laughed at me and said he would know a virgin if he had one.

Which made me wonder if sex was about horrible pain and crying. Thankfully when I did it next I had a much better experience.

I always hated the way I lost mine and wished it could have been with some boy I loved. Instead I would equate it to date rape.

[Xt4cY]

I lost mine when i was 19 to a girl i thought i loved at that time. As much as i don't want to remember her now. I doubt i would change anything about my past because even the smallest things in life make you a different and better person.

[alonelygal]

Originally posted by shy little fairy
when and how did you lose your virginity? how old were you? are you happy about when you lost it, or do you wish you had been older/younger/ different situation altogether?

i lost it, voluntarily, when i was 14...December 13, 1986, to be precise. Knowing what i know now, i would have waited. To be perfectly honest, i don't remember much about it, simply because it just wasn't memorable. His mom went out of town Friday, his grandparents were showing up Saturday to 'keep an eye on things'. i spent the night and, other than being caught by his grands and my mother, it wasn't anything to write home about.

[SweetErika]

I was 16, and it was fantastic. Looking back today, I wouldn't change a thing.

[PatMan]

I was 18 at the time, although I had fooled around with other women i hand never had PIV sex. Thinking back now it is all a bit of a blur - I was living in a dorm on the uni campus and had grown a little bit close to a particular woman. Im not even sure how it all started but I remember meeting up during our semester break off campus at a birthday party where we really hit it off in the romance stakes. We didnt see each other for a couple of weeks after that but when we returned to campus.... well, its all a bit of a blur again as it involves a lot of alcohol and partying.... but I do remember lying on her bed one evening cuddling and then she just literally took me . I remember lying on my back, kissing and fondling, being unsure of how far was appropriate, and then I remember her taking the lead and snaking a hand into my pants. Damm if I didnt nearly come right there but I managed to hold off long enough for her to take her and my pants down and then for her to settle down ever so slowly on my cock until I was burried up to my balls in heaven..... ahem..... sorry, lost the plot a bit there

And now 15 years later I am married to that woman and we have 2 wonderful kids).

What I also vividly remember about that incident is that we used no protection and I had no idea she was taking birth control pills. I spent the next 24 hours terrified of pregnancy until she revealed that she was taking them.

She was a fair bit more experienced than I was, so from then on Uni took on a whole new academic meaning for me.

Pat.

[The Gimp]

I was 23 and I think she was 19. We met in a chatroom and she basically threw herself at me online then suggested that I make the 1500 mile trip to visit her up in Canada. I went up there over Valentines Day weekend, we did it, and I haven't seen her sense.
I'm tempted to say that I was too old but looking back I wouldn't change a thing. The only thing less cool than losing your virgininty in your twenties is making babies in your teens. If I would have had a girlfriend in high school rather than being single and happy at 29 I'd probably be the not so proud parent of a disfunctional teenager about right now.

[Ricwilly]

If we are talking about actual intercourse,(if you can call it that, it was kind of quick and not real successful) I was 17 with the preverbial girl next door in a make shift shelter in the middle of the night.

[jeffshi]

what a shame! it sounds to late to lose virginity at 27. but it's common in china, especially 10 years ago.

i have my first sex with my wife, she was then my girlfriend. she was 2 years young than me. that was also her first sex.
we did it at a small hotel. and you know what? we already hung out for a year by that time.

before my girlfriend, i used to try to flirt with other girls. but i couldn't worked it out. i'm not good at girls, also chinese girls are not so open.
when i was 23 years old, i remembered two girls took me her rooms. i even didn't know it meant sex by that time. what a stupid.

i really admire your americans of your fancy lifes.

[Virgin Man]

I am getting married in a few months. Our weddng night will be my first time...and hers. Neither of us would want it any other way

[DirtyJJ]

I was 20, almost 21, and I don't regret it at all. That may be considered a bit late these days, but I don't feel like I missed out by not doing it sooner.
JJ

[Saoirse]

I was 22... my then boyfriend (now my hubby) was 23. We were together 6 months at the time. It was at my sisters wedding.. I was bridesmaid. It was in a romantic castle... and it was very sexy and special.

Having said that... the sex wasnt wonderful.... I was just learning!!!!

[RavenSpirit2k4]

I was 16. I'd already lost my hymen though; when I was a little girl, I fell down and it came floating out in my bathwater that night. Unfortunately, the loss of my virginity wsn't exactly a thrill either; I've joked that it was with Superman - faster than a speeding bullet.

[curiousjen]

I was seventeen and it was with my first boyfriend. I knew nothing about sex, it hurt a lot, he made me go on top and i didn't know how to move or what to do or anything. I had read everywhere to "do what feels natural" but i was so paniced and in so much pain that nothing felt natural. I bounced up and down a few times and he came. He asked me did i come I said "yes a few times" because i thought that was what he wanted me to say and then we went to the pub. It was a big relief though- that i'd got it out the way, but it did generate a lot of anxiety. I only slept with him once or twice more and it was a disaster every time. He was hopeless wanting me to be in control when i didn't know what i was doing at all. I did everything i could to avoid sex- then we broke up.

Ah, the good old days

[blue112]

I was 18 when i had sex for the first time, she was a year older then me and had already grown a causal attitude toward sex so it totally wasnt anything new to her and while that did make it a bit easier for me it was not special at all, just a casual fuck
lookking back now I would have waited til it was something more than a casual lay for the other person

[zhukov1943]

I was off at college, at the age of 21. I regret nothing!

[Willing and Unsure]

I was 19. I kind of regret it now. But I think that's more because of who the guy ended up really being. It turned out that he was just putting on an act to get something from me (sex) and he was pretty much done wiht me after he got it. It wasnt that great. He was done after he came and then wondered why I wasnt exactly satisfied or tired like he was. Just overall not a fun night.


I think the worst part of the story is that I've really only been with one guy since (there's been more than one) that's really tried to make sure I enjoyed too.

[sheath]

Originally posted by shy little fairy
when and how did you lose your virginity? how old were you? are you happy about when you lost it, or do you wish you had been older/younger/ different situation altogether?

Sixteen...or almost sixteen...And it was absolutely perfect. It still remains one of the best sexual experiences of my life. I wouldn't change a single thing about that memory...the place, the way, the time...and especially not the wonderful man who taught me from the very first time just how good sex could be.

S.

[cecelia]

I was nineteen and the circumstances seem cliche: Hot summer night, back of a station wagon - no ac. It hurt and it was bloody enough that he threw his underwear into the woods afterwards. It was also very quick, thank God.
Unfortunately, he didn't tell me that he had 'lost' the condom. I 'found' it the next morning when I was peeing. I felt this weird sensation down 'there' and bent over to peek between the toilet bowl and the seat. This 'thing' was hanging out of me and I panicked. It didn't occur to me right away what it was and, I swear, I thought my intestines were falling out of my body, lol.
I'm not sorry it happened but a more experienced partner might have started me off on a better footing.

[bobsgirl]

I was 19, in my college dorm room. It was the first time for both of us, so things were a little clumsy and awkward.

Practice, practice, practice...

[jaded_lily]

i was 18, and i don't regret it but i would sure as hell change what had happened, i don't even remember too much about the actual event so to speak,, must not have been worth it.

[dollface007]

I was 19, and it was with my first love. He had just come back from his tour of duty in a land far far away, and i was soooooooo ready by that time. He came to see me in my dorm room, and we both knew it was going to happen. It wasn't really that enjoyable physically b/c it hurt a bit, but he took good care of me. I will always remember it fondly.

[Tendeuchen]

I'm 21 and I lost my virginity this past april to a 23 year old chinese girl in china, where I still am...wouldn't change it...it was wonderful...

what happened the next time i stayed over at her place though...well...long story short, the next morning we were woke up by her boyfriend knocking on her bedroom door...

But, right after that, I found another girl, who I'm still with, and I absolutely love her...