Spankings and pregnancy

is it too much?

take a look at this website i found after a few minutes on google

http://www.leathernroses.com/generalbdsm/powereroticspregnancy.htm

listen to her body. don't ever gag her because of the nausea factor. watch for swelling in ankles.

believe her if she safewords or says no or anything that would stop the scene. She might not have the words for it, but her instinct is speaking loud and clear.

Avery_Chisholm said:

is it too much?

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Too much what?

Most sexual activities and BDSM activities can take place during pregnancy, just exercise sense and a little caution:

Avoid electrical play anywhere around the uterus/belly.
No impact play on the belly. Back, butt and thighs are all fine as long as pressure isn't being put on the belly.
Breast play is okay, don't get too extreme, let the sensitivity of her breasts dictate the level of intensity you play at.
NO NIPPLE PIERCING IF YOU PLAN ON BREAST FEEDING THE OFFSPRING. At least not until AFTER the rascal is off the breast... *grin*
Bondage is okay, again dictated by the comfort level of the mother-to-be. Circulation, comfortable positions, length of time may all be effected from your normal play depending on the stage of pregnancy.
Hand on butt spanking? Standing or lying down should be okay! OTK or over the arm of the couch might be uncomfortable depending on how big she has gotten.

Carry on!

Something to think about. It is known that the baby in the womb has many connections to the mother. Emotional connections as well as the physical. What you do or choose to do is of course your business, but emotional stress, anxiety etc.... are often transfered to the baby's emotional state as well. Though it is physically possible to do many of the BDSM activities during pregnancy, you should be aware that it does and will have some effect upon the unborn baby. To what degree I am not capable of telling you, but I do think its worthy of your consideration.

Some study into this area might prove useful to you to help round out your decision fully and allow for a more informed decision.

As one small example....when BDSM play often happens, endorphins and other body chemical reactions happen and are released throughout the body. It may be a bit much to say that spanking a mother is like spanking the unborn baby, but it is not unreasonable to say that the effects which come from the spanking will affect the baby. Only you and the mother can determine what you will do, I just offer this as means to get you both to think through the decesion to make the best possible choice.

Obviously some people actually fall into states of stress unless they get their spanking quota....in which case, getting a spanking might have an over all positive effect.

I wish all involved the best as you consider your options in regards to this matter.

Don't spank too hard or the baby may shoot out across the room....

Sorry... just a funny image that floated into My head.

Evil_Geoff said:

Too much what?

Most sexual activities and BDSM activities can take place during pregnancy, just exercise sense and a little caution:

Avoid electrical play anywhere around the uterus/belly.
No impact play on the belly. Back, butt and thighs are all fine as long as pressure isn't being put on the belly.
Breast play is okay, don't get too extreme, let the sensitivity of her breasts dictate the level of intensity you play at.
NO NIPPLE PIERCING IF YOU PLAN ON BREAST FEEDING THE OFFSPRING. At least not until AFTER the rascal is off the breast... *grin*
Bondage is okay, again dictated by the comfort level of the mother-to-be. Circulation, comfortable positions, length of time may all be effected from your normal play depending on the stage of pregnancy.
Hand on butt spanking? Standing or lying down should be okay! OTK or over the arm of the couch might be uncomfortable depending on how big she has gotten.

Carry on!

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so i guess seeing as i've had mine pierced for almost a yr now i won''t be able to breastfeed?

Avery_Chisholm said:

so i guess seeing as i've had mine pierced for almost a yr now i won''t be able to breastfeed?

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No true. Depends on the scar tissue versus open ducts. It's always worth a try unless your piercer massacred your nippies. I'm pierced. I breastfeed 100% until my boy was a year old. Plan on breast feeding with #2 as well.

Avery_Chisholm said:

so i guess seeing as i've had mine pierced for almost a yr now i won''t be able to breastfeed?

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the only thing i've heard about breast feeding and the nipples being pierced is to take the peircing out as it is a choking hazard......i dont think there is anything that says you can't breast feed if they are pierced *shrugs* i wouldn't know as my nipples are not pierced and i did not breast feed

Avery_Chisholm said:

so i guess seeing as i've had mine pierced for almost a yr now i won''t be able to breastfeed?

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I was more refering to temporary piercings like needle play. Don't want to risk getting blood in the milk or an infection of the nipple from the tyke suckling. A healed piercing might cross a milk duct and close it with scar tissue, the milk may flow out of the piercing rather than nipple tip itself. Sometimes there are problems, but usually there are not.

Like Lady Aria and rose said, you will have to remove the bar or ring or whatever jewelry you have in there.

Good luck!

LadyAria said:

No true. Depends on the scar tissue versus open ducts. It's always worth a try unless your piercer massacred your nippies. I'm pierced. I breastfeed 100% until my boy was a year old. Plan on breast feeding with #2 as well.

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now when should one remove them early in pregnancy or later?

As your pregnancy progresses, the breasts may become more tender/sensitive, and you should generally expect to go up 1-3 cup sizes. The areola (pink area around the nipple) may go through some changes, and the mongomery glands (I think that's what they're called... it's been a few years) start preparing the nipples for the act of nursing, so the changes may (or may not) cause you to decide to remove the jewelry before the birth. (The glands basically help condition the skin of the nipples/keep the area clean.)

Most women don't have complications from pierced nippes while breastfeeding, other than the milk having more than the typical (nature made) holes to eject from. During let down (which can at times be quite intense), you may find the milk sprays from the piercing site on the nipple, as well as the nipple, itself. You should let your OB/lactation consultant/La Leche League Leader know you are pierced, and it might be wise to keep a close eye on things the first 10 days-2 weeks, to ensure there isn't any blockage due to scar tissue at the nipple- but the most common reaction I've seen is the extra places for milk to leak from issue, mentioned above. I have't seen any studies on pierced nipples increasing the odds of mastitis, as that tends to be more of a deep tissue/milk duct problem. I'm not sure about thrush, though.

If you choose to continue to wear your nipple jewelry, you will need to remove the jewelry every time you feed the baby or pump. It is a choking hazard, and also, the suction pulling on the jewelry (baby made or pump made), could cause it to tear the skin/nipple.