Bi Curious Men....Tips on making it happen!!
I'm a bisexual married man with a fondness for Fem/CD submissive types but I've cruised a few masculine married guys, especially when I first started exploring my bi side.
This thread is to collaborate on ways to send out the right vibe and pick up on the right signals to know if a married/closeted guy is open for some action. It's really amazing how many curious guys are out there but simply have no idea how to get some action without the risk of being outed.
Here's what has helped me out the most, hopefully it will help some of you find other men interested in the same thing you are.
Eye contact......everything starts with eye contact. Most totally straight guys will not engage in direct eye contact with another guy walking past them at the mall for more than 2 seconds. It's basically a glance, then they're back on where they're going. Sustained eye contact signals interest or aggression. When a man looks you in the eye at the mall, don't look away if you're looking to score. Give him a slight smile and a nod but a long look lets him know you're on the prowl. Of course if he is aggressive and asks "what the fuck are you looking at?" It easy to play it off by saying you look liked my best friend from elementary school or beter yet, just keep walking. I've never had any mature adult over 25 make an issue over a passing look.
Ok so you have established the look in passing, now what? Easy....try to see where he is going and circle back. You want to "randomly" find yourself in his proximity. Give him the look again and send out the friendly vibe. Smile....if he smiles back at you, you definitely have a nibble so keep looking and show your interest by letting him see you look at his body and pay attention to see if he is looking at yours. Pay attention to make sure his woman isn't too close or his friends aren't hawking him. Be patient, send the vibe but don't be overt.....it requires a lot of instincts and gut feelings but you'll get it when you start doing it.
The perfect signal you can give or get is the "adjustment". If your sharing looks and the guy shifts, scratches, or adjusts his cock/balls, then you've hit gold. Of course, I've noticed a man looking at me and I'll give a little scratch to my crotch area and then give him a friendly smile. If he's still watching and smiles back....he's hooked.
If things have gone well...work yourself to a closer proximity and say "hello or how's it going?" Some inexperienced guys freak out and flake out when the conversation starts.....Don't sweat it and don't get discouraged. It happens...people get cold feet and some guys just want to tease. After a little small talk I'd ask, "you wanna see my SUV, I'm parked right outside?"
The most important thing is you need to do is think ahead and decide how far you're willing to go before you start cruising. For example, if you're sending out the vibe, you're both showing interest, and the guy heads to the bathroom. You need to know if a bathroom encounter is a possibility for you instead of deciding on the spot. If it isn't, go to the bathroom but offer an alternative meeting spot for fun. Nothing is worse than cruising and getting all the way to "action time" and the guy won't do the bathroom, won't do the dressing room, won't walk out to the car, doesn't have any suggestions on where to meet, doesn't know when he can meet in the future, but he says he is really interested in getting together. Do your part....have a hookup spot in mind if you want immediate action. Don't start cruising unless you're ready to suck and/or be sucked. I have an SUV with tinted back seat windows......perfect for getting a quick blow from a hungry guy.
Finally.....if you really want to make a man on man encouter happen....be honest with the guy you're talking to. It's okay to say your nevous or you don't want to give head in return. Most cruising guys are super cool and open to whatever fun you're lookng to have. Be discreet and respect other people's limits and they'll do the same for you. Good luck and happy cruising.....
Please post other tips you may have on hooking up and things you can do to get some action going with another married/closeted guys. If the thread has some interest, I'll post some tips you can use in the restroom to send the vibe and score some cock.
Last edited by Coolhand777 : 01-10-2015 at 01:48 AM.