find some sex on the pay for view on the tv. talk about how horny it is getting you. If you listen and drop a few hints, the conversation will develop if he is thinking the same way. If you wish to get daring, tell a story about jacking off with a buddy on a camping trip and tell him that he offered to suck your cock but you declined, but now wish that you had let him. If the other guy is interested, he will tell you a story about his early years, if he is not..... he will disclose it without coming right out and offering or accepting.
Your mark on this earth has to be something other than the squeal of your tires on the pavement.