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Do they work? does anyone have any experience using them? ive read good things about the ben wa balls, but i wasnt sure how much faith to put in that opinion since it was on a website that sold them.
 
I don't know about Ben Wa Balls, because they make some noise and I'm not into walking around with that happening, yanno?

I do have a string of four latex "pleasure balls."

*mind drifts*

Um, yeah, anyway, Kegel exercises can help a great deal to increase your pleasure and the pleasure of whomever is IN you IMO. I once made my husband come by Kegeling when he was trying to hold back. It wasn't until I let go that his juices could expel.

*mind wanders*

Fury :rose:
 
I have no opinon on Ben Wah balls, but *every* woman should do Kegel exercises- at least 100 a day. Beyond the sexual aspect of things, it's simply an important part of staying healthy, and avoiding issues from aging, childbirth, etc.
 
myinnerslut said:
Do they work? does anyone have any experience using them? ive read good things about the ben wa balls, but i wasnt sure how much faith to put in that opinion since it was on a website that sold them.
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My OB recommended Ben Wa Balls to me after the birth of my second child. My pregnancies were very close together and my body had not had time to heal and 'replace' itself after the first birth before I was doing it all over again. As a result, my bladder was permanently displaced and well ... I had problems with leakage :eek:

I used the balls for a good 6 months. I started with just one .. and trust me, it's NOT easy keeping that heavy sucker inside when you're walking around and gravity is doing it's job. Of course, that is the point. Eventually, I added the second ball. I would usually do a therapy session once or twice a day, about an hour each time.

As for the supposed sexual stimulation they provide, I did not feel that. My use for them was strictly anatomical, but that worked. I think their greatest benefit was in isolating the muscles I needed to tone. Doing your Kegel's is great, but if you don't exactly know which muscles to squeeze, well, it's not really doing the right job. With the balls, you had to tone muscles A & B or the little things would slide right out and down your pants leg *hehehe*.

Ultimately, the balls did not correct my bladder problem and surgery was my only option. However, the toning I did has not gone unappreciated. The 'sexual side effects' of a tight vagina make for one seriously happy man!
 
There is a Kegel instrument that actually measures your squeezes. I have no idea what they sell for.

My cock is pretty sensitive to pressure as well.
 
I have used Ben Wa balls and haven't found this fun or useful...but that's just me.

I have had medical issues resulting in a prolapsed uterus, bladder and rectum. I had a hyst and repair surgery to correct this. After surgery I had a very difficut recovery resulting in total loss of all sexual sensation in the area. Twelve weeks of therapy with a Pelvic Physical Therapist using pelvic feedback technology brought back my ability to orgasm and also she taught me the correct way to do kegels. I do my kegels and other pelvic therapy religiously every day. Doing kegel correctly--both the tightening and relaxation phases of the exercise will increase blood flow and strength to the area increasing sexual sensation and pleasure. It will also decrease the possibility of having surgery like mine. (though in my situation all the kegels in the would wouldn't have proevented it)
 
I've never used ben wa balls, but I do kegal excercises. Frankly I've been doing them before I knew what they were. When I was a little girl I'd stop peeing in the middle of everything, and see how long I could hold it.

On the adverse side - when I'm wearing a tampon and I sneeze, which happens a lot, I squeeze the damn things outta me. :mad:
 
I've never used them, but It's been suggested to be that I try these things called smartballs. They are like ben wa balls, but I think they're silicone and I've heard they don't make as much noise, so you can wear them in public. I've also heard that they feel really good.
 
Nameless_Rose said:
I've never used them, but It's been suggested to be that I try these things called smartballs. They are like ben wa balls, but I think they're silicone and I've heard they don't make as much noise, so you can wear them in public. I've also heard that they feel really good.
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I had a girl use Smartballs. She thought the best part was inserting them and pulling them out -- didn't get much stimulation while they were inside.
 
Nameless_Rose said:
I've never used them, but It's been suggested to be that I try these things called smartballs. They are like ben wa balls, but I think they're silicone and I've heard they don't make as much noise, so you can wear them in public. I've also heard that they feel really good.
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You know, I used to think that ben was were too loud to wear out, then I started buying them. I've got quite a little collection now, and I haven't found a pair where they were so loud any one else could hear them unles we were in an absolutely quiet place.
 
ive only worn mine in public once (at A's command, not one of my own ideas). i thought they were really loud, but they may have just been becuasei was so afraid of anyone hearing.
 
I wear my ben wa balls almost daily, at the office. I have two pairs- one metal, the size of regular marbles, but heavy... the other set are made of glass, and larger than a regular marble, and not as heavy. If I'm feeling 'not quite on my game', I wear the larger ones.. if I'm feeling ready to go, I wear the smaller.

I fricking LOVE those balls... the excitement is knowing that they're there, which makes me wet, which makes the balls slippery, which makes them harder to hold onto... so I clench even harder... but there comes a point where I clench enough that I have an orgasm... which makes the balls even more slick.... and it becomes a self-perpetuating cycle.

My partner is rather well-endowed... and since the day we started going together, I have gotten tighter and tighter because of the balls. After all these years of fucking a large cock, I'm tighter than I was when I met him.
 
I have been doing Kegel exercises for a few years. They're good for you and also really fun to do while I'm at work at the call center. Makes me feel naughty and gives me a little lift ... so to speak. I've never noticed that they've made any real difference in my tightness but I like to think of them as a preventative measure.

I do have a pair of balls called pearls. They have the heavier ball inside of a hard outer casing so the ball can vibrate and rattle against it. They are a little loud, although I'm probably the only one who hears them for what they are. But boy, they sure do make a motorcycle ride ten times as fun ...
 
FurryFury said:
I don't know about Ben Wa Balls, because they make some noise and I'm not into walking around with that happening, yanno?

I do have a string of four latex "pleasure balls."

*mind drifts*

Um, yeah, anyway, Kegel exercises can help a great deal to increase your pleasure and the pleasure of whomever is IN you IMO. I once made my husband come by Kegeling when he was trying to hold back. It wasn't until I let go that his juices could expel.

*mind wanders*

Fury :rose:
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Forgetaboutit!
 
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Emmalee said:
I have been doing Kegel exercises for a few years. They're good for you and also really fun to do while I'm at work at the call center. Makes me feel naughty and gives me a little lift ... so to speak. I've never noticed that they've made any real difference in my tightness but I like to think of them as a preventative measure.

I do have a pair of balls called pearls. They have the heavier ball inside of a hard outer casing so the ball can vibrate and rattle against it. They are a little loud, although I'm probably the only one who hears them for what they are. But boy, they sure do make a motorcycle ride ten times as fun ...
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Forgetaboutit!
 
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I once made my husband come by Kegeling when he was trying to hold back. It wasn't until I let go that his juices could expel
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My Goddess does that to me - like many of the women in this thread, she has done them since forever and as a result you'd never know she's given birth twice. She's by far the tightest, best-controlled woman I've ever been with. We swing occasionally, and I'm always surprised by the women we meet who don't do them. Frankly, one or two of them should - I'm kind of well-endowed and THEY love me, even if I don't really enjoy them as much. :rolleyes:
 
OMG, keep up the good work ladies, I know there are guys out there who appreciate your efforts.
 
I may have posted this somewhere before but I'll risk it.

Long ago I had a rather fresh A & P professor who told his classroom full of aspiring nurses that it we imagined we were holding a pen with out vagina and wrote out the alphabet 10 times daily we would have a great "pelvic floor" not to mention a tight pussy.
 
I could just stick my cock in and we could play "guess that tune" with your squeezes.
 
Sounds like fun...pun intended.

Where do I apply? Pun intended.

WriterDom said:
I could just stick my cock in and we could play "guess that tune" with your squeezes.
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QUOTE=Blushing Bottom;23388299]I may have posted this somewhere before but I'll risk it.

Long ago I had a rather fresh A & P professor who told his classroom full of aspiring nurses that it we imagined we were holding a pen with out vagina and wrote out the alphabet 10 times daily we would have a great "pelvic floor" not to mention a tight pussy.[/QUOTE]

That's a really good idea, kind of takes the stress away of 'am i doing this right?'
I had a lecturer that used to tell us when we asked to go to the bathroom to hold it and that we'd be greatful :rolleyes:
 
My mother explained to me how to do Kegel exercises when I was 13, I have been doing them ever since, I'm 51 now and.... well..and...well...um you can only imagine the pussy control I have. Thanks MOM! Ben wa balls are great! In my experience, the tiny clacking noise they sometimes make is all part of the fun and or humiliation of wearing them.

I mean hey.. if someone hears them what are they gonna do? Walk up to you and ask you if ben-wall balls are making that sound? They gonna call the cops on you, have you arrested? Tell your boss on you "Hey I think so&so is wearing ben-wall balls! She should be fired for this!" I don't think sooooooo.
 
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