So, I have tried fisting my girl now twice, and both times it has gone extremely well, I think. Though I am not completely satisfied with the results, mostly my own performance, as it were. I have read quite a bit on the topic, both here and on other boards, but I have not quite found what I was seeking. So I thought I would ask for a bit of advice to polish my technique.
She has enjoyed it tremendously, coming almost ridiculously hard and many, many times. From my point of view, it is absolutely inspiring, the level of control I have over her, and the trust she places in me. Simply amazing. Both times it was definitely an incredible experience for us both.
I have very easily inserted all four of my fingers and my thumb, and to a substantial depth. The second time was better than the first, as I wore a latex glove, and that certainly eased the entrance, though I was not entirely pleased with my own loss of sensation. I was able to penetrate well past my knuckles both times, and the second time I managed to get past the last obstacle of my thumb knuckle as well. My thumb knuckle was pressing on her pelvic bone right above her opening, somewhat painfully until I found a better angle and was able to slip past.
So what is the difficulty, you may ask? It seems everything has gone perfectly from my description thus far, and with much better results than many experience. My problem is that I am unable to actually close my hand into a fist. I lay my thumb against my palm, and my fingers curl over somewhat. But every time I try to close my hand fully, I feel as if I am grabbing and pulling tissue dramatically, and she experiences some pain. The second time especially, I was rubbing against her cervix, and feeling as if I was catching it in my fingers, as well as pulling and tugging at her inner tissue.
She simply does not have the depth to accommodate me to the wrist without me being able to actually close my hand. But I just cannot get my hand to close, I feel there is not enough room and I am afraid of tearing something that probably should not be torn. And even just keeping my hand as is at the depth I achieved last night caused her more pain than it was worth. Granted she came unbelievably hard, but my fingers were also pressing painfully against her cervix, so it was a bittersweet pleasure. Not that I am against pain, by any means. But this was not intentional or appropriate.
So, anyone have any advice on how I can actually get my hand closed all the way, so I can actually penetrate a little farther? We are without a doubt going to try this again, practice makes perfect, after all. And the sex afterward, simply indescribable. But I would like to be able to close my hand, as I think that would change the feel and make an already wonderful experience even better.
Any thoughts, ideas, suggestions, or comments are welcome. This is my first real post here, though I have been lurking and reading for a bit. I discovered Literotica quite some time ago, though I never read regularly, until recently. My wonderful girl, who is a regular around these parts, brought me back. Though she shall remain nameless for now.
It is a fantastic community, and I am continually impressed by the level of intelligence I find in most of the posts. Hence why I am posting my request for assistance here rather than elsewhere.
Thank you in advance. 'Til later, peace.
~ Edited because I found a typo. ::growls:: I hate typos.
She has enjoyed it tremendously, coming almost ridiculously hard and many, many times. From my point of view, it is absolutely inspiring, the level of control I have over her, and the trust she places in me. Simply amazing. Both times it was definitely an incredible experience for us both.
I have very easily inserted all four of my fingers and my thumb, and to a substantial depth. The second time was better than the first, as I wore a latex glove, and that certainly eased the entrance, though I was not entirely pleased with my own loss of sensation. I was able to penetrate well past my knuckles both times, and the second time I managed to get past the last obstacle of my thumb knuckle as well. My thumb knuckle was pressing on her pelvic bone right above her opening, somewhat painfully until I found a better angle and was able to slip past.
So what is the difficulty, you may ask? It seems everything has gone perfectly from my description thus far, and with much better results than many experience. My problem is that I am unable to actually close my hand into a fist. I lay my thumb against my palm, and my fingers curl over somewhat. But every time I try to close my hand fully, I feel as if I am grabbing and pulling tissue dramatically, and she experiences some pain. The second time especially, I was rubbing against her cervix, and feeling as if I was catching it in my fingers, as well as pulling and tugging at her inner tissue.
She simply does not have the depth to accommodate me to the wrist without me being able to actually close my hand. But I just cannot get my hand to close, I feel there is not enough room and I am afraid of tearing something that probably should not be torn. And even just keeping my hand as is at the depth I achieved last night caused her more pain than it was worth. Granted she came unbelievably hard, but my fingers were also pressing painfully against her cervix, so it was a bittersweet pleasure. Not that I am against pain, by any means. But this was not intentional or appropriate.
So, anyone have any advice on how I can actually get my hand closed all the way, so I can actually penetrate a little farther? We are without a doubt going to try this again, practice makes perfect, after all. And the sex afterward, simply indescribable. But I would like to be able to close my hand, as I think that would change the feel and make an already wonderful experience even better.
Any thoughts, ideas, suggestions, or comments are welcome. This is my first real post here, though I have been lurking and reading for a bit. I discovered Literotica quite some time ago, though I never read regularly, until recently. My wonderful girl, who is a regular around these parts, brought me back. Though she shall remain nameless for now.
It is a fantastic community, and I am continually impressed by the level of intelligence I find in most of the posts. Hence why I am posting my request for assistance here rather than elsewhere.Thank you in advance. 'Til later, peace.
~ Edited because I found a typo. ::growls:: I hate typos.
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We have been together several times since I fisted her and she doesn't seem "loose" but she and I want to know before we go further and more often... 
