Butt plugs:

[neonflux]

This helps me to make sense of it - thank you

I'm still not sure this will ever be my cup of tea, but also being an exhibitionist, I might like doing the same at the PE (Naughty, naughty me - think I need a spanking...)

Neon

P.S., pics please

Originally Posted by Shankara20

"behind them" hee hee

I have been playing with my butt for many years. Once I got past the social hang-up I had picked-up I found a wonderful playground. Now there are times my butt is hungry, just plain and simple “hungry” Most if the time it wants to be ravished, then I pull out the “big boys” and have at. Other times it just wants a little “something” just a little attention. A butt plug gives that little something and when worn while out and about there is the added “I have a secret in my undies” thing going on. And my “big boys” won’t stay where I put them, so a plug does the trick.

They can also be directed to be worn so the bottom has to struggle with the “full” feeling and the natural urges that come with that. While in training to take a fist I worn a butt plug to get accustomed to the “full” feeling and learning how to control the urge to try to void – sorta like overcoming the gag reflex so one can deep throat.

I have a ponytail butt plug and love the feeling of the slight weight and movement it gives while I’m walking around. I also like the visual it gave while I walked around Power Exchange naked and the “tourists” saw me – I am an exhibitionist slut after all.

That is the short overview of my relationships with my butt plugs. Pics can be posted at my Sneak-a-peak thread on request hee hee

[christian1971]

Sorry for misunderstanding.

I also would or can't wear mine out in fear of it falling out or someone noticing also like you said in your post. Same for my friend she and just wear them from time to time with sex and around the house.

Maybe for the other it's the high of the maybe thing? Like a turn on that someone mite know or see what they have.

I know that sometimes just a cough or a sneeze and at least with mine came shoting out. If someone else could explain then it would help?

[Shankara20]

Originally Posted by christian1971

I know that sometimes just a cough or a sneeze and at least with mine came shoting out. If someone else could explain then it would help?

The mouth to the anus is what is called the Alimentary Canal – it is one long tube. A cough will make the anus flex. In time you can gain some control over it.

If your butt plug is falling out I suggest you get something larger. I started out with small plugs myself and got fed up with them coming out, so I went larger. And am glad I did.

[Shankara20]

Originally Posted by neonflux

This helps me to make sense of it - thank you

I'm still not sure this will ever be my cup of tea, but also being an exhibitionist, I might like doing the same at the PE (Naughty, naughty me - think I need a spanking...)

Neon

P.S., pics please

Lets start a PE story thread!!!!

Give me a few days and I just might do that.

I'll put some of my "up mine" pics on the thread soon.

[neonflux]

Originally Posted by Shankara20

Lets start a PE story thread!!!!

Give me a few days and I just might do that.

I'll put some of my "up mine" pics on the thread soon.

A PE story thread - ohhhhhhhhhh (am i willing to contribute??? or am I too embarrassed)
he he he...

[Shankara20]

Originally Posted by neonflux

A PE story thread - ohhhhhhhhhh (am i willing to contribute??? or am I too embarrassed)
he he he...

well, are you? hee hee

here is the place

[christian1971]

Originally Posted by Shankara20

The mouth to the anus is what is called the Alimentary Canal – it is one long tube. A cough will make the anus flex. In time you can gain some control over it.

If your butt plug is falling out I suggest you get something larger. I started out with small plugs myself and got fed up with them coming out, so I went larger. And am glad I did.

I already have a large not sure I can take a larger one? I know from reading in this site and on some of the toy sites. Plus the adult shop I go to that is what they have is what I get, what is the largest or what would be the next step after the large?

The Adult shop (expressions) That I go to doesn't even have a website? And all 3 locations really don't carry much toys mostly DVD's.

[Shankara20]

Originally Posted by christian1971

I already have a large not sure I can take a larger one? I know from reading in this site and on some of the toy sites. Plus the adult shop I go to that is what they have is what I get, what is the largest or what would be the next step after the large?

The Adult shop (expressions) That I go to doesn't even have a website? And all 3 locations really don't carry much toys mostly DVD's.

Mr S Leather, link has a huge selection of very very very, oh-my-fucken-god- big ass toys. Have a look around their web site.

When I started out with butt plugs I had similar it-slips-out problems. There are harnesses you can find on-line that will keep a plug in place. You can practice with make-it-yourself rope harnesses. You can try using a little less lube. Don't give up, and spend some time doing on-line searches to see what is available. The porn shops in most small town have lousy selections IMHO

[anne30]

Originally Posted by neonflux

.... I really would like to understand what is behind wearing them ....

It's a very pleasurable feeling ...
and I don't think its something bad I do,
even when I'm wearing it out in public.

[neonflux]

Originally Posted by Shankara20

well, are you? hee hee

here is the place

I did more a bdsm than sex story but promise to add a sex story later

[neonflux]

Originally Posted by anne30

It's a very pleasurable feeling ...
and I don't think its something bad I do,
even when I'm wearing it out in public.

Sorry if my post seemed judgmental - I absolutely don't think of it as something bad! Just don't quite get it - have always figured it's because I don't have a prostate but a lot of women enjoy it, too. So is it that feeling of fullness that Shank talks about that you like, or the idea that others don't know you've got a secret, or...

BTW, your photo, which I think I've seen before, made my heart skip a beat

[Sean Burns]

Originally Posted by anne30

That's fiction, but funny to think about ...
when we travel toys are always into a suitcase.
There is many better and more exciting moments to wear it.

try
www.extremerestraints.com

Hope you like the way I do ...

HOLY SMOKES, those are hot! Are they of you?

[christian1971]

Since we all have a different opinion on the different sizes, styles, shapes and what there made of? Why not post what ones you have and describe them to us, maybe what you have mite inspire others to do the same.

Mine are:

Medium - Doc Johnson - skin color 5" - 6" long, 1.5" - 2" wide
Large - Doc Johnson - Skin color 5" - 6" long, 2" - 2.5" wide


I know small maybe to some others here but I have different larger toy. Like I said above my adult shop has lots of toys and DVD's but mainly sticks to the not to hardcore toys.

[Shankara20]

Originally Posted by christian1971

....Why not post what ones you have .....

mine -

(click pics to see larger photo)

link & link to some in use....

[christian1971]

Ok here are my Toys:

Medium Butt plug
Large Butt plug
Dildo
Prostate vib
Cuffs
Cock ring
Whip

[Netzach]

Originally Posted by neonflux

(he he he)

P.S., I really would like to understand what is behind wearing them, besides a lot of them being pretty or fun (like those with "pony tails" or peacock feathers)... I like anal sex, but don't understand the attraction to butt plugs, particularly not wearing them around during the day. not being judgmental at all, just wondering what folks get out of wearing them...

I like the humiliation factor in the occasional foray into polite society with a plug in my boy, but really, for me, it's all about taking a tight-sphinctered alpha type and watching him practically break the window or get a black eye when he gets off with the vibrating one in.

[Chicago69]

Originally Posted by Shankara20

mine -


(click pics to see larger photo)



link & link to some in use....

Now that's one hell of a toy collection.

[christian1971]

I just want to ask all what is your lube preference? I know that while doing anal that only water based should be used but what water based lube do you like the best. I use one called H20 it work very good have no problems with it, just wondering if there is one that you prefer over the other.

[Shankara20]

Originally Posted by christian1971

I just want to ask all what is your lube preference? I know that while doing anal that only water based should be used but what water based lube do you like the best. I use one called H20 it work very good have no problems with it, just wondering if there is one that you prefer over the other.

As I like large butt toys I was looking for something that stays very slick for a long time - I like Probe for that reason. It is a little messy but it sure helps the big boys slide in....

[christian1971]

Sorry in advance for this.

But after all the fun is over the Butt plugs or just anal play, does anyone have a blowed feeling? Or does there bowel movement are a little more foul then usual?

[Shankara20]

Originally Posted by christian1971

Sorry in advance for this.

But after all the fun is over the Butt plugs or just anal play, does anyone have a blowed feeling? Or does there bowel movement are a little more foul then usual?

Sorry, I don't understand your question. Please repost it and give it a proof read before sending.

thanks

[christian1971]

Originally Posted by christian1971

Sorry in advance for this.

But after all the fun is over the Butt plugs or just anal play, does anyone have a blowed feeling? Or does there bowel movement are a little more foul then usual?

Sorry its just a little embarassing also to try to explan this. Its just that I notice it more when her and I play that these things accur?

I guess what I am asking is, that after anal sex with a butt plug or any other anal sex. Do you feel bloated. And when you pass gas or doing a bowel movement is the smell more pungent. I seem to notice sometimes that after our fun that sometimes I feel more blowed not sure if its just that since its anal and maybe with the movement and air that I feel this way?

[Shankara20]

Originally Posted by christian1971

Sorry its just a little embarassing also to try to explan this. Its just that I notice it more when her and I play that these things accur?

I guess what I am asking is, that after anal sex with a butt plug or any other anal sex. Do you feel blowed. And when you pass gas or doing a bowel movement is the smell more pungent. I seem to notice sometimes that after our fun that sometimes I feel more blowed not sure if its just that since its anal and maybe with the movement and air that I feel this way?

I don't know the term "blowed". However from what else you posted I can say that for me I do have a day or so where extra air and lube must be dealt with when going to the bathroom - and sometimes when I think I have only a little "gas to pass" I must remember that some lube is coming as well so it is off to the restroom I go. I have not noticed a change in the smell.

[christian1971]

I know its not the the best pic or to some as lovely as the other pics. But here are my butt plugs in action, if anyone else wants to post your welcomed to do so.

[tiez]

I had a small butt plug for myself and never had a problem with it. I had a medium one for a while that the wife used on occasion, but I never did.

Then I started getting interested in anal play for myself and I got my own medium sized one. I worked at it for some time before I was able to get that thing in. It took several sessions on my own to finally get it in. After that, a good friend sent me a dildo to go another step larger and it just slid right in. I suppose that having used the plug as much as I did opened me up for it. I've worn the plug for upwards of two hours, including an evening at work (before I called and begged to let it come out!) and some lawn mowing while on the riding mower. Let me tell ya, THAT will make you want to get a roller to smooth out your lawn!

At one point, I was able to literally fuck myself with the plug, I had it sliding in and out so easily.

Since then I've moved up a little in the realm of anal play, but took a break for several months and the last time I tried to get the plug in and wasn't able to. But perhaps I wasn't focusing properly.

I also have another friend that I've had wear her plug at length sometimes. She has never had a problem with it, but once while receiving a flogging, it just popped right out of her and onto the ground.

I've always found that the plug makes me feel submissive and also makes me feel full down there. It stimulates my prostate and will often result in my cock leaking a lot while the plug is in, especially if it's being moved about.

I think they're anexcellent addition to sexual play and are yet another thing that couples can share. They also serve as a training aid - toward larger and better things, like strap-ons, dildos and the like. After all, despite the stories, the big bad domme doesn't actually get to just take the 12" monster dildo and fuck the slave with it on his first time...

One thing I find with the plugs is that the narrow part, the one that sits in the sphincter, is often not long enough for comfort. If that narrow neck were more narrow, it'd be much easier for me to wear a plug for longer periods. I've seen some of the anal toys (rosettes) that appear to have a longer neck on them, perhaps those would be more comfortable for longer term wear.

This is a fun thread.