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Old 08-27-2006, 01:36 AM   #1
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100 posts and a How To on Squirting

I know, like myself there are a number of women here who can and do squirt. From the PM's I would say there are also a good number of men who are very thrilled to see this and/or take part.

What I'd like to do is have an ongoing thread for advice, recomendations, frank and open discussions and other real honest talk on female ejaculation.

So bring your questions, comments and whatever else you wish and lets get some good discussion going!


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Men, if you guys have anything to add on your own brand of squirting, how to's for distance, length of time etc. Please feel free to bring them in as well.

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Old 08-27-2006, 01:53 AM   #2
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Congrats on making it to 100!

Have you checked out Mr. GGG's "Try This and Report Back" thread, and the others on squirting? Perhaps those could help define some of the things that haven't already been covered in-depth.

The standard advisories are always good to start off with, too:

1) Porn isn't real, and don't expect things in RL to happen like they do in porn.

2) Not every woman can or wants to squirt, and there's absolutely nothing wrong with, or deficient in, those women or their partners.

3) Female ejaculation can take a lot of experimentation, practice and time.

4) Most squirting is spontaneous/unexpected, not a fuction of effort or desire to do so.

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Old 08-27-2006, 02:17 AM   #3
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Congrats on making it to 100!

Have you checked out Mr. GGG's "Try This and Report Back" thread, and the others on squirting? Perhaps those could help define some of the things that haven't already been covered in-depth.

The standard advisories are always good to start off with, too:

1) Porn isn't real, and don't expect things in RL to happen like they do in porn.

2) Not every woman can or wants to squirt, and there's absolutely nothing wrong with, or deficient in, those women or their partners.

3) Female ejaculation can take a lot of experimentation, practice and time.

4) Most squirting is spontaneous/unexpected, not a fuction of effort or desire to do so.


As I am begining to learn, SE youare always the good one for a gracious and intelligent post. Thanks for chiming in and I will be reading up on those other posts!

Great points above as well. Exactly the sort of thing I was hoping would come about from this.
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Old 08-27-2006, 02:39 AM   #4
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I, too, am squirtastic and sometimes gushtastic. I enjoy it, it's messy, it's fun, etc., etc..

What nags me, if only a little, is the struggle some have accepting the stuff as self-made lemonade.

True, at least for me, it doesn't smell or taste like typical pee. And, afterwards, when I go potty the liquid is a milky yellow color. Still, I'd say that it's only a strangely delightful combo of urine and vaginal fluid.

What is it if not pee and from whence does it spring?

I've heard the pro-girl-semen arguments, which say its comparable to semen. I wouldn't be opposed to the idea even if it does seem a bit far-fetched and unnecessary. Nonetheless, I certainly wouldn't stop letting it flow if I discovered it to be only the yellow, bitter, waste water.


I'll look forward to other responses to this thread.



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Old 08-27-2006, 03:00 AM   #5
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I enjoy Female Masturbation more than sex...I understand that is very hard to believe, but it is true. And squirting is one of the greatest experiences of it!

I have made my ex squirt many times, I really don't know how to explain it though, in the form of a walkthrough or guide. I have never tried with another woman so I don't know if it is different for all ladies or if its the same.

But when we wanted to make her squirt we usually got about a cup of fluids, oh its just great! I can't even express my love for this subject!
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I, too, am squirtastic and sometimes gushtastic. I enjoy it, it's messy, it's fun, etc., etc..

What nags me, if only a little, is the struggle some have accepting the stuff as self-made lemonade.

True, at least for me, it doesn't smell or taste like typical pee. And, afterwards, when I go potty the liquid is a milky yellow color. Still, I'd say that it's only a strangely delightful combo of urine and vaginal fluid.

What is it if not pee and from whence does it spring?

I've heard the pro-girl-semen arguments, which say its comparable to semen. I wouldn't be opposed to the idea even if it does seem a bit far-fetched and unnecessary. Nonetheless, I certainly wouldn't stop letting it flow if I discovered it to be only the yellow, bitter, waste water.


I'll look forward to other responses to this thread.



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I find it extremely odd that no one has done real conclusive studies on this. Has there never been a sexually experimental chemistry student? Have no biology coeds ever gushed? The most people can seem to say is that "It isn't urine...or maybe it is."

Most articles that I have read have stated a consistency similar to urine but differing in carrying some of the same proteins and enzymes in male ejaculate. This has been theorized to be related to the G-spot performing a similar function as the Prostate in men. If this is the case well..the world of our sensualities just got a wee bit smaller. No pun intended.

Wikipedia had this to say, I link it only because it is parrots much of what else I have found and read on the subject. Squirting

As for my own experiences, as discuss in other threads I have not noticed a urine taste or odor in the fluid, it seems a bit thicker and more viscous (Is that the right word? I always think motor oil when I use it.) then urine. It lacks the acrid ammonia I associate with going to the bathroom as well.

Perhaps it is a combination of different fluids in the body, if such is the case then the break down of male ejaculate might be similarly composed.

Who knows? Maybe this will spurr some bright science student to really find out what is going on down there.
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Old 08-28-2006, 09:05 PM   #7
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. . .Who knows? Maybe this will spurr some bright science student to really find out what is going on down there.
That would be awesome.

Come on, chem. students. Nothing wrong with a little self-experimentation.

Do it for yourselves, do it for the squirters all over the world!



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Old 08-29-2006, 10:52 PM   #8
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Oh - I have done this many times - and in many quantities. For me, it is always clear - no smell or color associated with it.
My ex-lover and I completely soaked a king sized bed when I went to visit him one time. He didn't even do anything special - actually, quite the opposite.... very "normal". It was just the excitement of it all that got me.

But - it was a massive amount.... Felt incredible
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Thrughout my TRY THIS thread I have posted published research from some of the world's most well established sexperts.

Whipple sez there is one but fails to discover WHY it exists in the first place and thereby missing not only the boat but the whole damn harbor when it comes to figuring out what to do and how to stimulate it PROPERLY.

HINES flat out sez it doesn't exist. Likens it to the search for the Yetti and ridicules actual research on anything so obviously mythilogical in nature.

The latest ACTUAL research on the GSPOT was done in '97 or '99 and involved the willing if not eager participation of 13 CADAVERS. D'azright, kiddies. They carved on dead chicks only to discover for once and for all that THE so called G SPOT DOES NOT EXIST.

Don't apy a lot of attention to the REAL RESEARCH out there. It either doesn't exist or they are looking in the wrong spot so whatever they come up with sounds idiotic to ANYBODY who has ever done the TECHNIQUE (or similar) and found that it works. I feel sorry for people who buy books and read the latest real research because half way through the first chapter they'll give up and go back to what they were doing before, confident in the FACT that all thsi crap about GSpots and orgasms is just that. CRAP!

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Thrughout my TRY THIS thread I have posted published research from some of the world's most well established sexperts.

Whipple sez there is one but fails to discover WHY it exists in the first place and thereby missing not only the boat but the whole damn harbor when it comes to figuring out what to do and how to stimulate it PROPERLY.

HINES flat out sez it doesn't exist. Likens it to the search for the Yetti and ridicules actual research on anything so obviously mythilogical in nature.

The latest ACTUAL research on the GSPOT was done in '97 or '99 and involved the willing if not eager participation of 13 CADAVERS. D'azright, kiddies. They carved on dead chicks only to discover for once and for all that THE so called G SPOT DOES NOT EXIST.

Don't apy a lot of attention to the REAL RESEARCH out there. It either doesn't exist or they are looking in the wrong spot so whatever they come up with sounds idiotic to ANYBODY who has ever done the TECHNIQUE (or similar) and found that it works. I feel sorry for people who buy books and read the latest real research because half way through the first chapter they'll give up and go back to what they were doing before, confident in the FACT that all thsi crap about GSpots and orgasms is just that. CRAP!

SAD.

and welcum to the discussion l'ill


Thanks for the welcome and the input! I appreciate all the great words of advice, encouragment and inclusion that have been offered. And sadly you are absolutley right, these are the same men who think that female orgasms in general are a myth. Is it any wonder that women are affraid of this subject? If scientists can turn an acidental heart medicine back fire into Viagra..why not take a lil look at the genetalia that it's going to be working with.

I am willing to do my own study! That's right. From here on out I will be studying my own ograsms and write some sort of bullshit paper on it! Perhaps I'll prove the theroy, pardon the pun, holds water.
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I fully agree with the people who believe that there is a G-Spot and in female ejaculation.

When I die I will offer my body to science and request that someone try to find the most complex of human organs.....the mind!!
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I am willing to do my own study! That's right. From here on out I will be studying my own ograsms and write some sort of bullshit paper on it! Perhaps I'll prove the theroy, pardon the pun, holds water.
One of the problems is that most researchers who get FUNDED with grants to study anything are men. Why would they even care about female orgasm?

Orgasms in Males is quite different and well documented because of the physical/anatomical differences. Female Orgasms are a much more difficult study. You can have a clitoral "O" or a deep Vaginal "O" or... so I need to go on? That's a lot different than blood swelling up a cock and spitting cum (seminal fluid mixed with prostate secretions) out the urethra.

Then we get to squirting and you have a whole 'nother dimension yet.

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Old 08-30-2006, 12:58 AM   #13
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One of the problems is that most researchers who get FUNDED with grants to study anything are men. Why would they even care about female orgasm?

Orgasms in Males is quite different and well documented because of the physical/anatomical differences. Female Orgasms are a much more difficult study. You can have a clitoral "O" or a deep Vaginal "O" or... so I need to go on? That's a lot different than blood swelling up a cock and spitting cum (seminal fluid mixed with prostate secretions) out the urethra.

Then we get to squirting and you have a whole 'nother dimension yet.

Welcum to Lit, BTW, Squirt

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Thanks Jenny!
And yes I am all too well aquainted with the male medical agenda and how often female issues are over looked. My doctor truamatized me when I asked about squirting as a girl and was told it was likley bladder control issues.

With the advent of nre technologies I would think there would be bound to be some health benefit to studying the sexual peak in a woman. If only to give them the chace to make it more potent and/or achievable in any form. I would be willing to bet that ment the world over would be thrilled to know better ways or means of pleasing their partners. Unless we are turly that puritanical as a planet to think that sexual pleasure should be restricted to males.
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Damn, I was hoping there would be pics on this topic by now.

A few have posted the standard anatomical side view on my thread. One even had the GSpot positioned on the wrong side of the vagina so I'm sure that was a big help to the couples out there who wanted to go where no man has gone before.

The GSpot IS a difficult thing to study. No doubt about that but certainly no bigger challenge than watching an epileptic seizure happen or deterimining the functioning efficiency of a liver by simply looking at blood enzymes. The problem with G's is that they are elusive. They don't jump up and wave at ya. The woman has to be in a certain physical and mental state before anything happens. When it does happen - the vaso-congestive activity in the area which causes it to swell then the "researchers" have to know what to do with it. They don't.

Getting a woody for science must be a bitch unless you're an exhibitionist or a trained porn star but what happens to us is all or mostly exterior. Because the woman's is all interior it has remained the stuff of legend which is so silly. All I did was add 2+2 and it seemed obvious WHY the nerve clumps were positioned there, why they acted the way they did and more importantly what was the correct way to stimulate them to orgasm. A few researchers HAVE documented in a very few women what APPEARS to be orgasmic activity repeating more than 100 times but the OTHER researchers who haven't observed this mostly as a function of their own incompetence dispute the claims. They say those women are FREAKS and what they are doing to make themselves cum over and over has nothing to do with "normal" sexual activity. Their summations generally ignore the "freaks" and make claims that it just doesn't happen like that so there is NO evidence of GSpot orgasms let alone the ability to keep that puppy barking 'till the cows come home.

That is why research in HERE is so important. Nearly 270,000 individual reads on my thread now so that's half a million plus people who at least have given this technique a shot at working. A lot more than most of the negative research has accomplished. Dr. G would be proud of ya'll.

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i am here to say that it exists!!!! The only person to EVER make me squirt is my husband. no one else has ever made me do this. I discovered my squirting ability when i was in my early 20's and newly married to him, and 7 months pregnant. I got si scared taht my water had broken prematurely, and called my Dr immediately and told her what happened. she asked if more fluid was leaking out, i told her no, and then she explained that when certain areas in the vagina get stimulted, they tend to cause squirting. I was releived at her explaination that i wasn't going into premature labor. it continued to happen occasionaly as time went on, but now that I'm older (early 30's) it's happening more regularly. My husband has decided that we have to make love on my side of the bed should it happen so his side of the bed doesn't get wet, and we keep towels nearby.I rarely squirt during masturbation, but it's become more frequent during sex. I wonder if the number of kids i've had can corellate to the frequency of this phenomenon.another thing to discuss with my Dr at my annual exam!
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i am here to say that it exists!!!! The only person to EVER make me squirt is my husband. no one else has ever made me do this. I discovered my squirting ability when i was in my early 20's and newly married to him, and 7 months pregnant. I got si scared taht my water had broken prematurely, and called my Dr immediately and told her what happened. she asked if more fluid was leaking out, i told her no, and then she explained that when certain areas in the vagina get stimulted, they tend to cause squirting. I was releived at her explaination that i wasn't going into premature labor. it continued to happen occasionaly as time went on, but now that I'm older (early 30's) it's happening more regularly. My husband has decided that we have to make love on my side of the bed should it happen so his side of the bed doesn't get wet, and we keep towels nearby.I rarely squirt during masturbation, but it's become more frequent during sex. I wonder if the number of kids i've had can corellate to the frequency of this phenomenon.another thing to discuss with my Dr at my annual exam!

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My spouse squirts every time, but it requires a particular technique. There has to be constant clitoral rubbing, by hand or tongue, and shallow penetration of the vagina, just stretching the first inch or so. During deeper penetration, that's good for making her reach an orgasm, but she can't squirt, says she feels "plugged up."

She says that she has the orgasm, that's the peak of her pleasure (which has the usual contraction of the vagina her sexual partner can feel), but the "release" the "aaaaaah" comes from the squirting. She says it's just like how for a man there's the peak of his pleasure, then the feeling of release after ejaculation.

Other women I've been with, about fifteen or them, have not squirted like this, though there's usually a real flood of lubrication at the time of orgasm. But nothing before that defies gravity like a little fountain

The fluid seems to me to be urine, smelling and tasting like it, with a slight yellowish tinge. This would correspond with her not being able to squirt while "plugged", since many women cannot urinate while penetrated. She says it's different, and since she never deliberately urinates around me, I can't compare. What it actually is I have no idea, and don't care. I don't bring up my thinking it's probably urine because that'd probably embrass her and put her off squirting; and without her squirting, she'd probably not want to have sex at all. Me, I don't care. It's entirely harmless either way, and makes her feel good.

In the end, it feels good for her, and lets me know I've done a good job of pleasing my woman, so I'm happy with that
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My spouse squirts every time, but it requires a particular technique. There has to be constant clitoral rubbing, by hand or tongue, and shallow penetration of the vagina, just stretching the first inch or so. During deeper penetration, that's good for making her reach an orgasm, but she can't squirt, says she feels "plugged up."

She says that she has the orgasm, that's the peak of her pleasure (which has the usual contraction of the vagina her sexual partner can feel), but the "release" the "aaaaaah" comes from the squirting. She says it's just like how for a man there's the peak of his pleasure, then the feeling of release after ejaculation.

Other women I've been with, about fifteen or them, have not squirted like this, though there's usually a real flood of lubrication at the time of orgasm. But nothing before that defies gravity like a little fountain

The fluid seems to me to be urine, smelling and tasting like it, with a slight yellowish tinge. This would correspond with her not being able to squirt while "plugged", since many women cannot urinate while penetrated. She says it's different, and since she never deliberately urinates around me, I can't compare. What it actually is I have no idea, and don't care. I don't bring up my thinking it's probably urine because that'd probably embrass her and put her off squirting; and without her squirting, she'd probably not want to have sex at all. Me, I don't care. It's entirely harmless either way, and makes her feel good.

In the end, it feels good for her, and lets me know I've done a good job of pleasing my woman, so I'm happy with that

Well said! And indeed there could be some bit of her ejaculate that is composed of urine mixed with other bodily fluids, but at any rate you have found a way to give her that sort of pleasure. I commend you on your open mindedness as well as your loving and giving attitude toward sex!
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My spouse squirts every time, but it requires a particular technique. There has to be constant clitoral rubbing, by hand or tongue, and shallow penetration of the vagina, just stretching the first inch or so. During deeper penetration, that's good for making her reach an orgasm, but she can't squirt, says she feels "plugged up."

She says that she has the orgasm, that's the peak of her pleasure (which has the usual contraction of the vagina her sexual partner can feel), but the "release" the "aaaaaah" comes from the squirting. She says it's just like how for a man there's the peak of his pleasure, then the feeling of release after ejaculation.

Other women I've been with, about fifteen or them, have not squirted like this, though there's usually a real flood of lubrication at the time of orgasm. But nothing before that defies gravity like a little fountain

The fluid seems to me to be urine, smelling and tasting like it, with a slight yellowish tinge. This would correspond with her not being able to squirt while "plugged", since many women cannot urinate while penetrated. She says it's different, and since she never deliberately urinates around me, I can't compare. What it actually is I have no idea, and don't care. I don't bring up my thinking it's probably urine because that'd probably embrass her and put her off squirting; and without her squirting, she'd probably not want to have sex at all. Me, I don't care. It's entirely harmless either way, and makes her feel good.

In the end, it feels good for her, and lets me know I've done a good job of pleasing my woman, so I'm happy with that

I used to have a partner that used to enjoy with great pleasure urinating as she is about and whilst climaxing (clitorally). It was a thrill for an avid watersports fan as myself! She said it was a more intense feeling and the release of the pee was adding to the effect. It helped her if I was to rub her urethra as she did it as it enhanced the pee sensation. (sounds similar to ur partner!)

A few years later I met a girl, with whom I experimented with G spot tickling and she had the pee feeling. Suddenly my hand was drenched, but not with the usual female ejaculation but more urine in smell, taste and colour. I didn’t want to mention to her that it wasn’t ejaculation as it might make her fear climaxing. After a while though she realised it was her releasing urine so I cam up with the idea of her training herself.(pc muscle I think its called) I told her that everytime she needed a pee to start, stop, hold it and then release for as many times as she could so she could learn to controle it. Not long after she had more control and G spot tickling changed. She noticed the great difference to the sensation or urinating and the sensation of bursting with female cum.

I thought id write this note as your message reminded me of my situations and maybe in a way it might help. It’s a hard and tricky thing at times and can be frustrating. But patience and a keenness to keep on going is very rewarding!
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Old 09-02-2006, 11:06 AM   #21
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Well said! And indeed there could be some bit of her ejaculate that is composed of urine mixed with other bodily fluids, but at any rate you have found a way to give her that sort of pleasure.
I didn't really find any way. She just said, "keep doing that, rub lower, pull out a bit, make me want it..." and everything flowed on from there (so to speak). Since then, it's become a habit

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I commend you on your open mindedness as well as your loving and giving attitude toward sex!
Loving, yes. Giving? Maybe not. I do that for her, after that I get to do pretty much whatever I want. So I think it's pretty selfish of me!

She tells me that "sex is a game where, if the man comes first, he loses."

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I told her that everytime she needed a pee to start, stop, hold it and then release for as many times as she could so she could learn to controle it.
Thanks for the advice, but I think that if I ever told her she should hold back, there might be an angry reaction...
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Old 09-02-2006, 03:51 PM   #22
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She tells me that "sex is a game where, if the man comes first, he loses."
Love this quote, so true.

My experience has been with women who squirted either clear or milky fluid, not at all like urine. Find it most enjoyable to be caught "down there" when it happens. Definitely stokes the fire for subsequent play.

Have also had interesting experiences with these women in helping them try to "condition" their response to increase their frequency of squirting. Included such things as Kegels to increase the intensity of their orgasms, visualization, and chaning some of their thinking on the topic, such as thinking about trying to keep the squirt in rather than obsessing on trying to make it come out-the idea that's they'll "have" to squirt removed much of the performance anxiety for them.

Overall, the best "technique" was simply lots and lots (and lots) of good, fun foreplay to get the high levels of arousal that "climaxed" in extended bouts of rather forceful squirting (reminded me of eating grapefruit one time, lol)

Was a great experience for both of us in each case and the support and enjoyment that was generated led to increased desire to try again (and again)

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Old 09-02-2006, 09:48 PM   #23
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I really have nothing to add here since I've never gotten a girl to squirt, though I've tried via G-spot and it just led to an intense orgasm and no ejaculation, but I wanted to say that I envy the guys who are with a girl that can squirt. I would LOVE to be with a girl one time to have her squirt since it would leave me in awe, LOL!

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Old 09-02-2006, 10:47 PM   #24
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i went on a cruise resently and some how got into a conversation about female ejaculations and 'squirting' as well as had this conversation in great detail with some other women.

and their instructions and discriptions go as such...

Any female has the capability to ejaculate(Squirt), further more it does not matter how the female is stimulated, simple clitorial stimulation can be enough to induce ejaculation.

the reason some women find it hard (or impossible) to squirt is because of the feeling. after a women Climaxes she gets an intense feeling of 'don't touch me' in which they are increadably sensitive to everything. also they have the strong urge to pee. these 2 things combined often leads them or their partner to stop short. either because it is 'too good it hurts' or of just embaressment that they are going to piss themselves.

in order to 'squirt' the person must be constantly stimulated even after climax as well as relax and not try and stop their bodly functions. doing this can lead any woman to squirt which tends to be an extreamly exciting and pleasurable thing.



things to note. i am a guy. i dont know what a woman feels before, during or after sex. i can not discribe to you how it feels or reproduce my instructions either. these are mearly 'instructions' given to me by woman whom all said they can squirt.
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Old 09-03-2006, 01:49 AM   #25
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Any female has the capability to ejaculate(Squirt), further more it does not matter how the female is stimulated, simple clitorial stimulation can be enough to induce ejaculation.
Thanks for the input but I do need to clarify one thing here. No, not every woman is capable. Due to the wonders of the female body but all women have the ability to squirt. Du to problems with the urethra, the sexual process, cysts and so on there can be a vast number of complications.

It is like saying everyone is capable of reaching the same orgasm, it is just not a realistic thing to say. While the biology may certianly be there, all the right parts might not do all the same things and allow for it to happen.

There is nothing wrong with a woman who squirts, nor with one who doesn't.

Just wanted to toss that out there.
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