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Old 09-12-2015, 01:41 AM   #1
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I love my girlfriend very much and she is faithful to me but I for some crazy reason want to sleep with other women. At the same time I do not want to jeopardize the strong relationship I have with her.
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Old 09-12-2015, 01:45 AM   #2
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Old 09-12-2015, 01:54 AM   #3
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I love my girlfriend very much and she is faithful to me but I for some crazy reason want to sleep with other women. At the same time I do not want to jeopardize the strong relationship I have with her.
Maybe, just maybe, she falls into the percentage of women who are curious about being with another woman, and will let you join. Have you asked?
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Old 09-12-2015, 02:01 AM   #4
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Maybe, just maybe, she falls into the percentage of women who are curious about being with another woman, and will let you join. Have you asked?
Yes i did and she loves that fantasy but made it clear she will not do a threesome or groupsex. I love her though so I can deal with that but wish she changed her mind
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Old 09-12-2015, 08:27 AM   #5
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A sad state of the human condition.

You have her, so you want more than her.

If you lost her, you'd regret it and wish you were back to having her.

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Old 09-13-2015, 08:19 AM   #6
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If she's faithful to you.

Then honor her and be faithful back.

I would be devastated if I gave my all to a guy, and then found out he's been soliciting for sex, anal or otherwise.
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Old 09-13-2015, 10:56 AM   #7
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Sounds pretty neurotic to me. Try therapy ...
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Old 09-13-2015, 11:02 AM   #8
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If she's faithful to you.

Then honor her and be faithful back.

I would be devastated if I gave my all to a guy, and then found out he's been soliciting for sex, anal or otherwise.
I agree with you and she doesn't mind that I fantasize but want us to be monogamous and faithful. She is a good woman so I should just not be looking for women on the side.
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Old 09-13-2015, 11:15 AM   #9
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I agree with you and she doesn't mind that I fantasize but want us to be monogamous and faithful. She is a good woman so I should just not be looking for women on the side.
Glad that's all settled, then.

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Old 09-13-2015, 11:40 AM   #10
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I agree with you and she doesn't mind that I fantasize but want us to be monogamous and faithful. She is a good woman so I should just not be looking for women on the side.
If you feel that strongly about her I wouldn't. I know the pain of betrayal. Try this - reverse the roles. Your woman is on Lit looking into screwing around. How do feel about that? Your reaction?
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Old 09-13-2015, 02:27 PM   #11
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If you feel that strongly about her I wouldn't. I know the pain of betrayal. Try this - reverse the roles. Your woman is on Lit looking into screwing around. How do feel about that? Your reaction?
I certainly would be hurt, that is a good point.
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Old 09-13-2015, 03:57 PM   #12
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Dangerous road mate. Been there. Trust me the little bit of cake on the side isn't worth the pain. Your gf seems upfront and honest about her boundaries. Tread carefully.
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Old 09-13-2015, 04:27 PM   #13
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It's a simple rule Mike. Whenever you're talking or texting with another female just put this little filter into place. "IF I were her and this were a guy she was talking or texting to would I be okay with what I'm about to say or do?".....if the answer comes back to you that you'd be upset or angry, do NOT do it. That simple.
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Old 09-13-2015, 07:42 PM   #14
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Don't kid yourself. She's hooking up with someone right now using the name "VirginTitties"
I think I saw her on the fetish board.
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Old 09-13-2015, 07:48 PM   #15
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Very good advice all, thank you for that.
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Old 09-17-2015, 11:53 PM   #16
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Haven't cheated on girlfriend in the flesh but like the fantasy. Ladies hmu if you are interested.
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Old 09-22-2015, 12:03 AM   #17
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Old 09-24-2015, 11:39 PM   #18
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Cybercheating
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Old 10-03-2015, 01:22 AM   #19
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Good evening ladies 44 m in a relationship looking to chat or meet.

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Old 11-08-2015, 06:42 PM   #20
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Fun on the side with another woman.

I have a girlfriend but want to try having a discreet relationship online or in person with a woman that is also in a relationship.
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Old 11-08-2015, 11:09 PM   #21
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OP: First.....leave this site and others like it. Don't make a mistake you will regret. Trust me. I did.
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Old 11-08-2015, 11:49 PM   #22
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OP: First.....leave this site and others like it. Don't make a mistake you will regret. Trust me. I did.
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Old 11-09-2015, 12:30 AM   #23
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Phew! Glad you got over the guilt, the thread was becoming a bit emo. Now update your ad to outright solicit instead of the sneaky way you have been doing it.
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Old 11-09-2015, 12:37 AM   #24
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I hope i find a woman to cheat with. Sneaky but exciting.
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Old 11-09-2015, 12:45 AM   #25
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More confidence! What do you have to offer? Sneaky fun is a given, think outside the box.
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