Nervous about the first time
I havent had sex yet and have been putting if off in my relationships. It's mostly a matter of personal choice but I was curious to know. I don't think I want to wait any longer. I've been fondled, petted and such but so far, no guy has penetrated me (in whatsoever way). I don't masturbate and what not. I'm still technically a virgin. I do get strong urges though and I'll just rub myself on the outside.
I want to lose my virginity, not by being finger fucked, if you see what I mean.
I'm pretty tight and I have a problem: I don't relax enough.
The thing is that whenever I'm horny, I automatically tense so much down there, that I believe that if I were to have sex for the first time, the guy might have a helluva problem trying to stick it in.
I was just wondering if anyone of you had some good advice on how to help me relax.