nurse_erotic05
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I love to have my ass slapped during sex...It turns me on and gets me so wet. My husband can't believe how much my pussy is dripping after he spanks me.
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Welcome nurse, and spanking is indeed, a turn on for many here both giver and receiver.
Daddy's Shelley
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This is my first post on here. So hi everyone 
The only way I can have any sexual pleasure is if I am spanked... Which I HATE because I don't feel comfortable to do it myself, or ask my bf to do it. I learned almost two years ago (from a Dom with years of experience) that the flogger actually relaxes me, even when it is used more harder.
The only way I can have any sexual pleasure is if I am spanked... Which I HATE because I don't feel comfortable to do it myself, or ask my bf to do it. I learned almost two years ago (from a Dom with years of experience) that the flogger actually relaxes me, even when it is used more harder.
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I know how you feel. It took me a long time to tell my husband. Once i finally told him, it made me feel more comfortable and he really gets into it. I agree it's not an easy subject to bring up
Daddy's Shelley
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We've been together for 4 1/2 years, we used to do bdsm stuff ALL THE TIME, now its hardly ever...that is why I met my dom friend My BF knows that I used to talk to him (Dom friend) but I stopped for awhile, and now I started again. I NEED/CRAVE the punishment...I'm not crazy its just its something that I enjoy when it comes to a sexual relationship, otherwise I'm not able to be pleasured!!!
My BF knows that I used to talk to him (Dom friend) but I stopped for awhile, and now I started again. I NEED/CRAVE the punishment...I'm not crazy its just its something that I enjoy when it comes to a sexual relationship, otherwise I'm not able to be pleasured!!!
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Daddy's Shelley said:
Do you know why you stopped? Have you talked to your bf about it, told him you crave for this kind of action?
I'm curious because after 5 years with my bf, I finally told him I would like him to do these things to me, and now we are slowly starting, every now and then, when the mood is right and we have lots of time, he starts some spanking/bondage/telling me what to do. The rest of the time we have "normal" vanilla style sex. I want those bdsm parts more than him, and like this we start arriving at a nice combination.
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Quick question now that we're on the topic (and no, I don't normally hijack threads)....
What is better to work with. A crop or flogger? We don't have a lot of space in the bedroom for anything too exotic, but personally, I'd like to go with a light flogger to use on my Sub. Any distinct advantages or disadvantages?
Thanks, and sorry to interrupt.
What is better to work with. A crop or flogger? We don't have a lot of space in the bedroom for anything too exotic, but personally, I'd like to go with a light flogger to use on my Sub. Any distinct advantages or disadvantages?
Thanks, and sorry to interrupt.
Daddy's Shelley
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To answer the earlier question about my bf and I, he just doesn't do it anymore, once said it was too much effort
My personally favorite is a flogger...can go soft or hard with it, gets the subs attention!! LOL MAN I MISS THE FLOGGER FROM A YEAR AGO If only I could see that Dom again... 
O'Mac said:
My personally favorite is a flogger...can go soft or hard with it, gets the subs attention!! LOL MAN I MISS THE FLOGGER FROM A YEAR AGO If only I could see that Dom again...
chris9
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Daddy's Shelley said:To answer the earlier question about my bf and I, he just doesn't do it anymore, once said it was too much effort
Yes, I can see that happening if it's not really his kink... I know my bf mostly does all "the work" (I don't cum from the actual sex, and need a long time of stimulation from other things) so my desire for spanking sort of added to his *work-load*. I try to make it up, but I'm not sure if this really works in the long run.
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Better than Valium or Booze...
For me, a good spanking deeply relaxes me and clears my mind of distractions; work, home, whatever. My mind goes a million miles a minute and I bring home lots of things from work that I worry and mull over, or there are chores at home that must be tended to and the never ending list in my head of "things to get done".
What I wish for in a relationship is a Dom/lover who can look in my eyes and KNOW that he's got to get me out from under that mental load. And knows exactly how to do it quickly and efficiently.
The nervous, even fearful anticipation combined with the intense sexual anticipation and arousal in just WAITING to be spanked can clear a huge swath in my mind. After a good spanking and a great orgasm (or three or six) the corporate clone/domestic drone is gone and the sex kitten in me can come out to play...
I hope that part of being a good Dom, to me at least, is loving me enough and paying close enough attention to my needs that he wouldn't hesitate to step in and make sure that those needs are met. I sometimes can't ask for what I need, when I'm scared, or I'm just so overwhelmed that I can't recognize the situation.
I agree with a sub's comment that when she gets all fussy and feisty, she knows what she needs, and wishes she could just come out and ask for it. I understand that fretful pissiness, and in my previous relationship I would goad my love, almost baiting him to get mad enough to spank me. I didn't understand nor did he, what I wanted and needed. I ask for it the wrong way and he gave it for the wrong reason.
Now I understand myself a *little* better..
Wish I may, wish I might, have the wish I wish tonight....
For me, a good spanking deeply relaxes me and clears my mind of distractions; work, home, whatever. My mind goes a million miles a minute and I bring home lots of things from work that I worry and mull over, or there are chores at home that must be tended to and the never ending list in my head of "things to get done".
What I wish for in a relationship is a Dom/lover who can look in my eyes and KNOW that he's got to get me out from under that mental load. And knows exactly how to do it quickly and efficiently.
The nervous, even fearful anticipation combined with the intense sexual anticipation and arousal in just WAITING to be spanked can clear a huge swath in my mind. After a good spanking and a great orgasm (or three or six) the corporate clone/domestic drone is gone and the sex kitten in me can come out to play...
I hope that part of being a good Dom, to me at least, is loving me enough and paying close enough attention to my needs that he wouldn't hesitate to step in and make sure that those needs are met. I sometimes can't ask for what I need, when I'm scared, or I'm just so overwhelmed that I can't recognize the situation.
I agree with a sub's comment that when she gets all fussy and feisty, she knows what she needs, and wishes she could just come out and ask for it. I understand that fretful pissiness, and in my previous relationship I would goad my love, almost baiting him to get mad enough to spank me. I didn't understand nor did he, what I wanted and needed. I ask for it the wrong way and he gave it for the wrong reason.
Now I understand myself a *little* better..
Wish I may, wish I might, have the wish I wish tonight....
Daddy's Shelley
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"Daddy" (ROLEPLAY) punished me with the flogger a year ago...it made me relax, like how some people do when they get a massage. I don't know why this happens, but I loved it...and not knowing when he was going to be soft or hard with it...the anticapation is the best!!O'Mac said:
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spanking?
well nurse i am happy for you..and anyone else gets their kicks...honestly i am.
but me? i only like an occasional spanking to relieve stress.....thats it.
i get nothing sexual from that or any thing else i have found so far in this lifestyle. but then.....eh i dont do sex. i am celebate so i am the wrong one to discuss it.
but yeah.,,.once in awhile a spanking is nice...but its been since 7/04 since i had a sound spanking. i cant find anyone that will do it w/o a price.
thanks
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well nurse i am happy for you..and anyone else gets their kicks...honestly i am.
but me? i only like an occasional spanking to relieve stress.....thats it.
i get nothing sexual from that or any thing else i have found so far in this lifestyle. but then.....eh i dont do sex. i am celebate so i am the wrong one to discuss it.
but yeah.,,.once in awhile a spanking is nice...but its been since 7/04 since i had a sound spanking. i cant find anyone that will do it w/o a price.
thanks
a slave
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Sometimes a good spanking is just called for!! I have found a wonderful Master who spanks me whenever I deserve it, he delights in it and loves to see me squirm under his strong hands. So far he only uses his hands, but he tells me that soon, if I'm a good slave, he will give me a proper paddling! I can't wait! 
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What wonderful notes here! Spanking....
Hi all!
I'm David. And I LOVE how wet and excited a lover can get just ANTICIPATING being spanked. (Or even being told what to do). It turns me on quite a bit feeling a lover's pussy, teasing her a bit, as she is simply awaiting being spanked, and knowing that it may come soon.
Whether she is over my knees, and I'm lifting her skirt. Or pulling down her jeans. Or whether she is laying in bed......
I have used both hands and a wonderful paddle. And also have spanked when she is kneeling before me, with my cock in her mouth, as I lean over her back and spank her a bit.
And the best spank of all is the one (or 5 or 8) administered just as she is about to orgasm. Which brings her wonderfully over the edge.
David
Hi all!
I'm David. And I LOVE how wet and excited a lover can get just ANTICIPATING being spanked. (Or even being told what to do). It turns me on quite a bit feeling a lover's pussy, teasing her a bit, as she is simply awaiting being spanked, and knowing that it may come soon.
Whether she is over my knees, and I'm lifting her skirt. Or pulling down her jeans. Or whether she is laying in bed......
I have used both hands and a wonderful paddle. And also have spanked when she is kneeling before me, with my cock in her mouth, as I lean over her back and spank her a bit.
And the best spank of all is the one (or 5 or 8) administered just as she is about to orgasm. Which brings her wonderfully over the edge.
David
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I am so right there with the spanking. I have never been able to drop a mental load like I was able to the first time I was spanked. Unbelievable.
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who is here now?
Talk a bit ? yahoo or whatever?
Spanking?
Talk a bit ? yahoo or whatever?
Spanking?
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I crave a getting a good spanking more than sex. I love going to that place it takes me 
mmmmm spanking
Up until a year ago I had no idea that I would like to be spanked. It had never occurred to me to try it until my SO and I added a third to our relationship. He (the third) smacked my ass when he fucked me the first time and I absolutely loved it. I get extremely wet just thinking about it. Now my SO gives me a good smack when it is just to two of us and it has really opened me up to exploring more about what gets me hot. As a matter of fact I think I need to take care of something right now....ooooooo...mmmmmmm I will be right back....
Up until a year ago I had no idea that I would like to be spanked. It had never occurred to me to try it until my SO and I added a third to our relationship. He (the third) smacked my ass when he fucked me the first time and I absolutely loved it. I get extremely wet just thinking about it. Now my SO gives me a good smack when it is just to two of us and it has really opened me up to exploring more about what gets me hot. As a matter of fact I think I need to take care of something right now....ooooooo...mmmmmmm I will be right back....
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O'Mac said:
Depends on the sensation you are going for. I find crops to be a bit stingy, but most floggers thuddy. (you can get shorter floggers that work very well in tight spaces)
Though nothing beats a good solid hand on a bare ass *dreamy sigh*
I love being spanked, I even crave it, and thankfully I am
lucky to live with a wonderful man who enjoys spanking me
each and every day. I wouldn't change a thing.
What drives me crazy is to be spanked tied up and blindfolded.
I love the thought of not knowing what will come next, a smack or a caress.
I highly recommend it!!
lucky to live with a wonderful man who enjoys spanking me
each and every day. I wouldn't change a thing.
What drives me crazy is to be spanked tied up and blindfolded.
I love the thought of not knowing what will come next, a smack or a caress.
I highly recommend it!!
i'll spank you if you help me
tease me watch me & let me watch you masturbate....
Daddy's Shelley said:We've been together for 4 1/2 years, we used to do bdsm stuff ALL THE TIME, now its hardly ever...that is why I met my dom friend
tease me watch me & let me watch you masturbate....
