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Old 02-04-2017, 02:16 AM   #1
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How to Find a Sugar Daddy

Hi all,

For the duration of college, I always wondered what it would be like to have a sugar daddy but never had the guts to put myself out there, let alone meet up with anyone. Now that I am graduated, I would love to try to find a sugar daddy (what young lady doesn't want to be wined and dined?), except I have NO idea where to begin my search. Any advice on IRL approaches, websites, or other methods I can try to find that special someone?

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Old 02-04-2017, 02:31 AM   #2
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Please describe better what you mean by sugar daddy? An older man? Or just any man who will take care of you and pay your bills?

Depending on which country you are from, your local dating sites may have a section for your interests.
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Old 02-04-2017, 02:38 AM   #3
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I think maybe both??? I'm not exactly sure what I'm looking for because I haven't been in this type of relationship before.

To me, sugar daddy implies someone who is older and makes more money than I do. He doesn't necessarily need to take care of all of my needs, but it would be nice to be wined and dined and spoiled a bit. Depending on how well we got along, I probably wouldn't just pay him with my company.

So somewhat along the lines of an open FWB relationship with an older man who makes more money than I do. Lol.


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Please describe better what you mean by sugar daddy? An older man? Or just any man who will take care of you and pay your bills?

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Old 02-04-2017, 02:46 AM   #4
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well as I said, try dating sites. Women are fewer than men there, so you'll have a good choice.
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Old 02-04-2017, 06:18 AM   #5
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There's a big difference between a sugar daddy, who most often sets up an agreement with you to provide you a set financial compensation monthly for letting him fuck you whenever he wants, and finding a FWB who gets together with you when he can in a "date like" atmosphere and expects to get something from you in return. A friend of my stepdaughter 's hooked up with a SD in college and was paid a monthly stipend to provide various services when required for him and others who he designated. I guess it depends on whether you want to be in a situation where you're pampered and rewarded, or you want to be a sort of private prostitute.
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Old 02-04-2017, 08:10 AM   #6
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A beautiful young girl says the the chubby old man "would you still love me if I wasn't young and beautiful?", He says " would you still love me if I wasn't rich?"
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Old 02-04-2017, 08:29 AM   #7
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A beautiful young girl says the the chubby old man "would you still love me if I wasn't young and beautiful?", He says " would you still love me if I wasn't rich?"
And the moral of the story?....
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Old 02-04-2017, 09:09 AM   #8
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I Would Recommend

There is a whole spectrum of sugar daddy out there I would imagine. If you are looking for a successful man to take you to a really nice evening out with a great dinner, that should be super easy. As mentioned here already, dating sites should be a snap for that. But a more sophisticated sugar daddy relationship in which he spends serious money on you is more of a commitment on your part. I have seen sugar daddies advertise occasionally here (although not sure how serious the ones on Lit were). I did have a man approach me and he sent lots of photos of his homes, his yacht, his cars and laid out in great detail what he wanted from me and what he would provide in return. (I didn't bite, but it was interesting to evaluate the possibilities.) So just put your desires out there (cautiously) and let them come and let you know.

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Old 02-04-2017, 09:20 AM   #9
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Great insight! Thank you!
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Old 02-04-2017, 01:37 PM   #10
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I'm going to go ahead and assume that you aren't very attractive... Hot broads don't have to look for a sugar daddy, rich men find them.
Was this comment here for a sole purpose of hurting somebody?
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I'm going to go ahead and assume that you aren't very attractive... Hot broads don't have to look for a sugar daddy, rich men find them.
This is not true at all. Beautiful women don't always have men running after them. Often men assume mistakenly they are unavailable for the very fact they are so beautiful. And a million other reasons. And by the way, all women are beautiful.
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This is not true at all. Beautiful women don't always have men running after them. Often men assume mistakenly they are unavailable for the very fact they are so beautiful. And a million other reasons. And by the way, all women are beautiful.
All women are beautiful. If you really want to find a sugar daddy all you have to do is make that fact known. If you're what he's looking for, he'll find you. All you have to do is make it worth his while when he does.
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Old 02-12-2017, 08:30 AM   #13
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Oh, and by the way, after checking out your profile pic any sugar daddy who's looking would love to have you as his "personal assistant ".
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Old 02-13-2017, 05:59 PM   #14
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The web site Seeking Arrangements for live in opportunities.
Look for an Escort Forum to do so by the hour.
Both are the same.
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Old 02-15-2017, 04:05 PM   #15
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I know a couple of people who have successfully found an arrangement that worked for them. One of them was via Seeking Arrangements, and was very much on the guy's terms - it just so happened that was what she was looking for as well.

The other was through a traditional dating site, and she had a lot more flexibility with him, and ended up with a relationship that was more on her terms than my other friend. It all depends what you want, but if you're actually willing to sleep with someone in exchange for money and treats then it's really not very hard to find someone.
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Old 02-22-2017, 07:06 PM   #16
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And the moral of the story?....
In a few years he will be even richer while she...
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Old 02-23-2017, 02:35 PM   #17
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Oh, and by the way, after checking out your profile pic any sugar daddy who's looking would love to have you as his "personal assistant ".
I'm not really good at navigating here in spite of the fact that I've been around for some time now.

How do you find one's profile pic?
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Old 02-24-2017, 12:33 PM   #18
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Just click on their "name" and a list of options will come up.
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Old 02-25-2017, 08:53 AM   #19
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thanks Joe

and you're right....any sugar daddy who's looking would love to have her as his "personal assistant "

Hell I know I would, too bad I'm broke!
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Old 06-03-2017, 01:45 AM   #20
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Sugar Daddy certainly has a connotation of a hierarchical relationship. However, why does it have to be a negative connotation? Can a sugar daddy treat her as an equal? I would say yes.

If we are talking about sugar daddy in bed, who makes sweet, sweet love...still the same answer.
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Old 06-20-2017, 06:27 PM   #21
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There are a few sites online that cater to Sugar Babies plus lots of people on YouTube sharing experiences.

As long as the relationship is mutual I don't see a problem with it. I'd kill to have a guy buy me nice clothes or lingerie just for me to wear it for him.
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