Planning a scene

Planning a Scene

My mind goes to the end result before I even pick up a toy.

If the scene will be what I consider Topping rather than Dominating my vocalizations will be gentler...lighter and more interactive.

I will negotiate what the bottom would like to experience if they are new to me. I am not big on negotiation of a scene but do admit it can be a valuable tool to keep play safe sane and consensual.

If the scene will be a first time experience and the bottom indicates that he or she “believes” they are more into sensation than pain I will choose my toys accordingly.

I will have them strip to nakedness unless there is a valid reason to remain partially clothed. I enjoy watching each article of clothing being removed just to add an extra shyness and anticipation to the moment.

Unless there is an issue with sight deprivation I will choose an appropriate blindfold to block out one of their senses to heighten others. I will lead them to the St Andrews Cross and buckle their wrists into the restraints before pulling the rope to the right degree for their safety and comfort. I will give a safe word and explain why I expect its use if needed. I never expect it to be needed as I watch the body language carefully and listen to all the sounds during the scene. I will state this.

I choose my implements “after” they are blindfolded and secured in bondage so that the element of surprise and anticipation adds an extra edginess. The scene will generally begin with the firm touch of my hand…the scratchy tickle of my nails and the ostrich feathers. All are used to lull the bottom into a calm trusting headspace.

I already know that it will not be my intent to take the bottom to sub space so I will be watching all the signs of change as the feathers are replaced with sensation toys such as plastic plants clothes pins nipple clamps and the wartonberg wheel. With each shudder I can read if the bottom is craving more sensation or is withdrawing from the touches they are unfamiliar with.

I move slowly from toy to toy…the wait adds to the emotional journey. Choosing my softer floggers of rope to escalate from pleasure to a subtle pain…continually reading the body language which will beg for more on its own…or retreat into the cross. The moans will speak to me as well of agony or ecstasy. If I feel confident that the bottom is just beginning to get into the scene I will move from the softer rope floggers to a few of the less stingy ones and build up gently to the thumpy heavy ones that I enjoy the most.

My hands gently contact the body with firmness and the occasional scratch of my nails and a spank that comes unexpectedly upon the ass. The physical contact of the hand is used for both reassurance and once again to read body language.
If the bottom is still with me I may add some of the more painful toys such as crops and paddles to take them to the edge of their own personal endurance. If not it will be time to release them from the cross. Removing the bondage before the blindfold...talking quietly as I direct them to relax and get their bearings. I will use the weight of my body against theirs as I remove the blindfold holding them in place for just an extra moment before stepping away.

The scene is over. If after care is needed it occurs now that the initial scene is complete. After care can actually be a scene all in itself.

It was my intention at the beginning of the scene to leave them wanting more. Hopefully I have achieved this goal.

Anyone care to share a scene to help those just beginning to see the possibilities?

Shadowsdream said:

Planning a Scene
...It was my intention at the beginning of the scene to leave them wanting more. Hopefully I have achieved this goal.

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And Ma'am, You do this very well. ;-)

A Desert Rose said:

And Ma'am, You do this very well. ;-)

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*nods* I am agreeing with Rose here .

A Desert Rose said:

And Ma'am, You do this very well. ;-)

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Hello little girl...so nice to see you in this one sided conversation. Me thinks I will have to write up the next scene Myself ~~smile~~

Aeroil said:

*nods* I am agreeing with Rose here .

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Hello Aeroil...your nickname interests Me...unusual name.

Shadowsdream said:

Hello Aeroil...your nickname interests Me...unusual name.

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hehehe, well it does have a bit of an origin, although a very obscure one if you'd like to hear it.

I'll do one from my experience... after I get my chores done for today. I've been spending all my day today in this silly place, babysitting my avatars thread which turned out to be more fun than I thought it would be. :/

By the way, just asking for no particular reason... are you the person who used to use ravens a lot in her avatars or am I thinking of someone else?

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Aeroil said:

hehehe, well it does have a bit of an origin, although a very obscure one if you'd like to hear it.

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I would like to hear it too. Go for it!

okay, It's a wierd story but I'll tell it.
In the book I am writing, there is a character named Aeriols, he is from a race called the Draconiods, and I could get into a lotta history of theirs but I won't, he is what they call a 'Tactician' which is basically a general in the military. He's a bit of a snob, but he's very smart and a very good tactician who does care about his soldiers' lives as much as victory, which is why the warriors respect him so much, even if they don't like him. Anyway, while I was writing, I accidentaly spelled his name Aeroils several times, and I was about to change it when I started considering changing it to Aeroils. On comparing, I liked Aeriols a lot more than Aeroils, but I did like a variant of Aeroils I created, which was Aeroil. I ended up keeping Aeriols' name as it was, but kept Aeroil for myself.
As to where Aeriols came from? I just made it up, like all the names in my book, usually pronouncing all different names within the style of the race that I need that come to mind and then modifying them until I think they sound good. Aeriols and Aeroil are actually pronounced very differently in my mind, "airy oles" (Aeriols) and "air oil" (Aeroil). (I'm very bad at phoenetics).

Umm, I apologise if I've hijacked your thread, Shadowsdream, perhaps we should get back on topic...

Great plan for a scene Shadowsdream , I really liked it .
Great sensitiveness in a strong mind and hands !

Hope more Dom/Dommes want follow your tack and post their "plan of a scene ".
It is very useful to learn from exemples , even by the sub side .

Aeroil said:

okay, It's a wierd story but I'll tell it.
In the book I am writing, there is a character named Aeriols, he is from a race called the Draconiods, and I could get into a lotta history of theirs but I won't, he is what they call a 'Tactician' which is basically a general in the military. He's a bit of a snob, but he's very smart and a very good tactician who does care about his soldiers' lives as much as victory, which is why the warriors respect him so much, even if they don't like him. Anyway, while I was writing, I accidentaly spelled his name Aeroils several times, and I was about to change it when I started considering changing it to Aeroils. On comparing, I liked Aeriols a lot more than Aeroils, but I did like a variant of Aeroils I created, which was Aeroil. I ended up keeping Aeriols' name as it was, but kept Aeroil for myself.
As to where Aeriols came from? I just made it up, like all the names in my book, usually pronouncing all different names within the style of the race that I need that come to mind and then modifying them until I think they sound good. Aeriols and Aeroil are actually pronounced very differently in my mind, "airy oles" (Aeriols) and "air oil" (Aeroil). (I'm very bad at phoenetics).

Umm, I apologise if I've hijacked your thread, Shadowsdream, perhaps we should get back on topic...

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It was interesting tho . I too create my characters' name by fantasy , cause sometimes the personality of a character I'm thinking about has not perfect correspondence with real names .

Shadowsdream said:

Hello little girl...so nice to see you in this one sided conversation. Me thinks I will have to write up the next scene Myself ~~smile~~

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Fortunately... (or unfortunately) I don't plan scenes, I just participate in them, so I can't help you with this.

;-)

I tend not to plan the scene per se, more plan options. So I will go in with a menu of things that I can do, and then assemble them as I see fit at the time.

Normally I will try and accomplish things in a scene (play session). So an initial scene might be just to relax and familiarise ourselves with each other sexually. From there, I might work on oral technique, or anal play, or orgasm control, or... well, there are a lot of options. But essentially each scene will have a theme. But the actual content of the scene is made up from options I have thought about ahead of time.

FungiUg said:

I tend not to plan the scene per se, more plan options. So I will go in with a menu of things that I can do, and then assemble them as I see fit at the time.

Normally I will try and accomplish things in a scene (play session). So an initial scene might be just to relax and familiarise ourselves with each other sexually. From there, I might work on oral technique, or anal play, or orgasm control, or... well, there are a lot of options. But essentially each scene will have a theme. But the actual content of the scene is made up from options I have thought about ahead of time.

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I've always been fond of doing things this way.. Options and a progression.

EKVITKAR said:

I've always been fond of doing things this way.. Options and a progression.

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Blindfolds are great mind benders also. I forgot to wear mine in an earlier scene today. Hopefully, He doesnt get too upset. sc

In two weeks I will try out a new scene for the first time with a male and a female submissive as a live feed entertains the masses.

The male is 6' 2" and the female is under 5'...both have beautiful tanned bodies and are sensually sexual...both have a coy look yet are easy to drop to their knees in submission.

It is My intention to bind their naked bodies together face to face...although obviously her face will be buried in his massive chest and he will be tormented by her more than ample breasts nestled against his hard belly. His arms will be positioned to wrap around her waist yet not interfere with my ability to use the cane...crop or flogger on her ass or shoulders. Her hands will be secured around the backs of his thighs...both will be in spreader bars to make the balance more difficult and each will have to depend upon the other to remain upright. His natural desire to protect her will cause him to be as vigilent as he can be to her safety while her natural acceptance of the expectation that the male will always want to hold her up will allow her brattiness to make it more difficult for this toy of Mine.

Each moment will be dragged out with feathers and the wartonberg wheel tracing their most intimate spots as I bring in another female submissive to torment them with her long sharp nails.

Both adorned with the sharp bite of nipple clamps..he in CBT.

Their bodies will betray them as sensation and emotion take them on their own journeys but the carress and the snap of the single tail will once again cause them to depend upon each other for support and comfort.

I will blindfold them both

TaintedB said:

I'll do one from my experience... after I get my chores done for today. I've been spending all my day today in this silly place, babysitting my avatars thread which turned out to be more fun than I thought it would be. :/

By the way, just asking for no particular reason... are you the person who used to use ravens a lot in her avatars or am I thinking of someone else?

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~~smile~~ I only use avatars with Myself in them...

Shadowsdream said:

In two weeks I will try out a new scene for the first time with a male and a female submissive as a live feed entertains the masses.

The male is 6' 2" and the female is under 5'...both have beautiful tanned bodies and are sensually sexual...both have a coy look yet are easy to drop to their knees in submission.

It is My intention to bind their naked bodies together face to face...although obviously her face will be buried in his massive chest and he will be tormented by her more than ample breasts nestled against his hard belly. His arms will be positioned to wrap around her waist yet not interfere with my ability to use the cane...crop or flogger on her ass or shoulders. Her hands will be secured around the backs of his thighs...both will be in spreader bars to make the balance more difficult and each will have to depend upon the other to remain upright. His natural desire to protect her will cause him to be as vigilent as he can be to her safety while her natural acceptance of the expectation that the male will always want to hold her up will allow her brattiness to make it more difficult for this toy of Mine.

Each moment will be dragged out with feathers and the wartonberg wheel tracing their most intimate spots as I bring in another female submissive to torment them with her long sharp nails.

Both adorned with the sharp bite of nipple clamps..he in CBT.

Their bodies will betray them as sensation and emotion take them on their own journeys but the carress and the snap of the single tail will once again cause them to depend upon each other for support and comfort.

I will blindfold them both

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That sounds like a dream.

I enjoy that you are predicting that he will want to hold her up. If they weren't so close together, I can imagine you telling them both seperately and privately that they will be blind folded and the other wouldn't be - even though they will both be sightless.

M and I are beginning and let the scene happen currently, but there is a fluidity that is missing ... and I suspect it is because scenes aren't planned out. I'd like to see other litsters attribute to this thread.

BlueSugar said:

That sounds like a dream.

I enjoy that you are predicting that he will want to hold her up. If they weren't so close together, I can imagine you telling them both seperately and privately that they will be blind folded and the other wouldn't be - even though they will both be sightless.

M and I are beginning and let the scene happen currently, but there is a fluidity that is missing ... and I suspect it is because scenes aren't planned out. I'd like to see other litsters attribute to this thread.

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Hello BlueSugar.

I like your idea of telling both subs privately about the blindfolding...I will use this if you don't mind from time to time!

BlueSugar said:

I enjoy that you are predicting that he will want to hold her up. If they weren't so close together, I can imagine you telling them both seperately and privately that they will be blind folded and the other wouldn't be - even though they will both be sightless.

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Hmm, that certainly is an interesting idea BlueSugar, and I'm sure it serves some purpose, but what is it?

Shadowsdream said:

Hello BlueSugar.

I like your idea of telling both subs privately about the blindfolding...I will use this if you don't mind from time to time!

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surely, just don't forget to tell us about every bead of sweat on their bodies

Aeroil said:

Hmm, that certainly is an interesting idea BlueSugar, and I'm sure it serves some purpose, but what is it?

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it adds the sense of being strong for the other person, a level of embarrassment of being watched through the motions of their portion of the scene, adds the aspect of being so close but not being able to look at the other person but "know" they are looking at you... and obviously, its a turn on to watch ... and can get into a world of trouble if someone gets extra wet, or extra hard *thinking* that they are being watched.

and secrets are always fun

there is much more, but leave it to the imagination.

BlueSugar said:

it adds the sense of being strong for the other person, a level of embarrassment of being watched through the motions of their portion of the scene, adds the aspect of being so close but not being able to look at the other person but "know" they are looking at you... and obviously, its a turn on to watch ... and can get into a world of trouble if someone gets extra wet, or extra hard *thinking* that they are being watched.

and secrets are always fun

there is much more, but leave it to the imagination.

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hehehe, alright then, thank you for the explanation. I'm a sub, after all, I dunno how to manipulate people

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