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Old 06-30-2017, 10:52 PM   #1
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Reneging of a promise to reciprocate

I have to imagine that this must happen a lot - two buddies get together and one thing leads to another until a "I will do you if you do me" deal is made. One buddy, trusting that he won't be left hanging, goes first. For whatever reason - maybe the recipient came fast and couldn't go through with returning the favor or maybe just got cold feet. Perhaps he was just an asshole and never intended to reciprocate and just wanted to manipulate the other guy into sucking his dick.

Has this ever happened to anyone?

The closest experience I had was with a close friend. When we were younger, we both were taken advantage of by older boys and we both had seen each other with dicks in our mouths. We were now older and I was suggesting that maybe we could experiment with each other. I didn't trust him to reciprocate and thus I didn't want to go first. I proposed that if he put his mouth on my dick for 5 seconds, I would suck him until he got close. Once we got over the initial chicken and egg problem and we each had done it, we'd have the mutuality to ensure neither of us would tell anyone and perhaps could maintain an ongoing thing for awhile. He didn't go for my suggestion and proposed the reverse.

We negotiated without success but we had both gotten noticeable erections. He announced that he wanted to jerk off and he slid his pants down. I followed suit and for the first time we were jerking off together. I came first and as soon as I did, he pulled his pants up and proclaimed that I had jerked off in front of him and he hadn't and he ran off - precisely the thing I thought he would do if I didn't get some insurance if I had sucked him. I was glad I didn't.

He returned later and tried to bust my chops about seeing me jerking off. I responded that we both know he finished himself the second he got home and that he initiated it and it didn't really matter - we jerked off together and he couldn't deny it. "It could have been fun but I'll never bring up the subject again."
We remain friends to this day - but that subject was never mentioned.
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Old 07-01-2017, 09:29 AM   #2
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I proposed that if he put his mouth on my dick for 5 seconds, I would suck him until he got close. Once we got over the initial chicken and egg problem and we each had done it, we'd have the mutuality to ensure neither of us would tell anyone and perhaps could maintain an ongoing thing for awhile.
The closest I came to having sex with a guy was with a coworker of mine when I was in my early 20s. I'm bi and more attracted to women overall, and he had a girlfriend at the time--as far as either of us knew, we were both totally straight. Still, we were both super horny and into sex, and a few times we went together to a porn shop to get some magazines and videos (just straight and lesbian stuff). Still, from a few things he said indirectly, I never got the sense that he thought gay sex was something awful or anything.

He kind of jokingly, but mostly seriously invited me to come over sometime to jack off to some porn together--he specifically wanted to show me a home video he had made of his girlfriend sucking him.
Like an idiot, I never took him up on it, and eventually we fell out of touch. I really wanted to give him a blow job, and looking back on it now, I'm pretty sure he also wanted me to suck his cock.

I think we were just both really worried that one wouldn't be interested and then the other one would be left as the "gay" one and word would get out.

I still masturbate to my fantasy of what could have happened with this guy, and in my fantasy I always tell him just what you said: "If you just put your mouth on my cock for 5 seconds, then I'll give you a blow job and you can cum in my mouth." And in my fantasy, he sucks me for 5 seconds, and then I blow him that day, and then suck him pretty much any time he wants from then on.

The above is what really happened, but I wrote a story about what I WISH had happened (although in the story he jacks me off before I blow him) :

https://www.literotica.com/s/my-friend-jim-s-big-cock
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Old 07-01-2017, 04:11 PM   #3
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It's called a "68" - you blow me and I'll owe you one.

Fortunately, I get off more on sucking than being sucked. My first few encounters resulted in the guy cumming in my mouth and leaving me to jerk myself off. The one time I came first, I made sure to suck him dry.
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Old 07-02-2017, 10:28 AM   #4
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The closest I came to having sex with a guy was with a coworker of mine when I was in my early 20s. I'm bi and more attracted to women overall, and he had a girlfriend at the time--as far as either of us knew, we were both totally straight. Still, we were both super horny and into sex, and a few times we went together to a porn shop to get some magazines and videos (just straight and lesbian stuff). Still, from a few things he said indirectly, I never got the sense that he thought gay sex was something awful or anything.

He kind of jokingly, but mostly seriously invited me to come over sometime to jack off to some porn together--he specifically wanted to show me a home video he had made of his girlfriend sucking him.
Like an idiot, I never took him up on it, and eventually we fell out of touch. I really wanted to give him a blow job, and looking back on it now, I'm pretty sure he also wanted me to suck his cock.

I think we were just both really worried that one wouldn't be interested and then the other one would be left as the "gay" one and word would get out.

I still masturbate to my fantasy of what could have happened with this guy, and in my fantasy I always tell him just what you said: "If you just put your mouth on my cock for 5 seconds, then I'll give you a blow job and you can cum in my mouth." And in my fantasy, he sucks me for 5 seconds, and then I blow him that day, and then suck him pretty much any time he wants from then on.

The above is what really happened, but I wrote a story about what I WISH had happened (although in the story he jacks me off before I blow him) :

https://www.literotica.com/s/my-friend-jim-s-big-cock
I had almost the same experience, though one night after a party, I did watch him stroke himself off ...bet he was wishing I did more than watch.

Good story too.
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Old 07-02-2017, 11:16 AM   #5
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My late father in law hinted around to me a couple of times about us "helping each other out". But I kind of had the feeling that he was just seeing if I'd suck him off. Kind of wish at times I had done it. A couple of people know that I'm bi, but living in a rural bible belt area, I'm not ready to come out.
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Old 07-02-2017, 11:49 AM   #6
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A prearranged meeting

Not really a first time experimentation story, but I met a black guy (my first) online some years ago. I always make it known that I am a bottom, and ONLY versatile if reciprocated. I'm not going to be the only top in the room.

We played, sucked each other's cocks, and it was awesome, but when it came time for me to get my eagerly anticipated buggering, he was unable, saying stuff like 'I don't know what's wrong with me.' So, at least one of us was still hard, so I fucked him in the ass (he did have a very cute, firm bubble butt with a beautiful, cratered little asshole).

I passed on meeting him again.

Talking about this at the time with several bi couples, this scenario is not rare. I won't go there again. If somebody is not what they claim, like when their profile says their body type is 'athletic' and you realize upon meeting that yes, Sumo Wrestlers are athletes. (hence my 'no pics, no play' rule I still follow after 12 years bi).

And when a woman says she's 'curvy', you have to ask: Concave or Convex?
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Old 07-07-2017, 08:17 PM   #7
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This (a "68") pretty much describes my first time. A guy my age who I later discovered was preternaturally manipulating and dominating talked me out of my bed in the dorm and into his. We fondled each other for a while, and he coaxed me into sucking his dick "first".

After I swallowed his load he said he wasn't feeling well and rolled over to go to sleep.

The very next night he ran the same game on me. By the third night we both knew I'd found my true calling.

I sucked his cock dozens of times after that. He also got off on topping me in a missionary position, and getting himself off between my upper thighs, under my scrotum. I loved that position, too: it felt more like fucking!

I resisted, only a little but genuinely, when he'd French kiss me while "fucking" me. Funny, but of all the things we did, kissing seemed to me to be the most depraved. But I took it, while pumping my hips back up at him to get his nut. I LOVED the feeling of his wet load between my legs and under my balls.

He withdrew from school suddenly a few months into our relationship. I know that, if he'd had a few more months with me, he'd have popped my cherry sooner or later. I just always did whatever he asked for, whenever he asked. One night the dorms pretty much emptied out for a home basketball game. He ordered me to stay behind, and pumped two loads under my balls that night. The RA came by to see why my room wasn't empty, and we almost got caught in the act.
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Old 08-10-2017, 07:25 AM   #8
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I've had guys lie to me and promise to reciprocate, but not follow through. I felt used. I guess I've done that, too but only due to nerves and inexperience.
Many guys only wanted to suck, and didn't expect me to reciprocate. Especially when I was young and inexperienced.
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