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Old 01-17-2014, 06:11 PM   #1
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Climaxing from Anal penetration

I have been experimenting with Anal stimulation while I masturbate for a while and was wondering if its actually possible to cum from only stimulating your ass and if it is if you can give me any tips on how to get it to work, I feel like I am so close to being able to cum just from anal stimulation but just cant get it right

I use a small/medium Anal vibrator.
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Old 01-17-2014, 06:17 PM   #2
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Why are men so goal orientated? Can't sex be good without orgasm? I think it can and if you stop concentrating in 'making' yourself come and lose yourself in the feelings then you might get the surprise you want. It isn't about the technique as such, but about how you feel about your body. If you end up frustrated then you put up an immediate hurdle. So maybe aim to not have an orgasm: change your thinking not your technique Have fun
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Why are men so goal orientated? Can't sex be good without orgasm? I think it can and if you stop concentrating in 'making' yourself come and lose yourself in the feelings then you might get the surprise you want. It isn't about the technique as such, but about how you feel about your body. If you end up frustrated then you put up an immediate hurdle. So maybe aim to not have an orgasm: change your thinking not your technique Have fun
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Why are men so goal orientated? Can't sex be good without orgasm? I think it can and if you stop concentrating in 'making' yourself come and lose yourself in the feelings then you might get the surprise you want. It isn't about the technique as such, but about how you feel about your body. If you end up frustrated then you put up an immediate hurdle. So maybe aim to not have an orgasm: change your thinking not your technique Have fun
Thank you for getting my head in a right place, seriously as a man I am way to used to being able to have an orgasm whenever I want and not being able to do it through other means got me way to focused on it, I will continue experimenting and try ot focus on enjoying myself instead of performing.

Seriusly thanks allot :P
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Old 01-17-2014, 07:20 PM   #5
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Thank you for getting my head in a right place, seriously as a man I am way to used to being able to have an orgasm whenever I want and not being able to do it through other means got me way to focused on it, I will continue experimenting and try ot focus on enjoying myself instead of performing.

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Old 01-17-2014, 07:57 PM   #6
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Sex being good for a male without said male ejaculating?

No, I don't see that. Don't even see where anyone would think that of a male's mind-set and have any understanding of the male mind-set.
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Old 01-18-2014, 01:07 AM   #7
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Well as for being able to cum from anal stimulation.Won't say it can not be done by self stimulating but I will say I doubt it.As a gay male that has cum from anal stimulation...it was more a combination of emotional or mental feeling of that sexual encounter ..than just anal penetration.

It does not occur all that often...all the stories you hear are more than likely BS.

It does happen ...but not just because your getting fucked ...beacuse you feel something in that ecounter that makes it more than just the act.Something gets sparked ...who's to say how or why ...i'm sure the spark comes differently for each of us ...but make no mistake ..if you cum from anal stimulation as a man ...it;s not as much from whats in your ass ..as how the signals get sent from your brain.
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Old 01-18-2014, 01:10 AM   #8
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Yes, it's mostly mental, I think. So, yes, you can get off on anal stimulation--if you believe it's going to get you off and want it to.
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Old 01-18-2014, 01:17 AM   #9
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Hey Stickygirl...I hear ya ....but I can tell ya why ...there men ....it;s that simple...there men.Yes occasionally ya can get that moment where they themselves forget it.But instinctlively they have a built in fail safe ...Get the job done and move on to the next.Very rarely are thay about nuture ....beyond whats required.
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Old 01-18-2014, 01:37 AM   #10
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Don't know why I feel the need to even say this ...but I have never used a dildo ...or any other artificial instument.I got fucked at 16 ...and the only thing that has ever been in my ass a mans cock ....why settle for anything less.

Do not take that to mean I just bend over when asked or some such notion ....all this gay porn today ..you could easily think that.

Don't get me wrong that I'm against gay porn...it's nice to see were coming main stream...

But real gay sex is not about that any more so than hetro porn is about that...

it's exploitation of our sense's ...and yes we watch it ..I do myself...but I wonder ...is it not stealing that itintamacy we used to get from behind closed door's before it piped into lives as normal.

I miss the days ...when what me and my lover were doing was taboo....did I wanna get hung if caught ...of course not ....but I won't lie ...it made it sweeter.

trouble with normal is it allways get worse....I liked it when I was not normal.
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Old 01-18-2014, 02:12 AM   #11
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Old 01-18-2014, 09:11 AM   #12
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Here's a video of a man doing that:

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Old 01-18-2014, 09:40 AM   #13
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And the guy shoots off three times in a row. Impressive!
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Old 01-18-2014, 10:20 AM   #14
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Cum like a woman

I've had anal orgasms many times in my life. Of course, the best way is to cum is while being fucked by a real cock! I have ridden dildos and made myself cum hands-free many times, but I'm usually thinking about one of my many encounters with a real man while I'm doing it. I can get the head of the dildo rubbing just right on my prostate and just keep at it while I think about some of the real cocks that have been doing the same thing in my ass over the years.

I call anal orgasms "cumming like a woman" because I find myself going through the same body movements most women I've known go through when they cum.
When I'm having an anal orgasm, my ass contractions are just like a woman's vaginal contractions while she is cumming. When I start to cum, my thighs will start to vibrate, just like I've witnessed when women cum. It is a glorious experience for me, and I feel like I'm closer to women now when I do have sex with a woman. In a way, when she cums, I feel like I'm experiencing it with her since my anal orgasms are so similar.
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Old 01-19-2014, 07:13 AM   #15
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oh yea

oh yea,, a room full of hard cocked men taking me balls deep over and over-- I cum again and again- I can't help it!!!!
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Old 01-31-2014, 08:09 AM   #16
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I have been experimenting with Anal stimulation while I masturbate for a while and was wondering if its actually possible to cum from only stimulating your ass and if it is if you can give me any tips on how to get it to work, I feel like I am so close to being able to cum just from anal stimulation but just cant get it right

I use a small/medium Anal vibrator.
It's possible. Without question. Somewhere in the world it's happening right now.
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Old 01-31-2014, 08:18 AM   #17
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I have what I call a "dry " orgasm from anal more often than actual ejaculation. The feeling that I'm either cumming or very close to coming. My ass clamps down and spasms and the feeling is absolutely amazing. When I'm with a guy and not using other means of anal stimulation, I tend to actually cum when he does. The sensation of a hot, hard cock shooting inside me is too much to handle and I'll cum without even touching my cock. As far as technique goes, I think for me personally, riding a cock gives good deep penetration and you can control the rhythm, but a guy with a long cock can bend me over and still penetrate deep enough to give me the sensation I like. In a firm believer that everyone is different and what works for me may nit work for you.
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Old 02-01-2014, 10:09 AM   #18
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Well as for being able to cum from anal stimulation.Won't say it can not be done by self stimulating but I will say I doubt it.As a gay male that has cum from anal stimulation...it was more a combination of emotional or mental feeling of that sexual encounter ..than just anal penetration.

It does not occur all that often...all the stories you hear are more than likely BS.

It does happen ...but not just because your getting fucked ...beacuse you feel something in that ecounter that makes it more than just the act.Something gets sparked ...who's to say how or why ...i'm sure the spark comes differently for each of us ...but make no mistake ..if you cum from anal stimulation as a man ...it;s not as much from whats in your ass ..as how the signals get sent from your brain.
Silly me, I'd say there's quite likely a emotional/mental component to almost any sexual act regardless of whether it's shared with another or not.
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I have been experimenting with Anal stimulation while I masturbate for a while and was wondering if its actually possible to cum from only stimulating your ass and if it is if you can give me any tips on how to get it to work, I feel like I am so close to being able to cum just from anal stimulation but just cant get it right

I use a small/medium Anal vibrator.
for me it is the depth of penetration which gives me the best climax ,the deeper the better ,it doesnt have to be thick ,but long is essential for me at least.
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Old 02-06-2014, 11:33 AM   #20
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Here's a video of a man doing that:

http://xhamster.com/movies/1398400/s...ng_fucked.html
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GREAT video!!WOW!!!
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Old 02-12-2014, 03:17 PM   #22
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the no-hands orgasm.
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Old 02-12-2014, 05:28 PM   #23
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I love experimenting with anal stimulation & prefer it to anal penetration...guess I just like foreplay more than climaxing ...
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Old 02-13-2014, 09:33 PM   #24
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Why are men so goal orientated? Can't sex be good without orgasm? I think it can and if you stop concentrating in 'making' yourself come and lose yourself in the feelings then you might get the surprise you want. It isn't about the technique as such, but about how you feel about your body. If you end up frustrated then you put up an immediate hurdle. So maybe aim to not have an orgasm: change your thinking not your technique Have fun
Good point, but kind of a red herring. I for one feel fine about my body and can enjoy the stimulation without any end goal milestone in mind. Probably I am not the only one. I don't get frustrated. But I would like to take it to the next level, and am curious if people have useful tips to get off hands-free. Maybe the speed of penetration, angle, the correct size, etc?
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Good point, but kind of a red herring. I for one feel fine about my body and can enjoy the stimulation without any end goal milestone in mind. Probably I am not the only one. I don't get frustrated. But I would like to take it to the next level, and am curious if people have useful tips to get off hands-free. Maybe the speed of penetration, angle, the correct size, etc?
find a way to have your body and mind as relaxed as possible. I think you want to be able to relax into that act, to really experience every sensation. if it's more a workout, especially involving the constant flexing of the thighs and glutes, it simply doesn't work for me.

you might experiment first with how it feels right at your core, at that place of connection, to just let something BE inside you without trying to move around much. I think it can be pretty mindblowing. let the energy flow outward from that source instead of exerting a lot of energy in other body parts trying to make something happen deep inside you.

Try lying on your stomach, really relaxed, not having to support your weight much.....or at all. maybe up on your elbows just a bit, rolling your hips slowly, undulating, raising your buttocks/arching your back to reach for a new feeling, a higher plane, your "next level." sound boring? it's not. control things if you want to lose control. keep it small and very big things can come from it.

once you're starting to climb, think exactly about what it is you're doing, what it is you're simulating. this may take some courage but don't deny it. just be honest and accepting with yourself -- be unashamed and free and open to your fantasies.
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