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Old 11-20-2011, 12:56 AM   #1
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For the bisexuals: The first time you felt attracted to the same sex

I'm a bisexual woman, and the other day I was thinking back to the first times I felt attracted to women (although I didn't know what to call it at the time).

Some of my earliest memories involve stealing my dad's Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Editions featuring various nearly naked '80s vixens (Christie Brinkley, Carol Alt, Kathy Ireland). In fact, that was the first time I remember feeling physically aroused, and I kept wishing I could see their nipples. I was so little that I didn't even know what gay or straight was, but I was dying to see naked women all the time. There was also the late '80s video for Billy Idol's "Rock the Cradle of Love" that had me touching myself - not because of Billy, but because of the dancing chick (Betsy Lynn George).

Later, when I was about ten or eleven, I was completely fascinated by Tiffani Amber Thiessen of "Saved by the Bell" fame. To this day, she is still one of my favorite celebrity women. I love her figure and face. They used to put her in bathing suits pretty often on the show, and it made me melt...

I think I was probably more gay than straight until I got older and started feeling more attracted to men; but as a child, I was pretty much nuts for sexy, scantily-clad women.

I just thought it would be fun to hear what same-sex celebrity crushes or other experiences you had when you were younger that made you realize you swung both ways. Anyone want to share?
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Old 11-20-2011, 01:04 AM   #2
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When I was a child I was also drawn to scantily clad male bodies. I must have given equal time to the underwear models in the sears catalog. But as I got older I was a shamed of those feelings and suppressed them but enevitable they came back and now I can embrace it and enjoy.
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Old 11-20-2011, 01:05 AM   #3
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Old 11-20-2011, 01:11 AM   #4
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Thanks for sharing, BiTodd. It was similar for me. The older I got, I realized that many people thought it was weird or wrong to be attracted to the same sex, so I just tried to ignore how I felt. Now that I'm in my thirties, I try to embrace the feelings I have for other women. It's just a part of me - always has been and always will be.
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Old 11-20-2011, 01:25 AM   #5
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What I noticed that was kinda neat was that when I first started giving into the fantasy and experiencing m/m in real life it seemed much more exciting because of the taboo thoughts and stereotypes surrounding it. Kinda made it that much hotter.
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Old 11-20-2011, 01:28 AM   #6
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For me it was the opposite-- I can remember the first time I was attracted to the opposite sex, instead of a woman.

I had my first period, about two weeks later-- I had ovulated for the very first time, and dudes-- suddenly-- smelled good to me. I was totally prepared for the menses, back in those days they shoved Sex ed down your throat every year from fourth grade on. But the dudes thing felt very strange, like I was gay suddenly. Which as it turns out, I kinda was.
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Old 11-20-2011, 01:37 AM   #7
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I was attracted to both girls and guys very early on, but whenever I was in a situation such as a changing room nude girls and women would get me excited. I had a friend in freshman year high who was the first girl I felt real attraction for. We hung out, talked about sex, it led to kissing and mutual masturbation.....so, age 14.
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Old 11-20-2011, 05:44 AM   #8
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I was attracted to both girls and guys very early on, but whenever I was in a situation such as a changing room nude girls and women would get me excited. I had a friend in freshman year high who was the first girl I felt real attraction for. We hung out, talked about sex, it led to kissing and mutual masturbation.....so, age 14.
I can't remember ever *not* being attracted to both sexes, actually. From the time I was VERY young (much too young to tell about here) I was interested in and pursuing opportunities for sexual exploration with cousins, siblings, alone, the family dog (which in retrospect is really strange and not a desire I've had since maybe puberty), pretty much anything to do with sex.

For me, sex was everywhere growing up. My dad always had the Playboy channel on and my bedroom door faced the TV. Sometimes I'd lay there for hours after being put to bed, watching the sex on TV, my dad and sometimes mom's backs to my door, all the while they thought I was asleep. Boy were they wrong. Later, when we had to move to a tiny place and all share a single room apartment, they'd fuck like bunnies in the night and I'd always wake up and watch quietly from my spot.

Anyway, long story short, when I realized that sexual activity feels good, it was pretty much open to any possibility, and have been ever since. Exceptions being kids, poop and, in adulthood, animals, 'cause that's all just gross and wrong :P
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Old 11-20-2011, 05:53 AM   #9
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I think I realized (not fully accepted) my bisexuality when I had a crush on this gym teacher. He was very good looking and I wanted to see him naked so badly. Before that, I didn't seem to disgusted with seeing guys on TV in their underwear or anything.
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Old 11-20-2011, 09:40 AM   #10
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I had those early experience with my neighbor....but not an attraction. I Think the real interest or attraction was just after my first marriage ended.....I've always had that take a peek in the locker room shower....BUT. The attention given to that SINsation....was after my divorce....so 20yrs ago
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Old 11-20-2011, 11:23 AM   #11
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I discovered my bisexuality when I was 16 or 17. I had the biggest crush on my older next door neighbor. I knew he was gay but I was too scared to approach him. I fought my feelings until I was 27 years old. That was when I sucked a cock and got fucked for the first time I haven't slowed down since
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Old 11-20-2011, 11:29 AM   #12
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I discovered my bisexuality when I was 16 or 17. I had the biggest crush on my older next door neighbor. I knew he was gay but I was too scared to approach him. I fought my feelings until I was 27 years old. That was when I sucked a cock and got fucked for the first time I haven't slowed down since
Similar situation but he did approach me
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Old 11-20-2011, 05:16 PM   #13
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I was 20 or 21 when I had a not very close friend and one night thought, man, I would love to have sex with him.
And that was also pretty much my entire coming out story as well.
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Old 11-20-2011, 05:40 PM   #14
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I had always been drawn to the female body, not necessarily sexually but always appreciative of its form... later on one of my very close girl friends and I were inseparable and after a late night out together, I slept over at her place. A few things were discussed, including our mutual attraction and that led to lots of experimentation together over the next couple years. Although I have been very attracted to other women over the years and had a couple less meaningful relationships w/ other females, still to this day she is the one woman who makes my heart flutter everytime I hear from her.
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Old 11-21-2011, 12:19 AM   #15
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When I was a teen and a friend of mine on a sleep over tried to suck my cock. I didn't let him because he caught me off guard and I'd never been in that situation before, but I immediately regretted my decision and hoped he'd try again. The situation never came up again, but I knew then that I was attracted to boys as well as girls.
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Old 11-21-2011, 12:45 AM   #16
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My best friend, in my late preteen years. He slept over at my place one night, and somehow we got talking about our dicks, I guess, and I quite liked looking at his hard cock. I put my mouth on it for a second, but I wanted to do more. I ended up sucking him a few times in my mid-teens, but that first time was I guess when I realized cocks were fun to play with.
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Old 11-21-2011, 10:48 AM   #17
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I think I have always been excited by men, but women too. Like a lot of other guys I had my first encounter in the boy scouts (the most homophobic organization in the USA since the Baptists over ran the great state of Mississippi). It started with circle jerks. We started sucking each other during these times more so out of curiousity than anything else, but I really liked it. I remember being on a camping trip when I was 14 and 6 or 7 of us had a circle jerk in the woods in the middle of the night and 5 of us sucked each other off. I was really turned on by that. When I was 16 I had an affair with a man in his 30's. He really awakened the submissive side of me and he was my first real anal experience (we played with each others asses when I was younger, but I never was fucked by a hard cock until then). I had by then been played with a few girls (and was having a continuing encounter with a woman), but the sex with the guys was a lot different, somewhat liberating I think. It has continued to this day.
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Old 11-21-2011, 10:59 AM   #18
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tuna very funny.
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Old 11-21-2011, 11:44 AM   #19
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I've always been attracted more to personalities then genitalia- so being bisexual wasn't this big giant deal for me, personally. But I'm from the fucking bible belt- so I had lied to myself pretty hardcore for most of my life. My first "gay" crushes were... as lame as this is, pretty much any strong, masculine villain from ANYTHING.

But- fun story, my PARENTS acidentally bought me my first porn, ever- and it was gay. They knew I loved Pokemon, so in an effort to buy my love (which my mom tends to do when she gets money) they were buying me anything with an "R" on it. One of the books they bought me was from an import store in the mall; this one.



So... my parents, like many at the time, either didn't know or didn't care what hentai was. So I got to learn from my favorite pages, like these.



The whole thing is available here: http://www.team-rocket-hentai.com/te...ry-page-1.html

But yeah- something about that made me fall pretty bad for Giovanni- I wanted to be James so bad I couldn't stand it anyway. He's hot, he's rich, he's got a talking cat and a hot girlfriend- and apparently, he takes it up the ass from the rich and powerful. So yeah- that's fucking hot.

I think I may have found a new profile pic:

But, as I grew up, like everyone else, I kind of had to stop admitting that I was attracted to people I was- tried to build my own narrow scope to weed them out as potential partners- because of the social stigma and pure, cowardly fear. But that sucked, so I recently stopped.
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I remember when I was about 14 or 15, a buddy of mine had found a porn magazine in the woods.(So he says) He showed it to me and I remember my cock started to get hard in my jeans. As I flipped through it, I cam across all the "ads" in the back. Once of them was for a gay phone chat line (I think) and had pictures of guys having sex. My semi hard cock immediately became rock hard and began leaking pre-cum. I quickly shut the magazine and remember thinking about it later. I was very worried that I would get married and find myself thinking about sex with men and/or getting caught.

So, now here I am some thirty years later, married with kids and knowing that I am bisexual. I have played with a buddy of mine and it has been a lot of erotic fun.
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Old 11-21-2011, 11:48 AM   #21
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Old 11-21-2011, 07:03 PM   #22
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I'm bi but I never tried anything as of yet. I'd love to live out my fantasies one day
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i guess i had normal courosities as to what other guys dicks looked like and looked at them in cheri and hustler mags. But i dont think i really started to think of doing any thing until i started to watch porn videos. my younger brother jacked off together a few times but the first time i felt a cock was when i was in the navy at a gloryhole. Then one of my navy friends and i met each other at a gloryhole and we sucked and fucked each other for the remaineder of our enlistment.
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i guess i had normal courosities as to what other guys dicks looked like and looked at them in cheri and hustler mags. But i dont think i really started to think of doing any thing until i started to watch porn videos. my younger brother jacked off together a few times but the first time i felt a cock was when i was in the navy at a gloryhole. Then one of my navy friends and i met each other at a gloryhole and we sucked and fucked each other for the remaineder of our enlistment.
That sound awesome!

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I was 15 and at a high school forensics competition. I was a bundle of nerves, waiting in the room where I would deliver my piece, silently mouthing the words to some poem while those ahead of me took their turns before the judges. The door opened and, a red-headed girl stepped in. I swear to you all, I stopped breathing. It was the first moment I experienced with either sex where all noise around me ceased, a crowded room suddenly disappeared, etc. She was the most beautiful thing I have ever seen. She sat down beside me as the judges took a break. We chatted very casually, and I learned her name was Rainy. Rainy! Her name was as thrilling as her hair, her skin, her eyes, her smile. I have never been so smitten. I think about her to this day.
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