Male genital Torture

Kirabeth

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I was reading through the post this morning and ran across one on Genital Torture that focused on female genital torture and after reading it I just got to wondering what the male point of view was on male genital torture.

I know a few male subs who are into it and enjoy it very much. But then again I know a few males who just cringe at the thought.

So in my nosey, curious sorta way what are your views on the subject of male genital torture, have you tried it, has it been tried on you or did you try it on another, did you enjoy it, did your partner enjoy it, what are some tips if any you would give to someone who wanted it to try it or have it tried on them, what are some ideas to try. What are some of the saftey issues and how do you go about making sure they are met? etc etc...
 
Kirabeth said:
So in my nosey, curious sorta way what are your views on the subject of male genital torture, have you tried it, has it been tried on you or did you try it on another, did you enjoy it, did your partner enjoy it, what are some tips if any you would give to someone who wanted it to try it or have it tried on them, what are some ideas to try. What are some of the saftey issues and how do you go about making sure they are met? etc etc...
It's usually called cock and ball torture, or CBT.

Try a search, or look in the library.
 
I enjoy it as a spice...

I enjoy it, fantasize about it, and have done it both to myself and at someone else's hand. For me it is a spice that can be added to the mix. Depending upon the actual tecnique, a little can go a long way.

For me the feeling of being at someone's mercy is what makes it hot, and genital torture is such a clear and dramatic way to prove who is controling the situation.

Gregor
 
That's somewhat of a taboo topic around here, though some 'pro' dommes will describe what they do.

I think the safety issues are mainly, not to twist the testicles; not to strike in such way as to damage (though that takes some doing) or crush to the point of rupture (again, takes some doing); also to avoid inserting any non sterile objects more than, say, an inch into the male urethra.

Since the topic is broad, you may PM me if you like about anything specific.
 
My play partner doesn't even allow me to nibble. I'd realy like to try playing around with Urethral Sounds but I know he would never allow that....
 
I enjoy it very much, of course the safety issue is something of a concern. But the biggest part of that is my partner. I trust Her completely. I also know that if I have any concerns She will take them seriously. But the danger of it..the knowledge that an unintentioned mistake could (at the least) hurt like hell, that really, really, really gets to me. <shiver>
 
sphynx's dragon said:
I enjoy it very much, of course the safety issue is something of a concern. But the biggest part of that is my partner. I trust Her completely. I also know that if I have any concerns She will take them seriously. But the danger of it..the knowledge that an unintentioned mistake could (at the least) hurt like hell, that really, really, really gets to me. <shiver>
do you mind if I ask what you like her to do? I'm trying to find out what my boy may allow...
 
No I don't mind at all. All though it occasionally doesn't work quite right, since Her hands are rather small, squeezing and streching is almost always a way for Her to get both my attention and my compliance. My enjoying it as well is a benift too. She likes to nibble and that is also very enjoyable. She has recently started occasionaly having me wear cock rings during everyday activities. This causes the entire area to push out more rubbing against my clothes and while disracting as hell, it is a way for Her to insure my thoughts continually return to Her while we are seperated. <shrug> From what I have sumrised from comments and such She has purchased a few more things so I may have more in a few weeks (shipping and what not). Hope this is helpful, I promise as more is discovered I'll share.
 
My boy adores CBT. We haven't tried 'everything' by any means but he loves cock and ball bondage, ball crushing *yes, safely you that spaz*, flogging, slapping, etc. Jack Rinella has a fabulous article on CBT that I"ll post later if I'm feeling ambitious. He's been around forever and gives quite a bit of wonderful advise.

There is no right or wrong in any BDSM play so long as you're both enjoying yourselves and adhering to your own standards for safety. That's one of the best things about this lifestyle is the ability to modify it to suit you and yours. :)

Have fun, take your time and try it ALL. If nothing else, you'll get a deeper insight into one another and explore some fantasies along the way. That makes it all worth the effort IMO.

Linkage: Not the Jack link but a good one nonetheless.

Darkness: CBT

Here's Jack. :)

CBT article

and again, on genitorture.

Genitorture by Jack
 
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i humbly submit,
as my lady above states (LadyNatasha) i do love CBT. Of course not all forms of CBT appeal to me. Tug-o-war for example, probably because i dont trust the other slave. Really thats what CBT is to me, ultimate control, ultimate trust. iv'e found for me that less is more too. A little CBT goes a long way, and its not long before i'm putty in her hands.

nix
 
sphynx's dragon said:
No I don't mind at all. All though it occasionally doesn't work quite right, since Her hands are rather small, squeezing and streching is almost always a way for Her to get both my attention and my compliance. My enjoying it as well is a benift too. She likes to nibble and that is also very enjoyable. She has recently started occasionaly having me wear cock rings during everyday activities. This causes the entire area to push out more rubbing against my clothes and while disracting as hell, it is a way for Her to insure my thoughts continually return to Her while we are seperated. <shrug> From what I have sumrised from comments and such She has purchased a few more things so I may have more in a few weeks (shipping and what not). Hope this is helpful, I promise as more is discovered I'll share.
Can't wait to hear about your experiences! I'll let you know if I get anywhere too!
 
Kirabeth said:
..... I know a few male subs who are into it and enjoy it very much. But then again I know a few males who just cringe at the thought. .....
*raises hand* one of the latter lol. Never done it though, but not being a masochist I can't imagine it being too much fun for me. I don't know much much Mistress is into it, not much I think.... and hope.......
 
niteloser said:
Can't wait to hear about your experiences! I'll let you know if I get anywhere too!
I'm not sure if sphynx's dragon is following his threads faithfully....he's had some recent experiences...I should remind him to come online and post. I have some of the photo documentation if you'd like to see some.....
 
As I have been reminded (most pointedly) I should relay a few images with perhaps (Her phrasing not my own) some insight as to why I received it. Well I have this probem...I tend to get smart mouthed...and...well...here's the result....

...also I am obliged to inform you more will be forthcoming as She deems it to be so... <shiver>
 
I believe tealsphynx already posted a few pics of you dragon, on another thread. would these be the same?
 
Aeroil said:
I believe tealsphynx already posted a few pics of you dragon, on another thread. would these be the same?

he did but apparently his Mistress requested he repost them.

I wouldn't consider that CBT personally, just some light bondage IMO. I'm a sadist though. :p
 
sphynx's dragon said:
Yes She did...apparently She finds my blushes very cute.
ah, well, I can understand that, so does mine.......
 
sphynx's dragon said:
As I have been reminded (most pointedly) I should relay a few images with perhaps (Her phrasing not my own) some insight as to why I received it. Well I have this probem...I tend to get smart mouthed...and...well...here's the result....

...also I am obliged to inform you more will be forthcoming as She deems it to be so... <shiver>
mmm very nice. Real leather?
 
niteloser said:
mmm very nice. Real leather?

Yes all real leather...<shiver>...I am unfortunately in trouble again...<sigh> I need to learn to keep my mouth shut !!
 
sphynx's dragon said:
Yes all real leather...<shiver>...I am unfortunately in trouble again...<sigh> I need to learn to keep my mouth shut !!
Is it bad that I'm excited that you are in trouble??? I think you should be in trouble at least twice a day.
 
niteloser said:
Is it bad that I'm excited that you are in trouble??? I think you should be in trouble at least twice a day.

I wouldn't say bad...I think...maybe... as long as you don't encourage me getting in trouble to fulfill it... :D I still have this horrid sense of forboding...She's sick and is taking Her time in formulating my punishment... <sigh>
 
sphynx's dragon said:
I wouldn't say bad...I think...maybe... as long as you don't encourage me getting in trouble to fulfill it... :D I still have this horrid sense of forboding...She's sick and is taking Her time in formulating my punishment... <sigh>

ooo this ought to be good then... and how would I encourage you to be bad? :devil: Maybe you shouldn't tell me... I may do it.
 
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