How wet do YOU get?

serijules

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I've always assumed everyone gets as wet as I do when I'm turned on. I'm not sure why I assumed that, considering how baffled I've always been at the insistance of lube lube lube with toys, especially anal sex or anal toys.

When I am turned on, I get extremely wet. Dripping wet. I like THICK cocks or toys...and I don't like lube. Not for the pain factor, which if it is there is only an added bonus, but I never *need* it. I prefer anal sex over vaginal, but I've never been fucked with lube. The lube from my wet and shaved pussy is more than enough for even the thicker toys and cocks in either holes.

My Domme delights in this. I asked her about this the other day after she commented on how we likely wouldn't need much lube at all for a fisting. Aren't most women like this? She smirked at me and said hardly. That surprised me.

Thus my wondering what other people's experience is with how wet you/your partner gets, what you need lube for, etc. I just feel somewhat abnormal. Do I really get that much more wet than most? Or maybe I just want the pain factor, although it's usually not there because I'm so wet everything just slips right in...and out!
 
LOL, well I have had complaints from some men I get too wet, and have on more than one occasion had the embarrassing situation of being in the supermarket aisle and felt the familiar trickle as my juices dribble down my legs into my shoes. Like you I have often been told it is far from the usual. That being said, F still uses lube at times and depending on the activity to make it easier on himself as he says I am also very tight. I have noticed changes in the wetness of late due to hormonal changes, but nothing too drastic at this point as it is only a day every few weeks and I guess is not totally unexpected for most women of a particular age...as it is, I gather those days bring me more into keeping with what other women experience every day.

Catalina:rose:
 
as compared to what? Lake Mead? Niagara Falls?

as compared to who? Catalina? You?

I get wet enough to make my experiences and those of my partner pleasureable. Until I'm in the same room as Catalina - and I don't see that ever happening ... there's no real way to make a comparison.

LOL
 
It wasn't really a comparison question...just curious at other people's experiences. I find my own experiences to be more of a hassle than not because nothing ever stays put.
 
serijules said:
It wasn't really a comparison question...just curious at other people's experiences. I find my own experiences to be more of a hassle than not because nothing ever stays put.

You said your Domme "delights in this." Isn't that all that really matters? You are pleasing to your Domme. What more is there to ask for?

Personally, I think you're quite the lucky young lady.
 
A Desert Rose said:
You said your Domme "delights in this." Isn't that all that really matters? You are pleasing to your Domme. What more is there to ask for?

Personally, I think you're quite the lucky young lady.

Yes, I am :)

And yes, that's all that matters between her and I, and I delight in HER pleasure of it. But I don't have any concerns about that matter, I don't use forums to tell me about pleasing my Domme, she trains me quite well in that aspect. I go to message boards and participate for entertainment and curiosity and, well, being social.

What more is there to ask for? Well, the experiences and thoughts of others regarding lube and/or wetness. It popped into my mind so I thought I'd share :)

It's not an overly insightful question. More of an attempt at discussion really. I guess I kinda suck at that. Probably why I've never started a post, heh. Oh well.
 
Serijules- you're quite lucky. Many women don't get that very wet at all.
Others like myself can but it depends on many things, even the environment can play a factor.

So being quite wet whenever wanted/needed is a rare but nifty thing.

Would love to never have to use lube, lol.
 
Vixandra said:
Serijules- you're quite lucky. Many women don't get that very wet at all.
Others like myself can but it depends on many things, even the environment can play a factor.

So being quite wet whenever wanted/needed is a rare but nifty thing.

Would love to never have to use lube, lol.

Yes, what she said. It would be nice if lube was never neccessary.
 
Vixandra said:
Serijules- you're quite lucky. Many women don't get that very wet at all.
Others like myself can but it depends on many things, even the environment can play a factor.

So being quite wet whenever wanted/needed is a rare but nifty thing.

Would love to never have to use lube, lol.

It's kind of unusual to find out something about yourself that is maybe not so much the norm when you used to think that was "just the way it was".

Thanks for sharing your thoughts. It IS handy to not have to carry lube, I'll say that, lol. Cleanup can be a bitch though.
 
Hey, some of us guys get wet too you know. Precum!

I have had it soak through underwear and jeans before when extremely turned on. I've never been with a girl that didn't absolutely love it as well. I can be with a girl that doesn't lube too much and more than make up for it with my own.
 
Oops, I didn't think of you guys Betticus, sorry! I don't deal with guys a whole lot anymore.
 
If I'm sufficiently turned on I've never really needed lube for vaginal activities unless they go on for decades.

As for anal, call me weird, but I hate the feel of lubed things, it feels very unerotic and thermometer like up there. I prefer going very slowly with something only as lubed as a lubed condom, so I can feel some friction. Cold and drippy never works up there.
 
Not weird to me, I'm much the same. Awhile back I was playing with a Dom who I'm allowed to have fuck my ass...for some reason, he decided to use lube although we've never needed it before. It made for a horrible time. Lube combined with the wetness already spread there, I could hardly feel anything at all because it was so slippery and we were making the most unappealing sounds with all that wetness, turned me off immediately.

I think that is partially why I don't necessarily like how wet I do get despite my Domme loving it. I like that friction and I can never get that vaginally because I end up being just too wet. I am very glad it is something she enjoys though.
 
Used to. Don't so much anymore. Perturbed.

And Betticus, that would almost be a deal-breaker for me. Very paranoid about pregnancy and there's that damned 0.1% that always freaks me out. I'll keep my lube on my side, thanks very much.
 
It depends on the state of my hormones and on how aroused I am. If all is right with me hormonally (yep, I'm at that age) and I'm aroused, it runs down my legs. Otherwise, I may have to use lube.
 
I get extremely wet when I'm with Master - we've never had to use artificial lube for anything, including anal sex. When He plays with my gspot (and we've begun including a vibrating bullet into our play) I've been known to soak through a couple of towels :eek:

Regarding fisting - we haven't gone there yet but Master has gotten all His fingers in there at times, and He says it probably would not take much to get His whole hand inside :eek:
 
Quint said:
Used to. Don't so much anymore. Perturbed.

And Betticus, that would almost be a deal-breaker for me. Very paranoid about pregnancy and there's that damned 0.1% that always freaks me out. I'll keep my lube on my side, thanks very much.

Most of the women I've been with like it. I think it is the incredibly aroused visual of making a man get wet like that. Add to that the fact that I'm extremely sensitive down there and make noise, can't help it.

Besides, even without any precum there is still a chance of some semen leaking. Even condoms aren't 100%.
 
I'm with Desdemona, but I've had some moments where I've had to leave to come home because of it, so it's not always the most wonderful thing in the world.
 
i think i'm weird...i'm either sahara desert dry, or drippy, drippy wet. and like serijules, i can't stand being extremely wet because of the lack of friction (i.e. pain). sex to me is only good when it hurts, so a smooth slick ride really does nothing for me. also, my physical arousal is rarely connected to my mental arousal. i may be COMPLETELY turned off, but my pussy is dripping like a woman in ecstasy. i just don't get it.

as for lube, my Master doesn't care for it too much. He will sometimes use it with anal, only so it's less painful for him. and sometimes he will advise other men who use me sexually to use lube on my pussy, since they must wear condoms and condoms dry me out really fast. i love being dry tho...i've always wished someone would come up with a pill women could take to stay dry.
 
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