Goodbye Thread

A few things have happened to me in the past few months that I am ashamed of. First of all, last night I had an outting with a friend. This was because of something I did to someoen else a few weeks before that. With that Litster, the story goes that she & I were talking casually. She said that she falls in love very easily. I do, as well. But, I wasn't prepared for her to say it to me the very next day. I paniced, &, if you know me, I try no to deliberately hurt people's feelings. So, I said I love you back to her, even though I wasn't in love. I knew if I said that I would have made that person very happy. Now I know what a mistake that was. I should have been honest from the start. To that litster, I am sorry. I talked to the friened previously mentioned about this. She was none to happy for my actions. This litster, who I have been talking to for a lot longer & we had become great friends, I had fallen in love with. But, I knew that, realistically, I had to keep those feelings locked up, &, just remain very good friends. I told her as much, but, she doesn't believe me. I understand why. If I had lied to the other litster about my feelings, I could easily do the same to her. So, to her, I am also very sorry. For these reasons, I don't think I can ever show my face in her, again. I have some maturing yet to do. I also have many other friends who adore me. But, I don't think I deserve there adoration, because of the things I have done to those other listers. It felt like I was living a lie. I can't do that, anymore. To you all, I say , again, goodbye. I enjoyed the time I was here. I will miss all of you.

I, for one, will be sorry to see you go.

But, please, before you leave, fix this typo:

nasty said:

For these reasons, I don't think I can ever show my face in her, again.

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I'm sorry to see you go but do what is best for you now. Be safe and happy.

nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo you aren't going anywhere damn it

I think you're silly for leaving over this, but whatever makes you happy.

I've got ten bucks that says this post is not nasty's last.

Hey Nasty.

Dont be an idiot.

See ya tomorrow.

modest mouse said:

I've got ten bucks that says this post is not nasty's last.

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shut up MM

I was beginning to feel weird without the daily goodbye threads.


whatever floats your boat hun. hope things work out for ya in the end.

Oh please...if that's the worst thing you've done I'll nominate you for sainthood.

Just give Lit a break for a bit and come back and if your friends were truly your friends they'll understand. Don't write them and Lit off just yet.

jaded_lily said:

shut up MM

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You can write me a check for the ten bucks.

CoolBlue74 said:

Oh please...if that's the worst thing you've done I'll nominate you for sainthood.

Just give Lit a break for a bit and come back and if your friends were truly your friends they'll understand. Don't write them and Lit off just yet.

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Or take a break and make all new friends.

lol

Nasty

Life is a bitch sometimes. We all fuck up from time to time. Give yourself a few days to get your head in order . Come back and resolve to try and not make the same mistakes again.

You have many friends here, don't desert them.

modest mouse said:

You can write me a check for the ten bucks.

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sorry don't do checks will a money order do

As one who doesn't care for your nasty bedroom tastes but still likes you I'll be sorry to see you go.

C'mon nasty!! Suck it up!! You're behaving like a hurt child. Get a grip and hang around. Besides you're one of the few I enjoy teasing around here.

Do what you feel you need to do nasty, I don't think though that you have to leave Lit...make amends and mosey on down the road I say. Should you decide though to go I wish you the best of luck with life, I'll miss you. *kisses*

jaded_lily said:

sorry don't do checks will a money order do

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How bout a crisp ten dollar bill?

Throw in a reality check for everyone who goes with the giant dramatc, overly explained goodbye thread and I'll knock it down to a five spot and a cup of coffee.

maybe a hiatus instead of a goodbye. not like you killed someone.

I'm fairly sure I know who you're talking about, and I'm also fairly sure she wouldn't want you to leave. Not because she'd feel bad about scaring you away, but because I think she genuinely does appreciate you as a friend. We all have shitfits sometimes. What you did wasn't the right thing, no, but the important thing is that you're sorry for it. And you will be forgiven. Right now you feel you have to publicly punish yourself because that way you can show repentance - but I think you'd be much more kind on yourself if you were to talk to this friend of yours and tell her just how much you appreciate her friendship, instead.

Of course, sometimes we all need a break from Lit. Maybe a short time away to think things through would be a good idea for you. But I don't think so - as I see it, this is a sort of running away. Don't do it. Stay - face the rebukes - and accept the forgiveness. Even if you do leave you'll still think about it each day, wondering if they'll ever forgive you.

Nasty,

I don't think you should go - the fact that you have recognized your faux pas tells me that you wouldn't do it again. Take a break and come back when you feel better.

plasticman33 said:

C'mon nasty!! Suck it up!! You're behaving like a hurt child. Get a grip and hang around. Besides you're one of the few I enjoy teasing around here.

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Exactly.

If everyone left Lit every time they said something wrong or screwed up, it would be a wasteland.

Besides, MM is right..you'll be back to respond to your friends and those that are concerned.

Hey silly billy, get your arse back here and keep making us all feel good about ourselves. Don't you realise that's your role in life? I'd miss you to heck of you were to leave, so stay and continue to make this place a nice place to be. ........ ok?

ps... loves ya kiddo.

modest mouse said:

How bout a crisp ten dollar bill?

Throw in a reality check for everyone who goes with the giant dramatc, overly explained goodbye thread and I'll knock it down to a five spot and a cup of coffee.

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sorry sweetie all out of 10 dollar bills, don't wanna face reality right now either lol.