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Abuse

DISCUSSIONS

"No one should suffer abuse unwillingly at the hands of another." - Monster666

Additional links:

Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network

The White Ribbon Campaign

National Leather Association - Domestic Violence Project

National Domestic Violence Hotline

Battered Men - The Hidden Side of Domestic Violence

Domestic Violence in the S/M Community

Woman's Aid

After Care

DISCUSSIONS

"A few days after my first real "immersion" into sub-space, I was overwhelmed by a feeling of hopelessness, loss, and inexpressible despair." - RisiaSkye

Additional links:


Age Play

DISCUSSIONS

"My real Daddy was my first Master/Dom in a relationship that was consensual, educational, supportive, loving, and to me, perfect." - joi

Additional links:

Daddy - The Magazine

ErosZine Article - Mommy Katt

BRC Article - Age play terms

DomSubFriends - Age Play Resources

Anal Play

DISCUSSIONS

See Also: Strap-Ons

"Lots of lube, lots of foreplay, and lots of patience." - seXieleXie

Additional links:

Rectal Foreign Bodies

Pucker Up - Tristan Taormino Site

10 Rules of Anal Sex - Sexuality Org

Avatars
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DISCUSSIONS

"What is it your seeking to reveal about yourself or what's important to you via the adoption of an av?" - cymbidia

Additional links:

Erotic BDSM Paintshop Avatars

Lucylastics Fantasy & Erotic Avatars

After Care

DISCUSSIONS

"A few days after my first real "immersion" into sub-space, I was overwhelmed by a feeling of hopelessness, loss, and inexpressible despair." - RisiaSkye

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BDSM

DISCUSSIONS

"for me it takes sex way beyond the idea of naked flesh, and an orgasm.
it delves into the part of your mind you feared, and then found out it turns you on."
- ivantheterrible

Additional links:

Bisexuality

DISCUSSIONS

"Whether or not you personally identify with the label "bisexual" really has no effect on whether or not you can (or do) participate in same-sex behaviors." - RisiaSkye

Blood Play

Located in: Edge Play

Body Modification

DISCUSSIONS

See Also: Branding

"Some ppl like getting stuck with needles...and having their bodies modified...and imagine this one; some even like pain." - Kajira Callista

Additional links:

Fakir Musafar - Body Play

Body Modification Culture

Tattoo News & Resources

Bondage

DISCUSSIONS

"A dream... to be made into a work of art by Mistress... and left bound in such beautiful wrappings and used as the centerpiece at her party." - Merelan

Additional links:

Rope Tutorials by MorTis[/font]

Rope Fashions

Link to Homburg's post of Rope Tutorial sites

Link to Homburg's post of Rope Vendors

Books - BDSM

DISCUSSIONS

See Also: Literature

"Sometimes I have to remind myself that just because someone says something (usually someone in authority) doesn't make it law, and it doesn't mean it's an educated intelligent statement. I think somewhere growing up I just thought if someone in charge said something, it must be so. Thankfully I've learned otherwise..but sometimes old habits are hard to break. I think it's good to keep in check where exactly information is coming from so as not to go down the wrong path." - Hisbabydoll26

Additional links:

The BDSM Book Club Discussion Thread

Reading Books For Pleasure

Branding

Located in: Edge Play

Brats/SAM's

DISCUSSIONS

However, I see a difference between being a brat and playful bantering or teasing. Daddy and I both enjoy this type of interaction. I know when he has a certain look on his face or tone of voice that it's time to stop and get back to immediate obedience. I also know what lines not to cross.

I don't see brat as being any more or less submissive than then any other pyls. In the end as long as the PYL gets what they want then the pyl is submissive. - ecstatic sub

Additional links:

Breast Play

DISCUSSIONS

"One of the things that makes me go almost instantly into subspace is to be tied with my back to the cross, blindfolded and having my breasts flogged."

Additional links:

History of Breast Torture

Breast Torture Toys

ABC's of Breast Torture

Breath Play

Located in: Edge Play

Additional links:

Viewpoints Concerning Erotic Asphyxiation

An Overview on Breath Control Play

Bruises

Located in: Leftovers
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Caning

Located in: Impact Play

Checklists

DISCUSSIONS

See Also: Safety/Safe Words/Safe Calls

"Those checklist links were VERY helpful in allowing me to translate to MY-Sir-, what I am willing to submit to. And what really turns me on." - ~*sunkyssed_kym*~

Additional links:

Souls Haven - The NEW BDSM Checklist

A Submissives Journey - BDSM Checklist

DomSubFriends - Scene Questionnaire

Clothes/Costumes

DISCUSSIONS

"I can't recall any article of clothing that's ever made me feel so utterly sexy." - superlittlegirl

Additional links:

Cafe Press - Fetish T-shirts

Chain Maille Fashions

Fetish Factory Online

Westward Bound - Quality Alternate Clothing

Syren Latex Fetish Fashions


Cock and Ball Torture (CBT)

Located in: Genitorture

Collars

Located in: Symbols of Ownership

Confinement

DISCUSSIONS

"I am totally into the idea of one of those type cages that they use to transport hunting dogs and the idea of caging as punishment." - rosco rathbone

Additional links:

Dungeon-Steel Cages

Contracts

DISCUSSIONS

"Every time you discuss limits, fantasies, fears, desires, and expectations, you're negotiating your contract." - RisiaSkye

Additional links:

D/s Lifestyle Example Contracts

Crossdressing

DISCUSSIONS

Additional links:

Crossdressing Freedom

Cuckoldry

DISCUSSIONS

See Also: Humiliation

Additional links:

Sensual and Erotic BDSM: A Cuckold Relationship Examined
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Dictionary

DISCUSSIONS

Additional links:

DomSub Friends

BDSM Definitions of Terms

The Kinky Dictionary

Disabilities and BDSM

DISCUSSIONS

"How do you deal with disabilities in D/s and BDSM situations?" - Dustygrrl

Additional links:

disabilitiesinfo.gov

ADA

Sex and Disability

How to Survive BDSM Despite Your Disabilities

Dating Sexuality & Disabilities

Complete Support for Fibromyalgia & Chronic Pain & All Related Illnesses[/font]

Fibromyalgia Information Foundation & Frida Kahlo's life and art

Disability Studies and the Inclusion of Disability in Sex-Positive Communities

Discipline/Punishment

DISCUSSIONS

"Punishment does not help Me get the superior service I desire. Direction and control does." - Ebonyfire

Additional links:

Steel Door Newsletter - Punishment VS Discipline

Dominance/Domination

DISCUSSIONS

"My dominance is about being who I am, letting loose my hunger and needs and feeding them. It is about commitment with my partner, it is about love, passion, and sex as much as it is pain, control, and humiliation." - Francisco (catalina_francisco)

Additional links:

Advice to a Novice Dominant

Cuffs Master's Domain

The Dominant's View - eZine

The Good Girl's Guide to Female Domination

Edge Play

DISCUSSIONS

Additional links:

BDSM Resources: Fire Play

Fire Cups and Vacuum Cupping

Violet Wand Safety

Multiple Violet Wand Sites

Knives, Knife Play & Cuttings

Playing with Blood

Wikipedia reference - Blood-borne disease

Branding - A Personal Journey

Scarification FAQ

Kiss of Fire - The ABC's of Branding


Electroplay

Located in: Edge Play

Events/Locales (BDSM)

DISCUSSIONS

"I go to a munch because I want to meet people and learn about the lifestyle. There's no way I would attend if I felt I had to adhere to certain rules of conduct beyond common courtesy, or be judged for my lack of knowledge and experience." - CarolineOh

Additional links:

BDSM - The Local Scene UK

BDSM - The Local Scene USA

How to Start a BDSM Discussion Club

Assessing Your Local Scene Essay

BDSM Events - Current Calendar of Upcoming Events
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Old 08-22-2004, 01:09 AM   #7
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Fantasy

Discussions

See Also: NonCon/Rape/Reluctance Fantasy and RolePlay

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Feminization

DISCUSSIONS

Additional links:

The House of Sissify

Fetish

DISCUSSIONS

"I've had a major fetish for pretty female feet and toes since I can remember." - LovingDaddy

Additional links:

Fetish Information Exchange

Paraphilia Reference List

Fetish Wear

Located in Clothing, Costumes, and Fetish Wear

Fire Play

Located in: Edge Play

Fisting

DISCUSSIONS

"The idea, and reality of taking a hand or a fist into the vaginal or anal cavities is powerfully suggestive of sadism for the fister, and provokes powerful images of masochistic surrender for the fistee." - sexielexie

Additional links:

SexInfo101: Fisting

Genitorture (Genital Torture)

DISCUSSIONS

"Hot wax on a hood ring is wonderful ..." - lilfrk

Additional links:

Female Genitorture

Genitorture - safety

Cock and Ball Torture

GLBT

DISCUSSIONS

Additional links:

Sexuality Org - GLB Archives

DomSub Friends - BDSM Resources Bisexual Pages

Queer Theory, deconstructing the construct

DISCUSSIONS
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Health

Discussions

Physical - Link

Mental -Link

"Personally, I hold to the "tend your own garden" model of psychiatry. In my experience, the people who spend the most time psychoanalyzing everyone around them are usually the people in greatest need of a little analysis themselves. It's the Freudian paradigm." - RisiaSkye

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Humiliation

DISCUSSIONS

"As a Dom, I prefer concocting a theatre of sensation to scenarios degrading or humiliating (anything distancing to me undercuts the mutuality and intimacy of the pleasure)." - barcaboy

Additional links:

"Humiliation" and BDSM or "Why is it"Humiliation" if I *LIKE* it?

Humor

DISCUSSIONS

"You mean you actually like to be told what to do? Doesn't that make you feel subservient? DUH!!!" - il mio angelo

Additional links:

The Three Great Lies of SM

Alkallah Humor Page

Impact Play

DISCUSSIONS

Additional links:

Glowing Results - Spanking Resources

Authority Figure - Videos

Toward intimacy - Preparing the buttocks

Guide to Sensuous Caning

Sarton's BDSM Workshop - Project Cane

Infantalism

Located in: Age Play
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Labels

DISCUSSIONS

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Law & BDSM

DISCUSSIONS

"I think most lawyers are more ethical about confidentiality than she is, but you're prudent to just not ever go back and tell people looking for a shrink not to go to her. I'd still talk to a lawyer and find out if it has to go to court, be public, etc. One good letter on letterhead talking about a federal mandate and removal of her license and I guarantee her day will suddenly be worse than yours." - Netzach

Additional links:

National Coalition for Sexual Freedom

Kink Aware Professionals

Leftovers

DISCUSSIONS

"I *love* left overs, they're tangible reminders of wonderful times. I hate when they fade." - foxy

Additional links:

Home Remedies For Bruises and Bruising

The Lifestyle/ 24/7

DISCUSSIONS

"I can't imagine NOT having BDSM for the basis of all my personal relationships. The way I relate to others (whether they are more or less Dominant than myself) is ingrained. I can't change that, nor do I want to. " - Luna_Wolf72

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Limits

DISCUSSIONS

"He has pushed my limits from a few different angles, and shattered a couple of limits that used to be "hard limits." - AnelizeDarkEyes

See Also: Checklists

Additional links:

Literature

DISCUSSIONS

"Anyone know of autobiographies of dom/mes, subs, bdsm folk, or similarly aberrated persons?" - Pure

Additional links:

Long Distance Relationships (LDR's)/Online Experiences

DISCUSSIONS

"...distance domination is NOT a fantasy but a truth and that it is possible." - boobsqueeezer

Additional links:

AskMen.com: Long Distance Relationships

Surviving a Long-Distance Relationship

BDSM/long distance relationships BDSM
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Masochism

DISCUSSIONS

"Why is it that just because you say you like to be beaten so many people assume that you like being made to crawl around on you knees on the end of a leash?" - katzeyez

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Misc.

DISCUSSIONS

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Munches

Located in: Events/Locales (BDSM)

Music

DISCUSSIONS

"I'm curious as to what sort of music people like to use for scenes. Is there a specific genre that people prefer? Specific songs, even?" - Lain

Additional links:

Non-consensual Fantasies and RolePlay

DISCUSSIONS

Additional links:

Obesity

DISCUSSIONS

See Also: Physical Health

Additional links:

Oral Sex

DISCUSSIONS

"There is not enough discussion here, in my opinion on what and how to please your Dom and his (oh my I can't believe I am saying this,) man-meat." - A Desert Rose

Additional links:

The 10 Cummandments of Giving a Man GOOD Oral

AskMen.com - Giving Her Oral Sex

Orgasms/Orgasm Control/Chastity Methods and Devices

DISCUSSIONS

"The idea of multiple is just completely foreign to me. The idea of so many that you have to beg for it to stop is completely alien to me. More power to you girls who can do it, though!" - Etoile

"I don't get the concept of forced orgasms. I also don't understand why a Dom would want to force an orgasm. I have watched sexandsubmission videos where a woman is brought to supposed orgasm with a vibrator. I, personally can't see how that can be pleasurable for her or the Dom. (I realize it is porn and not real life..but still ) I am multi-orgasmic. My Dom has been teaching me tantric sex. My orgasms have always been a series of peaks and valleys. Now they are peaks with plateaus, a level of orgasm that last for hours during continual sex. Why force something when getting there together and sustaining it is so damn amazing?" - ecstaticsub

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ChastityLifestyle.com
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Personal Topics

DISCUSSIONS

"The feeling of being used is not necessarily a bad one, to someone of a submissive frame of mind, it can be a desirable state." - James Blandings

Additional links:

Pet Play

DISCUSSIONS

"I am a human with some animalistic traits, and I want to be cared for and owned by someone who I look up to, and who I'm loyal to. I am stubborn and willful and I want what I want, and I don't want what I don't, and I'm cuddly and I love being pet and scratched, and I always want attention, but I also want to make my Person happy, and I hate to see him sad or disappointed, and I want to please him, even if I'm not always that good at it." - 00Syd

Additional links:

Philosophy/Introspection

DISCUSSIONS

"How do you define/relate sex and service in regards to dominance and submission?" - Richard49

Additional links:

erosZine - Midori - Chasing The Edge

Photography/Art

DISCUSSIONS

"I absolutely love art photos/paintings like these, those that combine the essential sensuality of the subject with incredible kink." - cymbidia

Additional links:

Museum of Erotic Art - UK

PaintedlLady - The Art of Jack Henslee

Kirinawa - The Art of Lochai

Ranshin - The Chaotic Heart - Midori


Polyamory

See Also: Relationships

DISCUSSIONS

"I have to say being in a poly relationship is the hardest thing I've ever done. That being said it is also the happiest I've ever been." - Snoozebutton

Additional links:

Multi-Person Relationships and BDSM

Bo-Org Polyamory - Loving more than one, honestly & openly

Alt Polyamory Resources

The Polyamory Index

Popular Culture and BDSM

DISCUSSIONS

"I think the idea that there's a definite split between BDSM and Vanilla is misleading, BDSM has three elements [four, really] all of which a person can enjoy a little or a lot of. It's a continuum and defining what is or isn't BDSM is impossible." - Never

Additional links:

Pornography

DISCUSSIONS

"It isn't porn unless you take pictures, and show them to ME, as far as I'm concerned." - DRxBlue

Additional links:

Pregnancy/Parenting

DISCUSSIONS

So now he has it all. My love, my submission and this child. Dont think I can give him more than this, as he has all I can offer now. - BiaTcHiNFiRe

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Professional BDSM

DISCUSSIONS

"Anyway - what I would like to hear are experiences or opinions re Pro Dommes." - Hecate

Additional links:

Max Fisch Domina Guide

Mistress Teresa May's Pandemos


Psychology

DISCUSSIONS

"The 'mind fuck' can be a useful tool at times. A chance to see just what the secret desires of a pet are and a chance to crush those desires and remind that pet of his place." - GoddessHelena

Additional links:

Public Scening

DISCUSSIONS

"I began topping in public as soon as I felt comfortable enough with the simple techniques I had down, and as soon as I had a plan and someone I wanted to try it out on." - Netzach

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Rape Fantasies and Role Play

Located in: Non-consentual Fantasies and Role Play

Relationships

See Also:Polyamory

DISCUSSIONS

"So adding D/s into an existing relationship is, um, difficult. Fortunately I have an open-minded lover." - FungiUg

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Religion

DISCUSSIONS

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Rituals

DISCUSSIONS

See Also: Collars/Symbols of Ownership

"Ritual in BDSM (Church too) is about taking the participants away from reality and into the theater of the mind (using the body as a conduit)." - pierced_boy

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Role Playing

DISCUSSIONS

See Also: NonCon/Rape/Reluctance Fantasy and RolePlay

"This is how a good piece of BDSM role play should go." - KillerMuffin

Additional links:

Roleplaying Thread I - BDSM

Roleplaying Thread II - BDSM
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Sadism

DISCUSSIONS

"Sexual submission, Domination, and violence go way back in our westernized literature." - RisiaSkye

Additional links:

History of Femdom ( to be moved )

Die Datenschlag-Chronik des Sadomasochismus

Safety/Safe Words/Safe Calls

DISCUSSIONS

"The most important thing about a safe call is to make it and that you know that the person who you are making the safe call to will act if you do not call." - catalina_francisco (catalina)

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Scenes

DISCUSSIONS

See Also: Public Scening

"Would [sic] you sort it all out beforehand and then go straight into the scene, would you take talking about it as part of the 'warm-up'" - petrel

Additional links:

Maintaining Communication and Trust During a Scene


Sensory Play

DISCUSSIONS

"As a Dom, I like to vary the sensation, even within a single scene. While i generally end with the sharpest pain, I think a good mix doesn't allow the sub to become complacent." - JohnnyMayberry

Additional links:

Erotic Spankings & Other Punishments

Sissification

Located in: Forced Feminization

Spanking

Located in: Impact Play

Strap-ons

DISCUSSIONS

"I like to strap one onto my guy, being careful to cage his cock in a rubber gates of hell first....and let him use the strap-on on me." - Netzach

Additional links:

Elise Sutton's Guide to Loving Female Authority

Akasha's Web - Original Erotic Femdom Stories & Resources

Sub Drop

Located in: After Care

Submission

DISCUSSIONS

"So I suppose ultimately it is about surrender - my purpose is to surrender myself to Her, and calling that a service sounds too altruistic to me." - lark sparrow

Additional links:

Latches

Celebrate Male Submission

Subspace

DISCUSSIONS

"I think venturing into sub space is a dissociative process. While I am aware of my surrounds, I am at the same time dissociated from them." - cellis

Additional links:

Subspace VS Slavespace

Suspension

DISCUSSIONS

Additional links:

Switches

DISCUSSIONS

"I really admire those that can and do switch on a regular basis, I feel it takes a lot of strength to embrace those desires and make them work for them." - serijules

Additional links:

Switch ( More comprehensive article to be sourced)

Symbols of Ownership

DISCUSSIONS

"A collar is what you and your Dom/me make ... Be it a ring, bracelet, necklace or even a collar ... It is a symbol of the bond you both share, something which you both think is the right symbol of the love and bonding." - ShadowDancer13

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Eternity Collars

Leather Posture Collars

Fleece lined leather Collar

Discrete screw down Collars

Collars & matching cuffs

Stainless Steel Collars & Restraints

Restrictionware Collars

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"I regularly fist my SO, testing how far I can go - what her pain limits are. And we too go the whole way dilating the cervix." - jon.hayworth

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Topping From the Bottom

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"The dynamic of "topping from the bottom" can be very detrimental to a BDSM relationship, especially in the long run." - zipman7

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Taken in Hand - Topping from the bottom ?

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"Anyway ... to you ... in the real world what does a 24/7 D/s relationship look like?" - Richard49

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Internal Enslavement Article

Toys

DISCUSSIONS

"Here's the idea... this guide will be for describing the "tools of our trade" so to speak." - dixicritter

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Heartwood Whips

Make It Yourself Bondage Equipment

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The BDSM Store

Google list of BDSM Gear/Toy Websites

Travel

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"Well, the time is coming closer and closer to my move across the globe...and I am left wondering how on earth to get my 'bag of tricks' moved safely and discreetly!" - Mae13

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Old 09-03-2004, 04:17 PM   #15
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"Watersports is a prime example of how I have begun to truly explore my submissive side." - petrel

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Dan Savage & Dr Barak Gaster on Urine Consumption

Wiki Reference - Urophagia

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Vanilla

DISCUSSIONS

"How does one go about exploring the lighter aspects of BDSM within the confines of a very nilla relationship?" - pagancowgirl

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Voyeurism

DISCUSSION

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Wax Play

DISCUSSIONS

"Wax play is great, and even the taking off is fun.. especially if a whip is used ... " - SierraMoon

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Liquid Fire Incorporated

BDSM Low Heat Candles

Erotic Wax Play

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Old 11-04-2004, 02:12 PM   #16
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A link to our previous library thread.

Many thanks, anelize.



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I would like to use this space to extend congratulations to S'lara for the new library and express gratitude for the incredible amount of work she has already done.

And I would like to thank anelize for setting up the original library.

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The links to outside sources are pretty neat-o.
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What about slavery? Slavery isn't listed.
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I don't know whether it's just that stuff it being tinkered with today but there are only a few pages of the BDSM talk forum and cafe to look through. I was going to search for MrGGG's g spot 'report back' thread but it isn't there. Have I picked the wrong day or is there a cut off after a few pages of posts now?
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Well apparently the keys have be thrown over as of today.

This is Rebecca, your friendly referenced thread collection keeper or decently intelligent bot if you prefer that kind of thang . Objectify me, I dare you : laughs :

Before commenting on the changes that will over take place over the next few months, I think this is a most appropriate time to pay particular thanks to NemoAlia, AnelizeDarkEyes and s'lara for the huge manifesto's of work they contributed to the Literotica BDSM Library. In my very limited experience to date, it's not until you start assessing the library more formally, that you truly realize the amount of work and careful thought that has been put into it.

Thank you to NemoAlia, Anelize & s'lara the legacy of your skills, time and dedication will remain the true foundations of this Library, in all it's evolutions

The updates and changes to the Library are going to take place in a rather convoluted fashion due to circumstances that currently prevail. On the outside initially it may appear that sweeping gains are not being attained. The majority of the work will take place out of view and then be set in place when of a reasonable standard. At which time the main body has been set up, a New Library Thread will be instituted and the current will be removed.

Notifications, stickies, board navigation hints, newbie packs and threads for Community suggestions will also be initiated at that time.

In the Interim, should you require any assistance please feel free to pm me.

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