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08-01-2004, 10:20 PM	#1
bdsm_librarian Really Experienced bdsm_librarian is offline Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: @graceanne Posts: 223	BDSM Talk Library LAST UPDATED ON 19 MAY 2012 AT 12:39 AM As you may have guessed, our Library is comprised of threads relating to topics of a BDSM nature. All topics are in alphabetical order and the "Discussion" link will lead you to the gathered threads related to each topic. Please note the librarian will update these discussion links with new threads as they arise for each category. You will also note a list of additional links under each topic. These links relate to their category and serve to provide further resources of information. Please note the additional links are not meant to be regarded as websites of expertise, nor are they conclusive of all the information available on the internet regarding each subject. While the goal is to provide the most accurately informative websites available, their accuracy (and authenticity) are still subject to the knowledge of those contributing to such websites. If there are reputable websites that you'd like to recommend for the various categories, please contact the librarian. Please do not post comments in this thread. If you would like to make suggestions for the Library, please feel free to do so in this Library Suggestion Thread. You may also PM the bdsm_librarian directly with any comments or questions regarding the Library. Finally, for those new to the forum, please take a moment to read the Welcome To The BDSM Forum sticky for helpful hints on navigating the board. We hope you find the BDSM Talk Library helpful and informative and we request your patience during the current Library Update & Revisions. graceanne __________________ “Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Willing is not enough; we must do.” -Johann Wolfgang von Goethe ~~~~ Please, feel welcome to contact me if you require assistance in locating information in our Library. Last edited by bdsm_librarian : 05-19-2012 at 03:40 AM.

08-04-2004, 11:30 PM	#2
bdsm_librarian Really Experienced bdsm_librarian is offline Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: @graceanne Posts: 223	Ab-Af Bd - Br Ca - Cu Di - Ev Fa - Gl He - In La - Lo Ma - Or Pe - Pu Ra - Ro Sa - Sy Te - Tr Ur - Wa __________________ “Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Willing is not enough; we must do.” -Johann Wolfgang von Goethe ~~~~ Please, feel welcome to contact me if you require assistance in locating information in our Library. Last edited by bdsm_librarian : 05-19-2012 at 03:40 AM.

08-07-2004, 09:38 PM	#3
bdsm_librarian Really Experienced bdsm_librarian is offline Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: @graceanne Posts: 223	Ab - Af Abuse DISCUSSIONS "No one should suffer abuse unwillingly at the hands of another." - Monster666 Additional links: Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network The White Ribbon Campaign National Leather Association - Domestic Violence Project National Domestic Violence Hotline Battered Men - The Hidden Side of Domestic Violence Domestic Violence in the S/M Community Woman's Aid After Care DISCUSSIONS "A few days after my first real "immersion" into sub-space, I was overwhelmed by a feeling of hopelessness, loss, and inexpressible despair." - RisiaSkye Additional links: Age Play DISCUSSIONS "My real Daddy was my first Master/Dom in a relationship that was consensual, educational, supportive, loving, and to me, perfect." - joi Additional links: Daddy - The Magazine ErosZine Article - Mommy Katt BRC Article - Age play terms DomSubFriends - Age Play Resources Anal Play DISCUSSIONS See Also: Strap-Ons "Lots of lube, lots of foreplay, and lots of patience." - seXieleXie Additional links: Rectal Foreign Bodies Pucker Up - Tristan Taormino Site 10 Rules of Anal Sex - Sexuality Org Avatars Please Note : Maximum size of your custom image is 150 by 150 pixels or 15.0 KB (whichever is smaller). DISCUSSIONS "What is it your seeking to reveal about yourself or what's important to you via the adoption of an av?" - cymbidia Additional links: Erotic BDSM Paintshop Avatars Lucylastics Fantasy & Erotic Avatars After Care DISCUSSIONS "A few days after my first real "immersion" into sub-space, I was overwhelmed by a feeling of hopelessness, loss, and inexpressible despair." - RisiaSkye Additional links: __________________ “Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Willing is not enough; we must do.” -Johann Wolfgang von Goethe ~~~~ Please, feel welcome to contact me if you require assistance in locating information in our Library. Last edited by bdsm_librarian : 04-19-2011 at 02:50 AM. Reason: Link Revision

08-15-2004, 11:54 AM	#4
bdsm_librarian Really Experienced bdsm_librarian is offline Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: @graceanne Posts: 223	Bd - Br BDSM DISCUSSIONS "for me it takes sex way beyond the idea of naked flesh, and an orgasm. it delves into the part of your mind you feared, and then found out it turns you on." - ivantheterrible Additional links: Bisexuality DISCUSSIONS "Whether or not you personally identify with the label "bisexual" really has no effect on whether or not you can (or do) participate in same-sex behaviors." - RisiaSkye Blood Play Located in: Edge Play Body Modification DISCUSSIONS See Also: Branding "Some ppl like getting stuck with needles...and having their bodies modified...and imagine this one; some even like pain." - Kajira Callista Additional links: Fakir Musafar - Body Play Body Modification Culture Tattoo News & Resources Bondage DISCUSSIONS "A dream... to be made into a work of art by Mistress... and left bound in such beautiful wrappings and used as the centerpiece at her party." - Merelan Additional links: Rope Tutorials by MorTis[/font] Rope Fashions Link to Homburg's post of Rope Tutorial sites Link to Homburg's post of Rope Vendors Books - BDSM DISCUSSIONS See Also: Literature "Sometimes I have to remind myself that just because someone says something (usually someone in authority) doesn't make it law, and it doesn't mean it's an educated intelligent statement. I think somewhere growing up I just thought if someone in charge said something, it must be so. Thankfully I've learned otherwise..but sometimes old habits are hard to break. I think it's good to keep in check where exactly information is coming from so as not to go down the wrong path." - Hisbabydoll26 Additional links: The BDSM Book Club Discussion Thread Reading Books For Pleasure Branding Located in: Edge Play Brats/SAM's DISCUSSIONS However, I see a difference between being a brat and playful bantering or teasing. Daddy and I both enjoy this type of interaction. I know when he has a certain look on his face or tone of voice that it's time to stop and get back to immediate obedience. I also know what lines not to cross. *I don't see brat as being any more or less submissive than then any other pyls. In the end as long as the PYL gets what they want then the pyl is submissive.* - ecstatic sub Additional links: Breast Play DISCUSSIONS "One of the things that makes me go almost instantly into subspace is to be tied with my back to the cross, blindfolded and having my breasts flogged." Additional links: History of Breast Torture Breast Torture Toys ABC's of Breast Torture Breath Play Located in: Edge Play Additional links: Viewpoints Concerning Erotic Asphyxiation An Overview on Breath Control Play Bruises Located in: Leftovers __________________ “Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Willing is not enough; we must do.” -Johann Wolfgang von Goethe ~~~~ Please, feel welcome to contact me if you require assistance in locating information in our Library. Last edited by bdsm_librarian : 04-20-2011 at 01:09 PM. Reason: Link Revision

08-16-2004, 09:59 PM	#5
bdsm_librarian Really Experienced bdsm_librarian is offline Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: @graceanne Posts: 223	Ca - Cu Caning Located in: Impact Play Checklists DISCUSSIONS See Also: Safety/Safe Words/Safe Calls "Those checklist links were VERY helpful in allowing me to translate to MY-Sir-, what I am willing to submit to. And what really turns me on." - ~sunkyssed_kym~ Additional links: Souls Haven - The NEW BDSM Checklist A Submissives Journey - BDSM Checklist DomSubFriends - Scene Questionnaire Clothes/Costumes DISCUSSIONS "I can't recall any article of clothing that's ever made me feel so utterly sexy." - superlittlegirl Additional links: Cafe Press - Fetish T-shirts Chain Maille Fashions Fetish Factory Online Westward Bound - Quality Alternate Clothing Syren Latex Fetish Fashions Cock and Ball Torture (CBT) Located in: Genitorture Collars Located in: Symbols of Ownership Confinement DISCUSSIONS *"I am totally into the idea of one of those type cages that they use to transport hunting dogs and the idea of caging as punishment."* - rosco rathbone Additional links: Dungeon-Steel Cages Contracts DISCUSSIONS "Every time you discuss limits, fantasies, fears, desires, and expectations, you're negotiating your contract." - RisiaSkye Additional links: D/s Lifestyle Example Contracts Crossdressing DISCUSSIONS Additional links: Crossdressing Freedom Cuckoldry DISCUSSIONS See Also: Humiliation Additional links: Sensual and Erotic BDSM: A Cuckold Relationship Examined __________________ “Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Willing is not enough; we must do.” -Johann Wolfgang von Goethe ~~~~ Please, feel welcome to contact me if you require assistance in locating information in our Library. Last edited by bdsm_librarian : 04-20-2011 at 12:42 AM. Reason: Link Revision

08-21-2004, 08:19 PM	#6
bdsm_librarian Really Experienced bdsm_librarian is offline Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: @graceanne Posts: 223	Di - Ev Dictionary DISCUSSIONS Additional links: DomSub Friends BDSM Definitions of Terms The Kinky Dictionary Disabilities and BDSM DISCUSSIONS "How do you deal with disabilities in D/s and BDSM situations?" - Dustygrrl Additional links: disabilitiesinfo.gov ADA Sex and Disability How to Survive BDSM Despite Your Disabilities Dating Sexuality & Disabilities Complete Support for Fibromyalgia & Chronic Pain & All Related Illnesses[/font] Fibromyalgia Information Foundation & Frida Kahlo's life and art Disability Studies and the Inclusion of Disability in Sex-Positive Communities Discipline/Punishment DISCUSSIONS "Punishment does not help Me get the superior service I desire. Direction and control does." - Ebonyfire Additional links: Steel Door Newsletter - Punishment VS Discipline Dominance/Domination DISCUSSIONS "My dominance is about being who I am, letting loose my hunger and needs and feeding them. It is about commitment with my partner, it is about love, passion, and sex as much as it is pain, control, and humiliation." - Francisco (catalina_francisco) Additional links: Advice to a Novice Dominant Cuffs Master's Domain The Dominant's View - eZine The Good Girl's Guide to Female Domination Edge Play DISCUSSIONS Additional links: BDSM Resources: Fire Play Fire Cups and Vacuum Cupping Violet Wand Safety Multiple Violet Wand Sites Knives, Knife Play & Cuttings Playing with Blood Wikipedia reference - Blood-borne disease Branding - A Personal Journey Scarification FAQ Kiss of Fire - The ABC's of Branding Electroplay Located in: Edge Play Events/Locales (BDSM) DISCUSSIONS "I go to a munch because I want to meet people and learn about the lifestyle. There's no way I would attend if I felt I had to adhere to certain rules of conduct beyond common courtesy, or be judged for my lack of knowledge and experience." - CarolineOh Additional links: BDSM - The Local Scene UK BDSM - The Local Scene USA How to Start a BDSM Discussion Club Assessing Your Local Scene Essay BDSM Events - Current Calendar of Upcoming Events __________________ “Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Willing is not enough; we must do.” -Johann Wolfgang von Goethe ~~~~ Please, feel welcome to contact me if you require assistance in locating information in our Library. Last edited by bdsm_librarian : 04-19-2011 at 02:51 AM.

08-22-2004, 01:09 AM	#7
bdsm_librarian Really Experienced bdsm_librarian is offline Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: @graceanne Posts: 223	Fa - Gl Fantasy Discussions See Also: NonCon/Rape/Reluctance Fantasy and RolePlay Additional links: Feminization DISCUSSIONS Additional links: The House of Sissify Fetish DISCUSSIONS "I've had a major fetish for pretty female feet and toes since I can remember." - LovingDaddy Additional links: Fetish Information Exchange Paraphilia Reference List Fetish Wear Located in Clothing, Costumes, and Fetish Wear Fire Play Located in: Edge Play Fisting DISCUSSIONS "The idea, and reality of taking a hand or a fist into the vaginal or anal cavities is powerfully suggestive of sadism for the fister, and provokes powerful images of masochistic surrender for the fistee." - sexielexie Additional links: SexInfo101: Fisting Genitorture (Genital Torture) DISCUSSIONS "Hot wax on a hood ring is wonderful ..." - lilfrk Additional links: Female Genitorture Genitorture - safety Cock and Ball Torture GLBT DISCUSSIONS Additional links: Sexuality Org - GLB Archives DomSub Friends - BDSM Resources Bisexual Pages Queer Theory, deconstructing the construct DISCUSSIONS __________________ “Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Willing is not enough; we must do.” -Johann Wolfgang von Goethe ~~~~ Please, feel welcome to contact me if you require assistance in locating information in our Library. Last edited by bdsm_librarian : 08-11-2011 at 05:31 AM. Reason: Link Revision

08-22-2004, 04:01 PM	#8
bdsm_librarian Really Experienced bdsm_librarian is offline Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: @graceanne Posts: 223	He - In Health Discussions Physical - Link Mental -Link "Personally, I hold to the "tend your own garden" model of psychiatry. In my experience, the people who spend the most time psychoanalyzing everyone around them are usually the people in greatest need of a little analysis themselves. It's the Freudian paradigm." - RisiaSkye Additional links: Humiliation DISCUSSIONS "As a Dom, I prefer concocting a theatre of sensation to scenarios degrading or humiliating (anything distancing to me undercuts the mutuality and intimacy of the pleasure)." - barcaboy Additional links: "Humiliation" and BDSM or "Why is it"Humiliation" if I LIKE it? Humor DISCUSSIONS "You mean you actually like to be told what to do? Doesn't that make you feel subservient? DUH!!!" - il mio angelo Additional links: The Three Great Lies of SM Alkallah Humor Page Impact Play DISCUSSIONS Additional links: Glowing Results - Spanking Resources Authority Figure - Videos Toward intimacy - Preparing the buttocks Guide to Sensuous Caning Sarton's BDSM Workshop - Project Cane Infantalism Located in: Age Play __________________ “Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Willing is not enough; we must do.” -Johann Wolfgang von Goethe ~~~~ Please, feel welcome to contact me if you require assistance in locating information in our Library. Last edited by bdsm_librarian : 04-20-2011 at 12:42 AM.

08-22-2004, 10:36 PM	#9
bdsm_librarian Really Experienced bdsm_librarian is offline Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: @graceanne Posts: 223	La - Lo Labels DISCUSSIONS Additional links: Law & BDSM DISCUSSIONS "I think most lawyers are more ethical about confidentiality than she is, but you're prudent to just not ever go back and tell people looking for a shrink not to go to her. I'd still talk to a lawyer and find out if it has to go to court, be public, etc. One good letter on letterhead talking about a federal mandate and removal of her license and I guarantee her day will suddenly be worse than yours." - Netzach Additional links: National Coalition for Sexual Freedom Kink Aware Professionals Leftovers DISCUSSIONS *"I love* left overs, they're tangible reminders of wonderful times. I hate when they fade." - foxy Additional links: Home Remedies For Bruises and Bruising The Lifestyle/ 24/7 DISCUSSIONS "I can't imagine NOT having BDSM for the basis of all my personal relationships. The way I relate to others (whether they are more or less Dominant than myself) is ingrained. I can't change that, nor do I want to. " - Luna_Wolf72 Additional links: Limits DISCUSSIONS "He has pushed my limits from a few different angles, and shattered a couple of limits that used to be "hard limits." - AnelizeDarkEyes See Also: Checklists Additional links: Literature DISCUSSIONS "Anyone know of autobiographies of dom/mes, subs, bdsm folk, or similarly aberrated persons?" - Pure Additional links: Long Distance Relationships (LDR's)/Online Experiences DISCUSSIONS "...distance domination is NOT a fantasy but a truth and that it is possible."** - boobsqueeezer Additional links: AskMen.com: Long Distance Relationships Surviving a Long-Distance Relationship BDSM/long distance relationships BDSM __________________ “Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Willing is not enough; we must do.” -Johann Wolfgang von Goethe ~~~~ Please, feel welcome to contact me if you require assistance in locating information in our Library. Last edited by bdsm_librarian : 04-19-2011 at 02:53 AM.

08-25-2004, 09:53 PM	#10
bdsm_librarian Really Experienced bdsm_librarian is offline Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: @graceanne Posts: 223	Ma - Or Masochism DISCUSSIONS "Why is it that just because you say you like to be beaten so many people assume that you like being made to crawl around on you knees on the end of a leash?" - katzeyez Additional links: Misc. DISCUSSIONS Additional links: Munches Located in: Events/Locales (BDSM) Music DISCUSSIONS "I'm curious as to what sort of music people like to use for scenes. Is there a specific genre that people prefer? Specific songs, even?" - Lain Additional links: Non-consensual Fantasies and RolePlay DISCUSSIONS Additional links: Obesity DISCUSSIONS See Also: Physical Health Additional links: Oral Sex DISCUSSIONS "There is not enough discussion here, in my opinion on what and how to please your Dom and his (oh my I can't believe I am saying this,) man-meat." - A Desert Rose Additional links: The 10 Cummandments of Giving a Man GOOD Oral AskMen.com - Giving Her Oral Sex Orgasms/Orgasm Control/Chastity Methods and Devices DISCUSSIONS "The idea of multiple is just completely foreign to me. The idea of so many that you have to beg for it to stop is completely alien to me. More power to you girls who can do it, though!" - Etoile "I don't get the concept of forced orgasms. I also don't understand why a Dom would want to force an orgasm. I have watched sexandsubmission videos where a woman is brought to supposed orgasm with a vibrator. I, personally can't see how that can be pleasurable for her or the Dom. (I realize it is porn and not real life..but still ) I am multi-orgasmic. My Dom has been teaching me tantric sex. My orgasms have always been a series of peaks and valleys. Now they are peaks with plateaus, a level of orgasm that last for hours during continual sex. Why force something when getting there together and sustaining it is so damn amazing?" - ecstaticsub Additional links: ChastityLifestyle.com __________________ “Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Willing is not enough; we must do.” -Johann Wolfgang von Goethe ~~~~ Please, feel welcome to contact me if you require assistance in locating information in our Library. Last edited by bdsm_librarian : 08-11-2011 at 05:07 AM.

08-28-2004, 01:43 PM	#11
bdsm_librarian Really Experienced bdsm_librarian is offline Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: @graceanne Posts: 223	Pe - Pu Personal Topics DISCUSSIONS "The feeling of being used is not necessarily a bad one, to someone of a submissive frame of mind, it can be a desirable state." - James Blandings Additional links: Pet Play DISCUSSIONS "I am a human with some animalistic traits, and I want to be cared for and owned by someone who I look up to, and who I'm loyal to. I am stubborn and willful and I want what I want, and I don't want what I don't, and I'm cuddly and I love being pet and scratched, and I always want attention, but I also want to make my Person happy, and I hate to see him sad or disappointed, and I want to please him, even if I'm not always that good at it." - 00Syd Additional links: Philosophy/Introspection DISCUSSIONS "How do you define/relate sex and service in regards to dominance and submission?" - Richard49 Additional links: erosZine - Midori - Chasing The Edge Photography/Art DISCUSSIONS "I absolutely love art photos/paintings like these, those that combine the essential sensuality of the subject with incredible kink." - cymbidia Additional links: Museum of Erotic Art - UK PaintedlLady - The Art of Jack Henslee Kirinawa - The Art of Lochai Ranshin - The Chaotic Heart - Midori Polyamory See Also: Relationships DISCUSSIONS "I have to say being in a poly relationship is the hardest thing I've ever done. That being said it is also the happiest I've ever been." - Snoozebutton Additional links: Multi-Person Relationships and BDSM Bo-Org Polyamory - Loving more than one, honestly & openly Alt Polyamory Resources The Polyamory Index Popular Culture and BDSM DISCUSSIONS "I think the idea that there's a definite split between BDSM and Vanilla is misleading, BDSM has three elements [four, really] all of which a person can enjoy a little or a lot of. It's a continuum and defining what is or isn't BDSM is impossible." - Never Additional links: Pornography DISCUSSIONS "It isn't porn unless you take pictures, and show them to ME, as far as I'm concerned." - DRxBlue Additional links: Pregnancy/Parenting DISCUSSIONS *So now he has it all. My love, my submission and this child. Dont think I can give him more than this, as he has all I can offer now.* - BiaTcHiNFiRe Additional links: Professional BDSM DISCUSSIONS "Anyway - what I would like to hear are experiences or opinions re Pro Dommes." - Hecate Additional links: Max Fisch Domina Guide Mistress Teresa May's Pandemos Psychology DISCUSSIONS "The 'mind fuck' can be a useful tool at times. A chance to see just what the secret desires of a pet are and a chance to crush those desires and remind that pet of his place." - GoddessHelena Additional links: Public Scening DISCUSSIONS "I began topping in public as soon as I felt comfortable enough with the simple techniques I had down, and as soon as I had a plan and someone I wanted to try it out on." - Netzach Additional links: __________________ “Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Willing is not enough; we must do.” -Johann Wolfgang von Goethe ~~~~ Please, feel welcome to contact me if you require assistance in locating information in our Library. Last edited by bdsm_librarian : 05-19-2012 at 03:13 AM.

08-28-2004, 11:36 PM	#12
bdsm_librarian Really Experienced bdsm_librarian is offline Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: @graceanne Posts: 223	Ra - Ro Rape Fantasies and Role Play Located in: Non-consentual Fantasies and Role Play Relationships See Also:Polyamory DISCUSSIONS "So adding D/s into an existing relationship is, um, difficult. Fortunately I have an open-minded lover." - FungiUg Additional links: Religion DISCUSSIONS Additional links: Rituals DISCUSSIONS See Also: Collars/Symbols of Ownership "Ritual in BDSM (Church too) is about taking the participants away from reality and into the theater of the mind (using the body as a conduit)." - pierced_boy Additional links: Role Playing DISCUSSIONS See Also: NonCon/Rape/Reluctance Fantasy and RolePlay "This is how a good piece of BDSM role play should go." - KillerMuffin Additional links: Roleplaying Thread I - BDSM Roleplaying Thread II - BDSM __________________ “Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Willing is not enough; we must do.” -Johann Wolfgang von Goethe ~~~~ Please, feel welcome to contact me if you require assistance in locating information in our Library. Last edited by bdsm_librarian : 04-19-2011 at 02:54 AM.

08-30-2004, 10:33 PM	#13
bdsm_librarian Really Experienced bdsm_librarian is offline Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: @graceanne Posts: 223	Sa - Sy Sadism DISCUSSIONS "Sexual submission, Domination, and violence go way back in our westernized literature." - RisiaSkye Additional links: History of Femdom ( to be moved ) Die Datenschlag-Chronik des Sadomasochismus Safety/Safe Words/Safe Calls DISCUSSIONS "The most important thing about a safe call is to make it and that you know that the person who you are making the safe call to will act if you do not call." - catalina_francisco (catalina) Additional links: Scenes DISCUSSIONS See Also: Public Scening "Would [sic] you sort it all out beforehand and then go straight into the scene, would you take talking about it as part of the 'warm-up'" - petrel Additional links: Maintaining Communication and Trust During a Scene Sensory Play DISCUSSIONS "As a Dom, I like to vary the sensation, even within a single scene. While i generally end with the sharpest pain, I think a good mix doesn't allow the sub to become complacent." - JohnnyMayberry Additional links: Erotic Spankings & Other Punishments Sissification Located in: Forced Feminization Spanking Located in: Impact Play Strap-ons DISCUSSIONS "I like to strap one onto my guy, being careful to cage his cock in a rubber gates of hell first....and let him use the strap-on on me." - Netzach Additional links: Elise Sutton's Guide to Loving Female Authority Akasha's Web - Original Erotic Femdom Stories & Resources Sub Drop Located in: After Care Submission DISCUSSIONS "So I suppose ultimately it is about surrender - my purpose is to surrender myself to Her, and calling that a service sounds too altruistic to me." - lark sparrow Additional links: Latches Celebrate Male Submission Subspace DISCUSSIONS "I think venturing into sub space is a dissociative process. While I am aware of my surrounds, I am at the same time dissociated from them." - cellis Additional links: Subspace VS Slavespace Suspension DISCUSSIONS Additional links: Switches DISCUSSIONS "I really admire those that can and do switch on a regular basis, I feel it takes a lot of strength to embrace those desires and make them work for them." - serijules Additional links: Switch ( More comprehensive article to be sourced) Symbols of Ownership DISCUSSIONS "A collar is what you and your Dom/me make ... Be it a ring, bracelet, necklace or even a collar ... It is a symbol of the bond you both share, something which you both think is the right symbol of the love and bonding." - ShadowDancer13 Additional links: Eternity Collars Leather Posture Collars Fleece lined leather Collar Discrete screw down Collars Collars & matching cuffs Stainless Steel Collars & Restraints Restrictionware Collars Artisan& Custom Collars Link 1 Artisan & Custom Collars Link 2 __________________ “Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Willing is not enough; we must do.” -Johann Wolfgang von Goethe ~~~~ Please, feel welcome to contact me if you require assistance in locating information in our Library. Last edited by bdsm_librarian : 08-11-2011 at 04:46 AM.

09-02-2004, 10:37 PM	#14
bdsm_librarian Really Experienced bdsm_librarian is offline Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: @graceanne Posts: 223	Te - Tr Techniques DISCUSSIONS "I regularly fist my SO, testing how far I can go - what her pain limits are. And we too go the whole way dilating the cervix." - jon.hayworth Additional links: The Punishment of Bastinado - UK Site Bastinado & Falaka - History Bastinado & Falaka Hitting the Hands Face Slapping Face Slapping - Safety Thought of the Day Calendars DISCUSSION Tit Torture Located in: Breast Play Topping From the Bottom DISCUSSIONS "The dynamic of "topping from the bottom" can be very detrimental to a BDSM relationship, especially in the long run." - zipman7 Additional links: Taken in Hand - Topping from the bottom ? Total Power Exchange (TPE) DISCUSSIONS "Anyway ... to you ... in the real world what does a 24/7 D/s relationship look like?" - Richard49 Additional links: Internal Enslavement Article Toys DISCUSSIONS "Here's the idea... this guide will be for describing the "tools of our trade" so to speak." - dixicritter Additional links: Heartwood Whips Make It Yourself Bondage Equipment Fetish Auctions Extreme Restraints J.T's Stockroom BDSM Toybox The BDSM Store Google list of BDSM Gear/Toy Websites Travel DISCUSSIONS "Well, the time is coming closer and closer to my move across the globe...and I am left wondering how on earth to get my 'bag of tricks' moved safely and discreetly!" - Mae13 Additional links: __________________ “Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Willing is not enough; we must do.” -Johann Wolfgang von Goethe ~~~~ Please, feel welcome to contact me if you require assistance in locating information in our Library. Last edited by bdsm_librarian : 06-12-2012 at 02:06 AM.

09-03-2004, 04:17 PM	#15
bdsm_librarian Really Experienced bdsm_librarian is offline Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: @graceanne Posts: 223	Ur - Wa Urine Play DISCUSSIONS "Watersports is a prime example of how I have begun to truly explore my submissive side." - petrel Additional links: Dan Savage & Dr Barak Gaster on Urine Consumption Wiki Reference - Urophagia Urine Drinking Information[/font] Vanilla DISCUSSIONS "How does one go about exploring the lighter aspects of BDSM within the confines of a very nilla relationship?" - pagancowgirl Additional links: Voyeurism DISCUSSION Additional links: Wax Play DISCUSSIONS "Wax play is great, and even the taking off is fun.. especially if a whip is used ... " - SierraMoon Additional links: Liquid Fire Incorporated BDSM Low Heat Candles Erotic Wax Play Albany Power Exchange - Hot Wax, the Intense Sensation __________________ “Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Willing is not enough; we must do.” -Johann Wolfgang von Goethe ~~~~ Please, feel welcome to contact me if you require assistance in locating information in our Library. Last edited by bdsm_librarian : 08-04-2010 at 03:06 AM.

11-04-2004, 02:12 PM	#16
MissTaken Biker Chick MissTaken is offline Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: Right where I want to be Posts: 20,590	A link to our previous library thread. Many thanks, anelize. http://www.literotica.com:81/forum/s...hreadid=289059 __________________ Never put both feet in your mouth at the same time, because then you won't have a leg to stand on.

01-19-2005, 07:25 PM	#17
catalina_francisco Happily insatiable always catalina_francisco is offline Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: Here & Now Posts: 18,662	I would like to use this space to extend congratulations to S'lara for the new library and express gratitude for the incredible amount of work she has already done. And I would like to thank anelize for setting up the original library. Catalina. __________________ Cat's Secrets - Photography That Is The Joy Of Pain Our Stories and Poetry The 500 Question Purity Test - score 26.2% Pure Kink Score - 861 - Wow!! You're too kinky for most!! Slave Register #624517 - registered as owned 22-06-2002 *"I thought I wasn't interested in pornography, but then I realised it was because I was having sex all the time...if you stop having sex, pornography becomes inspiring"....Russell Brand*

07-25-2005, 06:31 AM	#18
Brinnie Adm¡n Brinnie is offline Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: READ MY PROFILE BEFORE CONTACTING ME, OR I WILL FUCKING BAN YOU! Posts: 8,240	*"Matt Daemun"* __________________ (Send me a Private Message if you want to get banned!) I Will Always Rule My AOL: Brinnie Spears

10-29-2005, 12:55 PM	#19
AngelicAssassin Something Wicked AngelicAssassin is offline Join Date: Sep 2001 Location: Oblivion Posts: 11,004	Simply Because Twits Я Us __________________ The most dangerous thing imagined is an intelligent mind ... the most frightening is the wisdom & will to use it. Welcome to the Deep end. Expect no mercy. Last edited by AngelicAssassin : 10-29-2005 at 02:41 PM.

04-26-2006, 06:18 PM	#20
WriterDom Good to the last drop WriterDom is offline Join Date: Jun 2000 Location: Between Magnolia and Spanish Moss Posts: 20,061	The links to outside sources are pretty neat-o.

03-08-2007, 03:38 AM	#21
Zenythmon Virgin Zenythmon is offline Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: R'Lyeh Posts: 3	What about slavery? Slavery isn't listed.

07-31-2007, 11:49 AM	#22
northwoods_sub special snowflake northwoods_sub is offline Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: northwoods USA Posts: 1,041	orgasm denial, forced orgasm????? __________________ Property of Northwoods Dom you mean allllll that wood around him and he was afraid to paddle that ass a few nice colors? ~~~~Snoozebuttons2 I'm changing my naughty ways for naughtier ones

08-21-2007, 01:07 PM	#23
Ne0phyte Virgin Ne0phyte is offline Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 7	this is interesting __________________

09-06-2007, 11:15 AM	#24
VelvetDarkness Polysyllable Whore x VelvetDarkness is offline Join Date: May 2006 Location: Perfidious Albion (UK) Posts: 6,521	I don't know whether it's just that stuff it being tinkered with today but there are only a few pages of the BDSM talk forum and cafe to look through. I was going to search for MrGGG's g spot 'report back' thread but it isn't there. Have I picked the wrong day or is there a cut off after a few pages of posts now? __________________ Owned by and engaged to MajorMalfunction Registered Slave no. 519-742-115 Lit fucktoy to Ms Indigo Alais's Settlement Chapter 2 Chapter 3 "Humans need fantasy to be human; to be the place where the falling angel meets the rising ape." ~ Terry Pratchett "We are animals. With language. What a responsibility." ~ easternsun

12-22-2007, 12:39 AM	#25
BDSM=Librarian Virgin BDSM=Librarian is offline Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 12	Well apparently the keys have be thrown over as of today. This is Rebecca, your friendly referenced thread collection keeper or decently intelligent bot if you prefer that kind of thang . Objectify me, I dare you : laughs : Before commenting on the changes that will over take place over the next few months, I think this is a most appropriate time to pay particular thanks to NemoAlia, AnelizeDarkEyes and s'lara for the huge manifesto's of work they contributed to the Literotica BDSM Library. In my very limited experience to date, it's not until you start assessing the library more formally, that you truly realize the amount of work and careful thought that has been put into it. *Thank you to NemoAlia, Anelize & s'lara the legacy of your skills, time and dedication will remain the true* foundations of this Library, in all it's evolutions** The updates and changes to the Library are going to take place in a rather convoluted fashion due to circumstances that currently prevail. On the outside initially it may appear that sweeping gains are not being attained. The majority of the work will take place out of view and then be set in place when of a reasonable standard. At which time the main body has been set up, a New Library Thread will be instituted and the current will be removed. Notifications, stickies, board navigation hints, newbie packs and threads for Community suggestions will also be initiated at that time. In the Interim, should you require any assistance please feel free to pm me. Rebecca Last edited by BDSM=Librarian : 01-20-2008 at 01:23 AM.

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