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deliciously_naughty

deliciously_naughty

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I'm attending my first munch tomorrow. I'm a little nervous, as I've never attended one. What should I expect? Will all the talk be sexual? Will I get hit on?

I know we're going to be at a 99, and the person who set it up said just to dress normally, but I'd still like to be a little more prepared.

Is there any sort of secret code for switch? Ok, in the gay community, if you wore an earring in your left ear it meant something. Is there any sort of signifiers like that, in our community?
 
seriously though...this is all new...what should I expect. (no I don't think a play party will break out...but this is all new)

about the code thing...sorry, stupid question
 
For someone who is naive and ignorant to a lot of BDSM things, by any chance could you explain to me what this "munch" is?
 
A munch is, I guess, like a get-together of BDSM types, as sort of a community thingy. I don't do community stuff, but I'm guessing there are deviled eggs, and someone gets up and does shadow puppets.

Also, generally no sexual stuff, although a munch might happen on the same day as a play party.
 
Expect a group of fairly normal people who have an interest in BDSM. :) If you find an exception, be glad!
 
Pretty much what a munch is. Everyone hanging out for a meal "Munch" talking shop , planing events and private partys.


Be yourself. explain your intrests and they will take you under there wing. There will be folks there to make you feel more relaxed.
The first time can get on your nerves a little not knowing what to expect.;)
 
Relax and enjoy.......think positive, you won't be the one sore thumb in a bunch of vanilla's, so you will at least be with people who know where you are coming from!!

Catalina :rose:
 
catalina_francisco said:
Relax and enjoy.......think positive, you won't be the one sore thumb in a bunch of vanilla's, so you will at least be with people who know where you are coming from!!

Catalina :rose:
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Very true....thanks everyone :heart:
 
Usually sports bar, bad food, much sci fi knowledge and a little sauciness.
 
deliciously_naughty said:
bar/grille, bad food, some sauciness, and only one discussion about computers
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OK, I'll bite...was it all you hoped, good, bad, any interesting prospects? Goss pleeeease!!!! LOL

Catalina :rose:
 
i've been to munches at Lone Star steak house, Pepe's Mexican restruant, Hooters:p i guess it depends on the group. hope you enjoyed the experience.
 
I did have a good time. I stayed for two hours.

The good: The people were friendly, and although I tend to be shy in large groups (or when I don't know anyone) and they made me feel very welcome. I asked a lot of questions and even when I thought that they were stupid, they were very kind to me and never treated the questions as stupid.

The Eh: I had wanted to meet more people my age and that didn't really happen. There was a girl my age (the one who organized the munch) who was very cool and who answered a lot of my questions. The other girl my age didnt' stay long and we didn't talk much. There were no men anywhere near my age.


LOL...I don't know what I expected, but that definitely wasn't it. Not in a bad way...if I can explain it...I guess I expected a younger crowd, and a little more discussion about sex then there was. I think I was hoping to find a mentor, which is not to say that none of them wouldn't become one as I get to know them better but I didn't feel like I "clicked really well" with anyone.

I don't know if I'd want to drive an hour to do this again. There are supposed to be ones closer to me, or closer to where I work. But I would do the munch thing again.
 
Try not to give up after the first meet. Folks know Folks and you may find what your looking for if you hang in there a little. Not everyone will attend every meet and as you get to know people you will be invited to play partys where you also may find someone.
 
Wizard said:
Try not to give up after the first meet. Folks know Folks and you may find what your looking for if you hang in there a little. Not everyone will attend every meet and as you get to know people you will be invited to play partys where you also may find someone.
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I'm definitely going to go to other munches...but that particular one is pretty far away...but it's once a month, so I might go to that one again. :)
 
Keep us Posted

Naughty, Keep us posted as to how your second and next munche's go. My girl and I just met online and haven't met in person yet but I totally encouraged her to attend her first munch. She enjoyed herself and perhaps I'll have her post here to share her experiences with the group. Regards, ~LovingDaddy~
 
Age

In the things I have attended there have been a pretty good age spread.
But I seem to remember (If it isn't the alzheimers) that the folks at the munches tended to be middle or older in the group.
That the younguns showed up for playparties.

Hmmm brings a whole new meaning to "whipersnappers", don't it????
 
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