Chastity devices

MissTaken

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Have you used them?

How often with what understanding and who has the key?

Oh, and can you make any recommendations for inexpensive chastity devices that are comfortable enough to wear for long periods of time?
 
Now Miss T what is the prospect of a quiet weekend doing to your thought processes?!! LOL. I have not had any experience with such devices, but find the idea hugely tantalising and have incorporated them into my writing on a couple of occasions. Problem with me is where I am concerned as the recipient, I am more on the extreme side of ways it could be achieved. Should be an interesting discussion.

Catalina :rose:
 
Oh, catalina,

A quiet weekend leaves room for one's thoughts to wander.

Now I have NO experience with chastity devices and am terribly curious.

:devil:
 
how extreme are we talking? because if you wanted to talk really extreme, i have read up a bit on chastity piercings, both male and female...thought i would never get one...
 
hurtme said:
how extreme are we talking? because if you wanted to talk really extreme, i have read up a bit on chastity piercings, both male and female...thought i would never get one...

Do tell.

His body is Mine, after all.

:devil:
 
well, i was hoping to do better and show a picture, unfortunately most of them seem to be copywrighted...I will continue the search, however...for the good of the world...to find uncopywrighted pictures of naked people with rings shoved through their nether regions...
 
Damn!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Damn!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


and that is for fun???? Damn!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol
 
Re: Damn!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Mr. Bootie said:
Damn!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


and that is for fun???? Damn!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol

Fun for the Dominant and torture for the sub/slave/bottom. Guess that works out well for both parties involved.

lara
 
I've wanted to use chastity devices. Would need some testing to see how these things work. Will be reading this thread with interest.

Anyone with first hand experience? C'mon, share your stories!

:devil:
 
Thank you s'lara and everyone.

Kinky consumer is a site I stumbled on after chit chatting with a friend today. Very cool site!

And here is a link to a thread started many moons ago about the same topic, thanks to another friend!!!!

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=142481

I wonder which options scooter thinks he will enjoy? Oh, whatever I tell him to do he will enjoy.

;)
 
personal experience

Chastity turns me on big time. A very special form of CBT in a way. Potentially makes it so the sub is under complete control. Reading about it has fueled great fantasies...but I digress.

I wanted to be under this type of control really bedly. Researched and decided to try the CB2000. Great device, and worked well for short periods (48 hours or so). But I always ended up getting a rash after 48 hours. And I couldn't bicycle comfortably with it on. So it really didn't work as well as I wanted, but it is great fun for short time periods.

It also confirmed to me that I really really really wanted to be under this control, and after about 6 months playing with it I realized that I could do it without a device and then I couldn't sleep until I made a big commitment:

I promise my wife/dom that I would never, ever play with myself again, except as instructed to do so by her.

Wow, butterflies in my stomach when I promised, just like marriage vows, except much greater turn on ;-)

That was over 2.5 years ago. I haven't broken my promise, and it has been wonderful. Hard at times (pun intended), frustrating, and very hot.

So I would suggest that the ultimate chastity device is your subs mind, and if you can get it to the point I have reached, you will have a great way to play.

gregor
 
Well, I guess I hadn't made the conneciton between piercing and chastity.

And gregor, there are times that a device is necessary to assist in the mental training of a submissive. Even 48 hours can send a very clear and serious message.

;)
 
MissTaken said:
Well, I guess I hadn't made the conneciton between piercing and chastity.

And gregor, there are times that a device is necessary to assist in the mental training of a submissive. Even 48 hours can send a very clear and serious message.

;)




Ouch!

Couldn't we just go to bed and make love? I'll kiss it and make it better, MissT;)
 
I agree

Miss Taken said:

"And gregor, there are times that a device is necessary to assist in the mental training of a submissive. Even 48 hours can send a very clear and serious message."

I agree. In fact, I believe that it was the 6 month experience with a chastity device that made it possible for me to realize that I could do it (abstain from cuming). Without that experience, I don't think I would have ever thought to make my promise.

And even now, I still find that the device adds some feelings/sensations that provide a turn on and fun variation. For instance, sometimes when my wife is away, she will leave me with instructions to do various things to drive me crazy. One is to put the chastity device on for 24 hours. It isn't needed to prevent my playing with myself. Instead it is more a technique to focus my attention and keep me thinking about my penis. Great fun...coupled with frustration ;-)

gregor
 
i've always wanted to make my bf wear one. in general, he cant keep his hands off himself. it would drive him crazy :D
 
I've never used them because I prefer the extra effort it requires of my husband to know that he could stroke himself except that he has promised not to.

In general, I'd advise caution for extended use. Most men experience erections while they are sleeping, so anything that would constrict should be used with caution. The structure of the penis can be rather sensitive, even when the man isn't, and damaging it can lead to the inability to get hard when you do want it.

I've always wondered about cleanliness. This goes for use with both men and women. With women there is the additional problem of menstruation, but with both there is a problem of urination.

Anyways, that's my thoughts on the matter.


Hugs,

Kat
 
Trying to wrack my brain, i did research on the topic once, and it was very interesting, but so long ago i can't really remember anything, i do remember something about clenliness though, for women, since most chastity belts actually USED in a 24/7 environment of yore were made for women...it was not uncommon for the genital area to become infected at all, get sores from the metal, not to mention additional infection when ones genital region had an extended exposure to feces, urine, and menstrual fluids, since the openings in a chastity belt had to be small enough not to permit ANY penetration...*shudder* not a kink i that does anything for me...if i am told no, i like the fact that i could if i wanted to...its such a tease...
 
I wouldn't use chastity devices per se. I prefer my control to be "I know I can, but I mustn't", rather than physically restraining.

On the other hand, I would love to use the opposite... something that provides constant stimulation. Like a harness with two dildos, or a radio controled toy (vibrating bug plug, butterfly, etc)...
 
now that is evil...having one of those remote controlled butterflies and the dom having the remote...wow...I am getting lots of nasty visions in my head...
 
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