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Old 02-23-2015, 09:54 AM   #1
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I told her this weekend she is not allowed any underwear on the weekends. I also told her during the week when the kids are at school the most she can wear at home is a shirt.. Anyone ever done anything like this ? Thanks
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Old 02-23-2015, 11:08 AM   #2
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Old 02-23-2015, 02:17 PM   #3
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Impracticable and unrealistic.
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Old 02-23-2015, 06:25 PM   #4
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I'll admit that I have a bit of a clothing fetish myself; though mine runs to the selection and control of her wardrobe. It can be an expensive proposition, so it's one I've only practiced with long term subs in what were seen as committed relationships. I can't explain my kink other than to say I enjoy making sure she looks good. So, I spend the cash.

I have set limits around the wearing of panties, but only when it seemed to do something for the sub.
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Old 02-23-2015, 08:09 PM   #5
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I told her this weekend she is not allowed any underwear on the weekends. I also told her during the week when the kids are at school the most she can wear at home is a shirt.. Anyone ever done anything like this ? Thanks
ETA: I completely missed the point of your question. Back when both had our own houses, Sir would have me completely naked, except perhaps a garter belt, stocking and heels at times, at his house since it was just the two of us. He did have an Oriental robe (the proper names escapes me at the moment) that I could put on to answer the door or if someone came by, but I couldn't sit down in it . He has (he still owns the house) enough property so I or we could walk around naked. I truly miss those times

When we were first going out, Sir was dictating my clothes, hair style, make-up and jewelry. Fortunately, he lost interest in that after a while. Now I just have guidelines which I can live with. The only one that annoys me at times is no pants, I have to convince him that I absolutely can not do an activity in a skirt/dress to get a waiver on that rule. The only time he tells me no bra/panties is when we go out to certain places.
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Old 02-24-2015, 11:09 PM   #6
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Meh. Whether it works depends on whether she enjoys it. If it's something she likes, she'll manage. Otherwise, it won't go so well.

Although I do have to say that clothing restrictions really cut down on laundry... so there is that.
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Old 02-25-2015, 12:26 AM   #7
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Meh. Whether it works depends on whether she enjoys it. If it's something she likes, she'll manage. Otherwise, it won't go so well.

Although I do have to say that clothing restrictions really cut down on laundry... so there is that.
Lol. Cut down on laundry! You do raise a good point though. I think that while fun, it would lose its luster after a while. I need something to leave for the imagination but maybe that's just me. I do understand the control thing also though.
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Old 02-25-2015, 03:27 AM   #8
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I don't think it's actually impractical or unrealistic, especially in a warm state like Texas. In fact, that's not even that uncommon. Clothing restrictions of all sorts are pretty popular, in my experience.

One thing I will say, having experimented. It may sound dumb, but when you do this day in day out, it tends to loose its fun edginess pretty quickly. I find blanket rules that apply 'always in X situation' tend to be short lived, not due to impracticality but due to loss of interest, you know?
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Old 02-25-2015, 03:48 AM   #9
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One thing I will say, having experimented. It may sound dumb, but when you do this day in day out, it tends to loose its fun edginess pretty quickly. I find blanket rules that apply 'always in X situation' tend to be short lived, not due to impracticality but due to loss of interest, you know?
Yes.
Rules and routines have their place in any longterm relationship, but they are usually not responsible for the thrill or kinky fun, in my experience.
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Old 02-25-2015, 07:34 PM   #10
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Yes.
Rules and routines have their place in any longterm relationship, but they are usually not responsible for the thrill or kinky fun, in my experience.
I agree, doing it long term takes the surprise or thrill out.

One previous sub was set a dress code on "collar days" where she indicated total submission to my whims by wearing her collar. Limits agreed in advance were tested, but she got a thrill as much as I did, being ordered to wear or do something she was perfectly capable of choosing to do but...
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