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Ideally two partners with similar motives for searching out each other, are bound to resonate just fine with one another. But I have found that a few essential traits help tremendously in eliminating frictions and misgivings:

# a strong sense of and for "mutuality", regarding desires on each other, but including a few obligations as well,

# minds as open as possible, combined with much tolerance as well,

# assuming positive intent always from the other partner,

# strong sexual desires for each other help a lot also,

# the skill of responsiveness works wonders Always,

# and curiosity instead of merely making assumptions; asking a question now and then is always a good idea.

Not many prerequisites really, but when both partners tick this way, communications flow much more naturally and easier than otherwise.
 
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Thoughts

You have a very specific list. Some are me to the tee. Others, I am not sure. When you say lovey dovey, I am very affectionate by nature. To want a human, you must take the humanity that comes with it. No one is perfect. Everyone has flaws. But I don't get caught up with those. You have an interesting mind. You are very clinical in some of the things you say
But in other statements, I feel I can the strength of passion, vitality, and fantasy. I would like to read more about you
 
Just Curious

glBock said:
this is a revision of my 2nd signature post: imagining how you might tick

I had hesitated earlier to be so bold and compile a wish list of the kind of woman, who would totally thrill me. It's just that a man seldomly dares to admit that he searches for a fata morgana, most likely. So here comes such a description, of a woman who would knock me out instantly, if by no other way than I finding it so unbelievable, that a human being like you can exist. And secondly from the affection I would feel for you immediately:

None of the following traits are, BTW – by themselves – difficult to run into; what is special is the combination of all of them.

* It would be terrific, if you had a very strong sex drive, high above average, combined with an intellectual mind,

* and an overwhelming desire, to go for a man you like, to the point of unabashedly and openly establishing contact with him, regardless of societal norms.

* Out-of-the-box thinking, and a lack of herd mentality should be your credo.

* And realism ought to be your middle name, i.e. absence of "lovey-dove" thinking. When two people like us manage to reach "friends with benefits" status, they know this is more than they should have hoped for, and that's plenty enough for two people, who have a spouse at home.

* You should have fully grown up already, and have acquired at least a basic amount of maturity.

* And your parents should have succeeded actually in teaching you basic forms of common courtesy.

* That plus civilized behavior, which you resolve to continue practicing, regardless of how uncivilized the world we live in is becoming.

* Then you need a good amount of curiosity, without any fear of ever asking a "stupid" question.

* And some innovative fantasies in your head would not hurt,

* and most of all, your soul should look like that of a highly human female. With tolerance for blemishes and shortcomings in others, among other things.

One remark is needed here in adition, in case you have not figured this out already: I believe that I also tick like the person I described above. So you can expect to receive everything back from me that I am asking you to give me.
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How much time do you spend writing these things anyway?
 
Littletoo said:
It's how much time we spend READING them that counts.

Jamie
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Jamie, I sure appreciate your response to the joker, who asked that question. As if it were any business of his.

And I wish you a lot of luck on your way forward also. Things seem to be running well for you, so it appear from your posts.

A am in great shape myself, even with all the hijackers, who decided to capture "my" thread.

Keep up your good spirit, Jamie!
 
Thanks

K says she's going to slap me if I don't stop stalking you. So, i guess I better stop.

Jamie
 
Jada59 said:
You sure seem to have a lot of sock puppets!
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I don't like to wade into these useless shit storms, but you have soul-shamed my friend and lover by calling her a man's "sock-puppet" Surely the battle is lost when women who claim to be feminist begin soul-shaming each other.

Body shaming is bad. But the body is only the shell. The soul is the kernel where the life is. Body-shaming is bad. Soul-shaming is worse because it attacks life itself!

Jamie sometimes looks and acts like she's fifteen. She crushes easily. For some reason she's crushed on Bock. But to soul-shame her when you don't even know her at all makes you look cruel as well as stupid.

Please note I DID NOT call you cruel or stupid. I don't label people or call them names because doing so makes me look brainless. I don't know you. I might like you if I did know you. I said how something you wrote made you LOOK to me. If you read over what you wrote with fresh eyes I'm sure you'll be as appalled as the rest of us are.

Jamie is a college professor as am I. She teaches ballet, I teach Math. She has an MFA in Dance Performance. In June she will receive her MBA in Fine Arts Management. Jamie's a little flighty, as am I, but she's no man's "sock puppet."
 
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tripleflip said:
I don't like to wade into these useless shit storms, but you have soul-shamed my friend and lover by calling her a man's "sock-puppet" Surely the battle is lost when women who claim to be feminist begin soul-shaming each other.

Body shaming is bad. But the body is only the shell. The soul is the kernel where the life is. Body-shaming is bad. Soul-shaming is worse because it attacks life itself!

Jamie sometimes looks and acts like she's fifteen. She crushes easily. For some reason she's crushed on Bock. But to soul-shame her when you don't even know her at all makes you look cruel as well as stupid.

Please note I DID NOT call you cruel or stupid. I don't label people or call them names because doing so makes me look brainless. I don't know you. I might like you if I did know you. I said how something you wrote made you LOOK to me. If you read over what you wrote with fresh eyes I'm sure you'll be as appalled as the rest of us are.

Jamie is a college professor as am I. She teaches ballet, I teach Math. She has an MFA in Dance Performance. In June she will receive her MBA in Fine Arts Management. Jamie's a little flighty, as am I, but she's no man's "sock puppet."

Kristie
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I don't know you either and I'm not sure I'd want to. I'm a college dropout who used to teach dance. Yes, even ballet. So what?

I'm not at all appalled at what I wrote and in no way did I name any names in my reply. You just assumed. And you know what they say when you assume. Or maybe you don't. I don't really care.

I have a lot of friends here on Lit. We talk. I just find it super funny that the OP has so many people coming to his defense, and many of them apparent newbies. I don't like seeing people get hurt. And people have gotten hurt. There. I'll be just as vague as you. Maybe someone else will chime in here. Or not. I don't want to be the Lit. nanny but I calls em as I sees em.
 
a few words addressing Jada and Kristie ….

… even though it may not help at all.

Kristie, I appreciated you coming to Jamie's aid here, because she certainly does not deserve denigrations such as those, which have become Jada's specialties lately, so it seems. I suppose Jada is not really mad at Jamie, but rather at me. Don't really know why, perhaps it gives her heartburns when she has to witness some women liking me.

Jada, I like to make one suggestion to you: try giving up to character-assassinate people on Lit. It never pays to do that, and you know you can do better. Remember how you gave lots of really good advice to somebody on these boards, so you have talents for better things than heckling.

I suppose the Lit Personal board is not a great environment for practicing and learning civilized behavior, for various reasons. I will try staying as far away as I can, now that my dream seems to have come true. But I am sure also, this need not necessarily be so; here and there a literate woman or a literate man post something, that other literate people enjoy. If only the know-nothings could get to understand, how useless it is to intercept and hijack threads, I am sure we'd all be much better off.
 
If I were you, shy one, I would not overdo it! You have written nothing about yourself worth mentioning in your post #1, as I see it, except /I want, I want, I want/, except that even here you don't seem to know quite what it is you want. So it seems to me, bringing up extra demands is not becoming you very well.

And when it comes to your looks: OK, but nothing out of the ordinary. You have a sexy avatar pic, you have a cute pouting face, you own big tits, but rather disproportionate nipples, and you seem definitely overweight; so don't overestimate yourself on the physical attractiveness scale either, I suggest.

It seems to me, a bit more modesty would win you more friends, but then I forgot, this is Lit, here every Tom Dick and Harry will send you lots of compliments.

^^^
But yet, I deserved this treatment from you? Mr. Has a Wife But Thinks He Deserves Someone Online.
Jada never mentioned any names in her post, people assumed.

But I’m just an arrogant, small nippled, obese, ugly woman calling out a misogynistic, woman-hating, ass who probably resembles a raisin more than a human being...so, what do I know🤔🤷🏻*♀️
 
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hello to you, Shi_One

Shi_One, if you cannot even spell "raisin", you should not go around everywhere, accusing people and calling them names.

But tell me quite seriously: has it really made you feel any better writing this post of yours now? And how much longer do you intend to play the role here of a poor woman having gotten Weisteined on the Personal?
 
glBock said:
Shi_One, if you cannot even spell "raisin", you should not go around everywhere, accusing people and calling them names.

But tell me quite seriously: has it really made you feel any better writing this post of yours now? And how much longer do you intend to play the role here of a poor woman having gotten Weisteined on the Personal?
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It’s called voice to text, but you’re probably too ancient to know what that is. I just want to make sure everyone knows what an arrogant piece of shit you are. Oh and kudos for finally spelling my name right. For someone who wants to throw stones maybe they shouldn’t live in glass spellcheck houses.
 
Oh I see.

It's okay to shame women by implication as long as you don't do it by name.

Gotcha! I understand now.

The net-nannies will doubtless check. This is my first post on the forum. A further check will reveal that I am not by any stretch of the imagination a newbie. I met Jamie in chat last year. Literotica Chat is where I usually hang out. This thread is an example of why I don't post in the forum.

I met Jamie in real life last Friday. I don't think she'd make a good sock puppet but she rocks as a dancer.

I don't know this Bock fellow at all, but if he causes the likes of you this much angst, he's surely someone I would like.

BTW Tripleflip, I loved the "Make America Vote" caps. If you really make "Sock Puppet" caps, I want one!

Live Long and Prosper!

Von
 
glBock said:
Shi_One, if you cannot even spell "raisin", you should not go around everywhere, accusing people and calling them names.

But tell me quite seriously: has it really made you feel any better writing this post of yours now? And how much longer do you intend to play the role here of a poor woman having gotten Weisteined on the Personal?
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Jesus Christ.

You're a fucking sorry excuse for a man, aren't you?
 
glBock said:
… even though it may not help at all.

Kristie, I appreciated you coming to Jamie's aid here, because she certainly does not deserve denigrations such as those, which have become Jada's specialties lately, so it seems. I suppose Jada is not really mad at Jamie, but rather at me. Don't really know why, perhaps it gives her heartburns when she has to witness some women liking me.

Jada, I like to make one suggestion to you: try giving up to character-assassinate people on Lit. It never pays to do that, and you know you can do better. Remember how you gave lots of really good advice to somebody on these boards, so you have talents for better things than heckling.

I suppose the Lit Personal board is not a great environment for practicing and learning civilized behavior, for various reasons. I will try staying as far away as I can, now that my dream seems to have come true. But I am sure also, this need not necessarily be so; here and there a literate woman or a literate man post something, that other literate people enjoy. If only the know-nothings could get to understand, how useless it is to intercept and hijack threads, I am sure we'd all be much better off.
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Let me get this straight... It's okay for you to take cheap pot-shots at others, insult, give backhanded compliments, etc. But if anyone else does something like that, you say they shouldn't? You also see fit to give others advice. Why? You're no better than anyone else here, although you seem to think so.

Again... I calls em as I sees em. I have quite a few friends here. They know me and they know how I am. Your advice rolls off my back like water on a duck.
 
Dommemomme said:
Oh I see.

It's okay to shame women by implication as long as you don't do it by name.

Gotcha! I understand now.

The net-nannies will doubtless check. This is my first post on the forum. A further check will reveal that I am not by any stretch of the imagination a newbie. I met Jamie in chat last year. Literotica Chat is where I usually hang out. This thread is an example of why I don't post in the forum.

I met Jamie in real life last Friday. I don't think she'd make a good sock puppet but she rocks as a dancer.

I don't know this Bock fellow at all, but if he causes the likes of you this much angst, he's surely someone I would like.

BTW Tripleflip, I loved the "Make America Vote" caps. If you really make "Sock Puppet" caps, I want one!

Live Long and Prosper!

Von
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I point out that he has sock puppets and you chime in, just like a sock puppet! How cool is that? :D
 
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Jada59 said:
Let me get this straight... It's okay for you to take cheap pot-shots at others, insult, give backhanded compliments, etc. But if anyone else does something like that, you say they shouldn't? You also see fit to give others advice. Why? You're no better than anyone else here, although you seem to think so.

Again... I calls em as I sees em. I have quite a few friends here. They know me and they know how I am. Your advice rolls off my back like water on a duck.
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I believe, if I am not mistaken, that he is the savior anointed for the purpose of teaching civilized discourse to the Philistines who populate this web site.
Otherwise, his supercilious and superior attitude would be difficult to comprehend.
 
some people are able to read, and others simply never learn it

With people like Jada feeling entitled to write anything she damned well pleases, and people like Shi_One successfully playing the role of a poor woman insulted by me here, it is no fun believe me, responding to accusations here. I expressed my regret before, for posting on Shi_One's thread, but here is the actual crime I committed:

I called the comments she posted, regarding men who replied to her, arrogant, because that is what they sounded like to me. And I expressed my opinion on her pictures she is posting everywhere. My opinion is the opposite of being politically correct; while everybody complimented her on how great she looked, I told her exactly the opposite.

Now I ask you, what is so terrible about that? Why is a woman I do not find visually pleasing unable to just simply accept that? Has everybody here forgotten about the underlying ideas of free speech?

Character assassination, on the other hand, is something else entirely. It entails comparing people to raisins, for instance, or smart-asses claiming all sorts of vile characteristics of people, whose comments they do not like.

Now I do not really give a damn what Jada or Shi_One, or anybody else, for that matter thinks of me; my own self-confidence does not depend on their "likes". But I find their words plain fucking insulting, and they tell me that both women have no manners at all.

Unfortunately monitoring of insults on Lit is non-existing, and Shi_One is allowed to pile one on top of the other. Regardless on who she insults. As far as I am concerned, I rather quit posting anything on the Personals board from now no, while rampant feminist like these two "pseudo"-ladies run around free here.
 
glBock said:
With people like Jada feeling entitled to write anything she damned well pleases, and people like Shi_One successfully playing the role of a poor woman insulted by me here, it is no fun believe me, responding to accusations here. I expressed my regret before, for posting on Shi_One's thread, but here is the actual crime I committed:

I called the comments she posted, regarding men who replied to her, arrogant, because that is what they sounded like to me. And I expressed my opinion on her pictures she is posting everywhere. My opinion is the opposite of being politically correct; while everybody complimented her on how great she looked, I told her exactly the opposite.

Now I ask you, what is so terrible about that? Why is a woman I do not find visually pleasing unable to just simply accept that? Has everybody here forgotten about the underlying ideas of free speech?

Character assassination, on the other hand, is something else entirely. It entails comparing people to raisins, for instance, or smart-asses claiming all sorts of vile characteristics of people, whose comments they do not like.

Now I do not really give a damn what Jada or Shi_One, or anybody else, for that matter thinks of me; my own self-confidence does not depend on their "likes". But I find their words plain fucking insulting, and they tell me that both women have no manners at all.

Unfortunately monitoring of insults on Lit is non-existing, and Shi_One is allowed to pile one on top of the other. Regardless on who she insults. As far as I am concerned, I rather quit posting anything on the Personals board from now no, while rampant feminist like these two "pseudo"-ladies run around free here.
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Mr. Perfect I think you mean “now on” and not “now no” because that would be an absolute travesty. And if I’m arrogant, hello pot this is the mother fucking kettle! You disparaged my looks in more ways than one but god forbid someone call you out. You can insult me, but the moment I dish it out you bitch and moan. Aww poor old man got insulted. I feel ba-.... no, no I don’t. But I will be nice and keep the Viagra jokes to myself... 😁
 
glBock said:
As far as I am concerned, I rather quit posting anything on the Personals board from now no, while rampant feminist like these two "pseudo"-ladies run around free here.
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98% of Lit is good with this statement. Make it happen. Quit posting.
 
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