Mindfondler
Kinkster
- Joined
- Jul 19, 2010
- Posts
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(Note: this is a significantly updated version of our previous advert)
Hi!
We are Mindfondler and Tinglebliss. We are a well-established, respected M/F couple in the UK kink scene, where we have been active together for the last three years. We're based in the suburbs of London, but we travel further afield for some events and meet-ups, as you'll see from our profiles (see links above).
We are seeking a local, self-reliant, sexy female submissive who shares our sense of fun and our interests in mental play, control play and sensation play.
Ours is a strong, stable and long-running relationship. We play happily together, but we've identified a gap that we'd love to fill. We've discovered that we enjoy playing with others and in small groups. We've had great fun double-domming and double-subbing casually (Tinglebliss switches and is bi-curious, so she may play a dominant or submissive role depending on the dynamic that she feels with another woman). So, we'd like to find a regular female play partner.
We recognise that finding a sub isn't like filling a job vacancy. The magical chemistry that makes people "click" is difficult to pin down in writing, so we won't try to do that here. Instead, here are a few prerequisites:
Before committing too heavily, we expect to spend some time "circling each other" to establish a good connection and build the necessary level of respect and trust. For us, casual play is okay at first, but in the longer run we're seeking the type of truly fulfilling play that only arises through openness, empathy and intimacy.
We are happy to go into more detail with anyone suitable who sends a message (to Mindfondler or to Tinglebliss). Before you do that, though, please check out our profiles, our postings and the links in our signatures to get a wider impression of us.
Alternatively, please come and say hello to us in person at to one of the UK kink events that we attend. Ask us where we're going! We love to meet new people and make new friends, regardless of any intentions regarding play.
Thank you for reading about us!
Mindfondler and Tinglebliss
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Hi!
We are Mindfondler and Tinglebliss. We are a well-established, respected M/F couple in the UK kink scene, where we have been active together for the last three years. We're based in the suburbs of London, but we travel further afield for some events and meet-ups, as you'll see from our profiles (see links above).
We are seeking a local, self-reliant, sexy female submissive who shares our sense of fun and our interests in mental play, control play and sensation play.
Ours is a strong, stable and long-running relationship. We play happily together, but we've identified a gap that we'd love to fill. We've discovered that we enjoy playing with others and in small groups. We've had great fun double-domming and double-subbing casually (Tinglebliss switches and is bi-curious, so she may play a dominant or submissive role depending on the dynamic that she feels with another woman). So, we'd like to find a regular female play partner.
We recognise that finding a sub isn't like filling a job vacancy. The magical chemistry that makes people "click" is difficult to pin down in writing, so we won't try to do that here. Instead, here are a few prerequisites:
- BDSM experience is not essential, but you need to bring your own fantasies and practical ideas to us. We've found from past encounters that "I like the idea of everything" isn't a helpful starting point.
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- Fun is our main objective! Mindfondler is not a strict and surly type of dominant — he metes out funishments — and we can expect to laugh a lot together.
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- You need to be prepared to come along to kink events with us. We believe it's the only way for us to play safely at first. We understand that's a big step for some people, but we'd do everything possible to make it a comfortable one.
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- We primarily enjoy sexy mental play, control play and sensation play. Mental play includes predicament play and mild humiliation games. Control play includes directed dressing, orgasm control and self-improvement tasks. Our sensation play usually incorporates bondage and sometimes sensory deprivation. Read more details here (link). Note that we don't favour heavy impact play as an end in itself.
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- You need to be in reasonable shape. Some of our play scenarios require you to be physically active and show some stamina! Ideally, we'll be able to pick you up and move you about by ourselves.
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- We are open to many possibilities, ranging from being a stepping-stone for newbies curious about the community (we've done that many times and we have a network of great friends whom we can introduce to you), through to the possibility of an enduring relationship. We won't make prior assumptions.
Before committing too heavily, we expect to spend some time "circling each other" to establish a good connection and build the necessary level of respect and trust. For us, casual play is okay at first, but in the longer run we're seeking the type of truly fulfilling play that only arises through openness, empathy and intimacy.
We are happy to go into more detail with anyone suitable who sends a message (to Mindfondler or to Tinglebliss). Before you do that, though, please check out our profiles, our postings and the links in our signatures to get a wider impression of us.
Alternatively, please come and say hello to us in person at to one of the UK kink events that we attend. Ask us where we're going! We love to meet new people and make new friends, regardless of any intentions regarding play.
Thank you for reading about us!
Mindfondler and Tinglebliss
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