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Old 12-05-2017, 08:45 PM   #1
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Does size really matter?

The age old question, does size really matter? Often times men when they see a woman are often looking at her breasts, have you heard the expression "tit man"? While it's not as easy for women to determine the size of a man until undressed.

Men, do the size of a woman's breasts make a difference to you?
Women, what about the size of a man's penis does it matter?

of course, if you have stories to share feel free to share them.
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Old 12-05-2017, 11:13 PM   #2
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The age old question, does size really matter? Often times men when they see a woman are often looking at her breasts, have you heard the expression "tit man"? While it's not as easy for women to determine the size of a man until undressed.

Men, do the size of a woman's breasts make a difference to you?
Women, what about the size of a man's penis does it matter?

of course, if you have stories to share feel free to share them.
Breast size not really, no matter whose they are still want to see them and suck/play with them.

Cock size yes I think makes a big difference especially when it's got some girth to it
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Old 12-05-2017, 11:20 PM   #3
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Size does matter but not like you think. I am a sissy and I like regular nice guy cocks

as breasts go I like small firm but appreciate all
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Old 12-05-2017, 11:25 PM   #4
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I'll play -
no guy has ever walked out the door because of the size of my breasts
so far have never seen the famous porn size guy - normal is very nice
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Old 12-05-2017, 11:31 PM   #5
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Not to me, I'm an absolute slag, I'll shag anyone!

More seriously, a mans' penis size is supposed to be a sexual
marker, you see.

Tits, no, I like women with small ones.
An old friend finally revealed hers to me. My herbal doctor.

Those things stood up like bloody rifle bullets!

OMG can I have a suck of those?

So it went on!
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Old 12-06-2017, 12:44 AM   #6
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For me, I can enjoy both flat chests and reasonably big boobs. I very much dislike really huge tits, especially silicone ones. That's a preference, not a rule, and in relationship size will get overshadowed by other traits anyway. For example, I won't watch porn with huge tits in it, but if I happen to meet a nice girl with those breasts - it won't stop me from dating her and loving her. It's not a deal breaker.

I'd say that with every breast size you should be mindful of how you dress and how you shape the rest of your body up (your hair, for example, or the slimness you are going for.). So it's a matter of conscious planning to make your size work for you, but even completely flat girls can be simply stunning.

So no, chest size on it's own doesn't really matter. What matters is how you dress it up to make it advantageous.

That said, there are men who strongly prefer certain size. BUT this goes both ways, as I knew men who actually preferred smaller tits - that turned them on more than big boobs.
It's like with hair color really. Some will like blondes, some will like dark hair more. Some will not care at all. But it's not like blonde-lover can't fall in love with a brunette - it's not a deal breaker anyway. The same way, chest size is never a deal breaker for men, I think.

I'm not a woman but I'll contribute to a second part two. Size does make a difference when it comes to sex. Up to a certain point, bigger is better.
And it can also be too small. Most women will find it hard to be satisfied with a 2" cock, and then again they will think 10" is clearly too big.
But when we talk average sizes - they will mostly work fine, as long as you know what to do with them.
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Old 12-06-2017, 02:26 AM   #7
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Iím firmly in the camp that believes cock size is far less important than attitude. My husband is, l suppose, about an average 6-7 inches and he has no problem giving me orgasms because he spends the time making sure lím enjoying it. My Daddy was much the same.

Iíve only once had the experience of one of those mythical giants and it was black. It was very nice but very often itís the man behind the cock that matters.
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Old 12-06-2017, 08:57 AM   #8
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Breast size does not matter at all to me. I'm a leg man, so if she has lovely legs, I don't even notice her breasts...until later.
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Old 12-06-2017, 09:26 AM   #9
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Iím firmly in the camp that believes cock size is far less important than attitude. My husband is, l suppose, about an average 6-7 inches and he has no problem giving me orgasms because he spends the time making sure lím enjoying it. My Daddy was much the same.

Iíve only once had the experience of one of those mythical giants and it was black. It was very nice but very often itís the man behind the cock that matters.
I agree.
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Old 12-06-2017, 09:36 AM   #10
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I'm only 7 inches.

Not sure it does matter.

It's a sexual marker, no doubts there, but is
he a good lover?

Being a good lover is more complicated, you need to ensure
she's had an orgasm before you tip your hat and go.
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Old 12-06-2017, 09:37 AM   #11
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It doesn't matter to me/us. Any cock that can fill our holes with cum is fine with us.
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Old 12-06-2017, 09:41 AM   #12
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I wish there was a like button. I'd like that post, Jack.
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Old 12-06-2017, 09:51 AM   #13
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I second the need for a like button

I feel like like too small is too small, however there is such a thing as too big. I remember the first time I had my husband, in college. I was seeing a few other guys at the time.

I remember thinking wow! This is perfect. Then I knew how Goldilocks felt. Then when he whispered into my ear. "Teach me how to make you cum." Wow I would have married him right there.

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Iím firmly in the camp that believes cock size is far less important than attitude. My husband is, l suppose, about an average 6-7 inches and he has no problem giving me orgasms because he spends the time making sure lím enjoying it. My Daddy was much the same.

Iíve only once had the experience of one of those mythical giants and it was black. It was very nice but very often itís the man behind the cock that matters.
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Old 12-06-2017, 10:27 AM   #14
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Iím firmly in the camp that believes cock size is far less important than attitude. My husband is, l suppose, about an average 6-7 inches and he has no problem giving me orgasms because he spends the time making sure lím enjoying it. My Daddy was much the same.

Iíve only once had the experience of one of those mythical giants and it was black. It was very nice but very often itís the man behind the cock that matters.
6-7 inches is way above average.

properly run studies find the average length to be in the 5.2 - 5.5 inch range.

Girth - 4 - 4.25 inches.
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Old 12-06-2017, 10:28 AM   #15
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I'm only 7 inches.

Not sure it does matter.

It's a sexual marker, no doubts there, but is
he a good lover?

Being a good lover is more complicated, you need to ensure
she's had an orgasm before you tip your hat and go.
only 7?? you;re probably in the top 10% in length
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I'll play -
no guy has ever walked out the door because of the size of my breasts
so far have never seen the famous porn size guy - normal is very nice
any guy that walked out on you would be nuts...
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Old 12-06-2017, 10:53 AM   #17
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only 7?? you;re probably in the top 10% in length
I disagree. 6-7 inches is average. About 70% of men have at least that. 8-9 inches is big, then everything above this would be too large for many women.
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I disagree. 6-7 inches is average. About 70% of men have at least that. 8-9 inches is big, then everything above this would be too large for many women.
google penis size studies.

the ones that are done scientifically, and measure correctly don't agree with your thoughts.
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google penis size studies.

the ones that are done scientifically, and measure correctly don't agree with your thoughts.
any good ones? Because I can't find reliable studies.
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Sure it matters. Itís well down the list of things that matter and it isnít strictly a bigger is better. But it isnít utterly irrelevant.

If I was building the perfect man his cock would be 8Ē and thick but not too thick for deep throat or anal. And I donít know anyone who would choose a micro penis.

Yes the man it is attached to is far more important than his cock size. No I wouldnít reject a man for having a small dick. But those are answers to a question that wasnít asked. Unless I read the question wrong it is a yes or no.
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any good ones? Because I can't find reliable studies.
how is medical news today??? a lot more accurate than Men's Health or some Condom company...

https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/271647.php

there are a lot more by medical sources, they all come out in the same range...

just google penis size study
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Old 12-06-2017, 11:33 AM   #22
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Sure it matters. Itís well down the list of things that matter and it isnít strictly a bigger is better. But it isnít utterly irrelevant.

If I was building the perfect man his cock would be 8Ē and thick but not too thick for deep throat or anal. And I donít know anyone who would choose a micro penis.

Yes the man it is attached to is far more important than his cock size. No I wouldnít reject a man for having a small dick. But those are answers to a question that wasnít asked. Unless I read the question wrong it is a yes or no.

If it didnít matter at all women who answer with a simple ďnoĒ. The more the deflect the question the more it seems that it does matter, at least a bit,
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Old 12-06-2017, 11:35 AM   #23
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Yes, it matters

Yes, the size of a prospective partner's functioning brain does matter to me.
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Old 12-06-2017, 11:44 AM   #24
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With regard to breasts, I'm on the smaller is better side of the discussion. A cups to Ds if they are firm and pert. A nice bra goes along way to displaying a less than perfect pair in an attractive manner.

As for the male member, mine is a bit over 6 and 5 1/2 girth. Pretty normal, I think. Standard condoms are too tight. Magnums for me. They feel much better.
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Old 12-06-2017, 12:00 PM   #25
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I love (almost obsessed with) large breasts. In most cases the bigger the better. I wonít pursue a woman with small or no breasts. Nothing against them personally, Iím sure theyíre sexy in other ways but large breasts are a must have.
As far as cock size is concerned, I am average length (6 inches) but I have been told that I am wider/girthier than most so I have that going for me. I donít seek out dick but I would imagine it would matter to a certain extent to the ladies, ie; if a guy was particularly small.
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