For many of us, hitting a woman crosses a line. For me to cross that line, my lover would have to be absolutely clear and specific as to her wishes, and I would need constant feedback. Maybe not the scene you want, but there it is.
"We need to make books cool again. If you go home with somebody and they don't have books, don't fuck them." John Waters
"When a man loves cats, I am his friend and comrade, without further introduction.” Mark Twain
"What you need is sustained outrage...there's far too much unthinking respect given to authority." Molly Ivins