hornyhubby48
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When I think about what made my good mail relationships tick and fly, the term resonance comes to mind. Not "magic" or "chemistry".
Reason is simple, I suppose: when a woman and I meet in an environment like Lit, both of us already match to some extent, because we have similar needs. When both a man and a woman are missing erotic intimacy, and when it looks like she and he love to provide that by mail to another person, that's a strong basis already for virtual happiness.
But if such happiness is to last, we must develop a strong liking for one another as well. In addition to merely serving each others' needs. And for that you and I have to really enjoy each others' (mail) company. And for this to happen, requires that we resonate with one another.
Resonance is not rocket science either. It means – plain and simple – that I try to understand, what you are writing to me, and that I respond because what you tell me interests me. And the other way around. This is natural; after all, when we have orgasms together, we aim for some kind of understanding and resonance as well, so why should this not also happen in the inter-personal realm?
Come to think of it, while part of resonance is in our genes most likely, a good-sized part is very wilful behavior! Who would have thought of that? OK, some potential key mismatches should not be present for you and me, but who knows, maybe we'll discover harmony here as well.
Would you like to look into this a bit deeper by sending me a PM?
Reason is simple, I suppose: when a woman and I meet in an environment like Lit, both of us already match to some extent, because we have similar needs. When both a man and a woman are missing erotic intimacy, and when it looks like she and he love to provide that by mail to another person, that's a strong basis already for virtual happiness.
But if such happiness is to last, we must develop a strong liking for one another as well. In addition to merely serving each others' needs. And for that you and I have to really enjoy each others' (mail) company. And for this to happen, requires that we resonate with one another.
Resonance is not rocket science either. It means – plain and simple – that I try to understand, what you are writing to me, and that I respond because what you tell me interests me. And the other way around. This is natural; after all, when we have orgasms together, we aim for some kind of understanding and resonance as well, so why should this not also happen in the inter-personal realm?
Come to think of it, while part of resonance is in our genes most likely, a good-sized part is very wilful behavior! Who would have thought of that? OK, some potential key mismatches should not be present for you and me, but who knows, maybe we'll discover harmony here as well.
Would you like to look into this a bit deeper by sending me a PM?
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