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Old 11-25-2017, 12:09 PM   #26
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I guess it falls into femdom or humiliation, but the idea of a hot/ bossy woman "directing" the show hit me the right way at that moment, lol.
What I have experienced has not been about humiliation at all. I love being directed to entertain and how to do it.
My experience has been more role reversal.

My first wife was not shy about getting naked around a couple of my friends. It never went too far or got out of control. She would serve drinks and occasionally let us watch her use a vibrator to make herself cum.

When she wanted me to get naked and jack off for a couple of her friends, I was more than willing to do it. I loved getting naked like this and gladly did so.
I told her I would do it any time she wanted me to.

It only happened a couple of times and those are great memories for me.
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Old 11-25-2017, 04:58 PM   #27
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I stumbled across some cfnm videos on redtube the other day...who knew that was a thing?
I love the idea of a clothed female, naked male (me). I know for me it would just make me feel all the more submissive to her
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Old 11-27-2017, 11:07 PM   #28
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I love the idea of a clothed female, naked male (me). I know for me it would just make me feel all the more submissive to her
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Old 11-28-2017, 10:28 AM   #29
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I didn't know the term till a few months ago. Its been my life for a couple years. If the kids are gone I am naked wife is clothed. I love it. I enjoy the humiliation and the nudity. I often clean the house, do the laundry and cook dinner nude while she watches.

I clean her car and change the oil in our cars nude as well.

the CFNM was our first step into a submissive life style. It was just kind of natural for us.
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Old 12-01-2017, 04:54 PM   #30
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What I have never understood is why so much of the CFNM themed stuff on the internet has a female dominant bent to it. I love being naked around an erotically clad woman, and having sex with her the same way but am not submissive and can't get into much of it.
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Old 12-01-2017, 05:11 PM   #31
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What I have never understood is why so much of the CFNM themed stuff on the internet has a female dominant bent to it. I love being naked around an erotically clad woman, and having sex with her the same way but am not submissive and can't get into much of it.
I prefer the women to be clothed naturally. Just doing her daily routine as I am kept naked.
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Old 12-01-2017, 05:41 PM   #32
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I prefer the women to be clothed naturally. Just doing her daily routine as I am kept naked.
When I say erotically clothed it doesn't mean she has to be in high-class lingerie or anything, I mean, yoga pants are erotic, just in a way that shows off her body.
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Old 12-03-2017, 03:10 AM   #33
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I can't say I'm into cfnm as a thing in itself, but when the time comes that he needs a stern talking-to, or more, you can bet he's going to be nekkid.
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Old 12-03-2017, 10:34 AM   #34
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I can't say I'm into cfnm as a thing in itself, but when the time comes that he needs a stern talking-to, or more, you can bet he's going to be nekkid.
I haven't met very many women that are into it. They do exist.
A lot of guys like to show off their wives/girlfriends so, why can't the ladies have the same opportunities with their men?
It can be a lot of fun.
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Old 12-03-2017, 11:03 AM   #35
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I haven't met very many women that are into it. They do exist.
A lot of guys like to show off their wives/girlfriends so, why can't the ladies have the same opportunities with their men?
It can be a lot of fun.
It's about being displayed in front of other women? Is that key?
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Old 12-03-2017, 04:54 PM   #36
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I've always been a Cfnm fan. It's about the guy being naked and the lady being dressed. It can be done one on one or in groups. There is so much variety to Cfnm.
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Old 12-04-2017, 01:39 AM   #37
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Iíve never once thought of CFMM as a dominance/humiliation thing ever. Guess Iím the outlier. I simply have a uniform fetish and am turned on more when a woman is clothed vs. naked. Nothing more, nothing less.
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Old 12-04-2017, 01:25 PM   #38
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Iíve never once thought of CFMM as a dominance/humiliation thing ever. Guess Iím the outlier. I simply have a uniform fetish and am turned on more when a woman is clothed vs. naked. Nothing more, nothing less.
i have been part of cfnm way before it was called cfnm.... not so much humiliation but rather more of enjoyment being naked and the enjoyment a woman or women seeing an playing wiht you or making you do things for their enjoyment... i think the humiliation and bdsm sells more sites than just being naked for women and posing, playing or whatever.
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Old 12-04-2017, 02:36 PM   #39
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Iíve been to many CFnm parties. In reality unless you have a conversation with a male, as a dome you donít just go up and start humiliating someone or degrading them. Iíve gone to parties dresses vanilla and fetish. I get foot rubs, massages, and pampering from the men. Some parties are sex positive and Iíve had men come infront of the other woman at their consent.
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Old 12-05-2017, 07:45 AM   #40
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It's about being displayed in front of other women? Is that key?
I think this has a lot to do with it, at least for me.
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Old 12-05-2017, 05:01 PM   #41
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I think this has a lot to do with it, at least for me.
I am happy naked in front of my master. I just like the vulnerability of being naked while others are clothed. Can be other males or females. Its the fact that I am naked and exposed. I get off on my humiliation. I don't even think about if they are interested or not.
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I think this has a lot to do with it, at least for me.
I am familiar with the cfnm dynamic, it being part of our cuckold lifestyle, but if there are other women present, what do they do? Or more importantly, what would you want them to do?
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As a Submissive Female I've enjoyed the exact opposite CMNF, where the more clothed males looking at/ surrounding my naked body at sex parties etc was an extreme thrill for me, turned me on to be the object of attention and to listen to the 'dirty' talk about my body and some of the obvious erections 'before the games began' x Used to empower and energise me in a way x

Guess sub guys must get the same thrill and empowerment in a CFNM situation x x x
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I think this has a lot to do with it, at least for me.
yes hubby has been involved in cfnm for a long time and he loves the exposure
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Guess sub guys must get the same thrill and empowerment in a CFNM situation x x x
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I am familiar with the cfnm dynamic, it being part of our cuckold lifestyle, but if there are other women present, what do they do? Or more importantly, what would you want them to do?
I just want them to enjoy themselves. They can look and even touch without fear of being sexually harassed. They can have the man/men entertain them by being waiters to serve them or just have them demonstrate their masturbation techniques.
I've been driven to friends places while naked.
To me, it is fun if the woman has fun.
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I am familiar with the cfnm dynamic, it being part of our cuckold lifestyle, but if there are other women present, what do they do? Or more importantly, what would you want them to do?

To be comfortable and do what they would if I was dressed. I get my enjoyment from my own insecurity about being nude in there view. They are free to ignore me or stair at me.
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Old 12-17-2017, 09:05 AM   #48
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What I have never understood is why so much of the CFNM themed stuff on the internet has a female dominant bent to it. I love being naked around an erotically clad woman, and having sex with her the same way but am not submissive and can't get into much of it.
You are right about the Femdom bent. It doesn't have to be about that. It can be just plain fun.
I enjoy being naked around a clothed woman or a few women. It is fun if they enjoy it.
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What's not to like about CFNM

I think this thread needs a bump. Love CFNM. Brings back all those 18 year old fantasies about being caught naked before my Mom's friends or my teachers. There's lots of great CFNM vids about women auditioning guys as waiters, strippers, pool boys, etc. The whole concept is a real turn on.

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Old 12-23-2017, 09:21 AM   #50
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I think this thread needs a bump. Love CFNM. Brings back all those 18 year old fantasies about being caught naked before my Mom's friends or my teachers. There's lots of great CFNM vids about women auditioning guys as waiters, strippers, pool boys, etc. The whole concept is a real turn on.

https://cdn.pornpics.com/pics1/2010-...9799_07big.jpg
I thought I was the only one that had those fantasies as a teenager, LOL.
You brought back some really good memories there.
This has been a major source of my masturbation fodder for years.
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