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Old 10-14-2017, 12:36 AM   #201
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I've had that happen a few times when guys read a post of mine that didn't specifically mention I was male and fired off an excited note, apparently without paying much attention to my profile (because, seriously, dozens of people have read the ads linked in my profile and had no trouble determining my gender).

That's why the first word in my bio is now "Male".

Btw, I don't mind if guys message me to comment on a thread or whatever, but mistaking me for a woman is a bit much.
If it's any consolation, it's probably not anything to do with you specifically - many of those are just firing off PMs to anyone whose online, breathing and might be female. I don't think they stop to check profiles first.
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Old 10-14-2017, 12:51 AM   #202
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If it's any consolation, it's probably not anything to do with you specifically - many of those are just firing off PMs to anyone whose online, breathing and might be female. I don't think they stop to check profiles first.
Actually, adding that one word to my bio seems to have pretty much eliminated the issue. And I never got many messages like that in the first place - not sure what accounts for the flood of guys reported by lickitandstickit.

You are correct, of course: Some people don't take the time to check profiles. And there is significant overlap between the members of that group and the ranks of those complaining bitterly that their PMs are continually ignored or rebuffed.
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Old 10-14-2017, 01:29 AM   #203
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Actually, adding that one word to my bio seems to have pretty much eliminated the issue. And I never got many messages like that in the first place - not sure what accounts for the flood of guys reported by lickitandstickit.

You are correct, of course: Some people don't take the time to check profiles. And there is significant overlap between the members of that group and the ranks of those complaining bitterly that their PMs are continually ignored or rebuffed.
lickitandstickit - I think that's the answer to your question right there.

The 'I'm continually ignored - they're all bitches' complaint is a constant puzzle to me. If women are continually ignoring your PMs, maybe it's worth considering that it's something you're doing, rather than assuming that everyone with a uterus is an evil witch.
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Old 10-14-2017, 02:49 AM   #204
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I've had a few really nice PM's actually, very gentlemanly and elegant...
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Old 10-24-2017, 04:41 AM   #205
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Yes. All of this.
well said!
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Old 11-06-2017, 06:03 AM   #206
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Here’s another how-NOT-To. Got this in a PM yesterday. I blanked out the guy’s name because I am that nice. But...seriously? Eye roll.

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Old 11-06-2017, 06:05 AM   #207
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Here’s another how-NOT-To. Got this in a PM yesterday. I blanked out the guy’s name because I am that nice. But...seriously? Eye roll.

“Let's see whatcha got. ******* on yahoo i.m. Or try me here, but it's not instant.”
Cant believe that didnt get you all hot and bothered. Must be a real ice queen ..
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Old 11-06-2017, 06:11 AM   #208
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I got a "inkblot test" it was terrible!
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Old 11-06-2017, 06:14 AM   #209
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I got a "inkblot test" it was terrible!
Lmao!
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Old 11-06-2017, 06:16 AM   #210
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Lmao!
You didn't send that did you? You know what it was? Wow!
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Old 11-06-2017, 01:26 PM   #211
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Here’s another how-NOT-To. Got this in a PM yesterday. I blanked out the guy’s name because I am that nice. But...seriously? Eye roll.

“Let's see whatcha got. ******* on yahoo i.m. Or try me here, but it's not instant.”
This needs to go into the asshat PMs thread!
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Old 11-06-2017, 05:30 PM   #212
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You didn't send that did you? You know what it was? Wow!
Definitely did NOT send it lol. I dont know for a fact what it is, but given my vivid imagination, i have a few ideas
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Old 11-06-2017, 05:34 PM   #213
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Definitely did NOT send it lol. I dont know for a fact what it is, but given my vivid imagination, i have a few ideas
Funny...I wanted to file a complaint, but the no one is around anyway to listen...lol
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Old 11-06-2017, 05:45 PM   #214
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Funny...I wanted to file a complaint, but the no one is around anyway to listen...lol
How would said complaint read?
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How would said complaint read?
Nice yry! Lol Maybe a snake infestation?
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Old 11-06-2017, 06:50 PM   #216
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Nice yry! Lol Maybe a snake infestation?
Are we still talking about ink? Lol
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Are we still talking about ink? Lol
The message said what do see in the ink blot, well I saw snakes coming out from everywhere on one branch....yikes!
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The message said what do see in the ink blot, well I saw snakes coming out from everywhere on one branch....yikes!
Ohhhhhhhh .....i gotcha.

Yeah, definitely not me
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Old 11-06-2017, 07:19 PM   #219
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Ohhhhhhhh .....i gotcha.

Yeah, definitely not me
Thank goodness lol
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Old 11-07-2017, 06:47 AM   #220
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Cant believe that didnt get you all hot and bothered. Must be a real ice queen ..
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If anyone can handle it, im sure its you
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Old 11-19-2017, 08:13 PM   #223
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I don't understand.

You go down town, you have a laugh.

I was screwed last night for example.


I honestly don't understand what the horror is.

Everybody around you wants sex. It's human nature.

I've never understood what the big problem was.
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Old 11-19-2017, 08:54 PM   #224
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I don't understand.

You go down town, you have a laugh.

I was screwed last night for example.


I honestly don't understand what the horror is.

Everybody around you wants sex. It's human nature.

I've never understood what the big problem was.
Is there some point being made in this post?
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Old 12-12-2017, 09:50 PM   #225
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I have been meandering through this thread and enjoying the advice and humor!
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