Curious about kink? Caring established couple seeks tentative submissive UK ladies!

I imagine that you have listened to our audio clip and it has intrigued you. What are submission and BDSM play all about? We'd be happy to help you answer your questions and find out more about yourself.

My husband MF (Mindfondler) and I (tinglebliss) are a long-standing conventional UK couple who have recently turned to BDSM play. You can find out more about our experiences on our thread in The Playground: Meet Mr and Mrs MF! You're welcome to join in there and ask us questions (or send us a Private Message for a discreet answer).

MF has been active on Lit for many years (check his posting history). I have joined in the last few days so I can get more involved in the chatting!

Over the last two years, MF and I have started to meet in real life (at local kink events) some of the Litsters that we had previously encountered online in The New UK Kink Thread and other places.

MF and I are both caring, nurturing types. We have learnt a lot in our two years of kink and we want to spread the knowledge to others, because we both still remember what it was like to be nervous newbies. We have met lots of varied people on our journey and, if we can't answer your question, we can find someone that can.

For six months, I ran a local event to give ladies new to kink the chance to chat in a small and quiet group with established kinky ladies, as an alternative to a full-blown munch. After initial success, that event unfortunately dwindled in numbers until I couldn't run it any more, but I'm hoping that MF and I can achieve better results by putting out the word online.

What do MF and I get out of this role? Apart from the great satisfaction of helping people and making new friends in the process, we want to help you get onto the first rung of the ladder into kink. We'd like to help you to discover your submissive side, understand what BDSM means to you and how kink in the real world compares to online.

In addition to this advert of ours, MF has been running another advert in the "BDSM Personals" section for ladies who might be interested in playing with us. A few ladies whom we've already met this way have had fun with us and have become good friends. That has grown from lots of communication and building of trust between us all.

If you have any questions for me or MF then please come and say hi. You can reply in this thread or click on this link to send me a Private Message. I'd love to hear from you!

tinglebliss

I'm bumping this advert for Bank Holiday Monday in the UK. Have a good one, everybody!
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tinglebliss is too embarrassed to bump her own advert, so I'm bumping it for her.

By all means drop tinglebliss a PM and tell her that it was worth me doing that.
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I'm happy to see tinglebliss (Mrs. MF) on Lit. I want to welcome you and give your thread a well deserved bump from me.

Have fun and best of luck.

Be safe.

Apple_of_Eden said:

I'm happy to see tinglebliss (Mrs. MF) on Lit. I want to welcome you and give your thread a well deserved bump from me.

Have fun and best of luck.

Be safe.

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Thank you.

MF and I have been having fun! See my latest posting in our "Meet Mr and Mrs MF!" thread. *blushes*

I'd like to draw attention to my latest announcement:

tinglebliss said:

Having been a sub to MF (and a few others) over the last two years, I'm now seeking to indulge my inner switch and take a deeper look at life on the other side of the slash . I've had some enjoyable experiences of topping, and I want to expand on those in a specific new role as a sensual Domme. I'm therefore actively looking for female sub play partners for sensation play (e.g. blindfolded, bound and teased). I'm also interested in sharing my role with a Domming partner if that adds extra spice to the dynamic or brings in helpful experience.

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If you're interested, then message me.

I'm bumping my advert before tucking into bed.

If anyone reads this and has any questions, I'm very happy to answer them.

Just wanted to bump this thread and say that things have moved on for us to the point where we've launched a new personals advert:

• .Wanna play with us? M/F couple, active in UK BDSM scene, seeks sparky F sub

As well as that, we're still more than happy to answer questions and introduce local newbies to the UK scene.

Can we help you to fulfil a need? Just get in touch with either of us.

Mindfondler and Tinglebliss
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Check out our new advert and see what you like! A cheeky chat with us, introduce you to other kinksters, have a play!

It's my turn to bump this thread and draw attention once again to our new personals advert:

• .Wanna play with us? M/F couple, active in UK BDSM scene, seeks sparky F sub

Feel free to contact either of us (whomever you find less scary ).

Mindfondler and Tinglebliss
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It's Tinglebliss here, bumping our advert one more time!

Just to say that MF and I have opened up our relationship so that we can explore these new avenues. We're open-minded people and we're both happy and excited for each other about this. So, please do get in touch with either of us if you're fairly local and interested!

It's a long Bank Holiday weekend in the UK, so I'm bumping this back to the top for anyone lazing around on the Sunday morning, just like us.

Do check out as well our more detailed personals advert in the BDSM Personals section:

• .Wanna play with us? M/F couple, active in UK BDSM scene, seeks sparky F sub

As before, feel free to make contact with either of us.

Mindfondler and Tinglebliss
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If I might be so bold...

For any subs/sub-curious individuals out there, I can vouch for the authenticity and generosity of both Mr and Mrs MF. They are both extremely compassionate and nurturing souls, and I know for a fact that this transfers to every aspect of their lives. They are the kind of people who will guide but also learn beside you. They truly are beautiful people.

So if you’re teetering on the edge of bravery to message them, I’d encourage that you do. You have nothing to lose by reaching out. Be brave...you never know what bliss you’ll find.

- Lucy

LucianaGrace said:

If I might be so bold...

For any subs/sub-curious individuals out there, I can vouch for the authenticity and generosity of both Mr and Mrs MF. They are both extremely compassionate and nurturing souls, and I know for a fact that this transfers to every aspect of their lives. They are the kind of people who will guide but also learn beside you. They truly are beautiful people.

So if you’re teetering on the edge of bravery to message them, I’d encourage that you do. You have nothing to lose by reaching out. Be brave...you never know what bliss you’ll find.

- Lucy

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Thank you, Lucy, for those lovely words. Unfortunately, they won't get noticed by many people here as this thread tends to disappear off the front page of the personals forum in less than a day, so I'm going to quote them instead in our related advert in the BDSM personals forum, which usually stays around for a bit longer.
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As well as our thread here, Tinglebliss and I have today created a new updated personals advert in the BDSM Personals forum::

Mindfondler said:

We are seeking a local, self-reliant, sexy female submissive who shares our sense of fun and our interests in mental play, control play and sensation play.

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We hope that it may be of interest to some!
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