Daddy and his Little Girl

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So I'm in a relationship and he's my daddy and I'm his little, We are kinda new at this , has anyone else been in this and how do you go about it?
I'm his little girl
I guess I'm looking for how a daddy should act and how a little should act
there is a age difference ( 7years) and its a rl relationship

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Con is right. You make up your own thing. There is a broad range even within Daddy/little dynamics. These are kinks to which you're drawn. Why? What aspects of DD/lg stuff do you enjoy? What other stuff intrigues you?

Talk it over; it's your group project.

Tacosalad145 said:

Hi /.\

So I'm in a relationship and he's my daddy and I'm his little, We are kinda new at this , has anyone else been in this and how do you go about it?
I'm his little girl
I guess I'm looking for how a daddy should act and how a little should act
there is a age difference ( 7years) and its a rl relationship

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I'm not so sure that there is a play book as to how you "should" act. Perhaps a good place to start would be to take turns telling each other what makes you feel good, what you might like to try, what would you like from the other person, what would you like to do for the other person, etc etc. After that you should be able to come up with some next steps for things to try.

Another thing might be to find some stories on here and read them together. Many stories are pure fantasy, and you can't expect things in real life to be exactly like fiction, but they may give you ideas for things you would like to try.

I hope this helps you find your way. Good luck

Agreed with those two.
There is no handbook as to what a Daddy and Little are supposed to act like. That is something you two must discover together.
I saw your Daddy's thread in talk. He got some very good advice. You two need to crack open some wine and sit down with a pad and paper and talk about things.
We could all sit here and tell you what we do and don't do and give you ideas, but in the end it's going to be the two of you making decisions.

I, personally, am still fighting with myself about this whole little thing. You see this age play with the binkys and the diapers and the coloring books... and that's just not me. That kink isn't wrong, it's just not MY kink. (Although I did see an awesome Star Wars coloring book I would totally get down on.) So am I a "little"? I don't know. Do I have a Daddy? Hell yes. He'll probably stop by and put in his own opinion later. Am I a Princess? No, because I'm a bad ass bitch and I'm the freaking Queen.

The point of my drunken rambling is... Talk with your Daddy, make lists, figure things out you and him. You act like you, don't think you need to be anything other than that.

MyNameIsNO said:

Agreed with those two.
There is no handbook as to what a Daddy and Little are supposed to act like. That is something you two must discover together.
I saw your Daddy's thread in talk. He got some very good advice. You two need to crack open some wine and sit down with a pad and paper and talk about things.
We could all sit here and tell you what we do and don't do and give you ideas, but in the end it's going to be the two of you making decisions.

I, personally, am still fighting with myself about this whole little thing. You see this age play with the binkys and the diapers and the coloring books... and that's just not me. That kink isn't wrong, it's just not MY kink. (Although I did see an awesome Star Wars coloring book I would totally get down on.) So am I a "little"? I don't know. Do I have a Daddy? Hell yes. He'll probably stop by and put in his own opinion later. Am I a Princess? No, because I'm a bad ass bitch and I'm the freaking Queen.

The point of my drunken rambling is... Talk with your Daddy, make lists, figure things out you and him. You act like you, don't think you need to be anything other than that.

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You are a bad ass.

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Hi, I am Noe, my Baby Girl is MynameisNo, while we are not a super D/s couple, we do enjoy what we consider to be a mild DD/lg relationship.

First things first, the first and last rule of any relationship is Magnified, in an D/s relationship, and that is open honest communication, you can trap it in the "Daddy, your little girl really wants to be tied to the bed and spanked," type Verbage, or it can be an Real Person type conversation, using first names to make things clear. The Other rule is your Daddy, may make you feel safe and it seems he is in control, but you as the little must be able to know your limits, and speak them clearly. There are things I will not do to No, and things she will not let me do to her. You must, communicate, with each other, feel safe with what he is doing, and he must feel safe you will let him know when he has gone to far, the other is trust, in any D/s, Pick Your Label, relationship, trust is also a must, little doubts become magnified, and the sooner you get them into the open, and talked over the better. The People on this Board, are a treasure trove of knowledge and experience. 90% of the BDSM threads are friendly, kind people, we just have Dark Creamy Filling, and are willing to talk.

Personally I know CB (CasscadiaBound) has a list of resources for other threads to read on here, that may help. I am open to talk to, but I share everything with No. One other piece of advice, stay out of the General Board, and the Personals Section for a while, there be Monsters there.

P.S. I will be editing this as I find mistakes, and Typos, or more likely No does.

Exactly what others have said.

I'm a little... sometimes. I'm never a brat.
I have no use for Disney or knee socks or little girl panties or coloring books.
But.. I need / want a lot of the DD/ lg dynamic...
the bits that include tenderness and care mixed with spanking and control. Lots of structure and rules.
Adoration and praise. Mixed with being fucked and used like a nasty sex toy whore.
So...am I following a play book?
I doubt it.
I'm just my own kind of kinky, bad ass mysterious
horny as fuck subby girl.

The challenge is to figure out who YOU are and who you are with your partner

Hey, I think we're pretty super.
*winks and shoots finger guns*

Hi I answered you in BDSM Talk, but I am No's Daddy. If you want the less formality of the Cafe' we can move it here.

We all know my life saving, trash talking, bad ass, Baby Girl, I am her counterpoint. Our relationship is give and take, but mainly involves a lot of affection, and listening, to each other. She Knows I always have a hug, and a cuddle, and a safe place to talk, and let all the problems out, one way or the other.

cookiecat said:

You are a bad ass.

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Kooky

MyNameIsNO said:

Hey, I think we're pretty super.
*winks and shoots finger guns*

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Gods and Godesses, I love you.

Guys thanks for responding, we have talked alot and I have told her many of the same things ya have said. While I'm not new to D/S relationship we both are new to to the DD/LG play so its been a learning experience for us both.

Tacosalad145 said:

I guess I'm looking for how a daddy should act and how a little should act

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"Daddy, please fuck your little, naughty girl" seems to work well for a lot of people.

Primalex said:

"Daddy, please fuck your little, naughty girl" seems to work well for a lot of people.

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This is extremely true

There is one teddy bear which I will accept and Noe knows it. The character has special meaning between us.

Some additional threads for your reading interest:

Who's yo daddy?
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1312732

The Allure of "Fuck me, Daddy" said by a girl in...
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1231952

Daddy's Little Girl
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1285088

Reflections on Gentleman Doms a rather old thread, but has some interesting reading
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1083983

Someone to Watch Over Me - images and thoughts collected mostly by me
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1289244


Good luck and if you have specific questions, do not hesitate to ask on an open thread. There is a lot of combined wisdom around here.

Cascadia

Hey there! Welcome to Lit.

I merged the two threads here in the BDSM Talk and Cafe forums, so now there is just this one in Talk.

ToPleaseHim said:

Hey there! Welcome to Lit.

I merged the two threads here in the BDSM Talk and Cafe forums, so now there is just this one in Talk.

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Thanks, She was a little worried by making multiple threads, and the one on GB went six ways to the moon of course I didn't help.

Whaaaa?
Something on the GB went sideways?
I can't believe it...


But really, please make sure she knows THIS is a safe place to talk

Collar_N_Cuffs said:

Whaaaa?
Something on the GB went sideways?
I can't believe it...


But really, please make sure she knows THIS is a safe place to talk

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Well of course usually I avoid the GB of kink forums they are usually filled to the brim of Trolls. She reads up on this thread so she will know.

KG89 said:

Thanks, She was a little worried by making multiple threads, and the one on GB went six ways to the moon of course I didn't help.

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Stay here and play with the Big Kids.... and be welcome