Mindfondler
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- Jul 19, 2010
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I've found myself enthralled by a particular BDSM photo. I'm hoping that I'm not alone in this! 
N.B. The picture at the link below depicts Mf domination, bondage and forced orgasms, so if those don't appeal to you then you may not wish to click on it!
http://bound-and-teased-captives.tumblr.com/image/144951977414
I'm not the type of guy who actually wants to tie up and torture unwilling women, so I've invented a backstory to the photo that helps me to enjoy it fully. In my mind, the woman knows the two men and trusts them to set up this scene in which is in a predicament, bound and vunerable, and has to submit to their every whim. In reality, the men are taking care of her, observing her reactions and ensuring that she receives the right stimulation to take her up to her limits, but not beyond them. Inside the woman's head, though, she is playing out a fantasy: perhaps one of being abducted, exposed and subjected to their delicious torments (with the men acting it out accordingly).
I'd love to hear from any women who share this type of fantasy and use a similar strategy to me for making it "acceptable". What would be your backstory for the woman? Would she actually be you or a third party? How would the interactions flow between the woman and the two men?
I considered starting a forum thread for this conversation, but then it occurred to me that some Litsters might be uncomfortable about sharing their fantasies publicly — hence this personals ad to encourage PMs instead (although constructive replies in this thread are also very welcome).
I'm aware that my request might seem dubious, especially to Litsters who aren't familiar with me. For anyone who is wavering, though, I'd encourage you to read my profile and past posts to get a better sense of my motivations.
The bottom line: Of course, I'll keep confidential anything that's sent to me privately. Also, I promise that I'll respond non-judgementally (it's okay if your kink is not my kink!). Most of all, I'll respect that your fantasies remain your own dreams — I won't seek to make them "about me". The opportunity is there for us to feel more comfortable about our BDSM fantasies by sharing and comparing them in a principled way. Maybe we can even improve on them!
I'll cross my fingers now and hope that I've managed to convey my proposition in my intended spirit!
MF
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N.B. The picture at the link below depicts Mf domination, bondage and forced orgasms, so if those don't appeal to you then you may not wish to click on it!
http://bound-and-teased-captives.tumblr.com/image/144951977414
I'm not the type of guy who actually wants to tie up and torture unwilling women, so I've invented a backstory to the photo that helps me to enjoy it fully. In my mind, the woman knows the two men and trusts them to set up this scene in which is in a predicament, bound and vunerable, and has to submit to their every whim. In reality, the men are taking care of her, observing her reactions and ensuring that she receives the right stimulation to take her up to her limits, but not beyond them. Inside the woman's head, though, she is playing out a fantasy: perhaps one of being abducted, exposed and subjected to their delicious torments (with the men acting it out accordingly).
I'd love to hear from any women who share this type of fantasy and use a similar strategy to me for making it "acceptable". What would be your backstory for the woman? Would she actually be you or a third party? How would the interactions flow between the woman and the two men?
I considered starting a forum thread for this conversation, but then it occurred to me that some Litsters might be uncomfortable about sharing their fantasies publicly — hence this personals ad to encourage PMs instead (although constructive replies in this thread are also very welcome).
I'm aware that my request might seem dubious, especially to Litsters who aren't familiar with me. For anyone who is wavering, though, I'd encourage you to read my profile and past posts to get a better sense of my motivations.
The bottom line: Of course, I'll keep confidential anything that's sent to me privately. Also, I promise that I'll respond non-judgementally (it's okay if your kink is not my kink!). Most of all, I'll respect that your fantasies remain your own dreams — I won't seek to make them "about me". The opportunity is there for us to feel more comfortable about our BDSM fantasies by sharing and comparing them in a principled way. Maybe we can even improve on them!
I'll cross my fingers now and hope that I've managed to convey my proposition in my intended spirit!
MF
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