M/F couple (London, UK) seeking local platonic F sub for double domming play

I've posted this in my Fetlife profile, but I thought it was worth replicating here as well.

For the last year, my wife and I (married for 20+ years) have been exploring our newly-discovered kinky sides. We play together regularly, but we're finding that our BDSM roles don't fully complement each other. We're therefore seeking a local platonic female sub so that we can extend our play repertoire to double domming.

By "platonic", I mean that we're not seeking polyamory/polyfuckery. We believe that it's possible for a D/s dynamic to be worthwhile and fulfilling without having to be sexual. That needn't limit our modes of play too much, as long as we all remain comfortable with what we're doing. I'd imagine that rope, impact, wax, electricity, sensual and psychological play are all possibilities (as are others).

We're therefore open to interest from local subs (in or around London, UK) along those lines. We're not in any hurry, though. We're seeking quality rather than quantity, and we're not expecting snap decisions. We believe that a suitable arrangement is most likely to evolve from face-to-face meetings over time, perhaps at local kink community events.

See also our earlier personals posting here.

Please do get in touch if you're interested. I'll be happy to answer any questions, either by PM or in this thread.

Thanks for reading!
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Gianbattista said:

Just bumping really.

Given your tastes my friend, might it be fair to ask, for any interested readers, if you and Mrs MF would consider playing with very novice, toe dippers into this sexual adventure?

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Thanks! It's a good question!

My wife and I would be happy to take on toe-dippers and novices. I hesitate to say "play" right from the outset because that would require prior discussion; it's important that any proposed activities feel right to all concerned. Our own first experience was to go along to a play event with the objective of socialising and observing. As it happens, we chose to play fairly quickly once we discovered that we were both comfortable with the idea, but I think that was partly because we didn't feel under any pressure to do so.

Hope that helps!

MF (and Mrs MF)
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A gentle bump for UK weekenders!
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I love your Fet profile. Very well thought out.

What I love more is you and Mrs. MF taking the leap in to the real world to find what you desire.

Wishing you success!

cookiecat said:

I love your Fet profile. Very well thought out.

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Thanks! I regard my Fetlife profile as my main "shop window" for other kinksters including those whom I meet in real life, whereas Lit is just a place where I sometimes call by.

As you will have seen, I express a lot more about myself, my thoughts and my feelings on Fetlife.

cookiecat said:

What I love more is you and Mrs. MF taking the leap in to the real world to find what you desire.

Wishing you success!

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Thanks! Realistically, it's likely to be a lengthy search for both of us. My personals advert here is just the tip of an iceberg and a long shot (if that's not too many metaphors in one sentence!).

Having said that, we're still very much open to any nibbles of interest!
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I would love to, but I'm in the USA

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I'm ready but I'm currently not in London

Thanks for those friendly replies!

Anyone within the UK?
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