Biting and getting bit

[ameliajax]

Ok, so I recently wrote a blog entry titled "Why I want to bite everyone I make-out with"

It basically tells the story of my young young self, and the frustrations and urges I felt getting physical with young men, frustrations and urges that led me to bite them. Hard.

Anyway, it got me thinking. I don't really bite like that anymore. Well, not my husband, and I didn't dare bite my Master, at least except that one time long long ago. But I do bite pillows, sheets, my own arms sometimes, but more in the throes of passion that out of frustration. Mostly.

But people like to bite or get bitten for a lot of different reasons. When I was with my Master, I had this dream/fantasy that he would bite me at the very very top of my inner thigh, hard enough to leave a mark, so that I could look at it and remember, when we couldn't be together. I wanted to feel that pain.

So, who likes to bite, and who likes being bit? And why? Is it frustration? Passion? A desire to cause or receive pain? Just a nibble? Or much more than that?

Do tell.

[Stag of Oberon]

I love to bite... and used to do so frequently.

My wife doesn't like biting so much... except the back of her neck on rare occasion, which is a tricky enough area to get my teeth around that I don't try to bite her there very often anyway (particularly because I don't really care for all the hair that goes with that).

Is it frustration? hmmm.... I don't know if frustration could at all be involved there or not. I think it's mostly oral fixation.

I only goes with dominance for me in so much as I get to bite more if I'm dominant. When subby, I still want to bite, but generally refrain from doing so unless told otherwise... thats been a long time though.

Oddly, one of my bottom incisors is just a tiny bit crooked, in such way that if I slide my teeth side to side it can slice open skin for serious damage, rather than just the deep imprints typical of a firm bite.

[KoPilot]

He's never really bitten me (nipples don't count imo), and it's never occurred to me that it might be something I'd like to try more often. I am in the habit of using my teeth way more while making out than he likes, though. Dunno, it's frustrating. It's like... if we're going to be pushing all of our mouth-parts together like play doh, why is this major feature of the mouth mostly off-limits? I want it in there as much as the rest of it, dammit. >:0

[easygoing123go]

I had my cock bitten once, and lady was giviing me a blow job and she bite me, it hurt so bad I got left and never saw her again.....

[morefreebound]

I like both biting and being bitten. I think, really on any body part, that the right amount of teeth at the right time can make for exactly the sensation you want. My Master's feet are especially sensitive, so if I am to use my mouth on them, it is almost necessary for me to nibble rather than lick or kiss them, or else He will be frustrated by the tickling sensation.

For me, it is almost like the more teeth, the better. I am definitely a sexual masochist, so (at least up to a certain threshold) the more He clamps down, the more positively I respond, on most any body part.

And sometimes, biting down on any nearby bedding object keeps me from being too terribly loud.

[Ropebunny]

I like both biting and being bitten, though I do prefer soft, senual biting in tender areas like inside arms and legs (full force on buttocks and nipples please!)

I haven't put much thought into why I like it but I guess coz it feels quite animalistic and carnal.

I tend to bite when the mood strikes, either when I'm playful or frustrated or angry. Also when I am restrained and there is flesh in reach.

Giving teethy blow jobs also provides me with much fun, especially when I top. Not full on biting, more little nibbles and for gripping and stretching the foreskin while flickering the tip with my tongue.

Come to think of it, I think I do have a bit of an oral fixation like Stag mentioned. I nail bite (including toe nails, I know it's gross!), smoke, and at times compulsively eat so I guess it only makes sense that I like to bite too! Plus I do really like opening stuff with my teeth and can also write half legibily with a pencil in my mouth...

[Versatile_lady]

I love biting and being bitten. I am a definitely a masochist, but have a pretty rough sadistic streak too, so that has a lot to do with it. Sometimes the biting is an animal response thing for me during really intense sex. I've also been known to scratch, punch, or slap my partner for the same reason. I just kind of lose control and all hell breaks loose
I'm a big fan of biting while kissing too... I love nibbling lips and being nibbled. I think I'm just an animal lol

[spankmegirl23]

I like both just the feel of his teeth turns me or then the thought leaving a mark i love it then when i see that mark i love it i bit when i get into he should feel good thats a good orgasm not wanting to be loud but the orgasm so powerful u have to do it,My bf now not alo i live getting hickeys turn me one so much.

[Stag of Oberon]

In spite of having an oral fixation I often have weird emotional hangups with food. It can be a challenge to make myself sit down to a meal unless someone else made it (never a problem eating what's offered to me) to the extent that I often fix meals for the kids but don't actually eat any of it myself.

Snacks foods on the other hand are another story, and I think part of that is the oral fixation taking over. I can practice some restraint as long as it's not opened, but an open bag of chips, left over pizza, or an open box of crackers; gone faster than booze from a wine cabinet in a house full of alcoholics.

[BonBon1976]

I love being bitten, I am not much of a biter myself though. Maybe light nibbles in the right circumstances. However a bite to my shoulder, neck, inner thigh, side ...well anywhere is very titillating.

[Ahlam]

Whenever someone touches me, there's an initial instant in which I feel an acute urge to bite them. Rawr!!

[tritiusj]

This has been a turn on for me for quite some time. There is something very reflexive for me to bite my partner when I am aroused and feeling very pleasured. I'm definitely a sadist, but it's not even really about inflicting pain a lot of the time; just a primitive expression of my arousal.

And lately, even getting bitten back has been nice, although I will admit that the adrenaline and endorphins have to really be flowing for it not to be a bad thing. Otherwise, the blood tends to rush to the site of the pain... and away from other things (sadly).

[Kitty_Schrödinger]

Hi, my name is Beej and I'm a biter.

It's primal, to mark my partners. It turns me on to bite and it is very hard to control.

[MissMaidenMinx]

I love to bite and be bitten. I always have. I used to randomly bite friends when I was younger. Some people seem not to like that.
Hubby though is not a biter not does he like being bitten. He doesn't mind teeth during a blow job but more nibbles and grazing.

[SkylarFalling]

Being bitten feels so good! I have never bitten him although I wouldn't hesitate to if he wanted me to.

[ouchfeelsgood]

I love biting, and especially being bitten. It's a real turn-on for me ... I thinks it's part sadomasochistic desire, and part primal. There's something about the feel of teeth on my skin that is quite arousing. I don't want to be bitten (or bite my partner) so hard that it draws blood, but enough to leave toothmarks. I think that, in a primal sense, biting is ingrained in our genes, and has it's origins tens of thousands of years ago.

[unknooown]

I like biting but more than that I like to see the mark left on her collarbone or hip or breast to know she's mine.

I like when she bites me too but only so I can put her in her place.

[Beth12345]

I love biting and sucking. I don't like it hard enough to break the skin. I like it rough and go crazy when my neck is bitten and sucked on, again not hard enough for blood but enough to feel it. I'll bite my arm or pillow if i can't bite him or if i feel as though he won't want to be bitten. I have a bad oral fixation and when i need something in my mouth, something's going in my mouth.

[gypseywolf]

I love to be bitten, my favorite is for someone to grab my by my waist length hair and wrap their hand in it and pull my head back and bite my neck, and down to my breasts, tummy, even my womanhood and my arse, legs. But I have to say I love to be bitten especially in a dominate claiming kind kind of way... Just the thought of being bitten arouses me and gets me going. But I do like to do some biting as well, to mark them so they will have to remember me as Lon g as the mark is there..I also like being marked, they are like little trophies that remind me of fun I had, and they make me smile and happy.

[GaspingDarkness]

Originally Posted by gypseywolf

I love to be bitten, my favorite is for someone to grab my by my waist length hair and wrap their hand in it and pull my head back and bite my neck, and down to my breasts, tummy, even my womanhood and my arse, legs. But I have to say I love to be bitten especially in a dominate claiming kind kind of way... Just the thought of being bitten arouses me and gets me going. But I do like to do some biting as well, to mark them so they will have to remember me as Lon g as the mark is there..I also like being marked, they are like little trophies that remind me of fun I had, and they make me smile and happy.

Such a deliciously awesome post

I can tell you yearn for not only the physical sensation, but the deep satisfaction of being longed for and taken with passion.

[gypseywolf]

Originally Posted by GaspingDarkness

Such a deliciously awesome post

I can tell you yearn for not only the physical sensation, but the deep satisfaction of being longed for and taken with passion.

Yes, I crave the physical sensations, I am kind of an addict, I am a sensory ran person...I like both light touches and rough handling...touch is a major addition of mine plus others

[GaspingDarkness]

Originally Posted by gypseywolf

Yes, I crave the physical sensations, I am kind of an addict, I am a sensory ran person...I like both light touches and rough handling...touch is a major addition of mine plus others

Oh yes, it is a great shame to not take advantage of all the senses, especially alternating between intense stimulation and lustful anticipation, most of all in the mind.

^ I like this woman ^

[gypseywolf]

Originally Posted by GaspingDarkness

Oh yes, it is a great shame to not take advantage of all the senses, especially alternating between intense stimulation and lustful anticipation, most of all in the mind.

^ I like this woman ^

Well thank you, I have recently come back on the market ..lol... And I find I often love the first few weeks with a person during the " honey moon" stage... And then they usually slow down, when I am usually just getting started, I slowly pull my tricks out of the bag, and I am willing to try most any thing at least once..some times I try it many times to be sure..lol and yes a good dirty phone call can be as satisfying as a physical experience..

[GaspingDarkness]

Originally Posted by gypseywolf

Well thank you, I have recently come back on the market ..lol... And I find I often love the first few weeks with a person during the " honey moon" stage... And then they usually slow down, when I am usually just getting started, I slowly pull my tricks out of the bag, and I am willing to try most any thing at least once..some times I try it many times to be sure..lol and yes a good dirty phone call can be as satisfying as a physical experience..

My advice to is fully disclose your kinky interests early in the relationship. While it seems that most guys would be turned on by a woman interested all sorts of erotic, passionate, BDSM play, a lot of guys will feel intimidated by it. That sort of sexual confidence can throw off men used to the standard "kiss-kiss-missionary position-make sandwich" routine.

I'd like a little peek in that... bag of tricks

[gypseywolf]

Originally Posted by GaspingDarkness

My advice to is fully disclose your kinky interests early in the relationship. While it seems that most guys would be turned on by a woman interested all sorts of erotic, passionate, BDSM play, a lot of guys will feel intimidated by it. That sort of sexual confidence can throw off men used to the standard "kiss-kiss-missionary position-make sandwich" routine.

I'd like a little peek in that... bag of tricks

I am straight forward in my
Ike's and dislikes, I realize my lovers are usually not mind readers, and I learned a while ago, a closed mouth don't get fed. I usually give a full disclaimer early on and also give them several relationship options, from fwb to open to exclusive relationships, I like to get it out there so there are no nasty surprises later. I do t wanna waist both of our ti e with a relationship if all you want is a good fb...lol and honestly that's what I am looking for for a while is a bedroom partner, but nothing outside of it. And maybe one day soon I will get over my nerves and post some trick pics..lol