Dogging: (BritEng) outdoor exhibitionism and voyeurism

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'Dogging' is British English for consensual outdoor exhibitionism and voyeurism. Usual locations would be in a car park *in the countryside, woodlands, country parks, or a lay-by* near a country road.

Glossary:
  • Lay-by (Br Eng): a short parking area, to pull off the carriageway, preferably with trees and/or a hedge separating it from the road
  • car park (Br Eng):= parking lot (US Eng)

The term 'dogging' is said to derive from a common excuse for being in a suitable area for the activity, viz: 'walking the dog'.

I'd be interested in hearing from others – especially (though not exclusively) UK members – of their experiences, and I promise to share a few of mine.
 
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This is definitely one of those things that from a fantasy perspective, I find very appealing. There's the voyeurism thing and the anonymous and sexually willing partner which are definitely a turn on.

But I think I would struggle with the reality as I just think I would find it a bit seedy to be sharing a woman with a group of strange men. Not in any way passing judgment on those that do it but one best kept in the fantasy box for me, I think.
 
This is definitely one of those things that from a fantasy perspective, I find very appealing. There's the voyeurism thing and the anonymous and sexually willing partner which are definitely a turn on.

But I think I would struggle with the reality as I just think I would find it a bit seedy to be sharing a woman with a group of strange men. Not in any way passing judgment on those that do it but one best kept in the fantasy box for me, I think.

That's exactly how I feel about it.

Love the idea though.
 
I like the idea of dogging, though I'm not confident enough to do it myself.

I guess its easier (safer) for a lone man than for a lone woman. For couples, they mostly hang around and get the measure of who's about before they decide whether to put on a show.

Lots more people like the idea – but keep it just as a fantasy – than actually try it, I think. Nothing wrong with that.

Do you fantasize about being in a car, in a woodland car-park, around dusk, and treating some (respectful) men to a showing of your ample, curvaceous breasts? Maybe allowing one or two the honour of sucking your nipples?

If you're bold enough to tell everyone, you could post here. If you'd like to tell me your naughtiest fantasies you could PM me. :kiss:
 
This is definitely one of those things that from a fantasy perspective, I find very appealing. There's the voyeurism thing and the anonymous and sexually willing partner which are definitely a turn on.

But I think I would struggle with the reality as I just think I would find it a bit seedy to be sharing a woman with a group of strange men. Not in any way passing judgment on those that do it but one best kept in the fantasy box for me, I think.

A lot of it is pre-arranged, so it's more like swingers enjoying some healthy outdoor exercise! And in many locations people kinda get to know and recognise each other.

That's exactly how I feel about it.

Love the idea though.

As I've remarked to Gloria Stits*, above, lots more people like the idea – but keep it just as a fantasy – than actually try it, I think. Nothing wrong with that.

I enjoy some of the stories at: http://tags.literotica.com/dogging though most of them don't align to accurately with my tastes.

* Hope you take this as a respectful nickname for a lady with a G-cup, 'Gloria'!
 
Own experiences

I'll try to make time this afternoon, or the weekend, to let you know some of my own experiences.

However, I have to admit, there can sometimes be long, long periods of hanging about before there's any action. And sometimes a long wait with no action at all.
 
Only two of our many outdoor fucks have been in the proximity of other people. They were not 'dogging' in the sense that we were being really discreet [well, all things are relative!].

Once was on a crowded beach when the weather quickly turned cool with a stiff sea breeze. People including ourselves started covering themselves with whatever they had. We had a large picnic blanket so we put that over ourselves and spooned for coziness. Well. One thing led to another. We kept the movement sooo slow motion it was exquisite. It meant that she didn't orgasm, but I filled her with my cream, gripping her tits in an attempt to stay silent. Delish. I guess some of the people around - fuckers - would have realised what we were doing.

The other time was in a remote corner of an ornamental gardens place, and we thought, mistakenly, that there was no-one around. Oops!
 
Only two of our many outdoor fucks have been in the proximity of other people. They were not 'dogging' in the sense that we were being really discreet [well, all things are relative!].[...]

The other time was in a remote corner of an ornamental gardens place, and we thought, mistakenly, that there was no-one around. Oops!

Had an experience like your second one, decades ago, with my 1st wife. She was on top, in a long, floaty maxi-dress, so no-one could see anything.

We were near a river bank, thinking no-one was around. A small group or people them appeared, walking along the opposite bank. They offered us what might be describes as 'vocal encouragement'!

Quite a turn-on.
 
Why blindfolded? Does she like you to take charge?
Not having her see who is touching her adds to it for me. It also removes any bias for her based on looks. I could even set it up with a friend and she wouldn't know. I like thinking of future get togethers knowing that some of my friends have had a taste of her and she not having a clue.
 
Not having her see who is touching her adds to it for me. It also removes any bias for her based on looks. I could even set it up with a friend and she wouldn't know. I like thinking of future get-togethers knowing that some of my friends have had a taste of her and she not having a clue.

Would she be turned on by that?
 
Would she be turned on by that?
Yep. There's a side of her that gets really turned on when she gets taken advantage of. Wouldn't do it if it wasn't gonna be pleasurable for her. That would be selfish of me wouldn't it?
 
Love this thread. I'd like to hear more about your real life experiences..
 
Yep. There's a side of her that gets really turned on when she gets taken advantage of. Wouldn't do it if it wasn't gonna be pleasurable for her. That would be selfish of me wouldn't it?
Mine?
 
Great fantasy but it must be very dangerous. I imagine it would attract a lot of maniacs.
 
Great fantasy but it must be very dangerous. I imagine it would attract a lot of maniacs.

It is usually a form of group sex with those involved being consenting adults. Dogging does not have to include partner swapping, but is usually a group of like minded people meeting at a defined location.

Dogging can also be done with just two people running the risk of being observed.
 
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