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Old 06-25-2017, 08:29 PM   #1
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Your best BDSM experience?

What is your best BDSM experience? Doms, Subs, Switches, it doesn't matter! Please chime in.

My experience deals with an online relationship. My beautiful dom found me and plucked me from the depths of online fetish sites. I wasn't looking to be controlled, but she wanted a sissy to understand that a woman's place is first. My masculinity melted within her control. She was educated, beautiful, and perfect. Her words spoke to my soul. We didn't flirt, we bonded, and I soon understood that
I needed to be femdommed to truly enjoy myself. It didn't work out, but I learned more about myself sexually during that week than I had in the last 35 years.

That experience helped me accept myself and seek out others like me. It brought me to this site.
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Old 06-25-2017, 09:38 PM   #2
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My BDSM experiences seem to build on each other and I'm sure the best is yet to come. Lately, I've been living the rope bunny life and it has been amazing.
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Old 06-26-2017, 07:24 AM   #3
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i never experienced bdsm before, but i hope one day i will do it and in my dreams it is a wild wild one
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Old 06-28-2017, 08:13 AM   #4
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What is your best BDSM experience? Doms, Subs, Switches, it doesn't matter! Please chime in.

My experience deals with an online relationship. My beautiful dom found me and plucked me from the depths of online fetish sites. I wasn't looking to be controlled, but she wanted a sissy to understand that a woman's place is first. My masculinity melted within her control. She was educated, beautiful, and perfect. Her words spoke to my soul. We didn't flirt, we bonded, and I soon understood that
I needed to be femdommed to truly enjoy myself. It didn't work out, but I learned more about myself sexually during that week than I had in the last 35 years.

That experience helped me accept myself and seek out others like me. It brought me to this site.
thats beautiful tiffany

i guess my best bdsm experience would be the one that allowed me to realize i was a dominant pansexual. A friend had convinced me to have sex with her in front of her husband while she berrated him, when i asked where she wanted me to cum she said in her husbands mouth. he almost ran over and took me in his mouth, i held his head while he gagged and looked up at me.
When i came he tried to pull away but i held him close and he swallowed, when i pulled out he thanked me with watery eyes.
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Old 06-28-2017, 08:18 PM   #5
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thats beautiful tiffany

i guess my best bdsm experience would be the one that allowed me to realize i was a dominant pansexual. A friend had convinced me to have sex with her in front of her husband while she berrated him, when i asked where she wanted me to cum she said in her husbands mouth. he almost ran over and took me in his mouth, i held his head while he gagged and looked up at me.
When i came he tried to pull away but i held him close and he swallowed, when i pulled out he thanked me with watery eyes.
Wow! I wish I could have been a fly on the wall to witness that! The visual in my head was quite thrilling though.
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Old 06-29-2017, 03:05 AM   #6
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Wow! I wish I could have been a fly on the wall to witness that! The visual in my head was quite thrilling though.
haha, thanks tiffany, it was a pretty exciting night for me
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Old 06-29-2017, 04:15 PM   #7
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What is your best BDSM experience? Doms, Subs, Switches, it doesn't matter! Please chime in.

My experience deals with an online relationship. My beautiful dom found me and plucked me from the depths of online fetish sites. I wasn't looking to be controlled, but she wanted a sissy to understand that a woman's place is first. My masculinity melted within her control. She was educated, beautiful, and perfect. Her words spoke to my soul. We didn't flirt, we bonded, and I soon understood that
I needed to be femdommed to truly enjoy myself. It didn't work out, but I learned more about myself sexually during that week than I had in the last 35 years.

That experience helped me accept myself and seek out others like me. It brought me to this site.
What a beautiful experience for you....
My ultimate best on line experience has also left a lasting impression, not only in my heart but Sir is still in my head. I feel truly blessed to have experienced the things I have with him. We still keep in touch from time to time, as I find myself missing him. A connection and strong bond as such is so rare...that ache, deep desires that just opens doors you never knew you had....woooowahhhh I'm sure he will be reading this with a smile on his face.
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Old 07-01-2017, 01:48 AM   #8
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What a beautiful experience for you....
My ultimate best on line experience has also left a lasting impression, not only in my heart but Sir is still in my head. I feel truly blessed to have experienced the things I have with him. We still keep in touch from time to time, as I find myself missing him. A connection and strong bond as such is so rare...that ache, deep desires that just opens doors you never knew you had....woooowahhhh I'm sure he will be reading this with a smile on his face.
It's amazing how powerful these feelings can be. I can't wait to try again!
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Old 07-01-2017, 02:01 AM   #9
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Old 07-22-2017, 07:01 PM   #10
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Gourmet cooking store implement shop. The managers suggestion how he might use a melon baller on me.
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Old 07-23-2017, 08:59 PM   #11
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I've been lucky and had quite a few so far in my life, but my current submissive partner has done everything I could ever ask or order. The moment that sticks out so far is when I gave her my first lesson of our dynamic.

She thought I was being too lenient in allowing her to cum sometimes when she felt she didn't deserve to. I nodded in acknowledgment of her concerns, but ultimately didn't say a word. We started to play again quickly after our talk. I of course denied her the ability to cum for about the next six chances to climax after that and every time I would ask her why she thought I was treating her that way. She would come up with a different reason each time, knowing how strict and particular I had been up to this point and how it could be literally anything. She over thought what I was asking her and started listing everything from how she asked permission to cum to not responding right to my actions. After every wrong answer she got five slaps to the face before I still said nothing and continued.

This went on for a good hour before I let her finally cum and let her catch her breath. I asked her again why I hadn't allowed her to cum all those times and she tried her best to think of what the reason could be, but failed. I told her it was her second guessing when I thought she deserved to cum and then said "you asked me to take control, so why do you attempt to take it back?" in my calm soothing voice. She didn't have an answer and apologized for her actions before thanking me for the lesson, I then asked what she had learned which she responded what I said basically verbatim and she still does when she catches herself trying. She still tells me how much that day meant to her and how that was the moment she knew she had picked the right person for what she needs. I think the moment she thanked me for the lesson was when I knew she was what I needed too.

There's been plenty of fun moments in my life, but that one easily takes the best spot for the emotions and trust that it help build.
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Old 07-27-2017, 04:00 PM   #12
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I hope location gets points. How about the kids ball pit at a McDonald. I should note they were closed.
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Old 10-19-2017, 04:55 PM   #13
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Having a wife/mistress helps because as a relationship mistress/slave evolves the sessions get longer and more exciting. In about a years time this was our session scenario;
I would make sure all the toys were clean and placed in an appropriate place in the bedroom for mistress to find. I would also tie nylons on the brass headboard if misters wanted to blamed me for a whipping. Pillows would be placed in the middle of the bed.
Both of us would shower and get squeaky clean in our separate bathrooms.
Mistress would always put on her favorite lingerie refusing to be completely naked.
After getting caught trying on Mistress lingerie she bought me my own black lace garter belt and stockings to put on before the session.
We would meet together in our lingerie and discuss the session and why I was going to be punished.
I would also be told the intensity of the session which indicated my mistress anger.
My stomach would get butterflies whenever she announced a long hard whipping.
We evolved from using a leather belt to a razor strap made of horsehide 18 inches long and 2 1/2 inches wide that can really pack a wallup. This strap cannot break the flesh but can punish the muscles to the bone in someone’s ass. If the punishment was going to be severe I would always request mistress to tie me down so that there was no escape. A good strapping by my strong German wife could go well beyond 200+ blows. My ass would be on fire and sore for several days.
We had a small flogger whip that we called a spaghetti whip that mistress would pick up and whip my back until it was flicked with tiny welts.
Literally whipped into submission mistress would find her harness and dildo and strap it on.
The dildo was quite authentic lifelike in appearance without balls having the ability to move inside my ass to all of its contours, 8 inches long and an inch and a quarter in diameter.
Mistress preferred screwing me doggy style so that she could be in a superior position behind me. I had already lost my anal cherry to her or year ago and she was now an expert cockswoman.
Screwing my ass after a good whipping finalize my submission to her and took me to the final level where she wanted me under. My mistress never fucked me for just a couple minutes as a token screwing. She fucked me better than any guy using all of her talents and motions getting me quite excited prodding my prostate constantly sometimes for almost an hour. She knew that her cock was far more superior than mine and could last as long as she wanted to fuck me. I never knew if it made her come but she definitely got off on the fact that she wore the cock in the family.
After tiring from fucking me she would remove the harness on time my wrist and welcome my mouth into her pussy. Being multi orgasmic I would give her at least three orgasms before she allowed me to give her a break. If I did a good job this would end our session but sometimes I ended up back over the pillows receiving another strapping.
Our systems for quite intense and always included some form of sex which made things even better.
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Old 10-20-2017, 10:12 AM   #14
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I've stared at this thread since I first saw it. Wondering how to respond. Finding that the question is less simple that it looks. Or that I am over analyzing it. Not that I would ever do that.

But after a lot of thought, I can't say "that" was my best experience. Personally, I derive a lot of enjoyment from the enjoyment -or at least the wish fulfillment- of my partner. I know this is going to get a lot of hackles up, but my approach as a PYL is different.I'm not a lifestyle player, I engage in scenes for the purpose of exploration. Each scene is as different as the needs of my partner in that moment. And I enjoy my part in helping them realize their desire, be it straight bondage, or 50s Housewife (as close as I come to lifestyle) or Consensual Non-Consent. (I'm not even sure a majority if people would count CNC as BDSM.)

So, I guess the best answer I can provide is, my best experiences are this where it is obvious that my partner has had an inner need met. Experiences where their desire for restraint, loss of control, degradation, violation or whatever motivated them into a play space has been met.
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Old 10-20-2017, 01:49 PM   #15
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I haven't had many experiences, probably only really one and that was him trying to be vanilla for our first time. But it involved a belt, hands tied behind my back, spanking, choking and a little bit of hate fucking. I've been promised the paddle next time and he won't go easy on me. Practically purring
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Old 10-21-2017, 03:47 AM   #16
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I'm glad this thread has recharged.
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Old 10-22-2017, 01:21 AM   #17
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My best with him was when he was able to experience something he never had up until there was an 'us.' As he put it, "Everything about that was more."

The pinnacle for a soul like mine.
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Old 10-23-2017, 01:57 PM   #18
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Hard to isolate just one. Being gagged and mummy wrapped in vet wrap with a vibrator at a party = heaven. It's basic but I can hang out gagged in hogtie for ages. Keep me awake with the riding crop please
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Old 10-24-2017, 11:15 AM   #19
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Old 10-24-2017, 03:55 PM   #20
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Old 10-26-2017, 11:05 AM   #21
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My best experience lasted a bit over two years with one sub. She was 9 years older and was a willing sub, wanting to do anything I wanted. The key to a good relationship is that understanding and knowing of boundaries. the first time we got together was after we took a walk for exercise purposes (didn't know there would be more of that later) and she asked if she could come over. I said I had to head out in 30 minutes and she said outright that I think she could make me cum before then...15 minutes later and after one hell of a blow job I came in her mouth. Things ramped up after that, her wanting to do humiliated and dominated...slapping her face, spitting, ass licking, water sports etc. I would save my cum for her and when she would come over she would fall to her knees and lick it out of a plastic bag, rubbing said bag over her face then begging me to slap and spit on her. Great times
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Old 10-29-2017, 07:57 AM   #22
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Old 10-29-2017, 10:29 AM   #23
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I am not a hardcore BDSM practitioner or expert, and there's not one experience I can think of. But I would answer the question this way.

I spent many years in a vanilla and unsatisfying relationship that ended. When I started dating again, somehow -- I don't know how, maybe from reading stories here! -- I got the idea that I wanted to know what it was like to tie up my lover. I had never done it before, and I was middle-aged at this point. So I bought a few lengths of rope, and I've used it to varying degrees in every relationship I've had since.

I love the sight of natural rope against a woman's bare skin. But more than the sight, I like what it represents -- the delicious combination of trust and transference of power. The women I am attracted to tend not to be true submissives, but there's something very exciting about exploring and finding the submissive side of an otherwise non-submissive woman. That's probably the part of it I enjoy most.

I can think of one particular time, when I was dating a very pretty 40-something divorced woman with kids. I stripped her naked in her living room and tied her hands with rope to a post in the middle of the room. It was the middle of the day. I played with her body, fucked her, cropped her. The play was fun, but the best part was the expression on her face -- the nervousness and uncertainty she showed as I tied her, together with the trust in me and the evident joy she got from sharing and giving her body in this way. It was somewhat risky; the post was only 15 feet from the front door, and somebody could have shown up and looked through the window. She was smart and very sassy, and it was fun to pierce through that and bring out the submissive in her.
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Old 10-30-2017, 08:22 AM   #24
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Online Ds experience where my Dom got me to play anally and do DP on myself and then he made me drink lots of water and wet myself for him, I think it would have been better in person though, I have just been on a date today and it looks like we could have a few sessions shortly xx
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