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Old 05-12-2014, 07:06 PM   #101
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Old 06-22-2014, 05:30 AM   #102
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Both.
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Old 06-22-2014, 06:07 AM   #103
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Yes both but I would prefer to be the only dom in my house!
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Old 06-26-2014, 06:40 PM   #104
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Submissive in bed, otherwise quite the opposite...
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Old 06-26-2014, 06:46 PM   #105
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Want to take care of and elicit pleasure for my partner, Dominant.
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Old 06-27-2014, 10:30 PM   #106
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I've always considered myself submissive but haven't really had a chance to explore it.
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Old 06-28-2014, 03:55 AM   #107
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Mild sub....if there is such a person....I do what I'm told, and do it well
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Old 06-28-2014, 06:10 PM   #108
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I've always considered myself submissive but haven't really had a chance to explore it.
Anytime as RP? Always an easy way to start.... PM if you like.
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Old 06-28-2014, 10:10 PM   #109
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Old 06-28-2014, 11:10 PM   #110
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Not sure if that was for me, but I will reply...
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Old 06-29-2014, 01:03 AM   #111
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I am both. Natural tendency is toward dominance, but I didn't really learn how to dominate well until I learned to submit. In fact, I'm not sure I fully trust a Dom who has never taken a turn as a sub.
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Old 06-29-2014, 10:23 AM   #112
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Submissive...but not extremely so. Bedroom only..I do what I want outside the bedroom.
Me too !
during ass fucking , i love to be fucked in total dom way : ass fuck is itself a submissive one ! but i m loving it occassionally !
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Old 06-29-2014, 10:27 AM   #113
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As most others here seem to be, I too am a switch. Ultimately it depends a lot on my partner. If she is what I like to call "a boned fish" then I probably won't be either. But if you want to bring out my dominant side just prove to me how intelligent and strong willed you are. That is what it is all about to me: taking a strong independent person and making them totally dependent.

Of course there are risks involved. There have been times that I thought I was in control, but was totally caught off guard when I realized the exact opposite was true. But that is what makes it all so fun. It's an adventure each and every time.
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Old 06-29-2014, 10:56 AM   #114
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I am a confident, assertive, no-bullshit person in public and at work, and as submissive as it's possible to get in bed. I don't really enjoy acting the part of a domme, although I've done it to please others (there's a weird sub circle for you...a sub who doesn't enjoy dominating but will do it if told to in order to please, and is therefore submitting...).

Tell me I'm your little slut to do with as you please, and I am putty in your hands...

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Old 06-30-2014, 02:08 AM   #115
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I thought I was a " mild" sub. There is no such thing. I'm a complete and total sub as of yesterday . Totally!. Loved every minute , every act of pleasure I was able to give my buds.
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Old 07-01-2014, 02:24 PM   #116
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I'm a submissive in all areas of my life.
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Old 07-01-2014, 04:42 PM   #117
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Dominant, though still new to the life style. Past few years I have come to terms on how I want things done in a sexual relationship and in my own life. Though I do want to explore more of how other subs are to get a better understanding of a D/s relatinship from those that are more experience.
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Old 07-01-2014, 10:09 PM   #118
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I tend to be more on the submissive side.
I'm always going to lead this dance, baby.
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Old 07-02-2014, 12:39 AM   #119
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I tolerate a handful of humans and even fewer telling me what to do.
This is me... a sub with authority issues, at least outside of the bedroom i have issues.
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Old 07-02-2014, 05:32 AM   #120
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Sub and tho flirt with idea of switching I think in reality 99% of the time except as a something different for kicks I am
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Old 07-02-2014, 06:29 AM   #121
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Haven't experienced both yet, but would be open to. I'm however probably more dominant than submissive.
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Old 07-02-2014, 12:17 PM   #122
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Dominant myself, my wife is submissive. When she's with other women she can be either, depending on how she connects with them. She doesn't switch back and forth much once she's figured out how she is with that individual.

Now, we've been together over 10 years, so there's plenty of casual moments. Not 'yes Sir/no Sir' every single moment.
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Old 07-06-2014, 09:04 AM   #123
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I am a sexual dominant, but will often, in fact usually, give my wife her way in just about every other area relative to choice of theater, restaurant, vacation, house, etc. I don't see that as necessarily unusual.
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Old 07-07-2014, 02:09 AM   #124
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I enjoy both very much, depending on who I am with. I'm in a domestic relationship where I am on the submissive side, but looking for a submissive to play with that is into foot worship.

I think the dynamics and chemistry with each person helps to create and define the relationship and natural roles we take on.
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Old 07-07-2014, 11:17 AM   #125
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