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Old 03-31-2014, 09:03 PM   #1
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Are you dominant or submissive

I tend to be more on the submissive side.
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Old 03-31-2014, 09:16 PM   #2
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Old 03-31-2014, 09:18 PM   #3
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Old 03-31-2014, 09:54 PM   #4
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Old 04-01-2014, 12:26 AM   #5
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yes, I am dominant or submissive.
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Old 04-01-2014, 01:55 AM   #6
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Old 04-01-2014, 04:23 AM   #7
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yes, I am dominant or submissive.
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Old 04-01-2014, 05:23 AM   #8
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Neither. I'm a sadistic Top.

BTW, why do we get one of these "Are you dominant or submissive" threads every 3.14 weeks? Is NO one capable of finding the second and/or third pages of threads here?
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Old 04-01-2014, 05:53 AM   #9
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I vote gum. Or a unique little snowflake. Those should always be options.

I think Beck started a thread with the same(ish) title some time ago on this very forum.
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Old 04-01-2014, 06:48 AM   #10
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Old 04-01-2014, 07:06 AM   #11
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Old 04-01-2014, 10:21 AM   #12
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yes, I am dominant or submissive.
So true, aren't we all, at least sometimes, a mixture of both!

Professionally a person would think I was more dominant. Socially I don't think a person would apply either to me. In my relationship, aside from the D/s part, I tend to be more submissive, maybe 'she leads and I follow' best depict our overall relationship but still at times I do take the leadership role. I can even be dominant by using my submissiveness to get my own way, in those cases I really do, relationship wise, top from the bottom.

As far as BDSM within my relationship I'm submissive but I do believe my desire to be submissive is specific to my feelings for her and given another relationship I think it's very possible for me to be the dominant.

I think question like, "Are you submissive or dominant?" are rather simplistic and I could add to your 'dominant or submissive' comment by saying at times dominant and submissive.
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Old 04-01-2014, 10:54 AM   #13
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I vote gum. Or a unique little snowflake. Those should always be options.

I think Beck started a thread with the same(ish) title some time ago on this very forum.
And cheese, don't forget cheese.
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Old 04-01-2014, 03:14 PM   #14
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I vote gum. Or a unique little snowflake. Those should always be options.

I think Beck started a thread with the same(ish) title some time ago on this very forum.
yes, he's a dog of few notions.
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Old 04-01-2014, 03:59 PM   #15
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I'm submissive. Or possibly a dominant bottom. The jury is still out....

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I don't like gum.
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Old 04-02-2014, 07:37 AM   #16
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Old 04-02-2014, 12:37 PM   #17
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Masochistic bottom and toy/pet.

I know, I know-- 'sub' has fewer syllables, but bear with me.
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Old 04-03-2014, 10:45 AM   #18
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Old 04-03-2014, 10:52 AM   #19
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Both. Wife usually chooses and I get what's left.
As a "flexible switch" myself I often defer to her mood as well, but there are times I sway more strongly towards one side or the other and she accommodates quite well too...
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As a "flexible switch" myself I often defer to her mood as well, but there are times I sway more strongly towards one side or the other and she accommodates quite well too...
both of you would enjoy the link in my sig
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Old 04-03-2014, 03:50 PM   #21
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Old 04-03-2014, 04:00 PM   #22
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OMG I'm so hungry! And I can't stop yet. Cheese sandwich, here I come. This is why the Lord Sandwich asked his man to shove some meat between to hunks of bread.
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Old 04-03-2014, 04:40 PM   #23
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Old 04-03-2014, 05:09 PM   #24
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To Stella's point, we switch topping and bottoming sexually but are relatively equal in the rest of our relaionship...
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Dominant. Stawp picking on Beck.

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