LADIES: A Prostate Stimulation Questionaire

I am a happily married woman and I have recently become very interested in introducing my husband to pleasures of prostate stimulation. My husband and I are always looking for ways to spice things up in the bedroom, but he is a bit shy about that area. I have been reading alot on the discussion boards, online and watching some really hot videos of guys experiencing tremendous orgasms from prostate stimulation. I am really curious about how other women introduced or were introduced to this form of pleasure an how it has impacted their sex life. Thank you in advance for your answers.

1. Have you ever performed prostate stimulation?

2. Can you describe your first experience? (Where did happen, who was involved, how old were you, what happened?)

3. Whose idea was it to explore prostate stimulation?

4. How many partners have you stimulated this way?

5. Did you make your partner cum while stimulating his prostate?

6. Where did he cum and how much?

7. Do you regularly indulge in prostate stimulation with your partner? If so, about how often?

8. What is your favorite position for prostate stimulation?

9. Do you engage in prostate stimulation during oral sex?

10. Have you used toys to stimulate your partner's prostate? (What toys, how does this change the experience, do you prefer toys or fingers?)

11. Where do you like your partner to cum during prostate stimulation?

12. How did you discover prostate stimulation?

13. Do you enjoy pleasuring your partner's prostate?

AWESOME thread idea. I will be watching this closely!

Since you asked so nicely in your PM Tammy, I would be happy to answer your questions:

1. Have you ever performed prostate stimulation? Yes

2. Can you describe your first experience? (Where did happen, who was involved, how old were you, what happened?)

My first experience with prostate stimulation occurred probably 4 or 5 years ago. I cant remember exactly when. It happened with my husband when we were away on vacation. we were staying at a very romantic hotel in Costa Rica. Although we love each other very much and have a very passionate sex life, every now and then things can start to feel routine and so we are always looking for new ways to breathe some life back into our bedroom routine. Before we left for the trip, I told him I wanted to do something special for him and hinted to him that it was something we had never done before. He asked for more details, but I told him he would just have to trust me and wait and see. Anyway after an amazing dinner at a great restaurant and a couple of drinks at a local watering hole, we decided to head back to our hotel to relax with some alone time. I sat my husband on the end of the bed and took of his clothes. I then pushed him back so he was lying flat on the bed. When he tried to grab me I told him that if he wanted me to do what I had planned he needed to let me do whatever I wanted. At this point, I went to my suitcase and got out two scarves I had brought specifically with this in mind. I tied his arms down telling him to trust me and he obeyed as his cock began rising in his boxers with anticipation. I then stood at the end of the bed and stripped for him slowly. I took off my black dress revealing my matching black bra and panties. I then took off the bra and panties letting him see the first surprise of the night. Before we left I got my first brazillian wax and his eyes nearly popped out of his head when he saw my completely bald pussy. Then I climbed on the bed and I peeled off his boxers revealing his hard cock. I began to tease him first with my hand and then my mouth. Kissing and licking and sucking him just the way he likes it. I brought him close once and then reached underneath the bed for the bottle of lube i had placed there. When he saw it he looked confused for a second until I squirted it in my hand and began to rub his now slippery shaft with my hands. I then worked my lubed hand over his balls with my other free hand, massaging them with the intent of getting the lube to drip downward to my real target for the evening. I applied more lube sloppily splashing most of it on his balls while I continued to skillfully stroke his cock. My hand then rubbed the lube lower on his perineum before first swirling the fingers of my left hand around his asshole. He was shocked and kind of moved away from me a bit, but I told him that I had been reading alot about prostate massage and that tonight I was going to give him one and that if he let me, he could do whatever he wanted to me when I was finished. I think he was so turned on that this proved to be an easier sell than I had originally intended and I had brought up the idea to him before so it wasnt like it was coming from out of nowhere. I now applied lube to his asshole directly and and gently stroked him as i slowly teased my index finger into his bottom. When it was lubricated I pushed it in further and further and then began to push up. The whole time I asked him if it felt okay and if I was hurting him, but after the initial entry was over he seemed to relax bit more and eventually started to drip precum pretty steadily. His cock got really hard and he told me it was starting to feel really good. I began to pump him faster and moved his cock towards my mouth to lick the underside with my tongue as I stroked him and continued to massage his prostate with my finger. My husband groaned loudly and exploded shooting three or four large arcs of cum into the air. The ribbons streaked across his stomach as he lost himself in what he later described as one of the most intense orgasms he ever had up until that point.

3. Whose idea was it to explore prostate stimulation? Mine

4. How many partners have you stimulated this way? 1

5. Did you make your partner cum while stimulating his prostate? Yes

6. Where did he cum and how much? He came mainly all over his stomach, there was a little on my chin if I recall correctly. I would say that night he came about 3-4 times as much as usual.

7. Do you regularly indulge in prostate stimulation with your partner? If so, about how often?

Yes, roughly once a month or so, sometimes more, sometimes less.

8. What is your favorite position for prostate stimulation?

I like him on his back with me kneeling on the bed or beside the bed.

9. Do you engage in prostate stimulation during oral sex?

Yes, and my husband LOVES it!

10. Have you used toys to stimulate your partner's prostate? (What toys, how does this change the experience, do you prefer toys or fingers?)

Yes, I used G-Spot vibrators and they work particularly well. Hubby's favorite is the Lelo Gigi 2.

11. Where do you like your partner to cum during prostate stimulation?

Anywhere I can see it. From a woman's perspective, I think one of the coolest things about doing this is seeing how hard and intense your man comes from it. So personally, I want to enjoy the show.

12. How did you discover prostate stimulation?

I read some stuff online about it and got curious.

13. Do you enjoy pleasuring your partner's prostate?

Absolutely!

denicegirl said:

Since you asked so nicely in your PM Tammy, I would be happy to answer your questions:

1. Have you ever performed prostate stimulation? Yes

2. Can you describe your first experience? (Where did happen, who was involved, how old were you, what happened?)

My first experience with prostate stimulation occurred probably 4 or 5 years ago. I cant remember exactly when. It happened with my husband when we were away on vacation. we were staying at a very romantic hotel in Costa Rica. Although we love each other very much and have a very passionate sex life, every now and then things can start to feel routine and so we are always looking for new ways to breathe some life back into our bedroom routine. Before we left for the trip, I told him I wanted to do something special for him and hinted to him that it was something we had never done before. He asked for more details, but I told him he would just have to trust me and wait and see. Anyway after an amazing dinner at a great restaurant and a couple of drinks at a local watering hole, we decided to head back to our hotel to relax with some alone time. I sat my husband on the end of the bed and took of his clothes. I then pushed him back so he was lying flat on the bed. When he tried to grab me I told him that if he wanted me to do what I had planned he needed to let me do whatever I wanted. At this point, I went to my suitcase and got out two scarves I had brought specifically with this in mind. I tied his arms down telling him to trust me and he obeyed as his cock began rising in his boxers with anticipation. I then stood at the end of the bed and stripped for him slowly. I took off my black dress revealing my matching black bra and panties. I then took off the bra and panties letting him see the first surprise of the night. Before we left I got my first brazillian wax and his eyes nearly popped out of his head when he saw my completely bald pussy. Then I climbed on the bed and I peeled off his boxers revealing his hard cock. I began to tease him first with my hand and then my mouth. Kissing and licking and sucking him just the way he likes it. I brought him close once and then reached underneath the bed for the bottle of lube i had placed there. When he saw it he looked confused for a second until I squirted it in my hand and began to rub his now slippery shaft with my hands. I then worked my lubed hand over his balls with my other free hand, massaging them with the intent of getting the lube to drip downward to my real target for the evening. I applied more lube sloppily splashing most of it on his balls while I continued to skillfully stroke his cock. My hand then rubbed the lube lower on his perineum before first swirling the fingers of my left hand around his asshole. He was shocked and kind of moved away from me a bit, but I told him that I had been reading alot about prostate massage and that tonight I was going to give him one and that if he let me, he could do whatever he wanted to me when I was finished. I think he was so turned on that this proved to be an easier sell than I had originally intended and I had brought up the idea to him before so it wasnt like it was coming from out of nowhere. I now applied lube to his asshole directly and and gently stroked him as i slowly teased my index finger into his bottom. When it was lubricated I pushed it in further and further and then began to push up. The whole time I asked him if it felt okay and if I was hurting him, but after the initial entry was over he seemed to relax bit more and eventually started to drip precum pretty steadily. His cock got really hard and he told me it was starting to feel really good. I began to pump him faster and moved his cock towards my mouth to lick the underside with my tongue as I stroked him and continued to massage his prostate with my finger. My husband groaned loudly and exploded shooting three or four large arcs of cum into the air. The ribbons streaked across his stomach as he lost himself in what he later described as one of the most intense orgasms he ever had up until that point.

3. Whose idea was it to explore prostate stimulation? Mine

4. How many partners have you stimulated this way? 1

5. Did you make your partner cum while stimulating his prostate? Yes

6. Where did he cum and how much? He came mainly all over his stomach, there was a little on my chin if I recall correctly. I would say that night he came about 3-4 times as much as usual.

7. Do you regularly indulge in prostate stimulation with your partner? If so, about how often?

Yes, roughly once a month or so, sometimes more, sometimes less.

8. What is your favorite position for prostate stimulation?

I like him on his back with me kneeling on the bed or beside the bed.

9. Do you engage in prostate stimulation during oral sex?

Yes, and my husband LOVES it!

10. Have you used toys to stimulate your partner's prostate? (What toys, how does this change the experience, do you prefer toys or fingers?)

Yes, I used G-Spot vibrators and they work particularly well. Hubby's favorite is the Lelo Gigi 2.

11. Where do you like your partner to cum during prostate stimulation?

Anywhere I can see it. From a woman's perspective, I think one of the coolest things about doing this is seeing how hard and intense your man comes from it. So personally, I want to enjoy the show.

12. How did you discover prostate stimulation?

I read some stuff online about it and got curious.

13. Do you enjoy pleasuring your partner's prostate?

Absolutely!

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Perfect

I have to ask what did he do to you after

shrek100 said:

Perfect

I have to ask what did he do to you after

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Well he came so hard that it took him alot longer than usual to recover. In my experience, when my husband cums from prostate play is can sometimes be so draining and satisfying that it is something I usually save for the end of the night after he's already satisfied me in more ways than one. That being said on that night we cuddled for a bit and I dont think we did anything to wild. I think he ended up telling me to get on my hands and knees while he licked me from behind before he fucked me doggystyle eventually pumping into me while I was lying flat on my stomach.

In my experience you can prolong orgasm with prostate play.

jason28053 said:

In my experience you can prolong orgasm with prostate play.

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Lol....first time I ever had that done to me, it didn't work out that way at all..


We were really young when we got married... one day we were 69ing with me on top. NEVER had playing back there ever come up. EVER.

So we're enjoying ourselves, it's feelin good... next thing you know, she slides her finger all the way in.. before I get a chance to holler out "hey, that's gay!!!!' I blast a huge load all over her face.. I couldn't have stopped it if I'd wanted to..

Needless to say, that wasn't the last time we played..

LADIES: A Prostate Stimulation Questionaire
I am a happily married woman and I have recently become very interested in introducing my husband to pleasures of prostate stimulation. My husband and I are always looking for ways to spice things up in the bedroom, but he is a bit shy about that area. I have been reading alot on the discussion boards, online and watching some really hot videos of guys experiencing tremendous orgasms from prostate stimulation. I am really curious about how other women introduced or were introduced to this form of pleasure an how it has impacted their sex life. Thank you in advance for your answers.

1. Have you ever performed prostate stimulation? Not to the degree that I'd like to.

2. Can you describe your first experience? (Where did happen, who was involved, how old were you, what happened?) I played around, not particular gladly intentionally about his prostate, but I knew where it was and made a point to press and massage it. His orgasm was powerful and delightful in quantity, but it didn't strike me as related to the prostate at the time. It struck me as a turned on guy doing what they do.

3. Whose idea was it to explore prostate stimulation? Mine.

4. How many partners have you stimulated this way? One.

5. Did you make your partner cum while stimulating his prostate? Yes.

6. Where did he cum and how much? In my mouth and the quantity was large.

7. Do you regularly indulge in prostate stimulation with your partner? If so, about how often? Not yet.

8. What is your favorite position for prostate stimulation? Kneeling between his legs while he lays on his back or sits on the edge of his chair. Chair is my Fav.

9. Do you engage in prostate stimulation during oral sex? Yes.

10. Have you used toys to stimulate your partner's prostate? (What toys, how does this change the experience, do you prefer toys or fingers?) Not yet, but I'm working on him.

11. Where do you like your partner to cum during prostate stimulation? In my mouth.

12. How did you discover prostate stimulation? Reading online.

13. Do you enjoy pleasuring your partner's prostate? Yes.

FragileUnbroken said:

LADIES: A Prostate Stimulation Questionaire
I am a happily married woman and I have recently become very interested in introducing my husband to pleasures of prostate stimulation. My husband and I are always looking for ways to spice things up in the bedroom, but he is a bit shy about that area. I have been reading alot on the discussion boards, online and watching some really hot videos of guys experiencing tremendous orgasms from prostate stimulation. I am really curious about how other women introduced or were introduced to this form of pleasure an how it has impacted their sex life. Thank you in advance for your answers.

1. Have you ever performed prostate stimulation? Not to the degree that I'd like to.

2. Can you describe your first experience? (Where did happen, who was involved, how old were you, what happened?) I played around, not particular gladly intentionally about his prostate, but I knew where it was and made a point to press and massage it. His orgasm was powerful and delightful in quantity, but it didn't strike me as related to the prostate at the time. It struck me as a turned on guy doing what they do.

3. Whose idea was it to explore prostate stimulation? Mine.

4. How many partners have you stimulated this way? One.

5. Did you make your partner cum while stimulating his prostate? Yes.

6. Where did he cum and how much? In my mouth and the quantity was large.

7. Do you regularly indulge in prostate stimulation with your partner? If so, about how often? Not yet.

8. What is your favorite position for prostate stimulation? Kneeling between his legs while he lays on his back or sits on the edge of his chair. Chair is my Fav.

9. Do you engage in prostate stimulation during oral sex? Yes.

10. Have you used toys to stimulate your partner's prostate? (What toys, how does this change the experience, do you prefer toys or fingers?) Not yet, but I'm working on him.

11. Where do you like your partner to cum during prostate stimulation? In my mouth.

12. How did you discover prostate stimulation? Reading online.

13. Do you enjoy pleasuring your partner's prostate? Yes.

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A word of warning, the prostrate gland is inside a sensitive area, and you should not push things inside until you find where it is and what it feels like. One can wear a latex glove if you like

I can finally share my own experience!

1. Have you ever performed prostate stimulation?

YES!

2. Can you describe your first experience? (Where did happen, who was involved, how old were you, what happened?)

I had been hinting for a while that I was interested in this and eventually ended up having a rather direct conversation with my husband where I essentially asked him if he would let me try it on him. All week long, I hinted that I had a surprise planned for the weekend. I also refrained from any sexual contact with him during the week because many posters on this thread and some of the others involving prostate play indicated that abstaining from ejaculation for a while can increase the intensity of the pleasure. I also told my husband that if he wanted his "surprise" he was not to masturbate at all during the week. I made him promise me, he wouldnt and based on the end result, I am fairly certain he didn't. By this point, I am fairly certain that my husband had a general idea of what I was planning, but I wanted to make sure this was special and went out of my way to try to make it as memorable as possible.

Saturday was the day I had decided to put my plan into action. We set about our usual routine for the morning and afternoon and Saturday evening I kicked off the evening by taking my husband to our favorite "fancy"restaurant for a romantic dinner. I got dressed up in a brand new sexy black dress with bought specifically for the occassion. I ordered us a bottle of champagne and we ate a delicious meal. When my husband asked me "what's the occasion?" I told him that it was a surprise and that he would have to wait and see. I drove home and began to feel really nervous about the next part of my plan for the evening. When we got home I told my husband to open the bottle of champagne I had hid in the back of the fridge before we left and to pour us glasses as I went upstairs to get our bedroom ready quickly. I placed a bunch of candles around the room and lit them quickly, got out a bottle of lube and placed it just out of sight under the bed where they would be easy to reach.

Then I went downstairs and he greeted me with my glass of champagne. We drank a little more champagne and chatted a bit on our couch until I leaned in and kissed him passionately for a few moments before taking his hand and telling him to come with me. I lead him up the stairs to our bedroom and sat him on the side of our bed. I then kneeled down on the floor between his legs and trailed my hands down his slacks before removing his socks two at once. I then unclasped his belt and pulled it free from his pants before moving on to unbutton and unzip his pants. Still kneeling I pulled them down urging him to lift his hips so that I could work them down and off his legs and feet. At this point, my husband was already swelling up in his pants and I could tell the view down the top of my dress was having an effect on him. I stood up in front of him and began to unbutton his shirt. I then took it off him before pulling his t-shirt up and over his head. Now my husband was just in his boxers with a noticeable semi-erection. He reached for me, his hands grabbing my hips and working their way to grasp my ass and pull me towards him. I grasped his hands and stopped him telling him that he can look, but if he wants his surprise he cant touch. He put his hands down at his sides looking a bit disappointed, but I could tell he was intrigued.

I then told him to role over on his stomach and lay flat on the bed. He did as I requested and I placed a few pillows under his head to make him more comfortable before kneeling on the bed beside him and beginning to massage his back and shoulders. I gave him a full body massage wanting to relax him fully before the main event. I spent 20-30 minutes really kneading the muscles of his back, shoulders, hands, legs, feet, and hands. I then told him to turn over. I then stood up and walked to the end of the bed. I decided at this point it would be best to tell him what my intentions were so that I could be sure that he was still going to let me proceed with my plans for the evening. I stood in front of him and looked him in the eye and told him. I told him that I know that he likes to watch me masturbate and that he knows it is not something that i always feel comfortable doing in front of him. I told him that first I was going to strip for him, then I was going to masturbate until I came for him while he watched me, and that I was going to make him cum for me while I stimulated his prostate. I then asked him if that sounded good or if it was okay with him. He told me that if that was what I really wanted to do this evening, he was up for giving it a try.

I then stripped for him trying to go as slowly and seductively as I could. I moved towards the bed and had him help me with the zipper to my dress before moving back to the end of the bed to slowly pull the straps of the dress over my arms one at a time and working the black dress slowly down my body. When the dress got low enough, I dropped it to the ground and kicked it off to the side of the bed. I now stood in front of him in a new set of lingerie I had purchased special for the occasion. The bra and matching bikini panties were black with white polka dots. I then turned away from him and unhooked my bra before bending over a bit and pulling off my panties slowly allowing him to get a lengthy peek at my bare bottom. I then turned and let him see all of me nude in front of him. I ran my hand down my body, over my chest, lightly tweaking my nipples hard with my fingers, then sliding my hand lower to rub my smooth shaven pussy. I only did this for a second before joining him on the bed. I told him to take off his boxers because I wanted to see how hard he was for me, ho w much he wanted me to touch myself while he watched. He did as instructed and I got on the bed with my head at the end of the bed facing him.

I spread his legs and sat between them my legs spread over the top of his. I then licked my fingers and began to tease my clit while he watched, wide eyed and hard as a rock. I was already so turned on by this point and by all the thoughts I had envisioned about this evening that I was already soaking wet. I used my right hand to tease my clit for a while and eventually added my left hand to finger myself. When I began to finger myself, my husband reached for his cock attempting to stroke himself and I had to tell him to stop or that I would stop. When he obeyed me quickly I began to move my hands faster, wanting badly to cum and so turned on by the whole evening so far. My whole body tightened as I edged closer and closer to my orgasm. I locked eyes with my husband for a moment before my eyes shut tight as my orgasm tore through my body.

When I was finished, I opened my eyes and my husband told me that I was so beautiful. I changed positions and kissed him passionately feeling so much love for him and wanting so badly to please him. I confided that I really want this to be a good experience and that I was really nervous. He told me not to worry and that we will just go slow and see what happens. I kissed him for a while and then kissed my way down his neck, his chest, his stomach. I then reached under the bed and got the lube bottle. I asked him if he was ready and he said he was as ready as he would ever be. I applied a bunch of lube to my fingers and began to rub the outside of his asshole with my lubed fingers. As I rubbed the lube around, I began to tease his hard cock with the fingers of my free hand. I then added more lube and continued to rub some more and began to very slowly stroke him with my left hand. I stopped and applied more lube and this time began to tease my index finger slowly into the opening.

I moved very slowly and asked continually if it was okay and if he was uncomfortable. I applied more lube and gradually worked my way deeper and deeper. I really took my time and afterwards my husband said I probably didn’t need to go so slow, but I wanted to make sure I wasn’t going to hurt him and so it took awhile before I had inserted my finger fully. He said it felt okay and I began to press up a bit and rub on the area where his prostate should be. I couldn’t feel anything noticeable, but my husband said it was not uncomfortable and I continued for a bit while slowly stroking him. When he said he was okay with it, I gradually began to increase the pressure of my finger hooking it a bit to rub harder and my husband started to ooze precum steadily. He said it was starting to feel different and that he could feel a pleasant pressure from my finger. I continued this for a while before introducing my mouth to increase his pleasure. I began to kiss and lick his cock while continuing to massage him with my finger. He oozed noticeably more when I began to use my mouth as well and I asked him if he wanted to try to cum while I stimulated his prostate.

When he told me yes, I began sucking and licking him more to give him the stimulation he usually needs to orgasm. I told him to tell me when he was getting close because I wanted to see him cum for me. He told me he would and I bobbed my head as I hungrily sucked his cock. He told me it was starting to feel really good and was moaning a bit. Suddenly his head and shoulders arched forward and raised off the pillows and his eyes opened wide as he told me he was going to cum. I took my mouth off of him and holding him with my left hand licked the underside of his cock as he came hard shooting arcs of cum all over the place. It was all over him, all over me, it was awesome how hard he came and how much their was. As he came, I could feel his ass contracting on my finger over and over again and it reminded me very much of how my pussy contracts when I orgasm.

Afterwards, we both agreed that we don’t remember a time when my husband ever came as hard or with so much volume. When I asked him if he enjoyed our first time, my husband said YES and that he wouldn’t mind trying it again some time! So I think it is safe to say that it was a huge success. I really cannot wait to try it again!

3. Whose idea was it to explore prostate stimulation?

It was my idea. I had read alot about it and was very curious about pleasuring my husband in this manner.

4. How many partners have you stimulated this way?

I have only stimulated one prostate, my husband's.

5. Did you make your partner cum while stimulating his prostate?

Yes, I did and it was amazing!

6. Where did he cum and how much?

His cum shot all over his stomach, up to his chest and all over my cheeks, lips, and tongue. He came very hard and it was definitely one of the largest amounts of ejaculate I have ever witnessed first hand.

7. Do you regularly indulge in prostate stimulation with your partner? If so, about how often?

We only recently began exploring prostate stimulation, but I think it is safe to say that it has become a new, but regular part of our sex life. Right now I would say we are averaging about 2-3 times a month.

8. What is your favorite position for prostate stimulation?

I like my husband to be at the edge of the bed and lying on his back while I kneel on the floor between his legs or with him lying flat on the bed and me lying between his legs on the bed.

9. Do you engage in prostate stimulation during oral sex?

Yes, this is my favorite way to finish his prostate stimulation.

10. Have you used toys to stimulate your partner's prostate? (What toys, how does this change the experience, do you prefer toys or fingers?)

Right now my husband is comfortable with and enjoys my fingers. I usually use one, but I have used two fingers once when he was particularly well lubed and relaxed. No toys yet, but we are curious and looking into buying a couple to try.

11. Where do you like your partner to cum during prostate stimulation?

Anywhere where I can see it. Personally, I love seeing how intense his orgasms and how hard he cums when I stimulate my husband's prostate. So basically I want him to cum where I can see and or feel it. My mouth, face, lips, all over his stomach, on my tits or any combination of the previously mentioned.

12. How did you discover prostate stimulation?

I read about it online and got more and more curious about it. I began watching videos of men having orgasms while stimulating their prostates and videos of women stimulating their partner's prostates and got even more interested and aroused by the idea of introducing my husband to it.

13. Do you enjoy pleasuring your partner's prostate?

YES!!! Absolutely.

You are so good at prostate play that you made me cum.

Deligthfull, tammyw, very well written account, while reading I put my finger in my self and rub mine I find it very erotic and stimulating.